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mouse from merced

Trad climber
The finger of fate, my friends, is fickle.
Oct 5, 2016 - 04:59pm PT
Boy, what a relief!!

Cheers, Avery!!
SC seagoat

Trad climber
Santa Cruz, Moab, A sailboat, or some time zone
Oct 5, 2016 - 05:02pm PT
Phew! Thanks Avery!

Susan
i-b-goB

Social climber
Wise Acres
Oct 5, 2016 - 05:09pm PT
Super Fantastic!
survival

Big Wall climber
Terrapin Station
Oct 5, 2016 - 05:18pm PT
That's a great suggestion Dean! Every single time I do a volunteer thing, or help the seniors down the road with yard work I feel like a valuable human afterwards. Good one!
tangen_foster

Trad climber
Danbury, Wisconsin
Oct 5, 2016 - 05:21pm PT
Thoughts of suicide are a symptom of depression. Other symptoms (from DSM V) are discussed here: http://www.psnpaloalto.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/Depression-Diagnostic-Criteria-and-Severity-Rating.pdf

My experience as a psychotherapist (LPC) suggests that certian psychotropic medication can help to aleviate passive sucidal thoughts. PM me for more information or assistance.
Crimpergirl

Sport climber
Boulder, Colorado!
Oct 5, 2016 - 05:36pm PT
Avery...seeing your post about the will to live has me sitting here with tears in my eyes. You matter more than you can know.
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Oct 5, 2016 - 05:47pm PT
hey there say, Avery... i am late... have not been on line...

but say, you are in my prayers, as with all you folks...

say, i have not read the first post, yet, but i did see the last one, from
crrimper... and thankful to god, you are with safe folks...

say, i will share more with you, when i read the first one, and will
also, email you... i have been working outside all day, and have to
help an older friend, but i am in your corner...

will be back soon, and share some things that i hope, too, will help...

you are very important to those around you, but, even when you feel alone:

you are important to yourself... i have learned, that from when i was alone for a long time, that i was actually 'my own best friend'... we learn that, when we learn to like ourselves... just for who we are, not for any other reason... i was thankful to learn that JUST before i was an adult, so it did make life so much easier, in the hard strange times, along the way... times when things did not seem to be right, etc, in our life...

hang in there...
god bless, and pray...
mynameismud

climber
backseat
Oct 5, 2016 - 05:56pm PT
One step at a time. Times can be dark but typically there are things that happen unexpectedly that make it all well worth it. Plus many of us really dig your work. I actually follow the threads you start and I do not follow many threads on this forum. I have not dealt with this in a while but I can say there have been some periods in my life where when I look back I wonder how I made it to where I am.
LAhiker

Social climber
Los Angeles
Oct 5, 2016 - 05:57pm PT
Avery, I was so relieved to see your post. I'm glad you're safe and with good people.

Please keep on keeping on.
Todd Eastman

climber
Bellingham, WA
Oct 5, 2016 - 07:20pm PT
Welcome back to basecamp...
couchmaster

climber
Oct 5, 2016 - 07:41pm PT

Thank you for touching base again. All of us will be checking out at some point, but why rush it. Please stay with us. No joke man, you matter- seriously, stay with us.
Prod

Trad climber
Oct 5, 2016 - 08:13pm PT
Just got home from dinner out.

Thought about you the whole time.

Super happy to see your post!!!

Prod.
clinker

Trad climber
Santa Cruz, California
Oct 5, 2016 - 09:30pm PT
The will to live

Avery, attrition of the will to live while bearing the weight of living can sneak up on anyone. Good to hear your fighting. Reminds me to look outside the tunnel.
Jon
Bushman

climber
The state of quantum flux
Oct 5, 2016 - 09:38pm PT
Avery,
Hope you got my email, could have sent one sooner, but still fretted all day for you. I'm just glad to hear you're doing better. Contact me anytime you need to.
-Tim
Delhi Dog

climber
Good Question...
Oct 5, 2016 - 09:51pm PT
Hell man, contact any of us...

Glad you checked in with us-whew!
SteveW

Trad climber
The state of confusion
Oct 6, 2016 - 05:17am PT

Great to hear from you, Avery.
Don't forget, if you ever, ever need to talk,
don't hesitate to get in touch with me.
Flip Flop

climber
Earth Planet, Universe
Oct 6, 2016 - 01:08pm PT
Yeah buddy! I am out kicking rocks on the PCT feeling the need to trade a laugh with my buddy Avery.


pic o the minute. Just for you.
Q- Ball

Mountain climber
but to scared to climb them anymore
Oct 6, 2016 - 03:13pm PT
Glad you are with friends. Stay strong Avery. Your second post brought tears of joy to my eyes.
-Q-ball
Dick Danger

Trad climber
Lakewood, Colorado
Oct 6, 2016 - 03:41pm PT
**Tough times never last, but tough people do.

Stay strong, there is a reason you are here.**
L

climber
Just Livin' the Dream...
Oct 6, 2016 - 06:05pm PT
Hi P,

I just read through this whole thread and, like Crimpie, I had to wipe the tears from my eyes when I saw your second post about being safe.

Like many on ST, I've been where you are. I suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder (which translates to severe depression) and there were a couple winters in Alaska when I didn't know how I'd make it to the next day, much less to spring and the sunshine.

But I did.

I'm looking at that awesome guidebook you sent me...and I'm thinking you have many, many more springs in you, too.

Keep your face towards the light, my friend. Your life matters.
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