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matisse

climber
Topic Author's Original Post - Feb 25, 2017 - 04:32pm PT
I would greatly appreciate first hand experiences here.

I'm trying to decide when is enough enough: When do decide that you're getting old enough that the pursuits you loved when you were younger are too risky? I'm turning 60 this year. Unfortunately I have the bones of a 60 year old woman, because guess what? I am one.

This is motivated by the fact that a month ago I fell over on my mountain bike and I broke my right leg. I was on super easy ground, I was just clipping back in after walking a section and I fell over and down an embankment. By the time I got my foot out of my cleat I was already going over and I landed hard on my right leg. total fluke. Its my first fracture (lateral tibial plateau), but over the years I've accumulated quite a few boo boos, especially to my poor abused right knee.

In 1983 I blew out my right knee (ACL/MCL both menisci) skiing at Blackcomb. I had three more menisceal injuries to my right knee (and surgeries) I'm going to need a knee replacement.

With all the knee rehab I took up cycling, raced road and track, crashed hard separated my shoulder at one point.

Twenty years ago I started climbing (ACL tear left knee, ruptured pulley right hand).

I've had so many knee injuries I own a pair of forearm crutches and I'm sadly quite adept.

So obviously I've gotten a lot more cautious. I consider the biggest risk to health is sitting on my ass. I think that cycling has kept me going all these years, and it has certainly kept my knee from needing to be replaced - I have a terrible looking xray but its surprisingly functional.

But this last boo-boo has got me rattled. I'm tired of being hurt, although it has been a good 7-8 years since anything major. Do I just do all the normal people stuff for fitness now? (stationary bike, swim, yoga/pilates etc). Or do I trade in my carbon fiber xtr yada yada xc bike for a plush full suspension and lose the clipless pedals? this of course assumes that I get back to some kind of function from the current injury.

What did you do and how did you decide?
Reilly

Mountain climber
The Other Monrovia- CA
Feb 25, 2017 - 04:41pm PT
Don't see why you can't keep biking, as long as you stay upright. Hiking might actually
strengthen your bones more, if you can stand it. :-) I trust you've had a bone density test.
Brian in SLC

Social climber
Salt Lake City, UT
Feb 25, 2017 - 04:42pm PT
You get back on that damn horse!

Ha ha.

None of us are gettin' any younger...but...gotta get back out there.

Cheers and heal well!


-Brian
'Pass the Pitons' Pete

Big Wall climber
like Ontario, Canada, eh?
Feb 25, 2017 - 04:51pm PT
Geez. Quit whining. You think none of us here hasn't had his share of injuries? It's your turn. But that doesn't mean it's time to quit.

Follow your doc's advice. Heal well and expeditiously. Switch from free climbing to aid climbing.

Shut up and climb.
EdBannister

Mountain climber
13,000 feet
Feb 25, 2017 - 04:57pm PT
ouch.. this get's personal fast..

I started climbing at 11 years in 1966, and climbed 100 plus days a year from 29 to 36, when
i trashed my shoulder playing racquetball, not doing a stunt, not jumping out of an airplane, not climbing... just a regular people sport...
but it stopped my stunt career.

My climbing partner for many years was Jeff Bosson, He died at 31 years, taking a shower.

I was walking in the Sierra, in 1967, when i met God, or so i thought, I met Norman Clyde on a trail, he was 81 at the time, still walking in the Sierra, by himself. His eyes were alive with the beauty and vibrance of the Sierra. I remember thinking I want to be like that when I am 81.

I am 62 now, so i thoughtfully relate... to you.

I have no idea about the stats, but don't more people suffer injury mountain biking than just about anything??
Climbing seems so safe in comparison.

maybe you don't clip in anymore... or make biking a notch less dangerous.
maybe you walk more and mountain bike less... or climb more!!!!

but i would keep the sparkle in your eye, whatever does that for you..
crankster

Trad climber
No. Tahoe
Feb 25, 2017 - 04:57pm PT
One, tune out PTPP.

Two, dial it back but stay on the MTB. Lots of folks ride flat pedals and there are tons of low-technical rides most places as well as easy climbs.

And yes, check out the +size-tire, plush bikes. Smooths out the trail, you won't regret it.
Mark Force

Trad climber
Ashland, Oregon
Feb 25, 2017 - 04:59pm PT
^^^Good call on the clips!
Levy

Big Wall climber
Calabasas
Feb 25, 2017 - 05:02pm PT
It's time to dial it back when you no longer have the passion to pursue your goals. If you yearn to have big adventures, by all means keep at it. If you don't, there is plenty of company.
Ed Hartouni

Trad climber
Livermore, CA
Feb 25, 2017 - 05:16pm PT
I think of aging as is a strategic retreat, you give ground that is less valued than the ground you keep...

I had been riding (road) quite a lot for aerobic exercise. I generally wrote off mountain biking because the time that I did it I felt like I was 10 years old again... but being wiser I realized I couldn't sustain the wear-and-tear of a 10 year old.

At some point, probably from OW training, I developed back problems, and unfortunately, after years, realized that these were exacerbated by riding. When I'd up my ride training intensity I'd screw my back up and have to lay off that completely.

So I gave it up, which was hard...

Still climbing, but after being involved with two climbing accidents of partners (within two weeks) that required trips to the emergency room I've lost a bit of bravado... I can no longer maintain the fiction that injuries don't happen when climbing. At least nobody died.

I still try to climb, but I can see that my already less-than-bold personality is even lesser-than-bold, and as long as my partners are OK with that, I'll continue to climb.

But I can see an end to that too, I'm 63.

So I walk a bunch, hiking and backpacking (which was amazingly doable with my daughter last summer on 100 miles of the JMT) and use the Elliptigo for aerobic (which is a nice, outdoor way to get a very low stress aerobic workout)

And wonder how long a retreat I have to plan for...
Ghost

climber
A long way from where I started
Feb 25, 2017 - 05:19pm PT
This is motivated by the fact that a month ago I fell over on my mountain bike and I broke my right leg. I was on super easy ground

I feel your pain. I fell over on my mountain bike once, going 2 miles per hour, on a city street. And I broke my left hip.

I have the bones of a 60 year old woman, because guess what? I am one.

Well, I have the bones of a 70-yr-old man. At least I assume I do. And, having broken about half of them, I really don't want to break any more. But fear of breaking bones is not the whole answer to your question, is it?

The real answer is a combination of many things, and only you can ever know when it's time to hang it up. But I can say one thing: As long is it (whatever "it" is) brings you joy, you should look for a way to keep doing it. Whether that means flat pedals, or following instead of leading, or whatever instead of whatever else, there will be a way.

But if the joy is gone, then it's time for a re-think.
MH2

Boulder climber
Andy Cairns
Feb 25, 2017 - 05:28pm PT
What did you do and how did you decide?


What I did:

Gave up cycling and skiing long ago.


How did I decide?:

Too dangerous.



I still climb and hike in the hills. Age 67.
zBrown

Ice climber
Feb 25, 2017 - 05:30pm PT
Michele's father is almost ninety-four and he's taken a number of falls. Gets back up every time. Has never broken a bone. He was called "The Bull" BITD. Unfortunately, a lot of this is stuff determined by who your mom and pop are/were.

That said, he did begin to decline when he cut back on exercising.

Keep movin' to stay alive.






rick sumner

Trad climber
reno, nevada/ wasilla alaska
Feb 25, 2017 - 05:39pm PT
As other posters have amply noted welcome to the injury club. Most of us, myself included, have a few years on you and an extensive hurt list, but we keep going. You're probably not going achieve world class status in the near future but you can still really enjoy challenges on the trails and crags. Just adopt the no fall policy and be kind to the aging bod.
SC seagoat

Trad climber
Santa Cruz, Moab, A sailboat, or some time zone
Feb 25, 2017 - 05:53pm PT
Or do I trade in my carbon fiber xtr yada yada xc bike for a plush full suspension and lose the clipless pedals


Yes, lose the clipless petals. I bought my latest MTB at age 66 and I hope to not have to give up MTB ever. Every year I probably walk a few more sections than I used to...but that's ok.
In over 20 years of MTBing I've never used clipless pedals. They're called widow makers for a reason.

I still Alpine and back country ski. Swim, hike back pack, climb, road bike, ice skate etc. Much of it is at a slower pace and less intensity. But giving up outdoor activities just isn't on the radar. I hope to take up some pack rafting this spring and summer on the Colorado. Not the real rapidy stuff but something with some challenge.

So don't throw in the towel just yet. Just get rid of those clipless on your MTB! And more rest days.

Here's my newest bike bought last year. I thought WTF am I doing buying a high end MTB at my age and I've done nothing but love it!




Good luck and keep on keepin' on!

Susan
tuolumne_tradster

Trad climber
Leading Edge of North American Plate
Feb 25, 2017 - 06:08pm PT
Wow, Matisse, you're looking pretty good for 60 years old in that photo at Red Rocks^^^

I'm 64 and I've been struggling with how to wind it down..how to bow out gracefully. On my 60th birthday, I did Snake Dike with some climbing buddies and that was great fun. I hike, road bike, snowshoe, and gym climb for exercise and occasionally get out and climb outdoors but exclusively on easy to moderate, well protected routes. I'm also fortunate to have a wife who enjoys hiking me into the ground. Although I haven't had any major injuries, my knees are arthritic and give me trouble especially on descents. A friend of mine considers it a community service to the elderly when he gym climbs with me on Sundays ;-)
ontheedgeandscaredtodeath

Social climber
SLO, Ca
Feb 25, 2017 - 06:15pm PT
Best wishes Matisse!!
WyoRockMan

climber
Grizzlyville, WY
Feb 25, 2017 - 06:17pm PT
My Mom recently decided that the only way to stay young was to get ample exercise. She made a plan to hike to the top of the hill behind her house every day. It's a decent hill, 4 miles RT, 1500 vert. In the last 18 months she has lost 50+ lbs and plans on getting back into climbing after a 30 year hiatus. The Grand Teton being the goal for the summer. She is 65 and my biggest inspiration.




I think hanging it up is the fatalist approach. Maybe changing expectations is a better goal.
rottingjohnny

Sport climber
Sands Motel , Las Vegas
Feb 25, 2017 - 06:19pm PT
Get the old fashion toe clips and straps and keep the straps loose...I never converted to clipless pedals and i don't drink ice cold Heiniken...F*#k that sh#t...
10b4me

Mountain climber
Retired
Feb 25, 2017 - 06:19pm PT

I would greatly appreciate first hand experiences here.

I'm trying to decide when is enough enough: When do decide that you're getting old enough that the pursuits you loved when you were younger are too risky? I'm turning 60 this year. Unfortunately I have the bones of a 60 year old woman, because guess what? I am one.

This is motivated by the fact that a month ago I fell over on my mountain bike and I broke my right leg. I was on super easy ground, I was just clipping back in after walking a section and I fell over and down an embankment. By the time I got my foot out of my cleat I was already going over and I landed hard on my right leg. total fluke. Its my first fracture (lateral tibial plateau), but over the years I've accumulated quite a few boo boos, especially to my poor abused right knee.

In 1983 I blew out my right knee (ACL/MCL both menisci) skiing at Blackcomb. I had three more menisceal injuries to my right knee (and surgeries) I'm going to need a knee replacement.

With all the knee rehab I took up cycling, raced road and track, crashed hard separated my shoulder at one point.

Twenty years ago I started climbing (ACL tear left knee, ruptured pulley right hand).

I've had so many knee injuries I own a pair of forearm crutches and I'm sadly quite adept.

So obviously I've gotten a lot more cautious. I consider the biggest risk to health is sitting on my ass. I think that cycling has kept me going all these years, and it has certainly kept my knee from needing to be replaced - I have a terrible looking xray but its surprisingly functional.

But this last boo-boo has got me rattled. I'm tired of being hurt, although it has been a good 7-8 years since anything major. Do I just do all the normal people stuff for fitness now? (stationary bike, swim, yoga/pilates etc). Or do I trade in my carbon fiber xtr yada yada xc bike for a plush full suspension and lose the clipless pedals? this of course assumes that I get back to some kind of function from the current injury.

What did you do and how did you decide?

I can definitely understand. I skied, and climbed for thirty-five years, but shoulder, and knee injuries forced me to give it up. Not only was it physically taxing bit also mentally.
I still mountain bike.

I have taken up new hobbies that still get me outside. To be honest, I don't miss the climbing, but because of how much snow there is, I do miss the skiing.

Maybe try kayaking if that is possible.
AP

Trad climber
Calgary
Feb 25, 2017 - 06:29pm PT
I am 59 with bad knees, 3 major surgeries on one of them, dubious elbows, wrists, and shoulders.
I will never quit rock climbing though had to give up ice and alpine because of my knees.
The trick is to climb at easier levels with easy approaches. You can always give up leading if you are worried about injuries.
I have noticed that most people climbing hard in their 60s and 70s never had any major injuries (also many never raised a family!)
Hey Wyorockman maybe your Mother should head up to Skaha in BC. Lots of folks her age and older climbing very well.
matisse

climber
Topic Author's Reply - Feb 25, 2017 - 06:30pm PT
Thanks for all your thoughts.

I would love nothing more than to walk and hike, unfortunately while my knee is pretty functional for every day activity, or at least it was before this latest insult, I'm not good for more than about 3 miles. The 4 surgeries have caught up on me.

The John Muir trail or even long walks are going to have to wait for my new knee whenever that is. The kayaking is a really good thought, hopefully my upper body would be up for it. On the bright side it would help to keep the crutching fitness I've built up over the last few weeks. I just figured out I spent over 1% of my life on crutches. Lol.
pud

climber
Sportbikeville & Yucca brevifolia
Feb 25, 2017 - 06:31pm PT
Matisse,
It seems we have a lot of parallels.
Total knee reconstruction mid 80's, shoulder separation a few years ago and a passion for two wheels.

I just turned 56. I still race Desert and Motocross and trail ride often with my teenage sons. We mountain bike a lot too. We hike and climb as often as possible.
I don't hit the tripples as often these days and I gave up roadracing in 2010 as we have younger children also and it was just too damn dangerous.
Low impact exercise is key. Weight training regularly is great for keeping core and upper body strength. Yoga and stretching can add years to quality living.
I quit Road Racing after 20 years because I didn't want to risk my family having to deal with and invalid or worse. If it weren't for this, I'm sure I'd still be road racing.
I think quitting something you love leaves a void that may be hard to fill constructively. Toning down speed and other risk(s) by riding smart and within your limits are a better choice imo.
John Gill is a great example of an extraordinary athlete aging gracefully.
Give up your passions when you absolutely have to. Otherwise Get back on the horse. You'll be glad you did.

Edit: Lose the clip-in pedals for sure
healyje

Trad climber
Portland, Oregon
Feb 25, 2017 - 06:36pm PT
MH2 has it right - skiing and biking can both be tough on you over time. It's hard, sooner or later, to avoid injurious falls in both. I've personally always considered climbing way, way safer than either or them. Lived in Hood River for a while for the windsurfing and between skiing and mountain biking it was the knee brace capital of America.
monolith

climber
state of being
Feb 25, 2017 - 07:12pm PT
Modern rigid MTB flat shoes and pedals are awesome. Makes you develop good technique. Read up about flats vs clipped-in on the net, with lots of strong opinion both ways.
WBraun

climber
Feb 25, 2017 - 07:15pm PT
Just hang it up and don't make any excuses, enjoy life.

You don't need to tear yourself apart to be happy ....
pb

Sport climber
Sonora Ca
Feb 25, 2017 - 07:21pm PT
I like that Werner (3 dots).
SteveW

Trad climber
The state of confusion
Feb 25, 2017 - 07:39pm PT

Matisse
Hang in there. I'm looking at possible rotator cuff surgery
at 65, and I haven't once thought of giving up climbing.
I may not be able to do some things I used to, but I don't wanna
stop. And look at Donini--he's in his 70's!
Mungeclimber

Trad climber
Nothing creative to say
Feb 25, 2017 - 08:19pm PT
dial it back as needed.

no clipless peddles

do the fun things

you got this

ms55401

Trad climber
minneapolis, mn
Feb 25, 2017 - 08:28pm PT
not sure why clipless pedals is such a bogeyman
MH2

Boulder climber
Andy Cairns
Feb 25, 2017 - 08:45pm PT
I'm not good for more than about 3 miles.

Whoa! You're an athlete. That's good for a lot.



Unless you go out 3 miles and then...
August West

Trad climber
Where the wind blows strange
Feb 26, 2017 - 12:12am PT
I knew by my 30s that my body wouldn't be capable of climbing into my 60s and 70s.
So any time I wasn't in physical recovery I tried to climb hard and take advantage of whatever opportunities there were.
I don't regret any of my climbing. But if I had walked away from climbing sooner I might be able to still day hike.
My back can't handle any sort of pack and one flight of stairs using the guard rail is about all my knees are good for.
donini

Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
Feb 26, 2017 - 03:31am PT
Everyone is different....I have been extremely fortunate to have had zero major injuries and no joint problems and I am 73. I do find that I need more recovery time. I laid around all day yesterday after returning from three arduous days in the mountains here in Patagonia.

Follow what your body tells you regarding recovering from injury or activity but don't let your mind tell you that it is time to retire to the rocking chair. You are quite right that the biggest danger to good health as you age is to cease strenuous physical activity.

Good luck in recovering from your injury and I hope to run into you on a crag somewhere!
Gnome Ofthe Diabase

climber
Out Of Bed
Feb 26, 2017 - 05:27am PT
That said by a near mutant even if he is some what unknown,
}B^7-

I drink a lot if water, and consume a fairly large amount of herbs and spices,
So much is contradictory, but just in case I take some supplements? Mmeh,
I do a lot of the cooking for the family of 4 . I try to only eat goat food, but fail miserably.
I love chocolate, but we do not use butter (much) low low salt and almost No sugar!
(That white powder is like so many white powders, poison.)
We switched to a soy cream/milk thing . .
No-fat all from raw, fresh food nothing packaged, still we swell,
Arsenic in rice sent us to quienwa and other grains, still we swell?
Pepper and now down to only one condiment, a medium Sriracha sauce, still I swell
Go figure ? , it is more like GO To The Gym. . . .
im a victim, sloth, and excellent sedentary skills, leading to a near rock like appearance.
Unfortunately it's a round rock.

In my world of suburbia, planting bushes, cleaning gutters, the most mundane activities
pose as great threat of injury as the risky scramble /choss hoping that I . . . like
( small rock Hell - its all I got )

After Digging holes for bushes, having retrieved 21 bushes from a short steep 50% hill,
something just above my knee went, the next day started a spiral decline in my activity,
the battle to keep my mouth closed, and not gain weight is a fight I'm always loosing.

As almost everyone has said; becoming sedentary, for me is the greatest threat to wellness!

Wyomingrockman ! Your mom's haut! {B^7
anita514

Gym climber
Great White North
Feb 26, 2017 - 05:50am PT
I'm still in my 30s with no major injuries (knock on wood) other than some pretty significant surgery on my leg a few years ago. I spent a good chunk of my childhood in and out of hospitals with many, many surgeries to patch my bones up.
I have not been able to do anything with impact pretty much my whole life, to prevent breaking my leg. So I used to do a lot of low impact type stuff, like walking/hiking, and then climbing.

If you can't walk 3 miles, then there is a pretty big problem here and if I were in your shoes, I would get off the bike or at least least ditch MTB and take up regular cycling.

Walking is the best, low impact activity you can do. I took that for granted all those times I was either in a wheelchair or on crutches (I'm probably up there in how much of my life was spent on crutches. Hell, I never even learned how to ride a bike because of my busted up leg).

I don't want to offend anyone here, but I've noticed that with older men/women, they tend to really push hard. I am guessing there's some element of pride/ego involved, plus having to prove something to themselves/others perhaps? (sorry). But I feel that, often they push so hard, they do not listen to their bodies and end up busted up and broken, unable to do anything. Not saying this is you, but what I am saying is listen to your body. Let it heal. It's OK to recover and take it slow. It's OK to stop doing things your body can no longer handle. There are certain things I just won't be able to do because it's not worth the potential injury to my leg. And that is OK. I want to be able to be active for as long as possible. Think about that too. Plus as a woman, as we age, we have to deal with stuff like osteoporosis. So take it easy NOW, so that you can continue being active well into your 70s and beyond!

Swimming is a great way to stay in shape and is good for your joints. Yoga too. But for me, the best is walking. I'd try to work myself up to being able to do easy hikes, stuff like that.



Mark Force

Trad climber
Ashland, Oregon
Feb 26, 2017 - 05:52am PT
The Island Where People Forget To Die
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/10/28/magazine/the-island-where-people-forget-to-die.html
hobo_dan

Social climber
Minnesota
Feb 26, 2017 - 05:54am PT
I'm 57 Here's what I'm doing: I don't clip in--one finger on the brake all the time, the wheels stay on the ground. I get passed A LOT! Just riding those medium flow trails--Is it my fault that their fun? Never met a hill yet I couldn't push the bike up.
I X-C ski as much as possible--low impact and super fun
Just started Fly Fishing--it's surprisingly fun.
Planning to re-start climbing this summer--my goal is about movement and flexibility. Oh yeah- I"m doing it for fun.
When I started I was told that "this is all just monkey business" 40 years later it's too late to gain any sense of identity from my recreation. So go out and have another piece of pie
I'd also suggest swimming but I find it so boring--maybe if you want to feel what it would be like to live forever.....
colin rowe

Trad climber
scotland uk
Feb 26, 2017 - 06:18am PT
"Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light".

Dylan Thomas 1914-1953
perswig

climber
Feb 26, 2017 - 07:33am PT
Just started Fly Fishing--it's surprisingly fun.

Fully expected to get my ass kicked resort skiing with the pseudo-nephews this past wkend after at least 2 years w/o downhill or skinning time.

Turns out, 3-season scouting and wading small to large streams will maintain joint flexibility and core/leg strength way better than I'd have expected. All that time braced into the current, water swirling near your wader-tops threatening to drown you if you drop your guard as you focus on the drift or swap out for a tiny bead, recruits everything from your arches to your shoulders into making constant adjustments that you certainly feel later and will appreciate when you get back on boards, bike, rock, ice.
(Throw in semi-regular pool laps and some trail-running, hiking hills during upland-bird season, and I'm losing ground less rapidly than I would have expected.)

Don't stop; diversify.
Dale

bluering

Trad climber
Santa Clara, CA
Feb 26, 2017 - 08:45am PT
Bike less, those things will kill you.

Climb more.

Seriously? Keep doing what you like, just be careful. Maybe go a bit less 'extreme' in your biking pursuits. Momentum can be a bitch when you get into trouble on a bike.
pud

climber
Sportbikeville & Yucca brevifolia
Feb 26, 2017 - 08:54am PT
I don't want to offend anyone here, but I've noticed that with older men/women, they tend to really push hard. I am guessing there's some element of pride/ego involved, plus having to prove something to themselves/others perhaps? (sorry). But I feel that, often they push so hard, they do not listen to their bodies and end up busted up and broken, unable to do anything. Not saying this is you, but what I am saying is listen to your body. Let it heal. It's OK to recover and take it slow. It's OK to stop doing things your body can no longer handle. There are certain things I just won't be able to do because it's not worth the potential injury to my leg. And that is OK. I want to be able to be active for as long as possible. Think about that too. Plus as a woman, as we age, we have to deal with stuff like osteoporosis. So take it easy NOW, so that you can continue being active well into your 70s and beyond!

Anita, I think you miss a valuable point when you see "older" men and women that can still "push hard" at their chosen avocation/hobby/sport. The reason one can continue to perform well into their 50's,60's, 70's is is likely because they DO and HAVE listened to their bodies throughout their lifetime.
I personally don't want to give up any of my passions until it becomes the right thing to do. This alone motivates one to stay in shape. Maturity helps bring the wisdom to choose the appropriate time to make these decisions.

Taking care of one's body should always be a top priority.
You can't get very far if your vehicle is broken or weak.

Speaking for myself, I find the time with my helmet on is as far from my ego as I can possibly get.
When I'm in the zone my only thoughts are in the moment and fortunately, I have found activities that take me there in minutes.

rgold

Trad climber
Poughkeepsie, NY
Feb 26, 2017 - 08:58am PT
I don't want to offend anyone here, but I've noticed that with older men/women, they tend to really push hard. I am guessing there's some element of pride/ego involved, plus having to prove something to themselves/others perhaps? (sorry). But I feel that, often they push so hard, they do not listen to their bodies and end up busted up and broken, unable to do anything.

I dunno...this may be true of some old folks, but not the active ones I know, who are pretty savvy about calling it a day. But I'm speaking of a group who are all in their 70's, and so perhaps have learned how to keep active without blowing out what remains of the chassis. The survivors, in a sense.

There is, however, a psychological phenomenon that can make us old farts push harder than is sensible, and that is that the brain seems to think it is hooked up to a 25 year-old body. The backing-off reactions don't seem to be natural and have to be first learned and then consciously invoked. I'm continually surprised that activity directives issued by my brain are simply laughed at by my body, like "you want us to do what? You've got to be kidding!" Put another way, it isn't easy to listen to your body when there's a language gap.

Folks have made lots of good recommendations; I don't want to echo what's already been said. But one that hasn't surfaced is the climbing gym. It isn't an outdoor activity, and seems to be the subject of a lot of scorn from the generations that grew up and prospered as climbers before the gyms arrived. But as a place to get lots of good exercise---of the type we all enjoy---and in a setting where the level of risk is low and ability to control the amount of physical stress is high, I think it is almost unmatched. If you can gather a bunch of old friends and go at off-hours, you have an ideal combination of exercise and camaraderie.
StevenStrong

Trad climber
Seattle, WA
Feb 26, 2017 - 09:02am PT
I got heavily into kayaking at age forty with one of my climbing partners, now both approaching 60. I mean if it was good enough for Royal Robbins......should be Ok for the rest of us. It is a dangerous sport though, and somewhat parallels free solo climbing, where one mistake can be disastrous. It is a good old-guys sport though as long as your shoulders are OK.

American Whitewater can be a good resource for your local rivers: http://www.americanwhitewater.org

SC seagoat

Trad climber
Santa Cruz, Moab, A sailboat, or some time zone
Feb 26, 2017 - 09:57am PT
WyoRok Man's mother!!!!!!!! She is now my inspiration.

As for pedals....at my age I use clipless on my road bike...for best pedaling form they are essential At my age for MTBing they are deadly because of needing really quick reaction to get out//off if need be. There are times I wish I had clipless on steep assents or hugely bumpy areas. My newest flats are like sharks teeth which has its own set of consequences.


As far as elders pushing "hard" I've seen the ratio of push days to rest days change pretty dramatically to allow hard push days. Also a lot more emphasis on cross training and adding stuff like yoga or Pilates. I'm pretty much at a 1:1 ratio of hard day to rest day now. With the rest day maybe being restorative yoga, an easy swim or hike. I found that kept me going rather than too many push days in a row....then I was definitely bound for injury..

Also icing and heating strategic areas after an activity even if they didn't hurt.

Susan
rottingjohnny

Sport climber
Sands Motel , Las Vegas
Feb 26, 2017 - 11:04am PT
A younger riding partner , is always pushing the envelope......dislocated shoulder from a rag doll over the MTB bars...Broken leg bouldering...Cart wheel over the handle bars on road bike....stitches and a concussion...always trying to prove something...Live to ride another day...
jgill

Boulder climber
The high prairie of southern Colorado
Feb 26, 2017 - 04:29pm PT
"Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light"

Words written by someone barely middle-aged.

At 80, I do not advise following this nonsense. Accept what comes and try to adapt. Leave your options open and don't say "I'll never quit climbing!"
Mark1198

Trad climber
Reno, NV
Feb 26, 2017 - 05:11pm PT
I'm glad I'm knott the only one to take those stupid pedals off the bike!
Roughster

Sport climber
Vacaville, CA
Feb 26, 2017 - 06:16pm PT
I see less concern with your activities, but more concern with how hard you think you will be able to do them. Pushing your limits to the extreme is a young woman's/man's game. Enjoy the activity for what it is, and what you can do within your limits.
Don Paul

Big Wall climber
Denver CO
Feb 26, 2017 - 07:45pm PT
Switch from free climbing to aid climbing.

Paragliding too, I want to get into that someday.
Gunkie

Trad climber
Valles Marineris
Feb 27, 2017 - 07:28am PT
I've been more injured in low speed mountain bike crashes than in any other pursuit. Just finally getting over some fractured ribs from a mountain biking spill last year.

http://www.supertopo.com/climbers-forum/2901669/Broke-a-rib

With that said, and I really didn't read any of the other responses in this thread, go slow but keep going. Once you stop, you stop. Get the knee replacement and focus on PT and recovery. Keep the weight off and get back in the saddle.

Good luck and you have a lot of fun road ahead of you.
Mike Friedrichs

Sport climber
City of Salt
Feb 27, 2017 - 07:44am PT
I will be mercilessly attacked for this thought, but steep sport climbing in the gym is awesome. Falls are really safe, holds are mostly finger friendly and the total body fitness is really good. The social aspect keeps you around like-minded people and the weather's great.

I tend to ride my road bike a lot more than my mountain bike. But when I go mountain biking I mostly stick to blue and green trails. And if something makes me pucker, I just get off and walk through it. It's just not worth getting hurt over anymore. I use the multi-directional release SPDs and it's pretty easy to release.

Good luck. Adapt. Don't give up.
Jaybro

Social climber
Wolf City, Wyoming
Feb 27, 2017 - 07:47am PT
Good luck. Adapt. Don't give up.

👍👍
Roughster

Sport climber
Vacaville, CA
Feb 27, 2017 - 07:50am PT
Pushing your limits to the extreme is a young woman's/man's game.

Pushing them to the human extreme is a young person's game. Pushing your own limits to their extreme has no expiration date.

You're right Mike, but then again it is when you are most prone to injury ... which is exactly what this thread is about ... and what the OP is trying to avoid.
rbord

Boulder climber
atlanta
Feb 27, 2017 - 07:55am PT
I'm 57. I gave up skiing a few years ago because I just can't control myself and everytime I go it wrecks my back. Damn, but that was crazy fun! Feeling a little better now though so maybe I can try it again intelligently.

But I just spent 19 days rowing an 18 ft raft down the Grand Canyon, so I'm not dead yet!

Hard to give up the physical stuff that has given us so much fun in our lives.

But lucky me, I've got sunshine on a cloudy day! When it's cold outside? I've got the month of May! But she won't be 9 forever - hoping to save some of these good times up as protection against her teenage years! Or my 60s?

Best to you on your journey.
Roughster

Sport climber
Vacaville, CA
Feb 27, 2017 - 08:04am PT
But I just spent 19 days rowing an 18 ft raft down the Grand Canyon, so I'm not dead yet!

That sounds amazing, we want PICTURES!!!!
mooch

Trad climber
Tribal Base Camp (Kernville Annex)
Feb 27, 2017 - 08:25am PT
Didn't know you rode road and track. All this time I thought climbing was your gig. I used to ponder what has been going through your mind.....but mine was to give up my love for cycling. I started cycling late (early 40's) but the passion was HUGE to eventually race. Training hard takes a lot out of you and the opening season crits can sure make the best of us tense, especially keeping a keen eye for the guy or gal who sez they rode pro for many years but rides like a Cat 5 asshat! After 4 race seasons, going unscathed, I finally had my first eye opener during a mid season race. Bottom line: everyone is on the bell lap and jockeying for positions. Dood pushes to the inside and catches his wheel on the curb.......takes out 6 of us. I go down and break by wrist, collar bone and left ankle (AGAIN!), with the mandatory road rash. I go to pick my bike up.....the frame is cracked all the through the bottom bracket. $7500 bike....Toast! I'll never forget thinking, "Forget all this!....I'm done." After healing up, I just couldn't muster the motivation to get back to riding.....it just wasn't in me. But then, I'll never forget the day that I went on a team ride and Davis Phinney showed up. I eventually drifted in with Davis and we chatted about the "who, what, when, where's". Felt like I had known the dood for years the way we chatted and edged each other to push the pace. Good times and a good workout. After the ride, I mentioned I had lost my motivation to ride. He asked if I had wiped out recently. I said Yes. He goes off on this long list of accidents and injuries that sounded more to be his badge of honor! His parting words to me were "Better to live in the saddle than on your seat." Frickin' inspiring and relit my engine!


Even with arthritis setting in on the left ankle, a tendon issue that has plagued me for 5 years, and two bad knees, I find it hard losing my love for adventure!! Stay with it!!

Hell, if this doesn't put a spark within you, just think of good ol Fred! :)
Ferretlegger

Trad climber
san Jose, CA
Feb 27, 2017 - 08:33am PT
Matisse,
As said frequently above, don't give up, diversify! Flat pedals and a full suspension bike are very helpful. If you still have the stoke to ride, check out the White Rim trail in Moab. Google it. Very reasonable technically and physically, takes 3 to 4 days. many guide services in Moab lead trips. I have done it in a day but no point unless you have done it over several days- it is just TOO beautiful.

Having had really bad shoulders since 1984, I can share frustration about the limiting effects of injuries, but if you plan ahead, pick your battles, and don't let cognitive dissonance lead you into doing things you really shouldn't, you can do most, or all the things you love until the end. Perhaps less frequently, or less difficult, but still out there doing it.

Some suggestions: Take up sailing. Great for intensity, but not so hard on the body (some exceptions may apply, but generally true). Take up river rafting. Fun, exciting, and you can sort of sit down. Become a slab climber. Start doing the old trad slab routes on the Glacier Point Apron. They will scare the crap out of you, but are not particularly physically hard- just very technically interesting work with the feet.
Ski tour as others have mentioned. Maybe in tracks. Take up birdwatching- doesn't appeal to me, but many really like it, and you get outdoors.

Therre is a LOT to do if you are willing to shift gears. I am just turning 67, and still do a lot of stuff- you can too.

Best wishes,
Michael

Ricky D

Trad climber
Sierra Westside
Feb 27, 2017 - 11:14am PT
Once people said I looked like Jim Morrison.
Now I'm told I look like Captain Kangaroo.

If that won't make you consider hanging it up I don't know what will.

perswig

climber
Feb 27, 2017 - 04:08pm PT
Remember why we do this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FgjoFv33kKk

Dale
jgill

Boulder climber
The high prairie of southern Colorado
Feb 27, 2017 - 04:13pm PT
Sixty is not old at all to be fit and active



You can say that again! From eighty, sixty looks downright youthful.


;>)
Jaybro

Social climber
Wolf City, Wyoming
Feb 27, 2017 - 04:23pm PT
Cap Kangroo had a way longer run than the Lizad King did. If that's not a call to hang in there, I don't know what is!!
Ricky D

Trad climber
Sierra Westside
Feb 27, 2017 - 04:29pm PT
[Click to View YouTube Video]
MikeL

Social climber
Southern Arizona
Feb 27, 2017 - 04:34pm PT
You are not your body.
jgill

Boulder climber
The high prairie of southern Colorado
Feb 27, 2017 - 08:37pm PT
You are not your body


Are you someone else's body?

Just curious.
Ed Hartouni

Trad climber
Livermore, CA
Feb 27, 2017 - 11:24pm PT
I will be mercilessly attacked for this thought, but steep sport climbing in the gym is awesome.

let me be the first... that was 6 years ago... but still, I still find it an inspiring accomplishment for a self-described "sport weenie"
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Feb 27, 2017 - 11:47pm PT
hey there say... Matisse, :)

hope you are feeling up to par soon, :)


say, i liked anita514's info...

and what tami said:

I completely agree with ya Anita.

Re-read the first posts on this thread. Loads of busted up people.

And, yes, loads of fit folks too.

Train smart, not hard.



but that's me, and i am not a climber, i was just a hiker...


HOWEVER, i am and was a dancer-- so, yes, we MUST keep moving...
however, it is not worth breaking ourselves, as:

there is so much to still do with our lives, and one must
be 'ready and able' and when neat new things, come our way...

you WILL find something, and you will be so glad!


:)
Phil_B

Social climber
CHC, en zed
Feb 28, 2017 - 08:41am PT
Threads like this are why I keep on checking out ST!!

Thanks for sharing how you keep the stoke on. I've found that my interests vary from year to year. Currently, I"m more into climbing and mtn. biking than my original love, whitewater kayaking. But I'm sure that since this is a crazy water year, I'll succumb to the call of the river soon.

Personally, I've had to dial it back, especially since my shoulder surgery. That arthritis keeps on reminding me I'm not in my 20's anymore too.

Do not go gentle into that good night!
rgold

Trad climber
Poughkeepsie, NY
Feb 28, 2017 - 08:43am PT
I will be mercilessly attacked for this thought, but steep sport climbing in the gym is awesome. Falls are really safe, holds are mostly finger friendly and the total body fitness is really good. The social aspect keeps you around like-minded people and the weather's great.

I made precisely this point further upthread and no one attacked. I think the climbing gym is an ideal place doddering banged-up climbers in various stages of decline to congregate, commiserate when necessary, and get the kind exercise they've loved for so much of their lives.

The video https://vimeo.com/197621404 I posted in the "Climb Forever" thread http://www.supertopo.com/climbers-forum/2925386/Climb-Forever makes the point as well.
Reeotch

climber
4 Corners Area
Feb 28, 2017 - 10:50am PT
Really, the goal here is to see who can have the most egregious list of health problems, and still send 5.12 cracks.

Alright folks, we're gonna have to see some doctor's notes . . . (torn rotator cuff, my ass . . .)
matisse

climber
Topic Author's Reply - Feb 28, 2017 - 12:17pm PT
I appreciate all the thoughts. I really do. Thanks guys. Some of you have gotten lucky or have amazing physiology and have never really been hurt. The porter has never really been hurt. He's sprained an ankle once or twice but that been about it. Some of you have gotten busted up despite being careful, and some of you have found a limit when you went oops there was one..I want a rewind button, so I undo the injury and get a do over.

Despite leading an outdoor life, I haven't been a limit pusher since my first knee injury at 25...not unless you count doing the activities at all as pushing limits.

After I blew out my knee skiing, when I went back to skiing I fell exactly once in 3 years of skiing 100+ days a season. In bike racing I crashed three times in 6 years of racing. The one I got hurt in was when someone rode into me on the track in a training session. When I tore my ACL climbing I was on toprope, in the gym and I didn't fall, I just pushed up on my knee. This last injury I literally just fell over. I was on a beginner intermediate trail. I haven't ridden hard stuff in years. Also while I would love to walk/hike, I can't because the injury I did on my knee at 25 was too severe.

So the upshot is that I don't think I have anywhere to go in terms of limiting risk, unless I don't do any of it at all. And that is what I am trying to decide, because being on crutches really really sucks, and because my poor right knee really didn't need another insult. I dunno.

On the bright side I got the go-ahead to partially weightbear today so the crutches are going soon.


rgold

Trad climber
Poughkeepsie, NY
Feb 28, 2017 - 02:12pm PT
Yes, it is very easy for people who have been lucky and/or genetically blessed to see their longevity and high performance as a result of their own efforts, rather than in some possibly considerable measure the luck of the draw. We all like to think we're in control of our destiny.

Personally, at 73, I'm doing pretty well all things considered, but I give myself no credit and do not pretend to know anything about how someone else should manage their aging process.
MikeL

Social climber
Southern Arizona
Feb 28, 2017 - 02:48pm PT
Matisse: time to hang it up?

Sorry, but I was looking at this on the Forum Topic listing with all the other topics today.

I wonder what really gets hung up? (The vernacular is *very familiar,* . . . but really . . . .)
donini

Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
Feb 28, 2017 - 03:28pm PT
Being lucky and/or genteically blessed is part of the equation but nothing, and I mean nothing, beats attitude. You can count the number of injuries, ailments and surgeries but you can't quantify attitude.
I've seen people like Mal Daly, Hugh Herr and Eric Weinmyer do amazing things with disabilities that would defeat most people. And I have seen many, no names mentioned, who just let themselves slide into inactivity for reasons that can only be described as attitude.
There is no mind/body dichotomy.....behavior is a function of both. Our physical health can be affected by genetics, injury or life style but, bottom line, how we deal with what we have is our attitude.
Good health certainly effects attitude but many have shown that what you do with what you have is, in the end, up to you.
Melissa

Gym climber
berkeley, ca
Feb 28, 2017 - 03:49pm PT
Although I still climb something long and easy a few times a year, I decided to "retire" when I was more sick of being in pain and dreading the pain I would be in than I was psyched to climb. (I have a high grade spondylolisthesis.)

For a while after I quit, I didn't know what to do with myself other than take walks (which was pleasant but boring), but then I discovered downwind SUP and more recently SUP surfing. I didn't think I would ever feel this good in my own body again. I have less pain than I've had in years. It's so much fun, and generally more thrilling than risky, though I could certainly find risk there if I wanted to go looking for it. It's also a great excuse to take vacations to warm and pretty places.

I think I might have retired from climbing sooner if I didn't feel so invested in it and if I knew that there would be something else that I could enjoy even more. I also think I got used to being in pain all the time and thought that it had to be that way. I suppose for some people chronic pain or anxiety over potential injury is something that needs to be accepted, but for me it wasn't necessary, and ultimately wasn't worth it.

I hope you're happy and feel good in whatever direction choose...or that chooses you.
Ghost

climber
A long way from where I started
Feb 28, 2017 - 04:02pm PT
I wonder what really gets hung up?

Skates. She's Canadian.
kunlun_shan

Mountain climber
SF, CA
Feb 28, 2017 - 04:22pm PT
Not sure how relevant this is, but, nevertheless, an interesting story:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/02/08/well/move/lessons-on-aging-well-from-a-105-year-old-cyclist.html

At the age of 105, the French amateur cyclist and world-record holder Robert Marchand is more aerobically fit than most 50-year-olds — and appears to be getting even fitter as he ages, according to a revelatory new study of his physiology.
rbord

Boulder climber
atlanta
Feb 28, 2017 - 04:37pm PT
Nicely said donini.

I guess I'd lump attitude into all those other attributes in terms of it being "up to you" or not. Hard to say where any of it comes from. I've got a 9 yr old girl with an attitude that kicks my butt every day, and it sure didn't come from me!

After I messed up my back I went on a long river trip. I was in pain. Most of the time. Not debilitating, but pain sucks. It affects your attitude. Better maybe to say it affects my attitude. Cut it down so I only went for half a trip. Wasn't sure I should go at all really. At the put-in I had a hard time mustering the resolve to walk to the outhouse. But of course once on the river you start to focus on other things. Tried not to whine but I'm sure that stuff shows up to others in different ways.

We had a companion with a bad hip (motorcycle accident). He had had it replaced, so was doing pretty well. But my friends told me tales of before his surgery, when he could hardly walk at all, but still, he'd come along in high spirits, and rig his boat and row it and have a smile at the end of the day. Every day, he'd have to crawl the trail to the groover. Eventually folks noticed and they'd set it up closer and closer to camp. What's privacy among friends? Never complained. Physically I had some strengths, but in retrospect, attitudinally, not so strong.

Yea hard to give advice for others with different strengths of physicality or attitude or luck. The best you can do is the best you can do. Hope your best (whatever that is or was or continues to be) pleases you.

In my experience, if you can relax your grip on mastery, the steep end of the learning curve can be a pretty rewarding place to swim :-) Kind of frees you from a lot of those expectations that can get in the way of fun. Mix it up and see what happens.
matisse

climber
Topic Author's Reply - Feb 28, 2017 - 04:39pm PT
That's a cool article. I saw it when it first got published, because that's a journal I read regularly. The original article is for available for free on the journal of applied physiology website if anybody's interested
kunlun_shan

Mountain climber
SF, CA
Feb 28, 2017 - 04:46pm PT
Glad you saw that, matisse. :-)

Pretty amazing at that age.

The study is here:

http://jap.physiology.org/content/jap/early/2016/12/29/japplphysiol.00569.2016.full.pdf
MH2

Boulder climber
Andy Cairns
Feb 28, 2017 - 04:51pm PT
So the upshot is that I don't think I have anywhere to go in terms of limiting risk, unless I don't do any of it at all.


The upshot is bad juju?

I recommend that you keep rolling the dice, and keep the crutches just in case.
phylp

Trad climber
Upland, CA
Feb 28, 2017 - 05:26pm PT
Matisse, I just wanted to send some good thoughts your way! It sounds like part of it is that you are at at emotionally low point right now.

There are a lot of great posts here in this thread, lots for you to think about. I really like what Melissa posted about her own transition to something new.

The one thing that you wrote which kind of distressed me was this:

Unfortunately I have the bones of a 60 year old woman, because guess what? I am one

I hope you are working with your gynecologist actively on this issue. I just got my every 10 year bone scan last year and my bones are as good as when I was in my 40s (I turn 65 this year). If you'd like to have a conversation about the particulars off-line let me know and we'll get connected.

Phyl
survival

Big Wall climber
Terrapin Station
Feb 28, 2017 - 06:44pm PT
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matisse

climber
Topic Author's Reply - Feb 28, 2017 - 06:49pm PT
TYeary

I think you have me mixed up with someone else. I'm Sue, not Sara.
10b4me

Mountain climber
Retired
Feb 28, 2017 - 06:53pm PT

Although I still climb something long and easy a few times a year, I decided to "retire" when I was more sick of being in pain and dreading the pain I would be in than I was psyched to climb. (I have a high grade spondylolisthesis.)

For a while after I quit, I didn't know what to do with myself other than take walks (which was pleasant but boring), but then I discovered downwind SUP and more recently SUP surfing. I didn't think I would ever feel this good in my own body again. I have less pain than I've had in years. It's so much fun, and generally more thrilling than risky, though I could certainly find risk there if I wanted to go looking for it. It's also a great excuse to take vacations to warm and pretty places.

I think I might have retired from climbing sooner if I didn't feel so invested in it and if I knew that there would be something else that I could enjoy even more. I also think I got used to being in pain all the time and thought that it had to be that way. I suppose for some people chronic pain or anxiety over potential injury is something that needs to be accepted, but for me it wasn't necessary, and ultimately wasn't worth it.

I hope you're happy and feel good in whatever direction choose...or that chooses you.

Hi Melissa, glad to see that have a hobby that you enjoy, and leaves you pain free.
It's good to see you posting again.
Fossil climber

Trad climber
Atlin, B. C.
Feb 28, 2017 - 06:58pm PT
Listen to your body. We all age differently. Do whatever you can do without pain and significant risk, but don't just give up.

At 85, with four artificial joints and some other major medical problems, I'm about to start on a new sport - kick sledding. You can move damn near as fast as with skis with a lot less hazard to your skeleton. Looking forward to it.
MH2

Boulder climber
Andy Cairns
Feb 28, 2017 - 07:00pm PT
Yes, this is Sue, who I believe had J. Road on her committee at UBC.

Don't know if she ever hiked up Grouse or Eagle Bluff, but there is a pair of boots hung up in the woods on Grouse (off trail) and an abandoned bike under Eagle Bluff. People who for one reason or another hung it up.


But it isn't time to quit until

jgill

Boulder climber
The high prairie of southern Colorado
Feb 28, 2017 - 08:06pm PT
At 85, with four artificial joints and some other major medical problems . . .


Finally. Someone older than me. Glad to hear you're still functional! I'm better at 80 than I was at 79, as I tried to recuperate that year from spinal problems. Not many of us on ST these days. Good luck!
Flip Flop

climber
Earth Planet, Universe
Feb 28, 2017 - 08:52pm PT
Thank you Fossil Climber! These are my people. This is my calling!
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Gnome Ofthe Diabase

climber
Out Of Bed
Mar 1, 2017 - 01:55am PT
So there!
we can't say boo,
Far from us kids to complain,
Just listen to Fossil Climber & rgold
Listen to John Gil!

[of Course some of us have been following the gymnastic maestros for 50 yrs)
So in fact the emptherical data . . . Is that theory or empathy?
empirical Data indicates we have chosen,
( if I say ""WELL"", it will go to their collectively, already swollen egos ),
(so we've just chosen their methods over those of ? Say Rush Limbaugh )
Driving senality. .m .

Huh? What's that ? I can't hear so good any more ...

To much loud rock n roll

Is that Fictional or functional ?

Where are my glasses?

You may not remember

Kids leave stuff where you don't expect it

Lying on the floor.

I tripped over some such

And slapped the touch screen hard against the floor

I slapped the wall with it.

The Touch screen is now Touchy

The Motion of my finger spins the vertical hold

It seems, 'cut and paste' has a random-ness
and now,
I seem to add an 'm' every so often!

Pack it in stop posting ? Stop doing and sit?

Lack it in ? Vision to think of things to do?

Luddites want in,

I'm in,

I'm stayin' -

till they dragg my bones across the creek.



My ankles won't carry . . . .

But my knees are not yet fake

I've got that "hip Pointer". how long

How long I wait is . . .

Choose one: or is not dependent on "How long is manly?"

How long do I suffer ?


I'm not all that stoic,


How long is long enough?

As to being? And being in the game!

Or
being a. Good YOYO?
You'll stop, that one before you stop being A spinner of Wheels.

That to will end

Yeah, it will !

come a time, !!

That's what I see


as some actually shrink away to nothing

ad-Infinitum we all go too!

May that time be a long time from now! Too!



I do, - I keep doing , to honor the memory of those better than me
who can no longer join me,
I keep going at it as best I can
I can so I do !




"Because it's there"
 is only slightly less of an affirmation that I live by,

Than is the one I say to myself everyday and I live by it !





















Yer' Gonna' Die
}/B^g


_*getting hurt is very bad , there is no more 'full' recovery , but sedentary is not an option !! *_
jV V V?L
Gunkie

Trad climber
Valles Marineris
Mar 1, 2017 - 05:45am PT
rbord said...
In my experience, if you can relax your grip on mastery, the steep end of the learning curve can be a pretty rewarding place to swim :-) Kind of frees you from a lot of those expectations that can get in the way of fun. Mix it up and see what happens.

Right on! This is where I live and it's fun.
zBrown

Ice climber
Mar 1, 2017 - 07:31am PT
Dr. H. Lodge has written some interesting books on this topic.

Here's a little of the flavor.

Watch out for decay (not tooth)


[Click to View YouTube Video]


Longer verson here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZp3ew4YCuc

Probably best to read some of this
Branscomb

Trad climber
Lander, WY
Mar 1, 2017 - 07:45am PT
A good friend of mine, who was one of the best climbers I ever had the privilege to climb with, has dialed back quite a bit from his youthful intensity and recently told me that he's okay with it because he got what he needed out of climbing and didn't feel he wanted that anymore.

Seems a very graceful and sane way to pass on to other things in life.

I've slowed down a lot in the last few years...65 now...but for myself, I did what I set out to do and I feel okay about it. I haven't quit completely and I still try and push myself, but I like my friend's attitude. It's pretty healthy.
kpinwalla2

Social climber
WA
Mar 1, 2017 - 08:53am PT
Jim Donini pretty much nailed it. A big part of attitude is motivation. What I've observed over the years (age 58, 43 years climbing, total knee replacement 18 months ago, concussion crashing my mtn. bike last year) is that when and why someone stops climbing depends in large part on their motivations for the activity. Those that dropped out first and more permanently were the ones whose trip reports focused on ratings, speed, and pushing psychological limits. If you're primarily motivated by competitiveness, either with yourself or others, or accomplishment measured by yardsticks, you're likely to lose satisfaction with the activity much earlier, as skills decline and injuries accumulate. If on the other hand, your enjoyment of climbing and biking derives primarily from just being outside exploring beautiful places with friends while doing adventurous things, you're more likely to be lifer. I just keep doing what I can with what I got and am enjoying it all just as much as ever.
guyman

Social climber
Moorpark, CA.
Mar 1, 2017 - 10:04am PT
kpinwalla2 nails it.

matisse... listen to your own pain level. If it says no more climbing than thats it. One day, it might say something different. Best of luck to you.


This is my 44th season.... I did a 5.10c- onsite- a few weeks back, it made me feel really proud of myself. The same feeling I got 42 years ago after climbing "Entrance Exam". That never changes- the good feelings- only the after pain is new.

Brian in SLC

Social climber
Salt Lake City, UT
Mar 1, 2017 - 10:51am PT
KP...yeah, good thoughts!

With 35 years under the ol' belt (which I can't hardly see anymore...ha ha!), I've always just enjoyed (as boaters say) "the doing of the thing".

Maybe it helps to be a "never was" instead of a "has been"...didn't have any pressure with regard to that scene.

I've always wondered why folks who had a huge amount of talent gave up the sport, especially when it appeared that they had a bunch of good years left.

I've always just enjoyed it at the level that I can. Hopeful for some improvement, but, more hopeful for a lack of noticeable and sudden backslide...!

Here's to many more years of gettin' out and having fun!
rgold

Trad climber
Poughkeepsie, NY
Mar 1, 2017 - 11:43am PT
Being lucky and/or genteically blessed is part of the equation but nothing, and I mean nothing, beats attitude. You can count the number of injuries, ailments and surgeries but you can't quantify attitude.
I've seen people like Mal Daly, Hugh Herr and Eric Weinmyer do amazing things with disabilities that would defeat most people. And I have seen many, no names mentioned, who just let themselves slide into inactivity for reasons that can only be described as attitude.
There is no mind/body dichotomy.....behavior is a function of both. Our physical health can be affected by genetics, injury or life style but, bottom line, how we deal with what we have is our attitude.
Good health certainly effects attitude but many have shown that what you do with what you have is, in the end, up to you.

Sure but...

Many of these prescriptions seem to me to come with an implied judgement which makes it sound as if not living up to the full extent of the limitations imposed by age, genetics, injury history, (and financial status) is some kind of moral failure. If only our "attitude" was "better," we could keep on crushin'.

To echo DMT, what if it just isn't fun anymore? I'm not convinced those of us who are still having fun have much insight into what it is like when a serious collection of things attitude might conquer conspire against one or more activities. Yes, some people heroically soldier on, but that doesn't have to be the only model to aspire to.
matisse

climber
Topic Author's Reply - Mar 1, 2017 - 12:00pm PT
At 85, with four artificial joints and some other major medical problems, I'm about to start on a new sport

Fossil tell me more. You see I still want to climb and ride and do what what limited hiking I can do, even if it is only to get my inept flyfishing ass into some bushy Sierra creek. I just like being outside. I like the way rock smells on my hands. I love the curve of a smooth single track and the smell of the pine forests.

I saw the ortho yesterday and I got the go-ahead to wean off crutches. First question from me, when can I ride my bike outside?

But at some point if you get too busted up I feel like it becomes an IQ test..or does it?
jogill

climber
Colorado
Mar 1, 2017 - 12:01pm PT
It's amazing how a pinched disc can affect attitude.
rgold

Trad climber
Poughkeepsie, NY
Mar 1, 2017 - 12:25pm PT
Exactly!
WBraun

climber
Mar 1, 2017 - 12:29pm PT
The only thing that is needed to hang up is ones hang ups.

Then one is free to do anything within their means according to time and circumstance they so desire ......
pud

climber
Sportbikeville & Yucca brevifolia
Mar 1, 2017 - 01:04pm PT
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fear

Ice climber
hartford, ct
Mar 1, 2017 - 01:17pm PT
I'm waiting for the first video of an Octogenarian grinding the crack in a squirrel-suit with Sail blaring in the background....

donini

Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
Mar 1, 2017 - 01:37pm PT
I agree with you Rich, if it isn't fun don't it. I guess you could say that the "fun factor" has a lot to do about attitude. I have always said that where climbing is concerned numbers are not important. Whatever grade, length or type of climbing feels right and gives you pleasure.....that's where you want to be.
Fat Dad

Trad climber
Los Angeles, CA
Mar 1, 2017 - 01:56pm PT
^^^
Yup, if it's not fun, doesn't inspire you or seems more like a burden than a boost, that's when you hang it up. If you still have the passion, despite the injuries, you're going to wallow in the unhappiness of no longer doing what you love. Time and age will gradually conspire to make you do less and less eventually. Hang on to what you have now and they'll sustain you later. One of my favorite lines from T.S. Eliot: "These fragments I have shored against my ruins".

Oh yeah, it would be much more gratifying to ditch the clipless pedals rather than the biking.
Fossil climber

Trad climber
Atlin, B. C.
Mar 1, 2017 - 02:44pm PT
Matisse, I can sure empathize. I was tearing around old mining roads and back country trails on a mountain bike until I was about 80 - but an earlier knee dislocation (while skiing alone in the back country at 73, self-rescued) and arthritis finally limited that. But I still love slower speed biking on some of those same tracks, even though the knee makes hideous crunching sounds with every pedal. You don't have to go aerial to enjoy it!

Of course once in a while I look up at some peak or potential rock route and wish I'd done it while I could, but climbing isn't everything, although some may argue with that. I think you just have to recognize that eventually your body won't take certain kinds of beating any more, and just limit to what it will. And sometimes the slower pace enables you to focus and absorb more of the beauty that you might have missed going faster, and that's a new kind of enjoyment. I guess that's called "mindfulness". I've sort of scoffed at the term, but focusing really makes a difference.

There's a beautiful epilogue in a little book called High Heaven, by Jacques Boell, about giving up serious climbing in favour of the family. Translation from French. It will touch you if you can find it.

But hey, at 60 you've got a lot of miles left and a lot of new stuff to discover. I'm envious!

guyman

Social climber
Moorpark, CA.
Mar 1, 2017 - 03:17pm PT
Of course once in a while I look up at some peak or potential rock route and wish I'd done it while I could, but climbing isn't everything, although some may argue with that. I think you just have to recognize that eventually your body won't take certain kinds of beating any more, and just limit to what it will. And sometimes the slower pace enables you to focus and absorb more of the beauty that you might have missed going faster, and that's a new kind of enjoyment. I guess that's called "mindfulness". I've sort of scoffed at the term, but focusing really makes a difference.


Thank you for that, I will keep your words close to my heart.

MH2

Boulder climber
Andy Cairns
Mar 1, 2017 - 04:50pm PT
eventually your body won't take certain kinds of beating any more, and just limit to what it will.


From an eloquent observation by Fossil Climber.


A few years ago, at the Polish night of the Vancouver International Film Festival, I saw a movie in which a septuagenarian took great pleasure in his obviously risky para-gliding. His explanation: "My wife won't let me chase women."


I just made a brief search for the film. Its title was something like Prac Jura, which as near as my Polish co-workers were willing to guess might mean, "old rat."


edit: near as i can remember, the English subtitle was 'Grandfather'





edit

Almost forgot:

Interesting comments from Alan Formanek, the force behind the VIMFF

“We had no salaries and we lost (money) on top of that.”

While he’s not averse to a few minutes of “ski porn,” Formanek has the same guidelines for film that Bruce Lee had for martial arts: emotional content.


“It’s still the story that needs to touch you,” he says, explaining that the right movie can “change your heart.”






If your heart is in it, do it.
rottingjohnny

Sport climber
Sands Motel , Las Vegas
Mar 1, 2017 - 05:44pm PT
Brennan....You know it's time to hang it up when the alligator escapes your rear naked choke hold...Maybe wrestling alligators on ludes is more your speed...
rbord

Boulder climber
atlanta
Mar 1, 2017 - 05:50pm PT
That sounds like the right track matisse. What are the things about what you do (or have done) that are fun for you - the things that are really contributing to your happiness. IMHO, we tend to misdefine it (using our limited human IQs - no disrespect intended) as "climbing" or "hiking." But there are other ways to get that good stuff, if we can figure out what the good stuff is for us.

Wish I could bottle the antidepressant effects of my girl and send you a shot! But you'll find your own way.
MH2

Boulder climber
Andy Cairns
Mar 1, 2017 - 06:37pm PT
What then?


Checkers.
zip

Trad climber
pacific beach, ca
Mar 1, 2017 - 07:12pm PT
Matisse,

I'm 58, been climbing 45 years, and just got back on the stone after 4 years of dealing with injury, heart break, and illness.
Got my ass handed to me, but I don't care.
I'm back!
I may never get the boldness back, or climb hard again, but I don't care.
Just gonna turn it down a little, and climb on.

Susan/SC Seagoat, you rock and inspire me!
Ed Hartouni

Trad climber
Livermore, CA
Mar 1, 2017 - 07:42pm PT
But at some point if you get too busted up I feel like it becomes an IQ test..or does it?

we're not all smart in all the ways it means to be smart...

the last time I saw you at Woodson I was just recovering from about 6 months of pretty bad back problems. I rationalized it was from an old home project injury (mixing 30 80# bags of cement in a day, including carrying the bags from the drive way to the backyard) and while that might be a contributing factor, training for OW seemed to be the real problem... but I didn't think so... until I started training for OW again as soon as I could, and then stopped shortly after it was "incontrovertible."

I guess I didn't take that course at Columbia...

MikeL

Social climber
Southern Arizona
Mar 1, 2017 - 11:11pm PT
Matisse:

If I were an insensitive, politically incorrect boor, I would say: “Grow a pair.”

You’re a climber for crying out loud. As a climber you are pragmatic, realistic, action-oriented, and forthright. (Psssst, there’s no wining in climbing.)

Figure out what come next, what you want to do about it, and then get on with it. Few of us ever looked at a 12b and said, “that’s what I’m going to climb next.” Most of us figured out what suited us and then went after it. We usually succeeded that way.

Semper Fi. Hold to the things you think are you. Listen with and to your heart. What kind of person are you? If you’re aware of your own experience, there is no reason to think that anything will change just because you changed what you’re doing. You are not your body, or what you do or achieve. Grades and class mean nothing.

Straighten up, Bucko. Get on with it.

(I hope I’m not an insensitive, politically incorrect boor.)


P.S. What comes next? The “I’m afraid of dying” thread?

healyje

Trad climber
Portland, Oregon
Mar 2, 2017 - 12:49am PT
...has dialed back quite a bit from his youthful intensity and recently told me that he's okay with it because he got what he needed out of climbing...

For me it's all about emotional bang for the buck. Climbing has had a lot of that for me over the years, but honestly, some decades yielded more of those bucks than others. Part of that is because I do a lot of work/play things I find rewarding, so climbing has always been one dimension among many.

Looking back I'd say I was more 'into it' when I was younger and oddly in the 15 years since hitting fifty. My thirties and forties on the other hand were also packed with a lot of work, family and windsurfing along with less climbing. Now I'd say I'd have no regrets giving up climbing overnight (ok, that one unfinished project) if I didn't get a solid emotional reward from it each and every time I went out.

On somewhat of a side note, I will say getting back to the standards of my mid-twenties at age fifty was daunting and utterly brutal. But it was either that or find a hypnotist who could make me forget I was ever a climber because, while I don't mind not getting up other people's routes, I simply LOATHE not being able to get up my own FAs. But then I suppose I'll be looking down that barrel again soon enough, just not today (I think, haven't checked lately).

Also, I've seen long-term, chronic pain up close and personal in people I love and it's definitely heart-breaking. Fighting through that sh#t just to have some semblance of a life is a marvelous accomplishment by itself, let alone trying to or thinking you need to push it on out the other side. Nothing but the deepest empathy and respect for any folks here dealing with and / or coming to terms with such travails.
donini

Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
Mar 2, 2017 - 03:08am PT
ST comes into it's own....more wisdom and thoughtful commentary on this thread then I have seen in a long time. Seems that a common chord has been struck.
We are all climbers and we have pursued that lifestyle in various ways and with different levels of intensity. We are also all aging and many of us have long since crept past middle age and have seen the deterioration that is a normal part of the human life cycle.
Do what you can with what you have......you don't go round again. Ponce de Leon has long been in his grave but modern medicine and current knowledge of nutrition and exercise have given us a "fountain of youth" not available to previuos generations. It has an expiration date but don't fail to take advantage of it.
Bad Climber

Trad climber
The Lawless Border Regions
Mar 2, 2017 - 06:51am PT
Some great ST gold right here. I turn 55 in a few days and with that date begin my 40th year of climbing. I've had some times off the rock and mountain, but not many. I spent a big chunk of the previous 10 years going after long distance cycle touring. That is a fantastic pursuit. But I got there because I recognized some limitations. First, I hated the ass-grinding that conventional bikes dish out. I got into recumbents and have since done many thousands of miles of touring, included a coast-to-coast solo and one along the length of the Rocky Mtns., Jasper to Mexico. A sometimes dodgy lower back has never been a problem because of the support these bikes give.

I've had my share of limitations with climbing. I don't have the world's most resilient connective tissue, so advancing much beyond mid- to upper- 5.10 has always been sketchy for me. I think I'm warmed up; I've been climbing regularly; I'm ready to go for it--bang, pop, strain. The slow-healing tendon pull or whatever is back. I've never had "severe" injuries, but these relentless smaller ones can really test your resolve. I realized many years ago that I wasn't going to be the super star my youthful self had envisioned.

But here's the rub: I freakin' love it. A lot. Still. So for now, while I can, I accept a lower level of performance and keep getting after it. I'm training more regularly than I have, and this year my beloved wife and I are moving to Bishop, so for the first time in our adult lives we'll have regular easy access to the rock. I'll push it where I can--maybe get injured again--but like the other lifers here, I have to keep at it. I do really enjoy the cycling and hiking, though, so the cross training and off-the-rock days are very rewarding. I think I'll be pretty happy with those if the rock or my heart finally says enough of the vertical.

I love that we have so much collected wisdom and experience here at the ST.

BAd
Pewf

climber
Gunnison, CO
Mar 2, 2017 - 08:45am PT
Sorry about the replacement prognosis!

I think you should get some flat pedals and come visit colorado. I walk my bike over any obstacle that looks even remotely menacing. Pebbles, for instance.

Or meet us halfway for easy sport climbing in St. George or Lime Kiln canyon. Pick some routes where there are enough options for movement that no joints need be torqued.

In a couple years when multi-pitch meltdowns from the young member of my family are less likely, I dearly want to go back to Mt. Arapiles. Easy approach, friendly stone, and the most fun you'll ever have on a moderate climb. Join us and I will tape up my already-arthritic ankles and carry your gear!
TWP

Trad climber
Mancos, CO & Bend, OR
Mar 2, 2017 - 10:07am PT
Great thread!

Many comments are spot on re: my own experience.

What can I add that hasn't already been said?

I often reflect upon the "half full" side of the story by comparing my life to that of my parents/grandparents.

E.G. My maternal grandfather, an Illinois farmer. When he was 40 years old, Grandma told him: "Gus, we need to either get rid of these kids or you need to get your teeth pulled."

Meaning, he was in so much pain with tooth decay etc. that he was taking it out on the kids.

So, Gus got in the dentist's chair, got all his teeth pulled, and spent the rest of his life wearing dentures. (As did Grandma).

Compare that with my life and first world problems. I'm 65 and trying to extract that last molecule of life, love, joy, experience and wanting it to last for "How much longer?" Thinking about Grandpa's life brings me back to reality. And helps me appreciate what I've had - and still have.

Second point.

We face the inevitableness of decline and the only formula is this: We cannot keep PERFORMING at the same level, but we can keep ENJOYING at the same, intense level. Maybe even increase the joy (the subjective experience) in spite of the decline in the performance (the "objective".metric).

So my takeaway. As we age NOTHING says we can't increase the subjective enjoyment - without regard for the objective performance. This is within our control. Keeping the objective performance at the same level is NOT possible, nor in our control.

The collective wisdom here is "keep at it" by keeping the enjoyment. If you can't do that, retire to something else that brings joy.

And Moose: you can't keep improving forever. But you don't have to quit doing anything just because you have crested the plateau and are descending into the valley.

But I could also add. Read a story recently about an athlete who actually improved his cardiovascular performance at age 105 versus his performance at age 100 Nothing says we need to spend our life using all our time to pursue physical fitness. But we never know what we might be able to do with mindful training over the long haul.



Bad Climber

Trad climber
The Lawless Border Regions
Mar 2, 2017 - 10:12am PT
Great post, TWP.

BAd
10b4me

Mountain climber
Retired
Mar 2, 2017 - 06:47pm PT
Thinking about this again reminds me of something I once heard. "One regrets the things they haven't done, not the ones they did"-anon.
MH2

Boulder climber
Andy Cairns
Mar 2, 2017 - 06:58pm PT
Alas for maiden, alas for Judge,
For rich repiner and household drudge!

God pity them both! and pity us all,
Who vainly the dreams of youth recall.

For of all sad words of tongue or pen,
The saddest are these: "It might have been!"



http://www.bartleby.com/102/76.html



Fossil climber

Trad climber
Atlin, B. C.
Mar 2, 2017 - 09:17pm PT
"One regrets the things they haven't done, not the ones they did"-anon.

Very true. But even that regret mellows with time.

And there are decisions other than those involving activity to be made when you get near or past the normal expiration date. A well-meaning nurse recently handed me a binder of information about how to prolong one's life. I read it, agreed with a couple of things, but had to tell her, "Time has slowly robbed me of one after another of my physical delights, leaving the sedentary ones, like eating and drinking and music and socializing. And I'll be damned if I'm going to spend what's left nibbling on kale and sipping green tea. That's not living!"

Rib roast and good wine tonight. If I smoked I'd make its a point to have a cigar too.

Of course you aren't there yet, but you will be. Carpe diem.
MikeL

Social climber
Southern Arizona
Mar 3, 2017 - 07:27am PT
Tami:

Whining. (Good catch.)

(Apologies for the confusion.)
crøtch

climber
Mar 3, 2017 - 09:07am PT
Hi Matisse,

When your leg is ready, let me know if you want to go standup paddleboarding @ the Cove. It's a fun low impact workout and you get to see some cool sea life.
August West

Trad climber
Where the wind blows strange
Mar 3, 2017 - 11:15am PT
Of course once in a while I look up at some peak or potential rock route and wish I'd done it while I could, but climbing isn't everything

Thinking about this again reminds me of something I once heard. "One regrets the things they haven't done, not the ones they did"-anon.

Given all the things one could have done, climbing or otherwise, the only non-young people without regrets about the things that might have been done are those with no self-reflection.

I always thought the important thing was to not regret the things you did do.

And while I don't regret my climbing career, there were some climbing decisions that I made (a couple of which resulted in trips to the emergency room) that I think it is fair to say that I regret.
matisse

climber
Topic Author's Reply - Mar 3, 2017 - 06:53pm PT
You guys are awesome! I appreciate all of your suggestions and encouragement and thoughts. Crotch I'm definitely going to take you up on the stand up paddling, it's one thing I wanted to try. I like being on top of the ocean, although I don't particularly like being in it a whole lot. Pewf I need to come visit you. I've been working my way through your novels, they been keeping me company on the couch.

I got the go ahead to wean off my crutches on Tuesday, but it happened in two days, so now I'm enjoying being able to carry things with my hands. I'm hoping to do a little work in the garden this weekend, getting the lettuce back into shape after five weeks of neglect.

Now I just have to see how much recovery I get in my poor knee. Five weeks out I've regained almost all of my range of motion, and I have been cycling on a stationary bike with very light load (at the suggestion of the orthopod) all along. Good thing I have a really nice bike ergometer in the lab. I've bumped the cycling up in duration.

I've decided I'm going to ride my mountain bike on the road for a bit (in very protected locations) as soon as the doc says ok. Then I'll see how I feel about off-road.
mouse from merced

Trad climber
The finger of fate, my friends, is fickle.
Mar 3, 2017 - 07:24pm PT
Henri Matisse first started to paint in 1889, after his mother brought him art supplies during a period of convalescence following an attack of appendicitis.

He discovered "a kind of paradise" as he later described it, and decided to become an artist.

He had lots of things to hang up in a very short time, they say.

Then came the sculpting and the rest.

There's lots of precedent for hope.

A lot of small steps, child.
matisse

climber
Topic Author's Reply - Mar 4, 2017 - 12:29pm PT
Happily I can paint again too:

mouse from merced

Trad climber
The finger of fate, my friends, is fickle.
Mar 4, 2017 - 12:56pm PT
^^^I love that smile! I love the whole superb image.
I am so envious of dexterity like that coupled with an eye for the sublime, Locker.

And the Hopkins is great, too! :0)
matisse

climber
Topic Author's Reply - Mar 4, 2017 - 01:01pm PT
my niece, so technically a Williams.
Fossil climber

Trad climber
Atlin, B. C.
Mar 4, 2017 - 02:59pm PT
Beautiful!
jgill

Boulder climber
The high prairie of southern Colorado
Mar 4, 2017 - 03:43pm PT
Excellent painting!

Good subject, also.



"One regrets the things they haven't done, not the ones they did"-anon

Not true IMHO. As an example, I regret jumping off so many boulders for so long, leading to severe spinal problems in old age.
ß Î Ø T Ç H

Boulder climber
ne'er–do–well
Mar 4, 2017 - 10:24pm PT
^^
time to hang it up
Bad Climber

Trad climber
The Lawless Border Regions
Mar 5, 2017 - 06:53am PT
What August said:
Given all the things one could have done, climbing or otherwise, the only non-young people without regrets about the things that might have been done are those with no self-reflection.

There are infinite possibilities in life. To lack regret--at least of the mild variety--is to lack imagination.

BAd
geiger

Trad climber
Doylestown pa
Mar 29, 2017 - 09:18am PT
Hey, I hit 68 next month and am going strong. Well that is a relative term. I feel much better on the dull end of the rope, but still climbing 7's and 8's. I've gone the broken ankle and screws bit, twice. My wrist went on a silly lead fall a few years ago, more screws. Other than arthritis all the parts are working again. The biggest part for me is not the climb, but the people I climb or kayak with. It is a hard community to think about leaving. Rule of thumb, I will wear out, not rust out!
ericrak

climber
Boulder, CO
Mar 29, 2017 - 09:18am PT
I ran into Beckey at the gym a few months back. He said he needs to train more.
mmelvin

Trad climber
san francisco
Mar 29, 2017 - 09:21am PT
No, don't hang it up, just modify. Lose the clipless. My son finally said, "Dad, you'll do fine not stressing over getting out of clips."
feraldog

Trad climber
Placerville, CA
Mar 29, 2017 - 09:36am PT
Keep it up until you can't. I'm 77 years old and still climb 5.8 and 5.9 but not on lead any more. I have no plans to quit.
Magic D

Trad climber
Mar 29, 2017 - 09:43am PT
Age has nothing to do with it, really. It's not about bones. Your heart has to decide. I ran my first marathon at 55. Done 4 so far. Started climbing at 57. This year, at 66, I hope to do El Cap w/my son, Alex (yes, him). If it's a dream, go for it!

If not, find a way to back off that still keeps you out there doing stuff!

About that El Cap thing -- anyone out there want to help me practice jugging in the Lover's Leap area this summer?? (Our climb will be in Sept.) I'll belay you up whatever you want, and jug up behind you. Need more outdoor experience at it before I go for the Big One.
Srbphoto

climber
Kennewick wa
Mar 29, 2017 - 10:21am PT
Like many before have said... get a pair of flats and good pair of shoes (I like 5.10 Freerider, but a lot of people I know use approach shoes) with a little stickiness and rock it out.

Magic D - no matter how many times Little Alex says "let's just simul climb" just say no! LOL
RealOldTradClimber

Trad climber
Greenfield, NH
Mar 29, 2017 - 10:23am PT
For sure, keep climbing and biking! I am about to turn 62 and am climbing more now than I did at 52 (the kids are older, need less driving around, and can lead the hard pitches for me!). The more I climb, the younger I feel!
Spider Savage

Mountain climber
The shaggy fringe of Los Angeles
Mar 29, 2017 - 10:30am PT
A part of the mind will always say quit.

That part of the mind is wrong. Do not listen to it.
donini

Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
Mar 29, 2017 - 10:31am PT
When you can no longer tie your shoelaces or get the velcro to lineup you just might consider....hmmm, hell no! You can always get someone else to do that for you.
Mar'

Trad climber
Fanta Se
Mar 29, 2017 - 10:37am PT
I was walking in the Sierra, in 1967, when i met God, or so i thought, I met Norman Clyde on a trail, he was 81 at the time, still walking in the Sierra, by himself. His eyes were alive with the beauty and vibrance of the Sierra. I remember thinking I want to be like that when I am 81.

So cool.

The mountains are in your mind, hopefully. So climb those— even if they keep you away from those you love. That is, the things you have formed attachments to.

If you know those mountains inside you, how can you experience absence?

Attachments to things, attachments to occupational identities and maintaining an attachment to action is the surface issue— but it goes all the way to the core of one's being.

No need to give up anything really, beyond attachments to things.

As far as toe-clips go, I tried them and forgot them by the mid 80s.

If Norman Clyde's eye's couldn't look the same anywhere— not just the high-country, then he was just another phantom.

When I was 45, I said, "Dang, I'm good for at least 60." Now I say I'm all over 80.

What I'm referring to is that passion. If it's pent-up, that's something else— passion has no boundary. If it can go beyond issues of identity, then that passion is real and is being mistaken for mere enthusiasm. If passion is intact, then there is something to work with— something to refine. That's a good thing. Otherwise it has long been lost to an attachment of habit~ not so good after all.

It's you, my friend. If you need accessories, that's cool— in that regard, a bike, a mountain, a bottle or a guitar/amp, an audience …it's all the same really.

Of course I've just been addressing the psychological issue. As for the body— we're MORTAL!!

I'd say loosen the grip (on the physical) just a little. The body is just another interface, but it's crucial. Maybe it's just time to re-assess the overall relationship. A little wake-up call.

As for the machine~ eh. It's just a tool. But the romance of the hills is a delicate thing as is true passion. Craving tool/technologies perpetuating their mindless use can get in the way of seeing.

A LOT.
climbera5

Trad climber
Sacramento
Mar 29, 2017 - 11:14am PT
Lots of great advice here. I'll be turning 60 shortly and recently had a hip replacement stemming from a hard fall cycling 12 years ago. We're all extreme sport enthusiasts and cringe at the thought of abandoning activities that have brought us great joy. No small factor is, it's part of our identity. I say follow your heart and listen to your body. Keep active, explore your "B" list and don't give up!
TWP

Trad climber
Mancos, CO & Bend, OR
Mar 29, 2017 - 11:19am PT
No.

Just back from five days at a remote desert basecamp with mis amigos: "Los Ancianos Decrepitos." (The old decrepit ones). Our ages = 80, 78, 77, 66, 65. Identities otherwise not disclosed to avoid vexatious questioning.

No TR. Won't tell you where or what we climbed because we intend to keep our playground to ourselves until we are finished climbing, to wit: dead - in about 20 - 30 years. You may only find our secret locale when you pry our cold, dead fingers off of our last handhold. (To paraphrase the Second Amendment boys.)

Joe

Social climber
Santa Cruz
Mar 29, 2017 - 11:38am PT
haven't really spent much time on the taco in recent years, but clicked on this link when I received the "supertopo climbing news e-mail"....

only read /skimmed the first couple of pages, but the responses I read were so positive and encouraging...

it reminded me of the best of what the supertopo forum has to offer....

thoughtful sharing of common experiences from a unique community....

kudos one and all....
Dolomite

climber
Anchorage
Mar 29, 2017 - 12:58pm PT
I missed this thread, but it's subject I think about a lot. Most recently this morning in this blogpost, which was inspired partly by the Tomaz Humar thread:

http://ddstevenson.blogspot.com/
Steven Amter

climber
Washington, DC
Mar 29, 2017 - 01:58pm PT
Many good thoughts here...

I've been climbing 43 years, and my body still responds nicely once in a while, even if not always. But if I get too "happy" and forget myself, new injuries seem to lurk just around the corner.

My two cents: Keep going if you can still:

 Have a glorious day climbing with great friends, no matter what the grade.

 Have a glorious day challenging yourself on an appropriately hard route.

 Still impress yourself once in a while (even if on a relative scale).

 Impress some youngins outside or at the gym. (This works particularly well if, when inevitably asked, "How old are you?", you add 15 or 20 years to your real age.

 Climb hard (for you) and not feel like total crap afterwards.

 Feel the call of the wild whenever you look up.

 Still dream about new bucket list routes and destinations you actually have a chance at doing.

If your body is truly failing you, and you seem to be getting little return on your investment of time and effort, switch to something more accommodating and, if you can, maybe climb only once in a while for the pure pleasure. One of the great things about climbing is that the joy of ascending can be felt regardless of the grade (the grade stuff is mostly in our heads) - a good route is a good route. Even a good class 4/5.easy can make your heart soar.



capseeboy

Social climber
portland, oregon
Mar 29, 2017 - 03:01pm PT
Werner gets my vote too. When the gain is pain, well...
aspendougy

Trad climber
Los Angeles, CA
Mar 29, 2017 - 04:30pm PT
Bob Kamps climbed at a high level into his 70's before his sudden passing while climbing in a gym. Everyone ages differently, but I thought it was great the way he could still get up hard stuff pretty much to his last breath. Everyone ages differently, it depends upon your medical history, body type, disposition, they all play a part.
jgill

Boulder climber
The high prairie of southern Colorado
Mar 29, 2017 - 05:02pm PT
Bob Kamps climbed at a high level into his 70's before his sudden passing while climbing in a gym . . . he could still get up hard stuff pretty much to his last breath


Yes. Bob captured the essence of numerous posts on this thread. But his experience was an exception, as most older climbers decline gradually, lose interest, or are sidelined by injuries or illness that make it too tough to continue. Or all of these.

We are close to group norms when we are young, but the older we become the more we deviate.

Bad Climber

Trad climber
The Lawless Border Regions
Mar 29, 2017 - 05:17pm PT
Indeed. We all hope we'll be the Kamps and the Gills, but nature and time often have other plans. Rage on, TACOids!

BAd
Fritz

Social climber
Choss Creek, ID
Mar 29, 2017 - 07:40pm PT
Thank you all, for those who posted inspirational thoughts.

Like many here, I started technical climbing in my teens. Due to the demands of work, I didn't climb much from 1983 to 2010, but I still kept doing a few days a year of 5th class climbing.

Then, my old pal Donini thrust me back into climbing at City of Rocks in 2010, & I went from leading 5.7 to (barely) following his 5.10's.

So 7 years later, I might still be able to lead a 5.7 & not follow a 5.10, but I have made a bunch of lifetime friends, who are wonderful people.

It's all about the great people I meet & have met, to me. I have very pleasant memories of doing lots of tough climbs & first ascents in the 1970's. At this point in my life, fun & safe rock climbs are still fun to me.

I even remember driving Bongs, but this photo is from a 2010 RR birthday celebration climb.
KurtA

climber
Winthrop,wa
Mar 29, 2017 - 08:47pm PT
Dear Matisse,
I am 73 and still mtn biking but starting to have more injuries. Not sure what I should do. But learning better technique can help a lot. Several observations: from your description, it seems that you took your R foot out of the pedal, landed on it on the way down and broke your leg as a result. You should have kept your feet in the pedals (and your hands on the handlebars). Arms, legs, wrists, ankles are just too vulnerable otherwise. Get clip-in pedals that are easy to get out of, e.g. Eggbeaters, so you can easily release a foot when you stop or when you go around a too tight turn and need the added balancing. But try to minimize this and stay in the pedals as much as possible. And in any case never stick your leg out to arrest a fall. Ditto with hands. Keep a grip on the handlebars and never stick your arm out if you fall. Never take your attention off the trail when you're moving, even for a moment. This is the easiest way to lose your balance. Look down the trail 5 or 10 feet ahead (or further if conditions warrant). Don't focus on the ground near your front wheel. Back off on the level of difficulty. Back off or rest or walk when your aerobic deficit gets high as it's harder to ride safely then.
I could go on but you get the idea. Another good idea is to take a mtn bike skills class. If none of this works for you, you might spend more time road riding and less time mtn biking.
I'm trying to do all of this and more. It all takes much more continuous and conscious focus and attention than it did when we were younger. It seems I have to force myself to keep focus as my aged mind often doesn't recognize that I need to. Good luck, KurtA
Bad Climber

Trad climber
The Lawless Border Regions
Mar 30, 2017 - 05:35am PT
One of my elder heroes is the late great Stimson Bullitt. We never met, but I remember seeing that inspiring photo of him leading Illusion Dweller at the age of 82. His book is a so-so read, but the man was amazing. On aging and staying in shape, he said (approx.): "Staying in shape takes a greater moral commitment." An interesting way to put it, but I think I see his point. We're less supple as we age, so, more than ever, we use it or lose it. I've just recently turned 55, and I'm finding it pretty easy to keep at the fitness stuff. In some ways, I love it more all the time. I hope I can keep at it, maybe become some sort of mini-Donini--never, of course, usurping the klettershoes of the master!

BAd

Jaybro

Social climber
Wolf City, Wyoming
Mar 30, 2017 - 07:07am PT
Superb thread! Great points of view, and advice, from all angles! Go while you can, and have a desire to do so, but know yourelf and your limitations! Modify as needed!

At 60, I'm climbing as much and hard as ever, but I'm clearly making accommodations, and taking more naps!
gasman

Trad climber
eugene
Mar 30, 2017 - 11:38am PT
Don't quit. Good platform pedals and approach shoes with sticky rubber work great ! While not as efficient as clipless pedals I don't worry about crashing nearly as much.

Keep doing whatever you can. I still climb, bike,hike,ski,etc-I'm just not as fast or strong as I was in my 20's or 30's. It's key to keep moving. Plus I take more naps.
Charlie D.

Trad climber
Western Slope, Tahoe Sierra
Mar 30, 2017 - 03:48pm PT
"Staying in shape takes a greater moral commitment."

Love that quote Bad, think I'll have a martini tonight and ponder what to ski this weekend.
phylp

Trad climber
Upland, CA
Mar 30, 2017 - 07:39pm PT
taking more naps!

I love that, Jay!
I don't take naps but I do take a lot more rest days.

I'm rooting for Matisse to figure out a way to keep doing what she loves, and to find new passions too!
Don Lauria

Trad climber
Bishop, CA
Mar 30, 2017 - 11:27pm PT
I'm 84. Haven't thrown in the towel despite heart by-pass. Hang in there.
Steve Johnson

Trad climber
Telluride, Colorado
Mar 31, 2017 - 12:02pm PT
Sometimes you got to bend but not break.
The great Steve Hong once told me when discussing this general topic that the day you stop climbing is the day you start dying.
I've had a fully-torn shoulder joint, knee ACL snap, bulging disc, 5-6 broken bones over my lifetime, plantar, back problems, etc., and now the usual aches and pains of slightly older age.
At 62 I can still climb 5.10 - 5.11, but I have a great young rope gun for my partner and we still seek out desert FA's. I'm not afraid to aid or take a rest to prevent a fall, just get the ego out of the way. I skip most bouldering. For various reasons I didn't ice climb this winter for the first time in 43 years, though I will likely do so next winter, just not leading much. I continue over 55 years now to down-hill ski fast, I just ski fewer moguls and do less back-country. I balance down-hilling with even more days of cross-country skiing, to de-compress. I switched to flat peddles years ago, but ride less as the aluminum bikes were hard on my elbows (and now neck).
The idea is to yield slowly and gracefully. I now do far fewer climbs, more hikes and backpack trips, more stretching, more river-running, take more care when hunting or hauling meat on steep slopes.
When the fear and loathing exceeds the wonderful feeling you had when you first began climbing or began to get good, that is the time to ratchet back difficulty/exposure or possibly switch sports. You might find that quitting climbing abruptly instead of slowly de-emphasizing it and lowering your expectations will be a bit depressing unless you are able to embrace other sports with passion.
guyman

Social climber
Moorpark, CA.
Mar 31, 2017 - 12:05pm PT
Steve Johnson +1


Don Lauria +1

BASE104

Social climber
An Oil Field
Mar 31, 2017 - 01:29pm PT
I had Avascular Necrosis in my left knee. The tibial plateau died. Dead Bone. It hurt like crazy. So I had half of my left knee replaced.

It changed things. I can't run, but I can sure as hell walk, so I do these big hikes. I just don't get my dose of neurotransmitters from that, and that is my biggest problem.

That is a little too mellow to keep me happy, so I searched for something where I could use some of my skills, so I am getting into Paragliding.

You can be a chain smoker and paraglide. No lie. Some dudes take smokes along, because the wings are now so advanced that you can stay aloft for hours at some sites. You would get out of breath hiking up to some of the launch sites, though.

Like most things, you can make it as safe or as dangerous as you like. Wing design is an advanced science now, and beginner wings have a lot of passive safety built in.

I've got a lot of free time right now, so I am planning on taking 6 weeks off to do a road trip, just flying at the best sites in the west.

Flying sounds like a lot of fun, huh? If you live in California, you are already close to some of the best sites in the country.

It isn't too expensive. I got a used rig for about 2300 dollars. New kits are 5 grand. You can always sell it when you want to move up to a more advanced wing. There is a big market in used equipment.

I think that it is the cheapest mode of flight.
gunsmoke

Mountain climber
Clackamas, Oregon
Mar 31, 2017 - 02:00pm PT
Matisse, you launched a truly great thread, at least for those of us who are middle aged and beyond.

Perhaps a primary question is "Can you quit and still be you and still be happy?" As I've aged I've come to value life more. While I've always appreciated and needed the outdoors, I need it more than ever. When I was biking in my twenties I met two older guys who asked how far it was to the ocean. Some inquiry led to them stating that every year at their birthdays, which were about a month apart, they rode their age. The day's goal was 73 miles. I thought, that's want I want to be at age 73. 73 is a ways off, but I still have that mindset. In balancing health and mindset, protecting my mindset can't take a backseat to health. What is the value of health and long life if life is lived on a sofa?
August West

Trad climber
Where the wind blows strange
Mar 31, 2017 - 02:06pm PT
A part of the mind will always say quit.

That part of the mind is wrong. Do not listen to it.

Actually, I don't think my mind ever told me to quit.

My back on the other hand...
BASE104

Social climber
An Oil Field
Mar 31, 2017 - 02:13pm PT
As for quitting and being happy, when I gave up BASE, skydiving, and climbing, when my son was 2, I became very unhappy. I've done what I could to keep the adrenaline pumping. I've just had to become inventive.

So I zero'd in on Paragliding.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LLgbWMPI5l0
Toker Villain

Big Wall climber
Toquerville, Utah
Mar 31, 2017 - 02:32pm PT
I just bought an electric bike (legal in Zion when the road is closed) from jello's brother Mike, and I just finished fencing my ranch and am ready to buy some brood mares.

I am looking forward to befriending my grand-niece and turning 63 soon.

Not too many worlds left to conquer in climbing, but I might yet just try,...
Mikep_

Mountain climber
Oakland CA
Mar 31, 2017 - 02:32pm PT
I just turned 65 and have been asking the same question of myself for a few years - and I have similar difficulties with knees, back, hips, etc. It is not complaining, just reality, something goes out and you cannot do what you were doing 10 minutes ago.
Comparing to others is useless; I have a partner in his 70s whose idea of training is weeding his garden but he will get out in front and break trail all day long. I figure the difference is genetics (I train hard).
In the end you have to ask what you enjoy, this is a sport, hobby, pastime, you should be enjoying what you do. For me, it is long days in the mountains with good company.
Hummerchine

Trad climber
East Wenatchee, WA
Apr 1, 2017 - 09:40pm PT
Great thread! Particularly enjoyed the comments by Donini and Steve Strong...but pretty much all are good! I also turn 60 this year...pretty soon in fact. None of the "each decade" ages has phased me...I embraced them in fact. 60 does indeed sound ominous...but I say that while I'm at Smith Rock shredding for a week with The Mighty Thor. Sure, I can't climb as hard as ten years ago...but I'm still having a gas and redpointed a few routes I've wanted to lead for decades at Castle Rock Leavenworth last year. If you still dig climbing then...well, climb!
SammO

Social climber
Ohio
Apr 7, 2017 - 10:28am PT
TWP hit a number of nails on their heads.
Notice how the "suck it up" camp points to folks like Donini, while Donini himself, Gill, others wax far more philosophically and less gung-ho "die hangin' from a finger lock"?
If you're doing something for the experience, the engagement with life through an activity, you can adjust your goals without limiting your quality. If you're trying to impress someone (including yourself), pain and frustration inevitably grow as one resents youth being wasted on the young. Older folks here, even those gifted with talents that set the standards, by and large understand and appreciate that it was never really about the numbers - it was about the play. The play's the thing. As in, playful, playing around, playing with friends in games that made everyone a winner.
Beating yourself up, risking injuries that can end activity, seems a poor tradeoff. Shifting gears, figuratively, I debate whether a cushy full-suspension bike will make riding safer, or just lure me into pushing harder until I crash just as much, but on worse terrain.
Are we playing or competing? I took to climbing expressly for its non-competitive, anarchistic style, in the '60's. Now, it's a simpler recipe:
Do what you enjoy, enjoy what you do, apologize to nobody.
MikeL

Social climber
Southern Arizona
Apr 8, 2017 - 07:45am PT
And you don't need to be particularly physical to remain active in the game of life.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/04/07/opinion/sunday/to-be-a-genius-think-like-a-94-year-old.html?
aspendougy

Trad climber
Los Angeles, CA
Apr 8, 2017 - 04:46pm PT
I love swimming in warm, tropical ocean water. Is there a place with a few slabs jutting out of the water, where I can do a few climbing moves and then just fall back into the water when I've had enough? Maybe there are places like that in Thailand. I'm 66.

It would be nice to have an outdoor climbing gym in the middle of a tropical bay somewhere.

http://www.crystal-lagoons.com/
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