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Fritz

Trad climber
Choss Creek, ID
Jan 29, 2013 - 04:47pm PT
Tar: A great introspective question.
A life without climbing?

Strangely, although I was very outdoor oriented in my youth, I was not into “risky-schist” before climbing. The fact that I was a 3rd rate athlete may have had something to do with that.

So-------I was doing fly-fishing, hiking, skiing and drugs by the time I took up roped climbing at age 19, but what would have replaced the adrenaline rush I do so enjoy from scaring myself climbing?

Kayaking? Due to climbing contacts I became a river guide, but never was much at kayaking.

Sky-diving? I had friends I met through climbing that were sky-divers. Heidi was a sky-diver and had no climbing background when I met her. I think I would have been bored spit-less by all the standing around, and the party-life would have been the death of me.

Hang-gliding???? I’d be dead or a vegetable.

Let’s be honest here, I’m among friends-----right?

Half the enjoyment of climbing was: for the first time in my life----I was something besides a nerd!

Women ---or at least some of the more interesting women around me, thought climbers were cool!

Woohoo! I had a social life and the adrenaline rush both!
High-scool senior cautious nerd.
High-scool senior cautious nerd.
Credit: Fritz
1971, 4 years later.  Smelly, but confident climber/hippie.
1971, 4 years later. Smelly, but confident climber/hippie.
Credit: Fritz


I guess the only alternative career path would have been to become a piano-player in a whorehouse.

Sigh.

T Hocking

Trad climber
Redding, Ca
Jan 29, 2013 - 05:01pm PT
Damn Fritz, at first glace I thought it was Buddy Holly!

edit: T Hocking, love your attitude. I'll be in Yosemite the entire month of May....come down and tie in.

Honored Jim and thanks for the kind words and generous offer.
Already have a week in May set aside for kayak fishing on the big blue
out of Shelter Cove, so my wife approved road trip time may be in the red.
If you find yourself in my neck of the woods needing a belay give me a shout. Good luck with the NIAD, I'll be rootin for ya!!
Tad




Fritz

Trad climber
Choss Creek, ID
Jan 29, 2013 - 05:12pm PT
T Hocking! Re. your comment:
Damn Fritz, at first glace I thought it was Buddy Holly!

I am always bothered looking at those old photos of Buddy Holly. At least he could sing his way to overcoming his nerdish looks.
mhay

climber
Reno, NV
Jan 29, 2013 - 05:18pm PT
I couldn't really pull climbing out of my past and remove it by itself. I grew up backpacking, moved into more demanding travel routes through the mountains and desert as I became a teenager. By the time I was 20 I wanted to get even better at 3rd classing stuff, even though I didn't know at the time that that is what it is called, so I learned how to rock climb. I figured it would be good practice for mountaineering, but quickly figured out how much fun it was in it's own right. It was not introduced to me, I searched it out. For me, it's just another way to travel in and experience wilderness areas. There's also walking, skiing, boating, and running. Risk is not the top of the list for why I take part in activities that others may consider risky. Some people may observe an activity that they view as risky, and their focus is the riskiness. However, there are other reasons for engaging in those activities; natural beauty of the area, self-reliance, connecting with partners, the ability to ignore the rest of the world for a little while and focus on simple and immediate problems.
donini

Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
Jan 29, 2013 - 05:25pm PT
Don't undersell yoursef Fritz....Heidi told me that when you're in the shower there emanates from therein the dulcet tones of a Nightingale.
Tarbuster

climber
right here, right now
Topic Author's Reply - Jan 29, 2013 - 07:17pm PT
Thanks for humoring me everyone!
So much good stuff in here and a somewhat busy homework assignment to boot up for. Ha ha.

Why didn't I just say: "dude, what's your back story?". It's the antecedents to climbing that I was looking for and that are coming out so well here.

Donini is correct: what you didn't do is pure conjecture. Using the phrase life without climbing was used more as a hook than anything, but it serves to get the juices of reflection going because it's a subtractive tactic, to see what's underneath.

After carefully reading these, the first nugget I'm gleaning here is that nobody sits down with a beer in high school and thinks to themselves: man I really need to get me some risk and adrenaline happenin' for my bad self ... Where should I turn? We are simply drawn to activities.

Micronut nailed that one:
but its what's around the next bend in life that fascinates me most.

We are all highly curious cats, drawn to places in life that for reasons perhaps not yet so well understood, compell us outward, beyond where we stand.
wstmrnclmr

Trad climber
Bolinas, CA
Jan 29, 2013 - 08:06pm PT
Wow Tar, What a great thought provoking thread. And on topic! Parallel lives.......We were so lucky when younger. We actually had a motorcycle shop in middle school! Rode cycles around the school field instead of baseball. Probably the first and last of it's type. And the first ever GP motocross race was held in Marin at China Camp.
Dick Mann ciraca 1971  Photo: Dave Duffin
Dick Mann ciraca 1971 Photo: Dave Duffin
Credit: wstmrnclmr
That's me lower left holding the helmet about '70 or 71' and that's Dick "Bugsy" Mann who just won the AMA championship. He came out and flat tracked the ball field for us.

Your line about motocross being dangerous and getting in the way of climbing so true although they both are very individualistic sports. But interesting how many here share cycling in our pasts.

I started climbing later (31) and found climbing to be the only thing that could make me focus so intensely and take me as close to meditation as I'll ever come. And that reason still keeps going now. But you are right in that perspectives change due to physical and life changes. The favorite book you read in your youth maybe a completely different read later in life. But that focus is what keeps me climbing. It used to be about goals and numbers but now it's about the experience. And none of us has more or less fun or adventure then anyone else. It really has become relative. So that singular reason for climbing is still much the same as when I started.
Surfing was and still is the parallel to climbing and is also an individual pursuit. I think most who come to climbing are very unique characters for the most part but still, somehow find their people.
Someone on another thread said that the generation before mine thought of athletic pursuit as having a short shelf life and thought that in the case of climbing, you were done by the time you were thirty and you moved on to more serious life pursuits. That perception seems to have changed dramatically and many of us feel that we can climb, at whatever level until old age. Maybe we look at what climbing, as a pursuit means to us differently? But certainly age brings us pause to look back with perspective as you have done Tar. Thanks for a great thread. It's why I come back.
Tarbuster

climber
right here, right now
Topic Author's Reply - Jan 29, 2013 - 08:27pm PT
wstrmrnclmr: I was just reading about Dick Mann the other day. He and some of those other 60s & 70s guys still ride and race from what I've understood.

Sports car racing guys: I'd like to know what years you were involved. Again I was just a spectating kid, my old man was a turn worker. I got to see the 1971 'n 1972 Can Am Series: Dennis Hulme in the McLaren, Jackie Stewart in the Lola T260. Followed by the Penske/Donohue Porsche 917 10K 30 dominance which essentially ended it. The Shadows were cool, but didn't get it sorted out in time. Big bore racing like that hasn't been seen since, except perhaps Group B rallying in the mid-80s? Other names of less heralded but keen campaigners come to mind, Milt Mintner, Lothar Motschenbacher, Scooter Patrick, Dennis Hobbs & many more. My father liked to call the guys who could really get it on Doers.
weezy

climber
Jan 29, 2013 - 08:30pm PT
october 1990: got chucked out of the back of a pickup truck that was trying to evade a police car. dislocated pelvis, shattered wrist, yada yada. had a month in traction to re-consider the kind of people i was hanging out with. had a dream about snowboarding in powder so i got a board and clipped tickets at mt. baldy (mt. san antonio). quit hanging out with shitbags and thugs. snowboarder friend was a climber and i prayed he would never asked me to go because i though that sh#t was bananas. he asked anyway and i had to go because i didn't want to look like a punk. climbed some chossy 5.7 underneath the bridge in victorville. saw a picture of the southwest face of el cap and was hooked. climbed a bunch over the next ten years, never sent anything harder than 11+ but whatever. utility player mostly. then i moved to moab and got a mountain bike. solo rides with the pooch started to appeal to me more than digging for partners to go flounder up the sandstone. legs got strong, arms got weak. then i had an accident last september that took me out of the game for a while. tendons, nerves and my ulnar artery. the hard sends are behind me. i'll probably never climb 5.12 but i have my eye on some chossy easy towers and domes with a summit brewski clanking around in my pack. i do want to send standing rock so i'm going to have to get it together at some point. but i'm definitely riding my dirtbike out there for that. and that's where we're at, a climbing career thusfar bookended by serious injury to my left wrist. tommy caldwell is trying to send the hardest route ever with half an index finger so i guess i have no excuse.

see you at the crags.
drljefe

climber
El Presidio San Augustin del Tucson
Jan 29, 2013 - 08:36pm PT
Good reads up in here!

Thanks for starting a proper thread tarbuster!
wilbeer

Mountain climber
honeoye falls,ny.greeneck alleghenys
Jan 29, 2013 - 08:47pm PT
utility player mostly
if that does not sum up just about everything in my life so far ,i dont know what would.sorry for my mediocrity,hockey,surfing,bouldering ,lifelong cyclist,bc skiing,kayaking and climbing and mountianeering.

i just hope it does not stop

however you arrive,lets hope it was a hell of a ride,great thread,some real inspiring reads.cheers wilbeer
Tarbuster

climber
right here, right now
Topic Author's Reply - Jan 29, 2013 - 08:47pm PT
Thanks Jefe! Glad to be of service.

willbeer: brevity works!

T Hocking: thanks for that wonderful pictorial spread from your father!

Illustrative to say the least:
My parents had told me that when I was a toddler they would often find me
climbing or on the top of furniture or cabinets around the house. They had a tall dresser/armoire that I would climb using the drawer handles for holds, I'd get to the top and just sit up there until they got me down.

Snowmassguy

Trad climber
Calirado
Jan 29, 2013 - 09:10pm PT
Alpine ski racing that led to bordem of organized racing. The goal became to climb steep backcountry lines and ski them. After scaring myself on the climb portion a number of times, I figured it was time to fall in with some true climbers and learn rope skills. College in Boulder and the realization that I was going to kill myself skiing increasingly steeper and more dangerous lines led me to the relative security of the rock :-)
Darwin

Trad climber
Seattle, WA
Jan 29, 2013 - 09:10pm PT
Tarbuster;
thanks for the best concise topic on this forum, except perhaps for the too open-ended "A life with Climbing" thread (sorry if that was said up-thread, I didn't read it all).

()= over-share alert
For me it's just so difficult to imagine. I don't climb enough now; but I do some, and climber is still how I think of myself. I think back to high school (1968) and my mom was dying and I needed something. I hope it wasn't a choice between life and death, but it kind of still feels that way.

dar
Mike Friedrichs

Sport climber
City of Salt
Jan 30, 2013 - 04:45pm PT
Tarbuster,

Really interesting, and pertinent question. I had to have enough time to give it a proper response.

Do you think it was inevitable you'd find something else sort of risky to sharpen your teeth on?

Were you already doing some parallel physical activity, perhaps similar in terms of passion and risk prior to becoming a climber and would you still be doing it instead?

I'm not sure I ever jumped into climbing because I was attracted to risk. I very well may have been attracted to risk but it wasn't conscious. Unlike most of the posters here I wasn't very athletic, I wasn't very strong, and I wasn't particularly good at physical activity. I played violin in the orchestra. PE ruined my GPA. I often ran stairs other than participate in team sports during class. I was on the swim team but I wasn't very good.

What I found when I went climbing was something that I was, or at least could be, good at. It was a big deal. It had a huge effect on my self esteem. I think it changed my life in that it gave me confidence in my career, socially, all those non-climbing things. I was also attracted to the colorful cast of eccentric characters that seemed to populate the sport in those time. Some of those are still great friends. I'm not sure there really was another sport that could have fulfilled me in those ways.

What would that alternate activity to climbing be in your case?

Possibly back-country skiing since most of us do that anyway. Mountain biking? Hard to know.

Has that pursuit evolved to your dis-taste, or diverged from the values which climbing has inculcated within you since you left your earlier path?

This is perhaps the most interesting aspect to this research to me. I think there are negatives, although probably not in the sense many do. I never thought that gear, protection, styles and ethics would remain constant. I'm mostly a sport climber myself these days and love clipping bolts on steep rock. Seems a natural progression.

What concerns me is my reliance on climbing. It is integral to my validation, my happiness, my social life. I'm not sure I like being dependent on something like this as a single source of contentment. What happens if I have an injury that I can't recover from? What happens when I get older and can't crank hard anymore? I'm seriously worried about that.

Climbing has for me been about goals. It doesn't even matter what they are, so much, whether it is a wall on El Cap or the green route in the gym. Those goals, that sense of purpose, seem hard to find a suitable substitute for. For me, it's all about the process of working on those goals, much more so even than the outcome. What would life be like without those little projects to aspire to?

mike
bvb

Social climber
flagstaff arizona
Jan 30, 2013 - 04:50pm PT
Wow Roy, good one! I'm gonna have to think on this, because it pretty hard for me to rembember much about before climbing...but I ca say I was headed in that direction by 4th or 5th grade...
eeyonkee

Trad climber
Golden, CO
Jan 30, 2013 - 05:33pm PT
Seems like I may be a little atypical, but I was totally a jock my whole life. First football/baseball/basketball, then swimming and water polo, and then rock climbing. Well, actually the last two overlapped. When I'm really being honest with myself, I have to admit that I was only a decent football player (receiver), mediocre baseball player, and an average white guy with below-average jumping ability as a basketball player. If it wasn't for climbing, particularly in light of the athletic success of my (4) older brothers in all of the non-climbing sports, sheesh, for all I know I would have committed suicide. There was a particular moment in my baseball "career"...I think I was a freshman in high school. Anyhow, in left field I ran up (that is, towards home plate)on a fly ball that soared over my head (that is 180 degrees away from home plate). I'm sure if I met any of my former team mates, they could and would hold this over me (damn them!)

So what was the question? Oh yeah...I would be some pathetic weekend warrior pondering the fact that I was the 5th-most talented brother in my family in my pathetic little other sport of choice.
Michelle

Social climber
Toshi's Station, picking up power converters.
Jan 30, 2013 - 05:55pm PT
I've always been doing alot of stuff outdoors as well as individual sports or dance. Gymnastics, artistic skating for years, dance, cheerleading (yes, seriously). I started snowboarding but never liked hard lines, more of the big sweeping turns and I like to xc ski. I did some kayaking, but again, nothing extreme. and then..

CLIMBING FINDS YOU

I blew off my engineering degree and haven't looked back. I'm cool with how things turned out, despite the many ups and downs. I wouldn't be the person I am today :)

Tarbuster

climber
right here, right now
Topic Author's Reply - Jan 30, 2013 - 06:13pm PT
Mike Friedrichs answered one of the questions:
question: "Has that pursuit evolved to your dis-taste, or diverged from the values which climbing has inculcated within you since you left your earlier path?"

Answer: This is perhaps the most interesting aspect to this research to me. I think there are negatives, although probably not in the sense many do. I never thought that gear, protection, styles and ethics would remain constant. I'm mostly a sport climber myself these days and love clipping bolts on steep rock. Seems a natural progression.

I know you are a reader Mike so this tells me I didn't pose the question so clearly:

What I'm looking for is a comparison with climbing to your previous passions. And I'm asking if your morals, ethics, worldview and that kind of stuff have changed because of your climbing having taken you to a different place than you were.

For instance: I was into motorsports, they may not be the most ecologically sound pursuits, while conversely, climbing trends in a direction of ecological conscience. So would I now look on motorsports through a different lens, perhaps even negatively. Well, with me particularly the answer is no. But someone else might say: "I saw the light and gave up all of that nasty polluting ripping around in cars and on motorcycles, tearing up the desert and so forth".

Or the flipside might be: "I was a bike racer and that got fouled up by doping so I'm glad to be out of it and glad I didn't stay with it. Climbing is 'cleaner'".
jogill

climber
Colorado
Jan 30, 2013 - 09:53pm PT
It's simple. A life without creativity or discovery would be dreary. Climbing is only one aspect, transitory for most at that.
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