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Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Original Post - Aug 8, 2009 - 12:27am PT
So I had a really rough a.m. today. Those of you that know lynnies past 18 months know about the pain and loss we be living through.

Finally pull it together and get to work. Walk in and my Bro hands me a copy of the Peter Haan Thread on women in 1955;

My Wyoming buffalo rancher bro is checking his sis out on the Taco. Shite.

However it is pretty darn funny. Change the world through the Taco. Chris, Dude, so many people following lynnie on the ST think I should get on the board of directors. :)

Started calling family and friends.....yeah gal, it's how we keep up with yo. So yo Taco heads....email if you have something special to say....get my drift....Smiles, lynne
Captain...or Skully

Social climber
Boise....
Aug 8, 2009 - 12:34am PT
Whoa, like Big Brother, but worse.
Orwell had it easy. Point taken, I reckon.
Ya, know all the Soviet Spy guys talked in parks, at least in the movies.
Talk to ya in the park, maybe?
dogtown

climber
Cheyenne,Wyoming
Aug 8, 2009 - 12:35am PT
Lot’s of love from Wyoming Lynne! Why don’t you come out for a bit ? Eh.

Dog.
Mighty Hiker

Social climber
Vancouver, B.C.
Aug 8, 2009 - 12:36am PT
It's not too late to rename yourself as "Lightfoot".
Ed Hartouni

Trad climber
Livermore, CA
Aug 8, 2009 - 01:07am PT
what?! you mean what goes on at the Taco doesn't stay on the Taco!!
Captain...or Skully

Social climber
Boise....
Aug 8, 2009 - 01:07am PT
Imagine.
THE HORROR.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 01:19am PT
Well, sheee guys, I do have a life. I have my family life....and my taco life. I thought I made that clear to my relatives. (Hello are yo guys hearing me, hehehe )Apparently not as even my 8 year old grandson let me know he doesn't have to call me to find out what I be doing....he also is a Taco Head.

All I can say is Yikes !!!! Of course I am kidding here and love you my special family and friends....But

If lynnie disappears I hope yo my tacoettes and dudes can figure out who I am in my new life.
paganmonkeyboy

climber
mars...it's near nevada...
Aug 8, 2009 - 01:23am PT
she's gonna resurface in moab...
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 01:30am PT
Pagan, missing yo dude !!! Resurface....nah, jess, disappear.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 01:33am PT
Dogtown, I may .... thanks guy...appreciate alot. Really. Lynne
WandaFuca

Gym climber
A survey where 68% preferred this Fuca over others
Aug 8, 2009 - 01:33am PT
It's either a surreptitious monitoring of your ST account or waterboarding; you decide.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 01:40am PT
It's like having unpaid babysitters.

SO Do Any Of yo My friends Have this Situation????

Jess Asking.....Jingy, ekat, Nita, Dimes, Chicken skinner, Anders, Ghost, Anastasia, Joey, Chaos, Rv, Warbler, Maria, Nakahira, neebee, and a zillion others......

Any recommendations ?
Ed Hartouni

Trad climber
Livermore, CA
Aug 8, 2009 - 01:45am PT
I once showed up for a first meeting of a large project at a down town Chicago engineering firm, someone was asking me about climbing, someone who obviously did not climb... lots of detail too...

likely I got "googled" by the engineering team...

it was a little creepy...
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 01:49am PT
Thank you Ed, you are hearing me. It is a little strange. I just want to get on with my life and make a life and then I find out my life is not really my life.

But it is....lynnie is tough and working on happy. Peace and Smiles....
Mighty Hiker

Social climber
Vancouver, B.C.
Aug 8, 2009 - 01:50am PT
Having a pseudonym provides a buffer, plus is kewl. Your friends, and new friends, still know who you are, but family and professional life are kept a bit separate. Plausible deniability or something - although if waterboarded I'd spill the beans asap.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 02:03am PT

John B would have said Lynne.....shite, who cares. So this is my take.... Dude was my mentor and amigo. Trust his judgement.
So....whatever folk ...who cares.

Edit: I'm ok and thanks for listening. Peace
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 02:16am PT
Good take Dwain.....thanks for the chuckles Dude. Peace, Lynne
Indoor Industry Outsider

Social climber
Your Starbuck's Parking Lot
Aug 8, 2009 - 02:33am PT
Supertopo Forum is a great stage, and all the invisible players--men and women, sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything except a texted voice--something there is.

Lurkers are not even walking shadows; likely idiots that tell no tales so as not to be confirmed; no sound, no fury--nothing.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 02:50am PT
Tami, you are always such a great support. Thanks !!! I know we will meet someday. If I can ever help yo out let me know. Peace, Lynne....and so much thanks. :D
Klimmer

Mountain climber
San Diego
Aug 8, 2009 - 03:43am PT
What, the CIA is here??? Ooooohhhhhh NNNNoooooooooo! I'm hosed. They are gonna waterboard me for sure or worse.

I'm not worried about the family and friends lurking. They know me and some even do think I'm "outthere." So be it.

Actaully, I've said much with an anticipated audience of g-men in black. I just want to put their 100% bovine dung straight under their own noses so they get the full-effect of thier own stink.

I'm not scared. Suicide is never an option, and I'm careful with my life even in adventure sport. I pray for God's love, peace, and protection for me, family, and friends, and those here on ST. What more can I do?

Fear God not man.
Jaybro

Social climber
Wolf City, Wyoming
Aug 8, 2009 - 07:15am PT
You and I have talked about this before, Lynne. When you meet someone for the first and they have alittle too much knowledge and preconceptions that have gone eerily awry? Should you be yourself? Or their construct of who they think of you as, just to be polite?
happiegrrrl

Trad climber
New York, NY
Aug 8, 2009 - 08:04am PT
Two things:

1) My family and clients have NO idea as to my username. I have separate family/work and Happie email accounts. I saw the need for this separation the moment I found rock climbing websites. When I finally told them I went to Joshua Tree for vacations, every time we have ever spoken since, they ask "have you been to Joshua Tree?" And not in a good way, fro a trip to Jtree means I WASN'T visiting them....

2) If you think it is just family/coworkers who lurk, think again. SO many people "know" me that on a weekend at the cliffs, a person standing nearby whom I get into conversation with is sure to mention *something* I wrote about online. And often it is not the *Big* threads, but some small obscure comment.... Sometimes when I ask what their username is they say they never post, or even don't want to divulge it.

I don't mind the climbers too much because - after all - I am aware that I put it out there. Those who don't want people making the connection do what I do with family - they simply do not tell people their username! It actually is a pretty good solution, if that's the way you want it.

It has actually gotten to the point where I have had a few people in the subway ask me about the Gunks. People I have NOT met out climbing.....

SoffCookay

climber
CA
Aug 8, 2009 - 10:52am PT
Perhaps there should be a thread calling on lurkers to come out and introduce themselves.

I am a lurker; not because I am "spying" on anyone, but rather I am a climber, I learn a lot from reading the posts here, I enjoy the trip reports, and I think the ST community is great - you all take care of each other.

I do understand about needing privacy, Lynne (I have enjoyed reading your posts, by the way!), and I, too, have learned not to post on the Internet using my real name. Someone is going to Google your name sooner or later and see everything you've ever done online, not to mention pictures if you've posted them as well.

Lurkers come on out and say hello :)
TYeary

climber
Aug 8, 2009 - 11:09am PT
Lynne, you could never dissapear. Your star would shine through your disguise and be just as bright!Your Spirit is truley, one of the most beautiful, in this Taco garden.
Tony
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 8, 2009 - 01:56pm PT
Boy you Gals and Guys are nice !!! I have indeed made some real and incredible friends on ST. Thanks for the encouragement.

Now I'm off to the beach to seek anonymity while surfing and kayaking. Peace, Lynne

And, Caylor, with God's help we will arrange a nice toast to JB in C4....Sunday 9/20 in the evening.
SoffCookay

climber
CA
Aug 8, 2009 - 03:12pm PT
Just a thought, Lynne, you might want to consider creating a Facebook or Myspace page. You can keep your family up to date on what's going on with your life, post pictures, send messages, etc. and vice versa. There are privacy controls on there so only the family/friends you choose can access your page. I have a Facebook page just for this reason and my family & friends enjoy reading about my adventures (or mis-adventures more often than not...).

They may enjoy that better than following you around on here.
The Wretch

Trad climber
Forest Knolls, CA
Aug 8, 2009 - 03:14pm PT
I am not exactly a lurker. I have posted before and
once divulged my real identity and dropped some names
of climbing partners. I guess I did the latter out of
insecurity and wanting to establish some creds. But I
seldom post because I don't have that much to say. No
need to clog the band width with trivia. Which I suppose
THIS is!

Also, even climbing outside I tend to be rather passive,
not particularly caring what we climb as long as we climb,
or even just hiking if the mood is bad.

I must say I knew Bruce Bendner and climbed with him a
few times but never knew he was Brutus. Sad that I learned
to appreciate him more after I learned more about him here
after his death.
Anastasia

climber
hanging from a crimp and crying for my mama.
Aug 8, 2009 - 04:58pm PT
Ahhh... Usually lurkers are pretty cool. Yes, I do know of a few silly goats that keep track of me just to create gossip but... That's life!
There will always be someone trying to make themselves look good by bringing you or another person down.

Just keep in mind a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt;
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

Plus, you don't need to justify yourself to "anyone." Trying to correct someone that believes in gossip, or what they make up in their heads is like you are admitting to it. If you want to deal with them correctly, Laugh when you hear it, (it is pretty funny how hard they work on b.s.) ignore them and get busy having fun, climbing, living well!

If my life's tragedies and health issues have taught me anything... It's that life is too short for silly stuff. Stick to what matters and let the rest be for your entertainment.
Hugs,
AF

jstan

climber
Aug 8, 2009 - 08:53pm PT
Using your real name is not a problem as long as you post only things that no one reads.
bluering

Trad climber
Santa Clara, Ca.
Aug 8, 2009 - 09:12pm PT
Wretch...

Also, even climbing outside I tend to be rather passive,
not particularly caring what we climb as long as we climb,
or even just hiking if the mood is bad.

I must say I knew Bruce Bendner and climbed with him a
few times but never knew he was Brutus. Sad that I learned
to appreciate him more after I learned more about him here
after his death.


Thanks for that!.

You should post more, we're kinda like a big 'campfire' here, everyone's welcome, everyone can chime in when they want, or just sit back and listen to it all.

Don't be shy!
Ricky D

Trad climber
Sierra Westside
Aug 8, 2009 - 09:13pm PT
Forget Facebook or MySpace.

Lynne my dear - you are WAY beyond those plebian sites.

You my love - you need your own TV REALITY SHOW!!!111

I'm serious here - it could be this generation's version of I Love Lucy!


bluering

Trad climber
Santa Clara, Ca.
Aug 8, 2009 - 11:34pm PT
Jim, as long as people know you, I think it's not important to post your real name.

The problems come from the real posers.....
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 9, 2009 - 01:05am PT
Great to get out of "Dodge". The ocean was too blown out for boards and my kinda kayak so went across the street to the bay. Sweet. Not a great pic, hazy day, but Coronado Bridge in background.


Hope all you Lurkers got out and played today :D


Headed home ..... got a good work out physically and peace mentally.





Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 9, 2009 - 01:21am PT
Caylors probably counting my posts here but oh well.

Wanted also to respond to my amigas and amigos. You are a gift not to just me but everyone around you.

Jstan, Dude, that is funny and a merry heart doeth good like medicine. Grazi !

Jim B. ..... I won't change, I like my real name. It represents my honor and integrity and lynne with all her flaws and shortcomings. Hey, it's me World.

Jaybro, I'd forgotten about that important discussion. Thanks for reminding. Please send me life stuff anytime. I like it, weigh it, and need it. Peace, Dude

Hugs to Bluey.

Ricky D. Believe it or not I have a brain. And I'm blonde not red. :D But I'd love to do a "sensitive" reality show. bwahahaha

Ana, friend......Always mi amiga. You are So Right On. Thanks. We need to talk more often.


And finally semi lurkers and lurkers....it is great to hear from you. Seriously. Maybe more of you could say howdy here on this Thread. Peace, Lynne

Captain...or Skully

Social climber
Boise....
Aug 9, 2009 - 01:23am PT
Excuse me, did you say something?
I was busy lurking & didn't get that.......Haha.
Cheers, Lynne.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 9, 2009 - 01:26am PT
Hugs Skully, hope yo had a great day too. Peace and Smiles !!!
Jan

Mountain climber
Okinawa, Japan
Aug 9, 2009 - 05:41am PT
Hi Lynn-

Thanks for your many contributions to ST. I especially enjoyed the one getting ready for camping at the Facelift. Getting a cot that was too big for your tent is the sort of thing I would do too. I laughed and laughed through the whole thread! And I learned a lot in the process and downloaded all the good advice that you got from others. Thanks for not being afraid to ask. Meanwhile, I go with the person who said that even if you wrote under a handle, we'd be able to figure out that it was you.

As for family lurking and maybe not approving, I have lots of experience with that too. I am especially amazed when younger family members are more socially conservative and less adventurous than I am. I figure it's our job to show the way. If they can't follow, it's their loss. Keep on being yourself!
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 9, 2009 - 08:42am PT
Jan, thank you So much :D You made my day ....specially with your last comments. There are some pretty funny and amazing Threads on the Taco. I don't have television. Don't need it with this wild and crazy place and a good imagination. Peace and Good Life to You, Lynne

ps, are you really in Japan ? Did you post once before ?
Jan

Mountain climber
Okinawa, Japan
Aug 9, 2009 - 02:22pm PT
Lynne- I do live in Japan. Been here for 25 years since I have a great job teaching Anthropology and Asian Studies. I've been posting for about 8 months now.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 9, 2009 - 03:24pm PT
Very cool to meet you, Jan. Do you climb ? Do you ever get to the States ? Peace, lynne

Edit: you just brought back a hilarious memory for me. I jess remembering the first Thread I put on ST. My heart was beating so hard I thought I was gonna faint. heheheh, now this place is like my second home. Life, crazy, but good, especially when you can laugh and have joy.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 9, 2009 - 03:39pm PT
Oh fattrad what would I do without yo great sense of humor? Thanks for afternoon gut chuckle....bwahahaha. lynnie
Jan

Mountain climber
Okinawa, Japan
Aug 9, 2009 - 11:46pm PT
Lynn-

I haven't rock climbed for 35 years now since I've been doing slogs up snow mountains in the Himalayas instead. I'm planning on visiting the States next spring and trying my hand at rocks again. I'm putting great faith in the idea that sticky rubber shoes and chalk make things seem easier now! It should provide entertainment for all. Needless to say, my family is appalled.

Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 9, 2009 - 11:54pm PT
Proud ! I haven't done the ice and snow. Keep me posted on your arrival. Cool to get together. Whatever I can do to help your visit let me know.

Peace, Lynne
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Aug 10, 2009 - 12:04am PT
hey there lynne, say, just stepping in to see how you and the "family days" is going...

:)

*say, i've seen many nice post here, too, to help you out...

say, jim--that was a nice post, too--keeping one's name honorable, etc...

well, all, carry on...
:)


*say, lynne, i just ran across ol' hankster counting your post, earlier tonight...
:)
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 10, 2009 - 12:06am PT
Where was that Miss Neebee ? :DD
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 11, 2009 - 08:16pm PT
Just read Barbarian's post on Ana's Loss thread..... About remembering our ones that have passed through.

Reminded me of something as I thought about all our friends that no longer walk the planet with us.

Johnny Rock was my best lurker. Awhile back someone posted a Thread about if you are a rock climber? (Could have been zip) Anyway, I posted that tho I love to climb I could not consider myself a climber cause I didn't know how to set anchors or lead etc.

Next day Mr. Bachar emailed saying......"say if you ever want to learn how to set up anchors or learn technique I'd be glad to show you."

What a Dude.....special Friend. Peace, world. Lynne

AND YO ....thanks jb :D john didn't mind the yo word he used it quite frequently. It's actually a happy word.
JEleazarian

Trad climber
Fresno CA
Aug 11, 2009 - 08:42pm PT
Lynne, let me add my name as another person who appreciates your posts. (Yours too, Jan. My former law partner, Wally Upton, was a big fan of Frank's, and still misses him greatly). I've also been able to make contact with other old friends and acquaintances though Tacoland posts.

It was a bit surprising, however, to find out how many local climbers read my posts and were familiar with my thoughts and rants. Surprisingly, they still befriend me. They're pretty good lurkers, because I seldom see their names and/or handles here -- and one was my nephew! All of this makes me appreciate the nature of the climbing community. We've grown a lot bigger, but the basic comraderie is still there.

John
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 11, 2009 - 08:51pm PT
Yeah, JE and you are such a support for this gal. Love this Taco place. Great Evening to All. :D
luggi

Trad climber
from the backseat of Jake& Elwood Blues car
Aug 11, 2009 - 09:56pm PT
I'm as mad as hell and I am not going to take it anymore.....
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 11, 2009 - 10:29pm PT
luggi, why ??? no one lurking the luggi ???? :DD
Barbarian

Trad climber
slowly dying in the OC
Aug 11, 2009 - 11:16pm PT
Lynne - Email incoming.
Barbarian

Trad climber
slowly dying in the OC
Aug 11, 2009 - 11:19pm PT
I would watch the Lynne reality show. That would be good TV!
pocoloco1

Social climber
Aug 11, 2009 - 11:21pm PT
Come hang out in Hueco.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 11, 2009 - 11:24pm PT
It would most certainly be exciting, plus packed with more emotion and adventure than current sitcoms.

A Better idea. Anyone want to front the coin for a Movie that would touch the soul, take little money to produce and is an incredible yet simple story line. No name actors .....there are 3 major characters and we would find raw, awesome talent that would rock the hollywood stars and starlettes. A Dream.....a workable one. No Peace tonight.
pocoloco1

Social climber
Aug 11, 2009 - 11:26pm PT
Fall on by
Lynne Leichtfuss

Social climber
valley center, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Aug 12, 2009 - 01:21am PT
hueco tanks ?
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