May-December Couples, what do you think? (OTish)

The age difference may seem wonderful now, but in 20 years it will be hell for her. If you care about her, don't put her through something like that.

If you are lucky enough to find someone who meets you with her heart open, and you are compatable souls, hold on and be grateful for each day. Damn the torpedoes!!! And best of luck to you.

P.S. sorry 4 typos - can't stand new phone.

Seems a little sick that a high school teacher is thinking about marrying someone that could have been his student just a few years ago.

Maybe twisted is a better word.

^Klimmer...you're asking for this sh#t.....get a life.

So you are twenty five years older than her..

You have not known her long..

She looks you in the eyes when she talks to you..

and you've done some fun activities in group settings..

and you want to marry her...../

but its a long known truth, young woman like older men and older men like younger women. It's always been this way throughout history.

However, the memories will last a life time and you will regret it later on if you don't take the plunge.(BM)

Met a beautiful woman who's 26 and I'm 51.

We are both Messianic believers. She loves and serves HaShem.

I've had the pleasure of doing some fun activities in group settings with her, surfing and climbing.

He's not looking for advice. He's bragging, and delusional.

My professional opinion? I'd say that this is your body saying "I am ready" and the strength of the chemistry is over-riding your pre-frontal cortex. Wait until your divorce is final and you've had a while on your own without distraction before you open up to finding your mate.

That makes complete sense. Not what any lovestruck fool wants to hear though!

Jesus didn't suffer fools either....he let them know when they were being foolish.

I hope she cleans out your wallet and dumps your dumb ass.

If you know the Good Book

Pagan advice. Can't do that.

But it's still an interesting tabloidish thread. Lol.

everything on ST turns into an argument or debate.

Wrap your weenie in tinfoil

And what's up with the suicide talk? Where'd that come from?

I hope that a dog bites you, just because you're an attention whore.

The elephant in the room with klimmer?

Not a fukking one of us knows what kind

of relationship this freakshow needs.

I'm learning a lot of patience

Men Have Biological Clocks Too, Sperm Study Says
John Roach
for National Geographic News
June 6, 2006
Note to men: You've got a biological clock too, and it's ticking.

It's not just women who face decreased reproductive success with age. The genetic quality of
sperm deteriorates as men get older, according to a new study.

Starting in their 20s, men face steadily increasing chances of infertility, fathering an unsuccessful
pregnancy, and passing on to their children a genetic mutation that causes dwarfism, according
to the study.

The finding comes as more and more men are delaying fatherhood. Since 1980 U.S. birth rates
have increased up to 40 percent for men aged 35 to 49 and decreased up to 20 percent for men
under the age of 30, according to the research.

Studies have also shown that it takes longer for older men to conceive.

"We [now] know the probability for certain types of DNA damage goes up with age, and we can
give you a mathematical probability," said Andrew Wyrobek, a researcher at the Lawrence
Livermore National Laboratory in Livermore, California.

The higher the percentage of a man's sperm that has DNA damage, the less likely he will be able
to successfully father a healthy child, Wyrobek added.

Wyrobek is a co-lead author of the new study, which appears in today's issue of the journal
Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

Researchers have long known that female fertility decreases with age. The longer women delay
reproduction, the greater their risk of miscarriage and giving birth to children with diseases such
as Down syndrome.

Female fertility abruptly ends with the onset of menopause.

"Our research suggests that men too have a biological time clock, only it is different," Brenda
Eskenzai, a study co-author at the University of California, Berkeley's School of Public Health,
said in a statement.

"Men seem to have a gradual rather than an abrupt change in fertility and in the potential ability
to produce viable healthy offspring."


In the study, Wyrobek, Eskenzai, and colleagues examined the genetic quality of sperm from 97
healthy, nonsmoking men between the ages of 22 and 80. The men were current and retired
employees of the Livermore laboratory.

The study sample included at least 15 men from each ten-year period from 20 to 60 years of
age and 25 men 60 to 80 years old.

In earlier research on the same sperm samples, the team found that sperm count, mobility, and
the ability of sperm to move in a straight line declines with age. The new research shows that
mobility has a high correlation with DNA fragmentation.

The new study also found that men face increased risk of fathering children with achondroplasia,
a genetic mutation that causes a form of dwarfism.

The condition stunts bone growth; affected individuals have short arms and legs and grow to
only about 4 feet (1.2 meters) tall.

As women grow older, they are more likely to give birth to a baby with Down syndrome. Not so
for men, apparently.

However, the study found no general correlation among male age and chromosome changes that
cause Down syndrome.

Even so, 4 of the 97 men were at increased risk for transmitting multiple genetic and
chromosomal defects, according to the results. Age may have nothing to do with these subjects'
condition, though; one was in his 20s and three were over 60.

Interestingly, Wyrobek added, the sperm in the Lawrence Livermore sample showed no increase
with age in Apert syndrome, a disfiguring birth defect.

However, the likelihood of fathering a child with Apert increased with age in men from inner-city
Baltimore, Maryland, tested by researchers at the Johns Hopkins Medical Center for a different
study.

Wyrobek cautioned against reading too much into the Baltimore study group's results, since they
were all from men who lived in the same area.

"There're other things going on besides age. … It could be socioeconomic, or diet, or ethnicity."

Further studies, he added, will examine the Apert syndrome factor in greater detail.

Don't Panic

Craig Niederberger is a urologist at the University of Illinois in Chicago. He said the research
findings are interesting and warrant further study. But he cautioned that the technique used to
test the DNA of sperm is new and controversial.

"Older men should not yet be concerned about fathering children. The evidence is still
inconclusive," he said.

According to Niederberger, who is president of the Society for Male Reproduction and Urology,
researchers need to examine the integrity of sperm DNA with other methods before sounding
alarms about male infertility.

Nevertheless, he said, the finding that a genetic mutation that leads to dwarfism increases with
age is cause for "some concern. We ought to pursue it."

Wyrobek said the research raises more questions than answers. But it suggests certain kinds of
DNA damage and genetic defects go up with age.

Bottom line: "There are consequences of delaying fatherhood," he said.

Bigamy is having one too many wives.
Marriage is the same.
    Oscar Wilde

Lady Scarlet,
I'm more of a mid-August hey-day than a December and have viable swimmers, however, I've got some silver in my straw and have already fullfilled the biological imperative. Now, i've got no interest in joining a five-top of silverbacks but you're damn hot and I wouldn't mind being in the picture.So, in a word, " Heeeeeeeey!