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MH2
climber
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Oct 26, 2014 - 08:19pm PT
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28 September 1958
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Sport climber
moving thru
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Topic Author's Reply - Oct 26, 2014 - 08:26pm PT
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MH2, CLASSIC....
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zBrown
Ice climber
Brujò de la Playa
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Oct 26, 2014 - 08:32pm PT
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lLeichtfuss:
You lead, I'll just follow along and try to stay on track.
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Sport climber
moving thru
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Topic Author's Reply - Oct 26, 2014 - 10:51pm PT
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Couple of thoughts before the close of one more wonderful day.
Tvash, so true we don't remember the Birth aspect of arriving here. But, we can find out if we're lucky. Many cultures, families, remember the stories and pass them down. We may not remember, but it has been important for others to remember for us. Hence, an opening, an opportunity to find out about our entrance on this planet and a bit more about ourselves.
Joie de Vivre! Such an amazing and beautiful phrase. Life must contain Joy.
Yesterday I flew down a hill strapped in a huge plastic sphere. "Go Grandma Lynne". Some of the sweetest words I'll ever hear.
Peace,
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'Pass the Pitons' Pete
Big Wall climber
like Ontario, Canada, eh?
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Oct 26, 2014 - 11:55pm PT
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Life is short - we're here for a good time, not a long time.
What I verily believe is that we have to make the most out of every single day, and every single opportunity. Sometimes opportunities come along, and you have to seize them, even though they are risky, otherwise you must face the safer but ultimately lamer alternative of never having given it your best shot.
We are all climbers, and hence risk takers - we inherently believe that only with great risk can come great reward. It is not in our nature to "play it safe". We don't go sport climbing and clip bolts, instead we climb cracks or big walls or ice or mountains - sometimes even solo - simply because it is harder, and hence the reward may be greater.
Obstacles abound. Do we shy away from them, or do we embrace the challenge and test our mettle? When we look back on our lives, are we glad we played it safe? Or instead, do we feel proud and honoured that we took the chance, even if we might have failed, and dared to follow our hearts, even when our heads might have suggested we do otherwise?
Did we take the easy route to the summit, or the challenging one? Sometimes you need to simply shut up and climb, and see if you make it or not.
The partner I seek is one who believes in this.
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Sierra Ledge Rat
Mountain climber
Old and Broken Down in Appalachia
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Oct 27, 2014 - 09:26am PT
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Sometimes people in death are found in the fetal position.
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JEleazarian
Trad climber
Fresno CA
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Oct 27, 2014 - 12:07pm PT
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We are all climbers, and hence risk takers - we inherently believe that only with great risk can come great reward. It is not in our nature to "play it safe". We don't go sport climbing and clip bolts, instead we climb cracks or big walls or ice or mountains - sometimes even solo - simply because it is harder, and hence the reward may be greater.
I don't know if this describes all of us, but it does me. The best way to motivate me to try something is to tell me how difficult it is. Still, I find something about this behavior paradoxical, because I have the greatest difficulty declining a challenge.
I think my life's object is -- and should be -- more than to squeeze the greatest personal happiness out of every moment. Sometimes I should forego a challenge (and its consequent rewards) and do what I can to help someone else. Or maybe I'm simply misstating it; the real challenge is to do that which I should, rather than doing that which I desire.
No doubt about it. That period between birth and death sure is interesting!
John
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Wayno
Big Wall climber
Seattle, WA
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Oct 28, 2014 - 12:21pm PT
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*
where is your brightened play of eyes
the fire flashing
the heartening story
of your wistful wide-open light...
now there's a fallen look
cast all round you
you're somehow smaller
as if you were merely
drawing out your life
how on earth
did you come to wander
out from the way you followed
to somewhere that you would never
go to knowingly...
take these words now
use them for you
to follow to draw you back
to your light.
come back
to that calling smile so familiar,
spell out the story of
heartening reassurance
to me once again
Eyeless in Gaza "Bright Play of Eyes"
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Tvash
climber
Seattle
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Oct 28, 2014 - 12:49pm PT
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"I live life to its fullest."
That's one of the most common phrases I see people claim about their lives.
I have no idea what it could possibly mean, save bravado, perhaps.
Sometimes life just sucks - as it must, given that we don't really control many aspects of our lives.
Eventually, the lack of suck is the best you can hope for, and that's OK. Even in the suckiest periods, though - there is beauty, creativity, love, and tempura prawns.
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Sierra Ledge Rat
Mountain climber
Old and Broken Down in Appalachia
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Oct 28, 2014 - 12:55pm PT
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I don't know if this describes all of us, but it does me. The best way to motivate me to try something is to tell me how difficult it is. Still, I find something about this behavior paradoxical, because I have the greatest difficulty declining a challenge.
Funny, that defined most of my life. If it was challenging, I pursued it, climbing or otherwise. I became a rape counsellor many years ago because I couldn't imagine doing anything mroe difficult than that. I flew combat jets from aircraft carriers. I free-soloed 1,000-foot routes. I ran ultramarathons every weekend in the summer.
Now I can't imagine doing that kind of stuff anymore. These days, living on the edge of death would put me into a panic attack.
Now I just wanna have fun and survive even if I screw up.
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Wayno
Big Wall climber
Seattle, WA
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Oct 28, 2014 - 01:01pm PT
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and tempura prawns.
Even though I do not care for fried shrimp, I can appreciate your sentiment. Sometimes it is just the simple things that give perspective to such a potentially complex picture.
"life is only as kind as you let it be"
a quote from Charles Bukowski that often seems appropriate to me
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Tvash
climber
Seattle
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Oct 28, 2014 - 02:44pm PT
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One thing that hopefully improves with age is the capacity and wisdom of forgiveness - oneself and others, and the appreciation of forgiveness for our own occasional transgressions.
Now, my focus has shifted a bit towards passing on whatever I can to an upcoming generation to keep them out of the hospital or morgue as they develop their own relationship with the outdoors. I've had friends and former students die - it happens, but I'd prefer that these kids stay off that list if at all possible.
I still take on challenges I never thought I would - challenges for me, anyway. Nothing to write home about in the grand scheme of things, but I've come a long way from looking up at climbers on El Cap for the first time as a teenager and thinking "THAT would be my worst nightmare".
I'm in awe of the boldest climbers - I still climb with some original hardmen, now in their 60s, but I'm not sure I would have chosen to join them.
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Sport climber
moving thru
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Topic Author's Reply - Oct 28, 2014 - 07:31pm PT
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And so six years ago.....
"I went to the woods
because I wished to live deliberately,
to front only the essential facts of life,
and see if I could not learn what it had to teach,
and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived."
Henry David Thoreau, Walden
I did this 6 years ago. Still, still learning to front the essentials and get rid of the rest. But when I die I will know that I have lived. The raw woods, barren peaks and their aloneness have worked their magic. lynnie
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donini
Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
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Oct 29, 2014 - 07:04am PT
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Live in the moment.....not something in which many are adapt.
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Off White
climber
Tenino, WA
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Oct 29, 2014 - 08:40am PT
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Here's an anthem for the thread, everyone sing a long to the chorus:
Birth!
School!
Work!
Death!
[Click to View YouTube Video]
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Fletcher
Gym climber
A very quiet place
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Oct 29, 2014 - 10:42am PT
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With gratitude Lynne. Very much appreciated. Sometimes, we don't know these kinds of things. Other times, we do, but it's nice to get a reminder.
There are at least a couple of common things that we can know.
1. That we are going to die.
2. That we don't know when.
In other words, we all have expiration dates that are at least partially obscured.
The rest is commentary.
Peace and love,
Eric
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Sport climber
moving thru
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Topic Author's Reply - Nov 3, 2014 - 05:22pm PT
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Got home tonight and checked the email.
"Hi, Lynne. My name is KB. I have been thinking of your husband Dan for awhile since I saw the recent thread you started here." KB goes on to describe meeting Dan at Pirates Cove, Corona del Mar and then a trip to Suicide with Dan as well as an invitation to climb NWHD. (Dan must have thought KB had what it takes.)
KB moved to the NW, continued climbing but never ran into Dan again. "But my remembrance of him is still clear, and that is of a kind and genuine person.
"The Trilogy of Life thread brought up a bunch of thoughts. Even though we have never met, I want you to know Dan touched someone you had never met." KB
Wow and Wow. It is incredibly special to hear from Dan's past. Dan's kids and grandkiddos will so appreciate this. Peter, our oldest son, celebrates his birthday today. What a gift to him. Thanks! KB
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Sport climber
moving thru
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Topic Author's Reply - Nov 3, 2014 - 07:46pm PT
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Eric, Fletcher, I bet you do stuff like this with your daughters. Did you get to the Eastern Sierra with them this summer?
"Everybody needs beauty as well as bread, places to play in and pray in, where nature may heal and give strength to body and soul." John Muir
A family I love has been plagued with painful back problems, respiratory problems, flu etc. kids and adults alike. Sometimes I really feel like the stress of life, living and trying to keep it going financially for the parents and grade wise and sports wise for the kids takes its toll.
Yet I see threads about people here on the taco that are in similar circumstances tho they live in John Muir's nature. Tough to figure at times.
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Bushman
Social climber
The island of Tristan da Cunha
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#1. Time spent thinking I'm doing what I want to do
= 25 percent.
#2. Time spent thinking I'm not doing what I want to do
= 25 percent.
#3. Time spent not thinking about too much
= the rest of the time.
Twenty nine years of marriage has taught me to be happy to
live with the illusion of #1...or was it #3?
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