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Kartch
climber
belgrade, mt
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Get well Bobby, your pics are an inspiration for a hack like me.
Sending good vibes your way.
Some Bobby pics are found at this site http://www.coldfear.com/
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Crimpergirl
Social climber
Hell on earth wondering what I did to deserve it
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So sorry to hear this. Sending positive thoughts...
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Wild Bill
climber
Ca
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Hope this turns out OK. Peace to his friends and family. Here's a pic from the Trango Tower free climb:
Jeff Bechtel, Todd Skinner, Mike Lilygren, and Bobby Model.
Peace,
Bill McMahon
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feelio Babar
Trad climber
Sneaking up behind you...
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Much postive energy to Bobby...and family.
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elemental
Gym climber
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Hey everyone, I know most of you have probably heard, but here is the latest update on Bobby's situation:
Please pass this along -
Information is scant at this point but what I have heard from Faith (Bobby's sister) is that Bobby, Faith and two others were in a car together when someone deliberately threw a cinder block type object through the window – not sure if it was through the windshield, the side window or directly into the car – and it hit Bobby in the head. He suffered severe trauma to his brain and underwent brain surgery yesterday. He came out of the surgery and is stable now having been out of surgery for more than half a day. The critical step is remaining stable for the next 36 or so hours. Anne is on her way to Cape Town right now and should arrive this evening our time (tomorrow morning in Cape Town). I’ll send along information about Bobby’s condition as I learn more.
He’ll be heartened to learn that so many people are concerned and thinking of him right now.
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elemental
Gym climber
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From the Cape Town newspaper:
AN international adventure photographer, who has survived working in war zones and remote mountain ascents, is fighting for his life after his bakkie was stoned on Baden Powell Drive on Thursday.
Last year Bobby Model, 34, an American visiting Cape Town from his home in Kenya, was named by the National Geographic So¬ciety as one of their “emerging explorers”.
This is a title bequeathed annually to what they describe as “dynamic personalities who are making a significant contribution to world knowledge through exploration”.
Model was being driven by his sister, Faith, 32, from Stellenbosch to Scarborough about 2pm to visit a friend when their vehicle was hit near the Monwabisi resort.
He had been in Cape Town for just two days and was due to have left for Johannesburg yesterday.
Instead he is in a critical condition on life-support in the Vergelegen Medi-Clinic in Somerset West. His sister has been at his bedside since the incident.
Faith’s partner, South African Hans Pieter Bakker, said the pair had been driving his vehicle, a Nissan bakkie twin cab, when it was hit by “a chunk of concrete about the size of a melon”. The rock smashed through the windscreen and hit Model in the head. His sister was not hurt.
Bakker, a former Cape Argus journalist who also lives in Kenya where he works in the field of emerging media, was back in Stellenbosch on a sabbatical when Model came to South Africa for a break. This was his first visit to Cape Town.
“He’d been here for just two days and fell in love with Cape Town overnight,” said Bakker. “We visited Franschhoek and also went climbing. Bobby was really upbeat about this place - he was even talking about buying property here.
“He’s an amazing guy, a great climber and a great photographer.”
Model and his sister are from Wyoming, where he started rock climbing at the age of 15.
After completing a degree in environmental economics he did an internship with Rich Clarkson, a former director of photography at National Geographic Magazine.
In a brief biography on the National Geographic Emerging Explorers website, Model wrote after covering an incident in Sudan’s civil war: “Moments like this make me realise that wherever we are, people have certain universal emotions. We’re really all the same. I hope my work in these places will have some sort of meaning, bring new awareness, and help change situations.”
He also wrote: “Sometimes I have to kick myself when I take my life for granted.”
Police spokeswoman Inspector Bernadine Steyn confirmed the incident occurred at 2pm on Baden Powell Drive, near the Harare area of Khayelitsha as the Model siblings were driving towards Muizenberg.
She said no arrests had been made. Police were investigating a case of attempted murder.
Susan Muller, spokeswoman for Vergelegen Medi-Clinic, said Model was in the intensive care unit. “He is in critical condition. His sister has been at his beside. I cannot tell you more than that.”
In the past year there has been a spate of stone-throwing on Cape Town's busiest roads, particularly on the notorious N2 hell run. Last year this road claimed the life of Nolan Daniels after a brick was hurled through his windscreen.
In March a vagrant was arrested for after two stone-throwing incidents on the M3.Two motorists were driving towards Claremont when their vehicles were hit by stones shortly after 5pm. No one was injured
In June last year, community safety MEC Leonard Ramatlakane launched a plan to boost policing on highways.
He said patrols on key routes - the N2, the R300, the N1 and the M3 - were to be boosted. The police agreed to deploy 26 dedicated patrol officers, the Metro police 40, and provincial traffic 26. A total of 46 vehicles were to be deployed, up from the seven already in use. Ramatlakane also promised that the city would repair inactive closed-circuit television cameras on major routes.
Anyone with information can contact Superintendent Andrew Tobias at the Harare Police station on (021) 363 9031.
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Jerry Dodrill
climber
Bodega, CA
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speachless. Many prayers going out to you brother.
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Lambone
Ice climber
Ashland, Or
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Man, very sad...I hope he pulls through. I met Bobby in his stomping grounds of the South Fork Ice Climbing area. He was very welcoming towards us.
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wiclimber
Trad climber
devil's lake, wi
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This is a terrible accident. Positive vibes go out to him and his family/friends.
I hope they catch the f^cker that did it, but more important, I hope he recovers from it.
Bobby is obviously very talented and well liked.
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Ed Hartouni
Trad climber
Livermore, CA
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hoping for a good outcome
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horst
Trad climber
Lancaster, PA
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My prayers are with you Bobby.
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paganmonkeyboy
Trad climber
the blighted lands of hatu
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Very Sad Indeed. Sending some positive energy...
Tom
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Laura Francis-Brown
Social climber
Cody
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Jun 10, 2007 - 11:44am PT
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Wishing Bobby all the best from his friends here in Cody. We all want him to come home to us.
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Crimpergirl
Social climber
Hell on earth wondering what I did to deserve it
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Jun 10, 2007 - 10:36pm PT
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Any update? I know these first days after such an accident are informative for long-term prognosis. Hoping to hear some good news.
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 11, 2007 - 11:10am PT
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This came today from one of Bobby's friends in SA:
Dear Friends
Bobby's condition is unchanged. Please know that we will inform you as soon as practically possible by email as soon as anything substantive changes.
Bobby's girlfriend Mariella and Faith have been at his side from the beginning. They have kept up a constant vigil. They talk to him and touch him all the time.
Anne, Faith and Bobby’s mom, who arrived yesterday morning, has been a tremendous support to us all and late last night Anne Walton, a very good friend of both Bobby and Faith arrived. Bob Model, Bobby's dad, is arriving tomorrow evening.
To all the many offers to fly in and help us out, thanks very, very much. For now, we are doing OK. But it is good to know that there is so much support out there.
Hans-Peter
"Sometimes I have to kick myself when I take my life for granted,"..."I've been fortunate to go so many places and witness so many amazing human moments. I'll never forget sitting on a rock shelf in the hill country of northern Kenya. The moon was rising and drums began sounding from a village far below. Nothing was staged; it was all perfectly real. Hearing that ceremony at the beginning of a new millennium, 300 miles from the nearest power grid, was just unbelievable." Bobby Model 2006
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Crimpergirl
Social climber
Hell on earth wondering what I did to deserve it
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Jun 11, 2007 - 11:16am PT
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Thanks for the update. Best wishes...
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Wild Bill
climber
Ca
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Jun 11, 2007 - 12:22pm PT
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Micro, yes Bobby was on the Trango climb with Skinner et al. (I posted a pic above). I believe the thing with Steve's wife went unresolved, with clues filtering out of the community but no resolution. The Wyoming crew has been hit hard this last year indeed.
Best wishes to all as we stand by to hear more about Bobby's condition.
Bill
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Erynne Selk
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 11, 2007 - 01:26pm PT
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Hans-Peter,
Thank you so much for keeping us informed. Please relay to Faith that we are praying for and thinking of Bobby. If we could physically be there, we would. Know that we are there in spirit and a minute does not go by that we are not thinking of your family.
We love you. Tell Bobby we're here.
Erynne, Ryan, Jan, Jake, Heather, Lyon, Nick, Meg, Jay, H.R., Hollywood
(we have all been in phone contact and will continue to pray together and encourage positive thoughts)
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 11, 2007 - 01:50pm PT
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Dear friends
Today was tough.
Bobby had a brain scan this morning. The doctors tell us that his condition
has deteriorated. The contusion appears to have spread and is putting
pressure on his brain stem. He is not in any pain and his vitals are being
kept stable. He has not regained consciousness.
We expect some additional procedures tomorrow and will let you know the
outcome.
The hospital and the nurses continue to be tremendously supportive and
professional.
Bob, his dad, is arriving later tonight.
Love from all of us
Anne, Anne, Faith, Mariella, Peter and Hans-Peter
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Crimpergirl
Social climber
Hell on earth wondering what I did to deserve it
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Jun 11, 2007 - 01:51pm PT
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Thanks for taking the time to let us know.
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Mees
climber
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Jun 11, 2007 - 02:46pm PT
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Hey Cody folks,
warm wishes to all of you!
People all over the world are praying for Bobby.
He is one of the toughest, resilient guys i've ever met.
Sometimes things get a little worse BEFORE they get better and that is clearly the case here. Thanks for the updates from SA, while I am almost scared to answer the phone or read the news, it's good to have an update from the source.
The most positive healing energy I can conjure is sent to Bobby,
Bob, Anne, Faith the Nielsons and all the rest of you great people that are assisting.
Let's keep our heads up.
PS GOD please get cracking on this Bobby is a busy guy!
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jun 11, 2007 - 02:52pm PT
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I met Bobby and the Cody Gang at the University of Wyoming. Bobby actually took me on one of my first climbs at Ve da Voo. I have always thought Bobby was amazing.
This whole situation saddens me and my family deeply.
I work in medicine now , and know they do amazing things, I have hope. I think Bobby is strong, and with loved ones at his side, and positive thoughts and prayers from around the world he can pull through.
Heather and Jake Cowden
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Scott Bragonier
climber
Cody Native
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Jun 11, 2007 - 03:07pm PT
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I wanted to reiterate what Erynne and the others have said, thank you for keeping us informed. We are all hanging on for each bit of information, so than you for the updates. I know I’m not the only one who feels so helpless being this far away. Pat’s right about things getting worse before getting better. I have a co-worker who suffered a very similar head injury, and was left in the same state as Bobby. Like Bobby, after several days he took a turn for the worse. He was unconscious and unresponsive for over six weeks, and then slowly he came around. I don’t think anything can keep Bobby down for long. Bob, Anne, and Faith, we love you and our prayers are with you and Bobby.
Scott Bragonier
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
real eyes realize real life
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Jun 11, 2007 - 03:34pm PT
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best wishes to the friends and family. i'm sending prayers for him.
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Kcj27511
climber
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Jun 11, 2007 - 04:31pm PT
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We echo all of the above sentiments and send prayers for Bobby's recovery and strength for his family.
Keri and Kelley Peterson
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Katy and Joe Asay
climber
worland, wy
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Jun 11, 2007 - 05:57pm PT
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It's amazing how tragedy reminds us what is really important in this life-the lives that we touch and the memories that we make. Bobby has touched lives and created memories all over the world, and now we are all united by that. I have not spent much time with Bobby in many years, but seeing his photography shows me what an amazing person he is, and makes me hopeful for his recovery. We are praying for him, and for you, Faithy, and for your family.
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TYeary
Mountain climber
Calif.
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Jun 11, 2007 - 06:02pm PT
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Hoping for a complete and speedy recovery for Bobby.
Good thoughts spinning out into space for you Bobby.
Tony
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nita
climber
chico ca
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Jun 11, 2007 - 08:03pm PT
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Thoughts of healing and prayers, for you Bobby.
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SDM
climber
NY, NY
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Jun 11, 2007 - 08:20pm PT
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Stay strong Faith. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sean
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Cruiser
Mountain climber
Cody
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Jun 11, 2007 - 11:36pm PT
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My deepest sympathy and prayers for my friend and climbing student Bobby Model. My Brother Todd and I taught Bobby the art of alpine exploration. His vision of the outdoors and the people of other cultures is a true inspiration to us all. Let us hope for recovery for him and peace to his family.
Sincerely,
Kirt D. Cozzens
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Largo
Sport climber
Venice, Ca
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Jun 12, 2007 - 12:21am PT
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Sending supportive thoughts!
JL
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kswope
Social climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 12, 2007 - 02:22am PT
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Dear Faith, Anne and Bob,
Words cannot express our deepest regret given these circumstances... but know our innermost hopes and prayers are with you and your family. We agonize together, in hopes you find both spritual and physical strength from our love and friendship we share.
Love,
Ken and Fran Swope
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Mr. Southfork
Ice climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 12, 2007 - 09:55am PT
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I'm totally torn up by this terrible situation.... Bobby has always been one of the most positive, outgoing and enthusiastic characters in the small community of Cody. Thanks to all for the updates. My thoughts are focused on a quick and total recovery.
Sincerely,
Todd G. Cozzens
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handsome B
Gym climber
SL,UT
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Jun 12, 2007 - 12:18pm PT
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I never met Bobby but his talent and enthusiasm is undeniable.
Best wishes to his friends and family.
Be strong Bobby.
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Betsy Goodyear
climber
Patadise Valley, Arizona
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Jun 12, 2007 - 12:29pm PT
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Faith, Anne, Jim et al: We send love and prayers of support. Be strong. Betsy and Frank
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Joan Donner
Social climber
Colorado Springs, CO
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Jun 12, 2007 - 01:34pm PT
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THOUGHTS and PRAYERS to all of you. Sending our dearest love! Joan & Bob
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 12, 2007 - 02:16pm PT
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Hello Models,
We are with you all.Doctors do amazing things anymore,I'm living proof.Bobby I'm here, pull on me !I'll let you know when you have had enough. Great to read notes from the group of family Bobby has developed over the years. Your Pardo's JOE
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mark musser
Social climber
cody, wy
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Jun 12, 2007 - 02:42pm PT
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bobby, family & friends
bobby,
You are in our thoughts & prayers. I know everyone here in Cody is pulling for you!
Bob, Anne, Faith & friends
You are in our thoughts & prayers also. We wish the best for you & bobby! Remember that you are being thought of..
Thanks for the updates.
Mark Musser & family
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kdriese
Social climber
Laramie, WY
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Jun 12, 2007 - 02:51pm PT
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As is true of everyone I've been thinking of Bobby and family ever since first getting the news of the accident from Steve Bechtel. Also spreading the word to old friends who all went to school here in Laramie with Bobby. Just wanted to write to let family know that lots of people who they may not have heard from directly are thinking of them. Best, Ken Driese.
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 12, 2007 - 03:24pm PT
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THE LATEST INFORMATION FROM BOBBY'S SISTER, FAITH:
Dearest friends and family,
This is Faith writing. I don't know that there are words to express how your
love, support, thoughts, prayers and warmth have been gently carrying us
through this time of deep pain and confusion. I'm at a loss for words other
than to tell you that my brother is surrounded by your love and prayers and
hope--it permeates every inch of the ICU and I find the nurses and doctors
are also struck by the constant stream of loving support that surrounds my
brother. You are all an extraordinary gift to Bobby and to us all. But I
know especially that Bobby is deeply deeply touched by your loving words,
warm thoughts and most of all sincere hope.
There is not much news today. Little changes here and there and he has a
chest infection, but they will change his antibiotics. We will keep you
updated, of course.
I'm sorry we haven't been able to answer messages personally, but know that
we are ever grateful and that Bobby is receiving everything.
We are all sending love and thanks,
Faith
One more thing: I just want to say that everyday we witness small and
wonderful miracles. We've had strangers who have read about Bobby in the
newspaper travel far distances to the hospital with tears in their eyes just
to see if we were okay and needed any assistance.
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Big B
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 12, 2007 - 03:36pm PT
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Everyone here at KBL Technologies send our best wishes and prayers to Bobby, Faith, and family. We have known Bobby and Faith since high school and know them to be strong people.
Our thoughts are with the Model Family!
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Jun 12, 2007 - 03:40pm PT
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God love and cherish Bobby.
Much love, Sharon and Bill Baker
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Wendy Cortez
climber
Cody
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Jun 12, 2007 - 03:55pm PT
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Faith and Family,
I am deeply saddened to hear about Bobby, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time.
Love, Wendy
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JBoydston
climber
Dirty South
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Jun 12, 2007 - 04:05pm PT
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Bobby was one of the first real climbers I met growing up in Cody. He was about 4-5 years older than I and I looked up to him greatly at the time, partly because I was shocked that any of the real climbers would give a teenage noob the time of day, and of course he was already an excellent climber back then. I've enjoyed keeping tabs on his accomplishments over the years and am very saddened to hear of this tragedy.
My humble prayers for the best go out to Bobby, Faith and the rest of the Models.
Jeremy Boydston
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Pink Way
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 12, 2007 - 04:38pm PT
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We were totaly devastated upon hearing about Bobby's accident. Not only having been a neighbor watching Bobby and Faith grow up, but also having our son work for Bobby, we have kept up with his activities over the years. Bobby has been a mentor for Loren and I know they still communicate. Our thoughts are with all of you and we pray for a full recovery.
Love, Pink, Jack and Loren Way
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ronald
Social climber
bainbridge island, Wa
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Jun 12, 2007 - 05:32pm PT
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We're visualizing positive change for Bobby. All our love to him and everyone encircling him. Karen Burke & Drew Reynolds
love you missy!!!!!!
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Jun 12, 2007 - 06:42pm PT
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Hello Models-
As everyone is, I too am sending thoughts and prayers your way. Please know that I am here to give you as much support as your family gave to me when Tyler passed.
Hang in there Bobby...
Love you guys-
Talia Chambers-Kenney/Chris Kenney
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Maleski
climber
Bozeman
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Jun 12, 2007 - 06:49pm PT
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bobby,
You've come a long way since the bridge bands, touching lives and accomplishing purposeful feats way beyond the scope of climbing. There is a world of people pulling for you and your family. Our hopes and prayers are with all of you.
Pete and Teri Maleski
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GhoulweJ
Trad climber
Sacramento, CA
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Jun 12, 2007 - 09:20pm PT
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Big positive vibes going your way.
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Erynne Selk
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 12, 2007 - 10:36pm PT
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Faith,
I've been struggling- wanting to talk to you, not being able to reach you, wondering whether it's appropriate to try. I need you to know that I'm thinking of you every second and if you do need me, I'm here any second. Don't look at the time, just call 272-9019.
I'm sorry for the lack of discretion, but this is the only way I know to reach you right now.
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kaloo
climber
CO
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Jun 12, 2007 - 11:10pm PT
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Anne and all the family - My thoughts and prayers are with you - you have so much support from all over the world - much love, Kathy Loo
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Cole Greer
climber
Red Lodge MT
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Jun 12, 2007 - 11:11pm PT
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Models
Our thoughts go out to you. I hope everything turns out o.k.
Cole
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EmilyDusel
climber
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Jun 12, 2007 - 11:58pm PT
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Model Family,
Sending our love and good thoughts your way.
-Clay, Emily and Madelyn
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jet
climber
red lodge mt
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Jun 13, 2007 - 12:13am PT
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Anne,Bob,and Faith Keep the strong possitive attitudes. time has a way of healing. All our thoughts and energy are with you all. Your pal Kerry and family
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char
Social climber
cody,wy
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Jun 13, 2007 - 12:21am PT
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Bobby and Family
We are sending all our prayers and hopes for all of you. Bobby, you have a lot of dreams to fulfill and the energy to live them. God is with you Mike and Char Stewart-McCue
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HR Coe
climber
Cody,WY
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Jun 13, 2007 - 01:53am PT
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I just wanted to say that myself and my family are all praying for bobby. Sometimes life really stinks how bad things happen to good people, but all we can do is pray for bobby and hope for a speedy recovery. He is one of the most resilient people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing and I have no doubt that if anyone can persevere through an accident like this one it is bobby. To Bob, Anne, and Faith my prayers are with all of you and if there is anything I or my family can do to help you through this time please let me know.
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Crimpergirl
Social climber
Hell on earth wondering what I did to deserve it
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Jun 13, 2007 - 09:13am PT
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Does anyone have some photos of Bobby? They'd be great to see here.
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 13, 2007 - 09:14am PT
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"Bobby, a budding photographer as well as talented climber, had a reputation for being unkillable. The twenty-two-year-old Cody, Wyoming, native had recently graduated from the University of Wyoming and was primed for adventure. His gangly length and elvish features belied his deliberate nature. I found out he was steady, and he was unstoppable. Bobby would become the most fearless member of our expedition..."
-Todd Skinner, Beyond the Summit
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Mees
climber
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Jun 13, 2007 - 09:58am PT
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I wanted to express my thanks to Chris McNamara and the staff at Supertopo for providing a forum like this for us to commune. Also, I'd like to thank the many climbers and others who post here for their encouraging words and their amazing compassion.
Bobby and I had just bolted a route at the island in Cody. We were pulling the rope and a baseball sized chunk of granite that we had missed when we were cleaning screamed down and cracked him right above the eye. I was horrified, Bobby turned white and was screaming, I applied direct pressure to the wound and tried to calm him and myself as we groveled through the tunnels to the car. We raced to the hospital with all kinds of scary thoughts , Bobby was on the verge of going into shock. We got to the E-room, Bobby got some stitches and had a few tests and was turned loose. He had a world class shiner but other than that was healthy and happy.
Cyclops was out climbing again a few days later!
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Jun 13, 2007 - 10:46am PT
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Bobby has been a great friend since grade school. I remember when he was 14 and couldn't drive. I was 17 and his mom let us take her new Saab up to Sleeping Giant to go skiing one morning. We were testing it out, you know seeing what it could do on the way home and got chased by the highway patrol. I was driving and he was giving me updates on how close the cop was while we were out running him. We were both scared, but having way too much fun to stop. To try to lose the cop, we drove up to one of the old lodges and hid out for a couple of hours, then drove home, on the lookout. That about sums up my friend ship with Bobby over the years. There were always cops, high speeds and fun times all through highschool and college.
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 13, 2007 - 10:49am PT
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To the Model Family- This tragic event has saddened my heart greatly. I talk to Bobby regurlarly when he is next door, sometimes holding his mail, other times just to say "Hi". You are all in my thoughts and prayers and I hope for a speedy recovery, just as this network of friends here do. Anne, I am thinking of you alot during this time. I can't imagine what it must be like to have a precious child in this situation. My heart goes out to you and Bob both.
Sincerely,
Janet Cozzens
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Ricki
Sport climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 13, 2007 - 11:00am PT
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We were very upset to hear about Bobby. Thank you for all of the updates on his situation. We all appreciate it and it is obvious how many people from everywhere he has made a great impression on. Thoughts and prayers in your direction Bobby to get back to inspiring us all through your adventures and photos. Our photo professor in Laramie, K.S., also sends his best regards.
Get better Bobby, you have ALOT of people pulling for you!
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jun 13, 2007 - 11:42am PT
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Faith,
Please let Bobby know that Sonja Kireilis and I continue to pull for him. Every ounce of positive energy is being sent to him every minute. Even though we don't get to hang out anymore like we all did in College, we need Bobby out there doing what he does. He is a hero. We want to see more photos and cruise threw his website imaging what it would be like If we could be on his next adventure. He needs to cause some more trouble with Jake and Lyon, Selk,and Nick!!! Keep fighting Bobby!!!
Love Heather and Sonja.
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betsysell
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 13, 2007 - 11:53am PT
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Faith, Anne, Jim, and Bob,
All of us here in Cody have you all and Bobby in our thoughts and prayers!
Dan and Betsy Sell
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Bill Rohrbach
climber
Cody,Wyo
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Jun 13, 2007 - 12:20pm PT
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Bob, Anne, Faith and friends: Faith, we really appreciate your up-date. You and Bobby have been in our family’s constant thoughts and prayers since we first heard of the incident. We are all confident that if anyone can overcome the odds, Bobby can. Very few have his determination, tenacity and inter-strength. And he has the love, support and prayers of many as expressed on this website. We love you guys. The Rohrbachs
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kelly jackson
Social climber
Cody/Laramie
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Jun 13, 2007 - 01:34pm PT
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Hi from laramie,
Faith, I believe Bobby will pull through this. You and your family have always been so kind and so positive to everyone you come in contact with and that amazing energy you have will be there for you when you all need it the most. Please tell Bobby to keep fighting!
Love to all of you,
Kelly and Tommy Jackson
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Caryn-Cole's sister
Social climber
Minneapolis, MN
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Jun 13, 2007 - 01:42pm PT
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I remember Bobby as a ski racer back in the day! My thoughts and prayer are with Bobby and your family. Hope all ends well.
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Chris Mees
climber
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Jun 13, 2007 - 01:51pm PT
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To Ann, Bob, and Faith, my thoughts and deepest spirits are with all of you. Bobby, everyone is pulling for you, hang in there my freind. It has been amazing to watch you accomplish everything you have done, and we want more! Hang in there Bobby.
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Patrick Sawyer
climber
Originally California now Ireland
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Jun 13, 2007 - 02:30pm PT
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I have never met Bobby but I wish him the best. What's the latest on his condition?
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judy
Social climber
Collorado
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Jun 13, 2007 - 02:56pm PT
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Dear Anne and Family, our hearts and love go out to you. Bobby is such a phenomenal person in every way, and a wonderful son and brother as well. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
with love and hope,
judy and Buz Sellers
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Karen Gibbons
climber
Cody/Laramie
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Jun 13, 2007 - 03:14pm PT
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I cannot think of anyone who has climbed more treacherous
landscapes than Bobby, so I know of know one better equiped for this difficult journey. We are all cheering Bobby on as he climbs out of this abyss.
So know this, everyone who knows or knows of Bobby and his family, is praying that he reaches the summit and comes back to all of us.
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gena howald
Trad climber
jackson, wyoming
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Jun 13, 2007 - 03:26pm PT
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Hang in there Bobby! I want to go back, and bag another ascent of the Totem Pole...
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David & All of Us in Greenwich
climber
Greenwich, CT
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Jun 13, 2007 - 04:06pm PT
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Dear Bobby,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and knowing how strong you always are, we pray with all our hearts for your complete and total recovery. Thinking of you and all your family who we know are around you at this shocking moment in your life.
David, Annie, Charlotte, Wells, Field & All of Us in Greenwich
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rhlehman
climber
London (Cody native)
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Jun 13, 2007 - 04:13pm PT
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Dear Models,
I was very saddened to hear about this. I have not been in touch with Bobby for years, so my wife and I have been browsing web sites featuring his work and his story - I am amazed by his achievements and the life he is leading. He truly is someone for you to take great pride in.
My family's thoughts and prayers are with you, and our hearts go out to you. Bobby - pull through.
Ryan & Eugenia Lehman
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Val2
climber
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Jun 13, 2007 - 04:47pm PT
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Sending you warm thoughts and positive vibes. Bobby is a great inspiration. I'm writing as a friend of Kira Salak, a National Geo writer he's worked with on assignments to Libya and Iran. She's always spoken very highly of him. We're pulling for him!
Val Wedel
Columbia, Missouri
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Elaine Bergner
climber
Colorado
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Jun 13, 2007 - 04:53pm PT
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Ann and Faith: We are stunned to hear about this devastating event and send you all of our best thoughts and wishes. Elaine Bergner (Peggy's sis)
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kansaslady
Social climber
Manhattan, KS
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Jun 13, 2007 - 05:24pm PT
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Bobby, we knew you when you were a young man. Bobby, Faith, Ann, and Bob our thoughts and prayers are with you. Clark and Christy Linders
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Fi
Trad climber
Lymington, UK
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Jun 13, 2007 - 06:26pm PT
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My sister, Annabelle Thom, phoned me in tears 4 days ago from Shanghai where she had come to hear of Bobby's accident. She lives in Kenya and is a good friend of Bobby and Mariella. She phoned me to ask if I would call all our friends and family in England to pray for him too. So from all of us as a family and a few larger prayer groups here too, we send our thoughts and deepest wishes for his safe return from that place where he is now. Annabelle sends huge love to him and to you all.
Some years ago she, Annabelle, fell into a coma from cerebral malaria and we waited for ten achingly long days while she slept - half in this world, half in another. We were told by her doctor that almost certainly she wouldn't make it - but a million prayers later she came back on the tenth day. Miracles ARE possible
I pray for light tomorrow for you all.
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Candace DeSarro
Gym climber
Los Angeles
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Jun 13, 2007 - 06:39pm PT
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Hey Bobby I am sending you positive thoughts. You know that you are always in my family's heart and prayers. We are so very proud of you and love you very much. Love you!!! xxoo God Bless!
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Virginia
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 13, 2007 - 07:19pm PT
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When we heard about Bobby's injury, Monte said, "Bobby's a tough kid." He IS a tough kid and we are thinking about him and the rest of the family and send you strength and energy to get through this.
Virginia and Monte Mees
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Nate Weed
Sport climber
Washington
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Jun 13, 2007 - 09:36pm PT
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I just found out about this tragic event and find it difficult to express how sad this makes me. Growing up with Faith and Bobby, my mind is full of positive memories. Although I wish I could do more, I’m sending all the positive energy I can to Bobby. Since Bobby is one person whose indomitable spirit could get him through this, I’m hoping for the best. Also, I’m sure this is an incredibly challenging event for Faith, Anne, and Bob and my thoughts are with them as well.
Nate Weed
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Matt Lyman
climber
Princeton, NJ
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Jun 13, 2007 - 11:09pm PT
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Dear Models,
It was devastating to hear the news about Bobby. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It is obvious that Bobby is loved and respected by so many people, and I too consider him a great example and friend. We wish you the best at this difficult hour.
Matt and Kristin Lyman
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Anastasia
Trad climber
California
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Jun 14, 2007 - 12:25am PT
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Sending prayers and hoping all will be well.
AF
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John Strike
climber
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Jun 14, 2007 - 12:34am PT
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Faith, Ann, Bob and friends; My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Although it has been many years, I know that Bobby still is one of the strongest out there, both physically and in spirit, and I pray that these qualities help to pull him through.
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Susan Diehl
climber
Cody Wyoming
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Jun 14, 2007 - 08:18am PT
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Bob, Ann & Faith....
It's been desvastating news.
Bobby is a special person and has already made such a difference in so many lifes. Keeping all of you in our daily thoughts and prayers.
Ev, Susan, Kelly & Marcy and families....
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Caroline Andrus
climber
CT
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Jun 14, 2007 - 08:53am PT
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Dear Bob, Anne, Faith, Bobby...We have been reading the forum and been moved by the wide network of wonderful friends whose lives Bobby has touched. We are staying physically active but concentrating all our mental energy and love on all of you there. Bobby is surely fighting to get through this with everything he has. You and everyone praying for him now know that if anyone can, he will. Thinking of you constantly and embracing you from afar with love from Dyck and Caroline, Helen, Rachel and Sam.
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 14, 2007 - 09:55am PT
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JUST GOT THIS UPDATE FROM FAITH:
Dear All,
I will now try to take over the updates from
Hans-Peter through this yahoo account. I know that
there are many addresses not included, but i don't
have the time to add them now, so please continue to
forward these messages on. Many thanks.
Bobby had a tracheotomy today, which reduces the
irritation in his throat and makes it easier to
suction. It's also better not to have tubes invading
his mouth and throat. The bruising on his face is
receding and he looks much better. He was off the
ventilator and breathing on his own today, but his
lungs got a bit tired and they put him back on for
tonight. He may be able to breathe on his own again
tomorrow, however. He does have a secondary lung
infection, but the doctors are addressing this.
Again, your deep affection, support and powerful
hope
have brought us all to tears and I know Bobby is
touched beyond words. Thank you so much for all your
messages, which we constantly pass on to Bobby.
My brother's strength is palpable, but i also see
that he is resting, which is so important for the healing process.
Sending love and endless thanks from all of us,
particularly Bobby,
Faith
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Mees
climber
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Jun 14, 2007 - 11:07am PT
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bobby,
you continue to give 1000%
always have
so thankful
peace to all
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Toker Villain
Big Wall climber
Toquerville, Utah
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Jun 14, 2007 - 11:36am PT
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Wishing the best for the Models.
Perhaps we should all strive to create a better world for each other in order to reduce the injustice that inevitably is produced by a lesser one.
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ConcernedFromCody
climber
Cody
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Jun 14, 2007 - 12:44pm PT
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SPECIAL PRAYERS and POSITIVE HEALING ENERGY coming your way, Bobby, from your friends at PRODESIGN in Cody. We are thinking of you daily, with wishes for a full recovery. Your strength, determination, love of life, and love of family and friends will carry you through anything. Our best!
Jan Woods-Krier
Mark Schuler
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Kalakay
climber
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Jun 14, 2007 - 01:13pm PT
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To Bobby:
Since we first met in Laramie you have been endeared to us. No doubt, we were smitten by your now-legendary sense of humor and energy. Through your work and through our adventures we have come to recognize that behind your wild eyes and sometimes-crude tongue there is a thoughtful man driven by passion, wisdom and honesty. Dig deep now brother, knowing that so many are pulling for you and sending positive thoughts your way. We patiently wait for the day when we will laugh together again.
Our thoughts are constantly with you,
Tom, Betty and Fritz Kalakay
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 14, 2007 - 01:40pm PT
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hey Bobby: Great to hear news!you hang in there were all pulling hard for you.Your Freinds in "The Dirty Dog" the words spreading like a forest fire.LOVE YA JOE ,KAY,NICKI
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Matt
Trad climber
places you shouldn't talk about in polite company
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Jun 14, 2007 - 02:08pm PT
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Prejudice is not the answer
thank you ron, and well said.
best wishes to those in need of them, sounds as if bobby model is not laking in people who cae for him. may he find strength in your strength, and you in his.
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alars
Social climber
Tucson, AZ
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Jun 14, 2007 - 03:41pm PT
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Good to hear that there's been some progress. When we learned of this accident, the first thing that raced through my mind is that the old Lander Crew has had enough for a while... let the universe give it a rest.
Keep up the healing, Bobby! Know that friends the world over are pulling for you.
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mattstan
Social climber
Seattle
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Jun 14, 2007 - 04:31pm PT
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Best wishes to Bobby, the quiet giant. Too long since we've spoke, and even much too longer since we've climbed together. I know you'll make a full recovery, thanks to the quiet grace and strength that permeates your life!
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seafus
Trad climber
Montana
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Jun 14, 2007 - 04:38pm PT
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bobby,
i haven't seen you since the days of Silver Run, but i get reports on your whereabouts and happenings from mutual friends. heal up, and hope to see you around these parts soon. casey
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Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich
Social climber
Des Moines
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Jun 14, 2007 - 05:16pm PT
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Bobby, Faith, Anne, Bob, Jim, et al
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through emotionally. This may be Bobby's toughest climb, but if anyone can make it he can. He has a wonderful family, and many friends to support him through this.
I am soooo tickled to hear that Bobby is breathing on his own, even if it is for short stents for now. Thank you all for the updates during this past week. It has been so wonderful to see how old friends and communities have been supporting Bobby.
Many prayers, much love,
Cheryl, Milo, Aly, and Jack
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JCB
climber
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Jun 14, 2007 - 05:55pm PT
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The Man, The Myth, The Legend.
From Cody this January.
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Aryn Rossett
climber
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Jun 14, 2007 - 07:33pm PT
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Thank you for the updates, Faith. I am keeping Bobby and your family in my prayers.
Much love,
Aryn (Holm) Rossett
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bob d'antonio
Trad climber
Taos, NM
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Jun 14, 2007 - 08:34pm PT
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Really hoping for the best for you Bobby. My thoughts go out to your family and friends.
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Brandon Selk
Sport climber
Spearfish, SD
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Jun 14, 2007 - 09:52pm PT
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Our thoughts and prayers are with Bobby and his family. Bobby can overcome this with all of the positive thoughts and prayers that are coming in from all over the world.
Brandon, Jana, Madison, and Carson Selk
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 14, 2007 - 10:13pm PT
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hey there all.... i am new here and dont know anything about all you wonderful folks and all your great climbs.... but i joined in here to be close to my brother ( mark chapman, chappy) as i learned that he had posted here, and i missed seeing him all these years...
i was very sad to now learn of your friend, bobby... i am a praying-folk of long-time-standing and i will pray for bobby as well.... head injuries touch my heart greatly as i have known of folks who have fought so hard through these traumas, in various ways...
say, i hope to encourage you all, as they have said that bobby's condition, from what i read, so far--has not changed...
if you all can check out any public info, here on the internet, about PBR bullrider, lee akins... his skull was stepped on by a bull, and obviously, he had a traumatic head injury... he has lived and now, only about three months later, is doing well over their expectations... (which were not good).... he is finally able to walk with help from others and a walker, and he was singing the alphabet with his daughter, though his speech was mostly jumbles---i know this may not sound like much, but these are miles stones and his wife credits all to a massive prayer alert.... if there is even one success story (and there are others), than the door of hope, through prayer, may be open for bobby, too.... dont give up and you will never have regrets...
so keep up the good work, here folks and pray for your friend... every head injury is DIFFERENT though, as there is so much involved with the brain.....
as i am ready to cry, here... i think i will go and pray... please hang on for your dear friend, as perhaps he just cant do it now.... sincerely, neebee.... (or lizzy-beth, to mark)...
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Frances
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 14, 2007 - 10:15pm PT
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Dear Bobby and family (Anne, Faith, Bob, Jim, Austine and all who love him),
The Clymers in Cody have all of you in our thoughts and prayers. We first met Bobby when he was a boy of ten or so. Full of curiosity and energy even then. We have followed his career with interest, often wondering where he finds the courage and strength to accomplish his many feats. We join his many friends in prayers for the best of all possible outcomes.
Affectionately,
Paul and Frances
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CCJ
climber
Casper, WY
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Jun 14, 2007 - 10:23pm PT
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Bob, Anne, Jim, Faith...
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time! We pray for a speedy recovery for Bobby! Our best to each of you.
Carey Coe-Johnson, Jeff, Maddie, Shelby, Jagger and Jrakke
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eric/erin
climber
meeteetse, wyoming
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Jun 14, 2007 - 10:26pm PT
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Hi Model Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I've known Bobby since I was 5 years old or more than 27 years. He has always been an influential person to me. I have been fortunate to do many things with Bobby, besides rock climbing in the college days. I remember the days of "cowboying" at the ranch, hunting, skiing, and just driving around the Cody country.
Out of all the people I know, he has always given 110%. Whatever life puts in front of him, he has always been optomistic.
God can do miraculous things. I pray that God uses his healing hand on Bobby's wounds. We are continually thinking of you all.
Thanks for all the updates.
Love Eric, Erin, and Tade Geving
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cowman
climber
cody, wy
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Jun 15, 2007 - 12:29am PT
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About 6 months ago I found a picture of Bobby that I had taken while on at a ski meet. For some reason I pulled it out of the pile and left it on my desk. Since, many have seen it and asked who it was. With fond memories of those days I would tell them. Bobby made everything interesting! I will continue to keep his picture up. When I look at it I will say a prayer for him and his familiy. I will also remember to look at my 2 little boys with more patience and gratitude.
Life....how special it is!
Bobby-Faithy-and Family, I send my prayers.
Amy Cowan-banks
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Peter Haan
Trad climber
San Francisco, CA
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Jun 15, 2007 - 09:13am PT
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It is with such unique loathing that I log on to this Forum now. Each time since Bobby’s accident, seeing this thread near the top of the heap, I just fear we might find there the final terrible words and so hesitate. His condition is so critical and the accident so meaningless that our nausea is really too much to bear. The strength and forceful hope directed towards him is just out of this world, though, and brings us back on our feet. Gee what more can I say? I join you all in this and just keep hoping.
Peter Haan
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 15, 2007 - 09:30am PT
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Bales family
climber
Cody
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Jun 15, 2007 - 10:06am PT
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Bobby, Faith, Austine, Anne, Jim, Bob and Mona. Good morning to all of you. We have been praying for all of you every day and especially for you Bobby. We have had so many phone calls and inquiries and we have told them all to keep you in their prayers. Just know we love you. Mary Lou and Bob.
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Kammi
Social climber
Sheridan, WY (Cody)
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Jun 15, 2007 - 10:20am PT
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Bobby....you are so much in my thoughts since I heard of Bobby's injury. We went to school and skied together as casual acquaintances, and had a beer together in Kaycee a couple of year ago. Your name has continually come up over the past couple of years through a mutual friend, Shep Vail, as he keeps me updated on your adventures. I am so in awe of your accomplishments and travels. I truly wish you the very best and I know you'll be out adventuring again soon...your zest for life is too great to let this slow you down for long. It's amazing how something like this can make you feel more for everyone in your life and want to treasure every moment, not just let those moments pass you by. Bobby, Faith, and family...my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kammi Mock
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Mandi Feeley
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 15, 2007 - 10:21am PT
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I am sending all my energy and prayers.
I went to school with Bobby and graduated with Faith.
I had not thought about Bobby for a long time, and last week I was talking with my boyfriend about rock climbing and told him about Bobby - climbing and taking photos all over the world. I was stunned and still am, about this news. ~Bobby, stay here with us, if you are able~
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John & Pam Feeley
Social climber
Cody
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Jun 15, 2007 - 10:49am PT
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Dear Bob, Ann, Faith… everyone,
We were so devastated to hear about Bobby. We’ve both watched Bobby grow up as he turned into such an astounding young man; finding his passion for life in helping others. His adventures, conquests and triumphs have been experienced equally by everyone who loves him, and we know he is fighting this setback with the same enthusiasm that he did everything else. We love all of you and are praying along with everyone for his quick recovery. Johnny & Pam Feeley
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WillyH
Boulder climber
North Carolina
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Jun 15, 2007 - 10:50am PT
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Bobby, Faith, Austine, Anne, Jim, Bob and Mona-
Please know that you are all in our hearts and prayers. All of Cookie's clan is pulling for you from Greenwich to North Carolina to California. We feel your angst and pain as our own and want to do anything we can for you.
Thinking of you constantly and sending good energy.
We love you!
Cookie sends hugs, hugs, hugs and love, love, love
If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know.
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Karen Percy
Mountain climber
Cody
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Jun 15, 2007 - 10:51am PT
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I know my family (The Hanson clan) has been continually impressed and inspired by Bobby's passion for photography and climbing. We have followed his accomplishments and now are praying for everything to turn out well. The Model family is in our thoughts and prayers...
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Cynthia Weed
Social climber
Cody
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Jun 15, 2007 - 12:23pm PT
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Dearest Model Family,
My husband and I ran into Bobby buying groceries the last time he was in Cody.
My class at school had been working on a quote "He who has felt the rain on his face and the wind in his hair has experienced the Divine." On that blustery Cody day, tall handsome Bobby Model with his warm grin and *energy* seemed to fit that quote so perfectly. I wanted to take him to class with me and show him off: "See, I would say...this is exactly what that looks like."
Models, you are never far from our thoughts.
Bill and Cindy Weed, Nathan, Mathew, Rebecca et al
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Wapiti Bob
Mountain climber
Wapiti, WY
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Jun 15, 2007 - 03:18pm PT
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Bobby:
Hang in there. We can't wait to see you back here in Cody. Everybody in town (especially at the Beta Coffee House) is rooting for you.
Bob and Arlene Hanson
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Lori Christenson
climber
Las Cruces, NM
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Jun 15, 2007 - 03:22pm PT
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The Model Family and Friends,
We are sending you all of our strength and positive energy and hoping for the best. Know that we are thinking about all of you.
Lance, Lori and Kell
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Erynne Selk
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 15, 2007 - 05:08pm PT
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Although we are constantly thinking of and praying for Bobby and his family, I thought we could send a concentrated effort their way EACH evening.
Let's dedicate the hour between 8 and 9 pm to the Models. Whether you have two minutes or most of the hour, whether you are alone, with family or can meet with friends; find some time between 8 and 9 pm to pray, send positive energy and strength to Bobby and his family.
With passion and intensity, this will make a significant impact.
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 15, 2007 - 05:12pm PT
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Hello All,
I just spoke with Anne, Bobby's mother, and she says that Bobby is improving physically and the bruising is healing. His brain shows little improvement, but we will continue to pray for him. She wants to thank everyone that is blogging on this site. They are reading what we are saying and it is greatly appreciated. They are finding strength in our words.
She tells me that Bobby could not be in a better facility. They have some of the top brain surgeons in the world in the hospital that he is in. People travel to this hospital from Europe and other places for the doctors that are in residence there. This gives me much hope. I just wanted to share this with all of you. I know that this family is on your minds as much as they are on mine.
Best regards,
Janet K. Cozzens
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 15, 2007 - 05:20pm PT
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THE ABOVE MESSAGE RECEIVED FROM ANNE YOUNG AT 2:00 p.m. MDT.
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Jun 15, 2007 - 05:56pm PT
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We Love you Bobby! Be strong like you know how. We are rooting for you day and night and won't quite until you are better.
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Shelley
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 15, 2007 - 06:22pm PT
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Bobby & Faith! My heart is so saddened by this news. But Bobby is strong and courageous, and he will persevere. No one is more positive and bright than dear Faithy. Her love along with her parents' will carry him through this. The Cody Stampede is just around the corner & we'll think of you when so many of us are all togehter. We'll look for you next year. Much, much love, Shelley Simonton
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Big B
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 15, 2007 - 09:13pm PT
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Bobby,
Thought that you would like to know that the grass is mowed at the shop and Peter Chivers is doing a great job on the building, it's looking good. Peter's dog "Painter" got pepper sprayed by the mail man. Poor dog just barked at the mail man and gets sprayed and the police show up, Peter gets a $50.00 ticket. You Need to get better so that Peter can tell you the whole story.
You would not believe how many people are pulling for you, I myself am in total awe. Bobby, you have touched so may lives all around the world. I recently spoke to Kyle Anderson AKA "Ace" and he talked about stories when you were kids. What I a sight it must of been to see you flying off of a florescent orange painted ski jump you built in the alley behind your house, while being pulled by a car at 30 miles an hour. Every person that has been able to get to know you has a funny story or experience they had with you. You have may never know your true greatness, but your friends, family, and people you have never met, see it. Get better you have more to do, keep fighting.
Faith stay strong and let Bobby know we all love him and are praying for him. Brent Lohrenz
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 15, 2007 - 09:17pm PT
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hey there erynne... i just saw your post here... it is 9:10... your post said:
Although we are constantly thinking of and praying for Bobby and his family, I thought we could send a concentrated effort their way EACH evening.
Let's dedicate the hour between 8 and 9 pm to the Models. Whether you have two minutes or most of the hour, whether you are alone, with family or can meet with friends; find some time between 8 and 9 pm to pray, send positive energy and strength to Bobby and his family.
With passion and intensity, this will make a significant impact.
in answer to this: oh, yes, i can do this, and will join in with you and anyone else... i am a mite late out here (as i am now in mich, at this point in my life) but i will make a note to pray now, and at eleven again, which will be 8, by westcoast time... if any of you all is out west.... and will keep hitting the 9 o'clocks with you and a host of folks...
for those that fast and pray, we used to fast and pray on friday for a gal that was in dire needs... amazing doors are opened by the good lord as we give our time "replenishing our system" up---and let him replenish those in dire straits...
wishing strong trails of new hopes to you all... and to bobby's family, first and foremost, now... god bless...
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Mees
climber
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Jun 15, 2007 - 10:32pm PT
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Shoshone Canyon early 90's
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Lander
climber
Boulder
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Jun 15, 2007 - 11:30pm PT
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Ann, Jim, Bob, and Mona,
I only know of Faith and Bobby through the eyes of proud loving parents. Anything is possible. My thoughts, prayers, love, and strength are with you.
Steph Gripne
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Lisa Conger
Social climber
New York
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Jun 16, 2007 - 06:59am PT
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We have heard loving-fun-adventurous stories from Bob & Mona about Bobby & Faith over many dinners, for many years. You are both loved and admired deeply. Our heart and prayers go to all of you who are suffering but mostly to Bobby who we wish a sound recovery. Strong prayers and good thoughts are coming from Millbrook-Clove!! Anything we can do....we are here for you!!
All our love
Charlie - Lisa & Hailey Conger
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Rebecca Martin
Social climber
DC
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Jun 16, 2007 - 09:16am PT
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To the Model family and friends:
Everyone at National Geographic is pulling for Bobby to heal well and as quickly as possible. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all every day.
Please send Bobby loads of love and big hugs from all of his friends at National Geographic. You have so many great visions, and we're here to help them happen!
Look forward to seeing you soon, Bobby. You're the best!!!!
Rebecca and the gang at NG
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Cindy Feketi
Social climber
Cody
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Jun 16, 2007 - 10:52am PT
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Faith - May the zeal you have for life, laughter, love, friends, and family find it's way to Bobby's subconsious, your spirit surround him, and the prayers of all, fill him. Sending peace, love, and prayers to you, family, and friends.
Cindy and Mike Feketi
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David & All of Us in Greenwich
climber
Greenwich, CT
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Jun 16, 2007 - 05:00pm PT
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Dear Ann, Just spent the last two hours with a lovely South African couple from Cape Town who had heard all about Bobby and where very upset about what happened in there country to such a wonderful young man but felt strongly that he is in the best facility any where. Thank heavans that is where you are and our prayers continue for a full and complete recovery. Thinking of you David, Anne, Charlotte, Wells, and Field.
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Tahoe climber
Trad climber
a dark-green forester out west
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Jun 16, 2007 - 05:11pm PT
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Here's sending good vibes to Bobby - we all hope you pull through it!
-Aaron Kutzer
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Kira Salak
climber
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Jun 16, 2007 - 06:10pm PT
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Dear Bobby's Family and Friends,
I have been sending prayers of strength and healing to Bobby each day since I heard the news. He is the toughest of the tough, and a warm-hearted, generous spirit. I can only imagine your anguish right now. Please know that my prayers and well-wishing also go out to you in this difficult time. If there is any way I can be of assistance, please let me know.
I'm a writer who worked with Bobby in Libya and Iran for National Geographic Adventure magazine. He was always a pleasure to travel with, and we shared many adventures. If anyone can pull through, it's him.
With all my heart,
Kira Salak
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Wolfie
Trad climber
Mammoth Lakes
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Jun 16, 2007 - 06:38pm PT
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This news saddens my soul.....Bobby is an amazing individual....who makes one look at ones life from a different perspective....he is an inspiration....both in character and in his passion for showing life through his lens'. May he feel all the love that is being sent to him...and may he heal. My thoughts and prayers go out to Bobby and his family....
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NJJED
climber
Clark, Wyoming
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Jun 16, 2007 - 08:26pm PT
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More prayers of health and help... to Bobby and his fabulous support crew... hang in there...
The Great Sacred Mystery has a plan.
Love, Harmony, and Beauty,
Jenny DeSarro
All of the DeSarro's continue to send blessings,
(and Joe, I am sure has tried phoning Bob)
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Joe's dad
Social climber
Red Lodge Mt
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Jun 16, 2007 - 10:36pm PT
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Please know that we all here in Red Lodge who know Bobby are keeping him and all of his family and friends in our prayers.
Art
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terry dean
climber
cody/bklyn
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Jun 17, 2007 - 01:43am PT
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Faith, Anne, Bob & Bobby. My thoughts and prayers are with you. My performances are dedicated to you. Bobby has been such an inspiration to me, combining his love for the extreme with such brilliant artistry. Not a show passes when I am clipping a carabiner into a sling or strapping into a harness, or hanging from some crazy height by just my fingers, wondering how long my grip can hold out, that I don't think of Bobby and his amazing abilities, fearlessness and passion. And now he hangs on with the same strengh, drive, and courage he always has, on the edge of a great cliff, and I hope all of our prayers will help him find the holds he needs to pull himself up, and out of this.
much love to you
Terry Dean Bartlett
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dadsloader
Social climber
chester-le- street england
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Jun 17, 2007 - 06:50am PT
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Bobby,s father and I go back along way -(on his trips to England in the late summer and fall).
I want to say that Bobby junior and I share a hero in Wilfred Thesiger an English Explorer who explored the Danakil Country and the Awash River in Ethiopia and crossed the The Empty Quarter in Oman in 46--- Thesiger signed his book "The life of my choice" for me and I remember offering this to Bob Snr. for Bobby because I so wanted him to have it -but in his so modest way he declined because he knew it had been signed for me and wanted me to keep it .
I always remember standing with his father in a wild place with the wind blowin and the red grouse flyin like bullets and how quiet his father was and I asked him what was troubling him ? He said he was thinking about his son who was on a climbing trip When I asked him to which mountain? he told me that he was on the Trango Tower ! and then I knew that this guy was something extraordinarily special .
From that day onwards Bobby Jnr. was another great hero of mine ---this one tangible and, just like his father ,( my great and loyal friend Bob Model )-I am so proud of his achievements but watch with pride from afar.
Our prayers and positive thoughts are with you and your family right now and these are mirrored and magnified by the countless people who love you .
You have the strength -------Steve Mason (love from Anne and Sarah )
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Paul Keeler
climber
CT
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Jun 17, 2007 - 09:57am PT
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Bob Sr.,
Having been in somewhat the same boat 27 years ago, I would encourage you to think positively, keep your family close, and never stop believing that he will pull through this trial.
All of my family has your family in our foremost thoughts.
Paul Keeler
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Hayes'
climber
Ft.Collins/Cody
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Jun 17, 2007 - 01:14pm PT
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Model Family,
With a heavy heart, I want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers each and every day. We are glued to this forum for all the updates.
Love, The Hayes'
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Jim Flood
climber
Fayetteville, NC
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Jun 17, 2007 - 02:28pm PT
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Bob and family-Our thoughts, prayers and love go out for Bobby and to all you in these very difficult times. Bob, we love ya, buddy.
Jim, Kathy, Jennifer and Patricia Flood
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Avery and Jon-Paul
climber
Wherever the Army sends us
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Jun 17, 2007 - 02:44pm PT
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Bobby, Faith, Anne and Bob,
Many thoughts of skiing in Utah with the Models have been going through my mind. Coming in after a great day and having a hot chocolate with Faith and Bobby at the Rustler. I remember thinking "I wish I could ski as well as Bobby and Faith".
We are so far apart right now but know many prayers were sent from Saint Paul's Church in Leavenworth, Kansas this morning to heal the physical and mental pain of these very long past few days you have endured.
Bobby, we need you to get through this, back on your feet with camera in hand. The images you capture with your camera are important to all of us who can travel and those who cannot to see the beauty in the world.
With love to all of you and the wonderful medical professionals taking care of Bobby,
Jon-Paul and Avery (Macleod) Maddaloni
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 17, 2007 - 06:51pm PT
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Bobby Update 6-15-2007
Dear All,
I hope this finds you all happy and healthy. I just
want to send a brief update on Bobby as I know it's
been a couple of days. But first and again, we are
ever ever grateful for your messages of comfort and
support and Bobby IS getting all of them, even if we
can't respond personally to let you know. His vitals
always seem to steady--as if to listen--when any of us
give him messages, news or even a little gossip :). So
thank you thank you from all of us.
Bobby's face is now completely free of tubes and he
looks prettttty good, considering. He's tolerating his
food (he has a tube in his stomach) and is breathing
on his own with occasional assistance. His lung
infection has also cleared for the most part.
The ICU staff have become like a small family to us
and have been and continue to be outstanding in every
way.
Sending love and thanks always from all of us,
especially Bobby.
Faith
ps: i can't get most of the addresses on this, so
please continue to forward this on. Many thanks!
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
hip and sassy pants off dance off
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Jun 17, 2007 - 06:54pm PT
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wonderful news. congratulations. it's good he can feel all of the love people are sending him from over the whole world.
*still sending positive vibes from california*,
tuolumne*rainbow
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Crimpergirl
Social climber
St. Looney
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Jun 17, 2007 - 07:54pm PT
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This is great news. Good vibes coming from the Midwest from people he has never even met - that is, hasn't met yet.
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Kathy Tomlinson
climber
Denver, Colorado
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Jun 17, 2007 - 07:59pm PT
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Best to Bobby and his family - I had the good fortune to have Bobby as a housemate for a couple of years. He was always very helpful and polite. Even though he was frequently off climbing mountains like Everest, he never once complained about meager tasks like mowing the lawn when he was around even though I am sure he had more important things he could be doing.
What a really great guy and a nice family. I can say there was never a dull moment with him around. I hope nothing but the best for his recovery. He still has a lot of great things to do and people's lives to touch :).
Kathy Tomlinson
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jun 17, 2007 - 09:54pm PT
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Sending more prayers, strength and love from Idaho. I hiked Mt. Baldy (Sun Valley) yesterday and from the top sent my prayers and strength to Bobby and all of you who sit at his bedside. I wanted to scream it out at the top of my lungs, but that probably would have really disturbed anyone else who was trying to enjoy God's wonderful wilderness. Positivity will perservere.
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Jun 17, 2007 - 10:30pm PT
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another greeting to all model family, you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers, sarah (missoula)
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Jun 17, 2007 - 10:36pm PT
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another greeting to all model family, you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers, sarah
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Jun 17, 2007 - 10:36pm PT
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another greeting to all model family, you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers, sarah
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Dick&Jean
climber
Powell, WY
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Jun 17, 2007 - 10:55pm PT
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Anne and Jim, Bob and Mona,
We do not know Bobby and Faith personally but as parents we know that this is one of the most difficult times we face; our children are hurting and it is beyond our control to help or heal the hurt. God bless you all and we send very positive thoughts and prayers to you.
Dick and Jeanne Nelson
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ken stockwell
Social climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 17, 2007 - 11:52pm PT
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Bob and Ann and Family, Know that you are in our family's thoughts and prayers. We remember Bobby's kindness in flying Misty home after a ski accident in Jackson saving her a lenghty bus trip. Ken and Lesa Stockwell
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dadsloader
Social climber
chester-le- street england
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Jun 18, 2007 - 06:11am PT
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Elemental---- Faith
Thankyou for your latest update and a ray of sunlight for us all to reflect upon ------ You are always in our thoughts now and we know that if there is one guy who has the strength for this then that guy is Bobby . love to you all
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Patrick Sawyer
climber
Originally California now Ireland
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Jun 18, 2007 - 06:40am PT
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Sending positive vibes from Ireland, heal fast and soon Bobby.
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Toni Chambers
climber
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Jun 18, 2007 - 09:25am PT
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Bobby, Faith, Ann, Bob
We really love Bobby and think often of the great friendship he and Tyler had, and the adventures they had together. Our prayers and thoughts are with you daily.
Tom and Toni Chambers
Tana (Chambers)Dunford
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JCB
climber
Lander, WY, someday again
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Jun 18, 2007 - 10:14am PT
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Another pic of Bomo, taken this January in his apartment in Cody. What the picture does not show is that Bobby, the rough and tumble/live life to the fullest/camping for days on end without a shower adventurer, is perhaps the most anally neat person on the planet. Nothing in his spotless apartment is out of place. And it's not the "sweep the dirt under the rug" kind of superficial neatness. Open any drawer or cabinet, and the contents are in perfect order, ready for inspection. Everything is organized, labeled, filed, and stacked with incredible precision.
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hautterre
climber
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Jun 18, 2007 - 10:30am PT
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-from a distant cousin-
Hello Bobby.
I think of you daily and send my wishes and prayers for your health.
To the rest of the family,
May the love you pour out be returned to you 10 fold.
Ann McAlpin
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Mr. T
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 18, 2007 - 01:51pm PT
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Bobby & Family - we join thousands in praying for your complete and speedy recovery from this tragic event. You are in our thoughts and we are sending hugs and best wishes! Tracy & Kathy Wormald (Bobby's teacher at Eastside in the "olden days").
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Jun 18, 2007 - 03:36pm PT
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I walk by and "refresh" this page a million times a day keeping my fingers crossed for some good news. I was happy to see a positive update yesterday. Thanks for keeping us posted. Hang in there Bobby and keep on truckin'- the world needs you!
Love to you and your family.
The Kenney's
Chris, Talia, Aubrey, Tanner, and Tyler
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Dennis Reed
climber
cody, wy
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Jun 18, 2007 - 09:15pm PT
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Bob, Anne, Bobby and Faith, We have been so saddened by the news. We both have many memories with Bobby on ski team and also growing up. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers and if we can do anything for you back home please let us know. Keep fighting Bobby!!!!!!!!!!! Love, Dennis and Misti (Meeker)Reed
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Bo Young
climber
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Jun 19, 2007 - 10:23am PT
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Bobby: Alex, your Aunt Mary, Uncle Ned & I have been thinking about you & all of our family constantly since we heard the terrible news. Now that I have found this site, I will be checking back as often as possible for updates. Our prayers are with you. Stay strong. Love, the Youngs
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Meinecke's
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 19, 2007 - 10:41am PT
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Model Family,
We are thinking of you and praying for you and Bobby daily. There are so many more here in Cody that are praying for Bobby and the rest of your family. We hope you find some comfort in the fact that your family is so loved in this community, and by special friends throughout the world.
Greg and Jalie(Frazier) Meinecke
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robh
climber
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Jun 19, 2007 - 11:02am PT
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Hey Bobby,
Keep fighting. I'm praying for you to get stronger every day. We need you to keep taking amazing photographs.
Rob Haggart
Director of Photography
Men's Journal
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Mandi Feeley
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 19, 2007 - 11:27am PT
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Models -
It was such a relief to read the last few posts and hear some good news. My family continues to pray and send energy, your family is never far in our thoughts. Much love and strength.
~Mandi
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megs
climber
cody native - minnesota now
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Jun 19, 2007 - 11:35am PT
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Models,
My family sends positive thoughts and many prayers to you right now. It has been years since I have seen either Faith or Bobby, but I know that with Bobby's strength and Faith's positive energy at his side, along with the rest of his loved ones, he will pull through this. We look forward to the next update. Sending love and prayers from Minnesota.
Meggan Burak (Hockhalter) and family (Jason and Brenna)
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mma
Social climber
victor, id
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Jun 19, 2007 - 11:49am PT
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Hi Bobby,
As I was feeding my 6 month old and watching the sun rise over the mountains this morning, I was once again pulled back to the days of Laramie and Lander. How many camping trips did you insist on rising before the sun because that was the best light for photos? I was amazed then and still am by your focus, devotion and stamina for whatever you sink your heart into. I know that those exact qualities are working for you now. Stay strong!
Love,
Megan
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sierracanon
Mountain climber
Sacramento, CA
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Jun 19, 2007 - 11:51am PT
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Off all the ways that Bobby could be killed/seriously injured (considering his chosen profession), this has got to be the stupidest.
Thoughts/prayers/healing energy heading his way.
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betsysell
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 19, 2007 - 11:59am PT
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Bobby, Faith, Ann, Jim, and Bob,
Enjoyed a GREAT hike in the Beartooths last week and we all (Char McCue, Kathleen DiVincenzo, Kay Maxwell and myself) shared stories of Bobby and the Model family. We know that Coach Joe Maxwell is with you now. We all continue to hold you in our thoughts and prayers!
Betsy Sell
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 19, 2007 - 01:57pm PT
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dear freinds, I'm in Cape Town with some of Bobbys family and freinds.He is doing alright.he remains unconcious but seems to be getting better al the time.He is in very good care,in a great facility.His ingury was not physiclly as bad as I had thought or imagined. He is still no beauty! I express my sincere thanks to all of you for your word s of encouragement and prayers. They are makeing a differance!Thanks SUPERTOPO FOR THE FORMAT that all of Bobbys FAMILY can pull together and get him thru this.We can make a differance.Bobby does respond to us.And when he does come around you all knowhe will have alot to say. With much Thanks I'll write more they have dinner ready.JOE
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brooks emeny
Social climber
bozeman, mt
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Jun 19, 2007 - 02:08pm PT
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Bobby, We here in the Emeny Clan are thiking of you lots and our prayers arer with you. We wish you a full recovery and hope to hear of great news in the near future soon. Now being unpolitically correct and my real self, you picked a great way to take a vacation and get a bunch of attention. Give my best to you Mom, Faith and Dad, and especially Joe Blow. Take care Bobby, Brooks
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Mees
climber
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Jun 19, 2007 - 02:26pm PT
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Joe,
that's great news that you are able to be there! Sharpen the draw knife, I think a little log peeling may be just the thing to get Bobby back on his feet when he wakes up, hehe..
Give everyone a big hug there and know that very few moments pass between prayers of healing, hope and strength for Bobby and his loving family/friends.
Pat
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John & Pam Feeley
Social climber
Cody
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Jun 19, 2007 - 02:48pm PT
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Dear Bobby and family… It wasn’t until we read the Kenny’s message, that we realized we had been doing the same… continually checking Supertopo for news of your progress. We just read Joe Maxwell’s post and it's such a great, positive lift for everyone’s spirits! You ARE going to make it out of this Bobby, and we all know it! This may truly be your toughest climb… just know every one of us wishes we could be there to help pull you up. Can you believe all the love and support you’re getting!? It’s incredible! We love and are praying for you and your whole family, Bobby. Johnny and Pam Feeley
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Anthony
climber
Powell, WY
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Jun 19, 2007 - 03:02pm PT
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Thoughts and prayers to Bobby and family from the Northwest College Photography Department faculty.
Sincerely,
Anthony M. Polvere
Gary Bakken
Woody Wooden
Craig Satterlee
Rick Rivard
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 19, 2007 - 04:06pm PT
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Bobby,
Over the past 15 years, we’ve been together on expeditions to five different continents, waited out countless storms, and faced too many long odds. Of all the desperate and difficult times I’ve seen, this one ranks right at the top. You have kept me safe so many times climbing, and have really saved my life a few, too…I feel so horribly unable to help you.
I have always been impressed with your endurance and your ability to stay motivated day after day, long after others had given up and gone home. It really bugged me that I could train hard all winter while you gallivanted around central Africa looking for giant crocodiles, and you’d leave me in the dust on yet another long Cody ice approach. It bugged me too that you could roll off the couch and still crank 5.12, climbing like you were born to do it, while after 20 years I still climb as if I were wrestling a Beluga whale.
I remember well our trip to Kenno’s home village north of Poi at the end of our climbing trip there. How close you became to the people and how at home you had become in Kenya. It was strange and wonderful to see a Wyoming boy find a purpose higher than himself so far from where he might otherwise belong. I have never seen anyone belong to a place as well as you belong on that continent.
It was no surprise to me, then, when you decided to base out of Nairobi a few years later. Of all my friends, you would be the one that actually lived the “endless wish” we had talked of for so long. I am proud of you.
I have become used to having you there to depend on when the sh#t gets deep. You are a man that can be counted on. There are so many places we still have to go. I am not alone when I say that I need you. I am proud to be your friend.
Steve
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 19, 2007 - 05:53pm PT
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JUNE 19TH UPDATE FROM FAITH:
Dear All,
I will write a more detailed email tomorrow, but just want to let everyone
know that Bobby had another scan yesterday and there wasn't a great deal of
new information. He remains stable, but still in a coma. I do want to tell
you, however, that when I read him excerpts from the supertopo forum or
emails received, I really feel that not only is he listening and enjoying,
but that he is so deeply touched by everyone's concern, love and thoughts
and he especially likes the little stories. Please keep your hopes and
prayers high--higher than ever.
I wish there were words that could accurately convey our deepest
appreciation for all the support we're receiving. And I wish we could
respond to each and every message, but as that's not possible at the moment,
please know that we are ever grateful for all of you.
I know Bobby is sending big hugs and lots of love, as are we.
Many many thanks and much love,
Faith
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Jun 19, 2007 - 06:07pm PT
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Another classic moment with Bobby Model. Not only is he a star photographer/climber/skier, he makes his presence known in social circles as well.
This is from an old roomate of his from Laramie/Denver.
I like how he snapped into my ski bindings with his cowboy
boots at my Halloween party one year and threw me up on his shoulders
then skied down the stairs without killing both of us! who else has
that kind of strength and balance!
I think that was the same night someone had to tackle him and
wrestle a real sword he had gotten from an african tribe out of his
hands- no small feat - because he had chopped through our bannister
and was swinging the sucker around in a very crowded room - someone
could have lost a limb or something....
We could go on and on and on about Bobby's legendary social skills. One of the most fun guys to celebrate with of all time.
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N0_ONE
Social climber
Utah
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Jun 19, 2007 - 08:06pm PT
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Our little family has you on our minds and in our prayers.
Hang in there friends and family!!
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Maleski
climber
Bozeman
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Jun 19, 2007 - 08:54pm PT
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Bobby,
With Maxwell, the HLD of all HLDs in Capetown by your side, I'm sure you will be coping, stacking and chinking in no time. Keep hanging in there you are the strongest.
We are all pulling for you and by your side no matter the miles.
Joe,
You've always been an inspiration to Bobby and everyone else. Thanks.
Pete, Teri, and Eliza
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 19, 2007 - 11:01pm PT
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Hi Bob-Meister,
Glad to hear the news is pretty good and that you are hanging in there (how very like you!). I've called Kim and will call Kazuki, we are all rooting for you. You must be chuffed to be surrounded by everyone so hug them all for me, OK? as soon as you can!
Much love to everyone,
Charlotte
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Karen Schipfmann
Social climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 20, 2007 - 12:06am PT
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Hi Bobby, Faith, Anne, Jim, and the rest-
We continue to send love, support and positive thoughts to you all in Cape Town. May the healing power of God and the love coming from all these wonderful people carry you through this ordeal. I know we will soon all share another hike around Cody ascending quickly to catch the "best light" or a good meal at Sage Creek Ranch or on Casper Drive. We have you on the babysitting short list since before you left for Africa you remarked to me, "You must be getting pretty big!" with my second child and I know you want to change a diaper. Stay strong and get better as we're all pulling and praying for you here in Cody. Can't wait to have you over for dinner to hear about your future adventures. Keep your head up Faith we are all behind you.
Love
Karen, Jay, Riley and Randall
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Cruiser
Mountain climber
Cody
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Jun 20, 2007 - 12:22am PT
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Hello All,
Joe Maxwell, how noble it is to be Bobbys belay partner at this time. Thank you for the unselfish effort to help him and comfort his family and friends. Many in this forum probably don't recall the Cessna 182 plane crash I was involved in January of 1985. I was a climbing instructor trading flight lessons for climbing lessons. While photographing icefalls on the Southfork my instructor flew up the wrong drainage with severe downdrafts. We lost altitude and stalled out at 11,000 feet crashing into the last avalable stand of trees ripping the wings off the aircraft and came to rest in 6 feet of snow. The pilot had not filed a flight plan and the weather was deteriorating. At some point I became consious and broke the window out of the aircraft and stood on what was left of the wing and filled my footprint with blood from my face. I removed Chris from the plane and found two summer weight sleeping bags to cover her. The ELT transmitter did not go off. I hiked to the north ridge to get my bearings. I had been in this area before but not under these circumstances and not in street clothing. The next 24 hours of postholing, dragging and carring a women to safety across the Ishawooa plateau and down to the southfork valley while my friends where in the air looking for us was the climb of my life. Bobby has the strenght to overcome.
Sincerely,
Kirt D. Cozzens
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Gary & Nancy Axthelm
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 20, 2007 - 12:28am PT
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Bobby-
Glad to hear some bits of positive news from Joe and Faith. We are pulling for you! The places and things that you have seen and done in your life are an inspiration to all of us. Remembering your kindness, great climbing stories, and awe-inspiring photography keep us comforted during this stretch of your recovery. Know that our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family.
Gary and Nancy Axthelm
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sienna burns
Social climber
Great Falls,MT
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Jun 20, 2007 - 02:47am PT
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Bobby Faithy and Family and friends,
I didn't know about this powerful and gracious forum until Faith wrote yesterday. I have been moved beyond word's I have also gotten glimpses of a Bobby that I hadn't known before. My Dad used to read Robert Service out loud to us growing up some would say that it was to harsh for our ears but we loved not only the tails of strength, fights and adventure but the wonderful "music" that Robert Service ballads have when spoken. He writes about "hard oaks" who sustain and endure hard times and brutality as well as the beauty in nature. Bobby I am sure you will enjoy! All our Love Sienna,John, Alanna and Ryan as well as our extended families.
The Shooting of Dan McGrew By Robert Service
A bunch of the boys were whooping it up
in the Malamute saloon;
The kid that handles the music-box
was hitting a jag-time tune;
Back of the bar, in a solo game,
sat Dangerous Dan McGrew,
And watching his luck was his light-o'-love,
the lady that's known as Lou.
When out of the night, which was fifty below,
and into the din and the glare,
There stumbled a miner fresh from the creeks,
dog-dirty, and loaded for bear.
He looked like a man with a foot in the grave
and scarcely the strength of a louse,
Yet he tilted a poke of dust on the bar,
and he called for drinks for the house.
There was none could place the stranger's face,
though we searched ourselves for a clue;
But we drank his health, and the last to drink
was Dangerous Dan McGrew.
There's men that somehow just grip your eyes,
and hold them hard like a spell;
And such was he, and he looked to me
like a man who had lived in hell;
With a face most hair, and the dreary stare
of a dog whose day is done,
As he watered the green stuff in his glass,
and the drops fell one by one.
Then I got to figgering who he was,
and wondering what he'd do,
And I turned my head -- and there watching him
was the lady that's known as Lou.
His eyes went rubbering round the room,
and he seemed in a kind of daze,
Till at last that old piano fell
in the way of his wandering gaze.
The ragtime kid was having a drink;
there was no one else on the stool,
So the stranger stumbles across the room,
and flops down there like a fool.
In a buckskin shirt that was glazed with dirt
he sat, and I saw him sway;
Then he clutched the keys with his talon hands
-- my God! but that man could play!
Were you ever out in the Great Alone,
when the moon was awful clear,
And the icy mountains hemmed you in
with a silence you most could hear;
With only the howl of a timber wolf,
and you camped there in the cold,
A half-dead thing in a stark, dead world,
clean mad for the muck called gold;
While high overhead, green, yellow and red,
the North Lights swept in bars? --
Then you've a hunch what the music meant...
hunger and night and the stars.
And hunger not of the belly kind,
that's banished with bacon and beans,
But the gnawing hunger of lonely men
for a home and all that it means;
For a fireside far from the cares that are,
four walls and a roof above;
But oh! so cramful of cozy joy,
and crowned with a woman's love --
A woman dearer than all the world,
and true as Heaven is true...
(God! how ghastly she looks through her rouge, --
the lady that's known as Lou).
Then on a sudden the music changed,
so soft that you scarce could hear;
But you felt that your life had been looted clean
of all that it once held dear;
That someone had stolen the woman you loved;
that her love was a devil's lie;
That your guts were gone, and the best for you
was to crawl away and die.
'Twas the crowning cry of a heart's despair,
and it thrilled you through and through --
"I guess I'll make it a spread misere,"
said Dangerous Dan McGrew.
The music almost died away...
then it burst like a pent-up flood;
And it seemed to say, "Repay, repay,"
and my eyes were blind with blood.
The thought came back of an ancient wrong,
and it stung like a frozen lash,
And the lust awoke to kill, to kill...
then the music stopped with a crash,
And the stranger turned, and his eyes they burned
in a most peculiar way;
In a buckskin shirt that was glazed with dirt
he sat, and I saw him sway;
Then his lips went in in a kind of grin,
and he spoke, and his voice was calm,
And "Boys," says he, "you don't know me,
and none of you care a damn;
But I want to state, and my words are straight,
and I'll bet my poke they're true,
That one of you is a hound of hell...
and that one is Dan McGrew."
Then I ducked my head, and the lights went out,
and two guns blazed in the dark,
And a woman screamed, and the lights went up,
and two men lay stiff and stark.
Pitched on his head, and pumped full of lead,
was Dangerous Dan McGrew,
While the man from the creeks lay clutched to the breast
of the lady that's known as Lou.
These are the simple facts of the case,
and I guess I ought to know.
They say the stranger was crazed with "hooch,"
and I'm not denying it's so.
I'm not so wise as the lawyer guys,
but strictly between us two --
The woman that kissed him -- and pinched his poke --
was the lady that's known as Lou.
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nita
climber
chico ca
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Jun 20, 2007 - 03:26am PT
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Bobby,We've never met , but after reading these posts, I can see you are a friend -loved by many. Here in supertopo land, we are sending out our healing thoughts and prayers...to you.
Right now -I am singing to you, a couple of verses of my favorite, Emmylou Harris song: Love and Happiness.
here's a wishing well
here's a penny for
any thought it is that makes you smile
every diamond dream
everything that brings
love and happiness
to your life
here's a spinning wheel
use it once you've learned
there's a way to turn
the straw to gold
here's a rosary
count on every bead
with a prayer to keep
the hope you hold
you will always have a lucky star
that shines because of what you are
even in the deepest dark
because your aim is true
and if i could have one wish
darling,then it would be this
love and happiness for you....
and full recovery.... ;-)
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bunnypoo
climber
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Jun 20, 2007 - 03:27am PT
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Bobby,
This evening I ran to the highest hilltop I could find. I wanted to send you the smell of sage, the awe of so many dragonflies in their mystical play, the sound of the wind and crickets - the power and the beauty of this earth to renew your spirit. I sent a prayer with the setting sun that it's immense energy rise on you each day and give you strength and reawaken you 110% to this fine world.
All my love-
Molly
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 20, 2007 - 06:31am PT
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Dear Freinds: Just got back from the hospital finished a visit with bobby,faith. He is is still in a restful condition.His neurological response to pain stimuli is there. he don't like that much for sure. That was the first time I saw that so ! that was good! Bobby had some fever yesterday, they are treating that with antibotics ,so that seemed to be reduced today. Yesterday his resipiration rate was quite high 30+ , and he was sweaty and seemed bothered ,so got out of the ICU befor Bobby got up and started telling everyone to just leave ME alone. Bobby has alittle shrine going in his room .I brought a box from "Joe's World"Knome,Gizzard stone,mountain goat fur,picture of twin lakes,Tiki God of Brain Ingury statue,Saint Christopher Metal,you know stuff like that. Faith was holding a piece of Wyoming sage under his nose, it made Bobby wiggle his nose ++++
Bobby is still with us and planing his next project as we speak! Thank you all for your throughts and prayers.I'll keep ya posted.Remain stong,Remain calm . FOR BOBBY JOE
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 20, 2007 - 08:10am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
It's hot and muggy in DC right now - and here I am, thinking that Faith was supposed to be here in a few days!!! Anyway, just wanted to let you know that I made some coffee this morning, and it was Kilimanjaro, so it made me think of you and mountain-slayers of your ilk ...
Lifting my (coffee) cup to you,
Charlotte
PS: extra big hugs to Faith and Anne
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dadsloader
Social climber
chester-le- street england
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Jun 20, 2007 - 09:59am PT
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Thanks so much JoeMax that info lifted me --great stuff-- just following on from Faith,s little stories -- and taking what JCB said about BoMo and his little ways
On one of his recent trips to Engalnd/Scotland we were looking across a valley with the cloud base below and pheasants flying as high as cathedrals above us Bobbys Dad asks me" How is the game book coming along Steve " ( we try to keep a written record of where we go who are our companions and things that happen--us older types like to reflect sometimes ) I reply rather embarrassed that I,m way behind - but that I have the details to write up-- no problem(!)
His father replies in that lovely Wyoming drawl or it may have been that upper class English affectation he carries off so well -Old Boy (not wanting to put me down)
Yunno Steeevee-- Bobby, s so meticulous he would have written the journal everyday straightaway ---(and I reply in my N East English accent-)--Is that so? well if Bobby,s so clever why didn,t he write the journal before we started? (This was said in jest and we laughed ) So I know where JCBs coming from.
So far as I know Bobby has never visited England /Scotland to climb or photo graph --
With some friends we made an attempt at Easter time in 82 on the Cuillin Ridge on the Isle of Skye --we were beaten back by weather and sheer fright at times - but it remains a classic British traverse and is still a dream of mine to try again - I think its mostly guided now but those days it was fair game. So Bobby when your ready help haul my backside over the Cuillins -- Positive thoughts and our prayers to you and for you -
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Gil Williams
Social climber
FL
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Jun 20, 2007 - 10:56am PT
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Bobby;
We've never met, and I have little record of climbing, other that at the Philmont Boy Scout Ranch in New Mexico…many years ago. Yet I wanted to write and tell you that you do have a close knit group as I read the other posts on this website.
I am a commercial photographer here in the Tampa Bay area of Florida, and through three Mission Trips to Africa, I have found it is hard to not have a desire for Adventure on that Continent. Though my trips are "silent retreats" compared to your adventures, I just drove from Nairobi to Capetown with friends, and driving across S. Africa by myself a couple of times. Yet, I think I have an inkling understanding for your love for Africa and the people there. It is an amazing place.
I will continue to pray for you and your recovery, as well as your family. (Please know that you have an amazing sister & friends who stay so close to you {and Faith you better! read that out loud & clear to him and to yourself)… and I will continue to pray for you all, and please let us know if there is anything we (the SuperTopo Climer's Forum) can do.
Gil Williams
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Mr. Southfork
Ice climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 20, 2007 - 11:13am PT
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Hey Bobby, I'm going to breakfast at the Noonbreak (again) and thought of you. We haven't had time to do very much in the last five years except meet for a meal. I'm confident that this tragedy will pass so we can enjoy Steve's fine cooking together again.
Thanks to all for the updates and especially SUPERTOPO for providing this forum.
Sincerely,
Todd G. Cozzens
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 20, 2007 - 11:22am PT
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Hey Bobby,
I just want to give you an update on the things happening around the neighborhood. There are trees and shrubs going in where Cody Feed used to be. There are new trees between the curb and the sidewalk the length of the empty lot. The grass is coming in next and it will be here shortly. The block is starting to sparkle a little. Barron is really putting forth an effort here and wants things to look great. Your building has inspired Barron to do some work with this building. It will be beautiful. Between your building, this building, and the Chamberlain, the block is looking great!!
Kirt and I and the boys hiked up to Glacier Lake in the Beartooth's on Father's Day. We got snowed on at the end of the trail. It was beautiful and I couldn't help but think of you and know in my heart that you will make it back out into this country that is so wild and calling your name. Do you hear it calling to you? We are all here wanting to talk to you and reminece about adventures of the past and adventures not yet taken. You are with all of us as we are with you. I know that you are there enjoying the stories, so we will keep them coming - stay tuned!
Sincerely,
Janet
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Coezy
Social climber
Cody
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Jun 20, 2007 - 11:29am PT
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Bobby - We are all praying that you and your family. Hoping that you make a speedy recovery and get back to Cody soon.
Love, Anne and Jim Hayes
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Cynthia Rankin
Social climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 20, 2007 - 11:46am PT
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Hi Bobby
Just wanted you to know that my prayers are going out to you and your family daily. Hang in there, the world is in need of a few good men. You are definitely one of the good guys. Looking forward to receiving another one of your exasperated phone calls from Kenya.
Cynthia Rankin
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L
climber
A small kayak on a very big ocean
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Jun 20, 2007 - 12:14pm PT
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Bobby,
Like several others here, I've known you only through your work--some absolutely amazing photographs--but after reading this entire thread, I feel I know you as well as my own brother.
You seem like a man with a spirit as large as the Earth herself, and a heart to match. The strength and determination which pulled you through so many other close encounters will surely pull you through this one, too. And with the love and good will of so many--family and friends (both known and unknown)--I know we'll see more of your incredible photos, and hear of your continuing exploits and adventures in the future.
Namaste Bobby--you're almost at the summit.
Laura
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khaki
Social climber
wayne
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Jun 20, 2007 - 12:46pm PT
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Dearest Bobby-
You are a light that shines so bright in our family! We all are praying for you and wish that we could be there to hold your hand! We always love to hear all of the stories of your accomplishments and when we are flipping through a national geographic or another outdoor related magazine and find your work ~ your cousin Alex and I feel so proud that you are our cousin. You are an amazing human being that we all respect and admire so much! I want to spend wonderful family times together. We are all praying for you and love you!
Khaki Young
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Mallamo
Trad climber
NC
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Jun 20, 2007 - 02:19pm PT
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BoMo,
The first time I met you we were boarding a plane heading to Mali West Africa. I had heard of you but as you looked me over I could tell you were sizing me up. Your wheels were turning and your eyes were squinting, “Who is this Mallamo guy” I could hear you saying in your head. By the time we landed in Bamako, after several small cans of beer and an 18-hour flight, we were long-time friends. When the Harmattan Winds came, bringing with them a month long sand storm, we commiserated as we tried desperately to keep our cameras clean and the zippers on our tents functional. And as we were about to rappel down into the “Cave of Skulls” (from that manky anchor Hatcher set) we drew sticks to see who would go first. You won.
Since then we have been to many extreme places together, trying to stay out of each other’s shot and trying to tell a story through images we were capturing. In Kenya we watched the largest full moon in 130 years rise over the Ndoto Mountains while listening to the Samburu chant in the village below us. In Greenland we hauled loads up the hill to base camp talking only enough to get the words out without having to inhale a mouthful of mosquitoes or black flies. In Patagonia we awakened every morning for 2 weeks at 4:oo a.m. to walk the three miles to the spot we had scouted to get a shot of Fitz Roy in golden morning light, and as we waited for that moment we talked about many things including how hard it was to get a shot of Fitz Roy in golden morning light. In Pakistan you watched as I plugged my iPod into a very suspect outlet in the Jeep we were riding in only to see sparks and flames come from under the dash. On our next trip to Pakistan you did the exact same thing rendering your iPod useless for the remainder of the journey.
Throughout these experiences and the endless list of other ones it was always you that kept up that positive attitude and never ending enthusiasm you always seem to exude even as you tried desperately to get your iPod to work. When times got rough or even downright scary you were the one that kept your wits and looked at things in a straightforward manner and said, “We have to keep going forward, what other choice do we have”. Always beaming with that Model smile.
That is why it is now our turn to emulate you and have the positive outlook and optimism that seems to come to you so naturally. You WILL get through this, you WILL beat this and we WILL have many more experiences together to recall later in life when this episode is merely a memory and we sit and share a bottle of Tullamore Dew.
I love you like a brother.
Peter
me & Bill Hatcher with BoMo in "The Cave of Skulls" near the village of Sangha-Mali, West Africa 1998
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KWG
climber
Jackson, WY
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Jun 20, 2007 - 02:56pm PT
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I have been following this forum daily since reading about Bobby's accident on the Jackson Hole News & Guide Web site but have been reluctant to post as a)I'm not a climber, b)I'm not a photographer, and, c)I'm not even a "friend" of Bobby or his family.
I only crossed paths with Bobby a few times at the University of Wyoming -- we had friends in common. Somehow I ended up with a hilarious snapshot of him at one winter's "Norwegian Olympics."
Anyway.
Some years after graduating from UW I stumbled upon some amazing evidence of Bobby's impressive career in National Geographic magazine and was thrilled to discover he was out there doing Wyoming proud.
I should mention, that while Bobby probably has no recollection of me, he was a TA for a photography class I took at UW and I'm convinced I passed with a B primarily due to what I'm assuming was the kind pity Bobby took when grading my horrific work.
Get well soon, Bobby. Wyoming -- and the world -- needs you.
Karen
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Rick and Deborah Blanchard
climber
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Jun 20, 2007 - 04:11pm PT
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Dear Bobby and Family,
Well the world has certainly seemed smaller to us as of late...Our prayers have joined many others from all around the globe-rising up to the heavens , only to meet and mingle together to bring love, hope and healing to ,you, Bobby, and support and love to those surrounding you there. You've brought the world to us thru' your adventures and photographs, now it's our turn to bring the world to you as we all join together to wish for your full recovery.
As we come to terms with such a random act of violence-realizing that this sort of thing can happen anywhere in the world- we reinforce the notion that random acts of KINDNESS can out-number and overshadow them !
Our hope is that the strenghth and the devotion of your family, combined with your own strong will and tenacity,and the prayers of all of us- will see you through.Hoping to see you all back here in Cody soon- Love,Deb, Rick, and the boys
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Wendy
climber
Cody
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Jun 20, 2007 - 04:14pm PT
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Bobby,
We don’t know each other very well, the polite greeting when I answer the phone and making sure everything is in order and signed on the tax to mail, but you still know me and we speak no matter where we meet in town. I’m finding out from the postings there’s a wild side to that polite gentleman that I visit with in passing.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You’re a lucky man to have such a great family and friends. Get well soon and continue your adventures, you’re making the world a better place and bringing it home to Cody. All of Cody is thinking of you and hoping for the best.
Wendy Jacobs
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jun 20, 2007 - 04:59pm PT
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To follow up with Lyon's theme: Classic Bobby Model stories, I have to share this one, since someone just mentioned Norwegain Olympics.
Those of us who were lucky enough to have experienced that event in Laramie, only truly know how crazy that event really was!! I of course have my own Norwegain Olympic tales but this one is about Bobby and Nick Rhorbach who were the newby's on the University of Wyoming Ski Team/Club.who spent the countless hours creating the massive ski jump, I am guessing Stine, maybe Sverre and Jake probably had something to do with it too. Anyway, the deal was the new guys had to jump off the ski jump in tele skis in thier modest birthday suits. It was freezing cold that day of course,( this is Wyoming in the Snowy Range!) But there was plenty of warm glug to go around and after a large amount of that, Nick and Bobby were ready to perform. I remember them shivering, teeth chattering, only brave enough to strip down to their boxer shorts, but not afraid to show off their ski physique to the 100's of Cowboys. Anyway long story short the snow was quite hard, They both jumped only to land on their behinds, the impact tearing back their thin boxers and the skin on their behinds!
They both ended up with very raw, red heiny's. Cute Heiny's I must add!
Love Heather
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 20, 2007 - 05:08pm PT
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Bobby rests well ,no new news. ALL your thoughts and prayers are with him. Thank You all. LOVE JOE
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Health Educator
Social climber
Midwest City, Oklahoma
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Jun 20, 2007 - 06:38pm PT
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Bobby,
I just want to let you know I am thinking of you. I remember so much of taking care of you starting when you were only 6 and Faith was 4. I remember your tree house and the frustration you had with the first board of about 10 nails, the bathroom you so proudly made, and that you were always so determined to do what ever you put your mind to. I know you can do this too. You have always been a survivor. I remember the trail rides you, your mom, Faithy and I made above the ranch and the TV we made because there wasn't one in the cabin.
I know we haven't seen each other for years but you and Faith will always have a special place in my heart and are one of the reasons I work with children today. Ken and Bev Pulse have also been asking about you and we have been communicating back and forth every time either one of us hears any news. Ken especially really was worried and shook up when he heard about you being hurt.
I have been sending up prayers daily and also have been looking on the NG website to view your wonderful pictures. You have a gift that is awaiting you to come back to.
Karen (Horner) Blackwell
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Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich
Social climber
Des Moines
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Jun 20, 2007 - 06:48pm PT
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Faith, et al,
Thank you so much for the updates! I check every day to see if there has been any progress. I know that injuries like this are usually very slow healing, but with Bobby I just keep expecting a miracle. There are many prayers being lifted up for you Bobby (as well as the entire family!).
There is not a lot of climbing to do here in Iowa, but they do spray down the silos so they can do ice climbing in the winter. We still would love to have you come stay with us when you are back up to speed. Jack wants you to give him photography lessons!
It is also nice to hear from other friends as well. Janet C.- thanks for the update on happenings in Cody, and your family outing. Give those cute little guys hugs from us.
Love, Cheryl, Milo, Aly, and Jack
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SVO
climber
Lander, WY
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Jun 20, 2007 - 10:27pm PT
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Bobby -
Like all of the Lander crew, we have been anxiously awaiting messages from South Africa through the e-mail forwarding and SuperTopo. Today I was working in Pinedale and as I drove south of town I had this amazing flashback, which had me smiling all afternoon...we had all camped out at Skinner Brothers after Todd and Amy's wedding. After an amazing wedding, great food, stories, huge bonfire and an awesome breakfast that morning, Scott and I loaded into your truck for the ride out of the mountains. At one point there was a low spot in the rutted dirt road where an impressive puddle had formed, well, sort of a small pond really. As we approached the puddle, we could see Ty in his Volkswagen Rabbit carefully crawling around one steep edge of the water, windows down to enjoy a perfect spring/summer day. You looked at us with your infamous smile, said "Watch this!" and hit the gas. We hit the center of the puddle with enough speed to create a wave of water the went over the top of the Rabbit. The pond depth was significantly depleted with a good bit of that inside the car.
Heal fast, Bobby! We are thinking of you and your family all the time!
Leslie Bechtel-Van Orman
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Becky Brown (Covert)
climber
Cody, WY & Atlanta, GA
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Jun 20, 2007 - 10:37pm PT
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Bobby!
Can you believe I just heard about your crazy idea of a vacation? Mom and Dad were out of town for forever, just got back yesterday - and filled me in on the news (they didn't have cell phones or a phone when they were away, so they just heard too).
I can't believe our 10 year reunion was 6 years ago - it was great seeing you then, and I can't wait to see you at our 20th. Yuck, I can't believe we're even close to our 20th.
I can tell that your family, friends, and hospital staff are taking great care of you in South Africa. Don't let them down - keep improving every day, I know you can do it!
We'll keep you in our thoughts every day. I've been looking at all your photographs again online - you are so amazing. You need to get back out there soon because there sooo many more pictures you've got to take.
Talk to you soon.
Becky
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Meinecke's
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 21, 2007 - 12:03am PT
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Bobby,
Someday, they are going to make a movie about your life. "The Bobby Model Story". Right now, you are writing the toughest chapters of your life. We, the audience, are sitting on the edge of our seats, waiting for that happy scene where you completely recover, and we dry tears of joy.
Come on Bobby, we believe. God will heal.
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Matt
Trad climber
State of Mind
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Jun 21, 2007 - 01:06am PT
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go bobby go!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 21, 2007 - 01:28am PT
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hey there all, i posted this, so folks can learn more about head injuries... i decided to do this after a friend shared her husband's situation, and felt that folks should know ahead of time how to help others--these are things that i already knew--but the general public, does NOT... and perhaps it may be good for you folks to know where these helpful links are (they are listed after this poem) ... god bless to all bobby's family and friends....here is my post:
hey there all, as bobby faces what is sad, and wrong...
please note, i am sharing this,as the days move along...
as folks, through troubles, have come to know...
to tackle life, one must have knowledge grow...
whether it's to be, and/or, to do ones very best...
in the rocks one seeks to climb, as their quest...
one must safely make their way...
by skilled precautions, they've learned, and passed on to others, in say...
as i share these few web-links, is it for brain-injury awareness, you see...
that to your friend bobby, or others walking these hard trails, as it be...
that there be an even deeper support, in their future days...
as the world tends to ignore and look another way...
when those with a brain injury have to wrestle each day...
with things that you've never had to face, or imagined, in any way...
as there are lingering times when a loved one may not seem the
same...
and may be unable to fully, their life's attitudes to reclaim...
yet, other times, there are completely wonderful, exciting, thrilled sucesses...
but, still, you need information to teach you along the way, one
stresses...
even as good climbers must be strong to face the unexpected, too...
as injured brains recover, please learn of all the steps along the way, so you may be part of the healing, in all that you do...
i added the seizure link, by a friends advice...
as,you see, after a head injury, he was NEVER told by his doc, which was not nice...
that he was now high-risk for one...
even THOUGH the injury was healed, and done...
many head injuries can lead to seizures, years down the road...
as far too many folks, have come to know...
now is the time to learn, and be ready to understand...
and to even pray that for bobby, does NOT a'land...
perhaps if we pray AHEAD of time...
this will not do such a damage, for off, down the line...
it is very sad that after fighting so hard, as it be...
that there could be more shocks, to burden he...
well, ending this share, now, please, in your well-wishes, work now to remember, to build yourselves up to be prepared...
to do all you can in the future, for a dear friend, by standing by his side, through future's thick-or-thin, or whatever is fared...
love will be the best medicine around...
and your double-dose can start now, as bobby pushes for a hard
start, from low ground...
to reach his goal, of regaining life, even if in new, different ways in some areas, it may so seem...
yet--with work, trust, and insight, and honor given to each new
challenge, he will wave a victory flag, and a smile of gleam...
HERE ARE TWO GOOD LINKS of awareness:
http://www.biausa.org/Wyoming/whatis.htm
(there is a high amount of information here, in this brain injury link, so scroll down)
http://www.epilepsyontario.org
(for the above site, there are many links to learn from at the
left-side list--this is a very well done)information site)
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RWolff
climber
Powell, WY
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Jun 21, 2007 - 10:49am PT
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Bobby...I have only met you a couple of times but that was all it took to see what an amazing person you are. I do believe so strongly in the power of prayer and what amazing things God can do. I will continue to pray for you and your family.
Reanne Wolff
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Scott Bragonier
climber
Cody Native
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Jun 21, 2007 - 11:06am PT
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Hey Bobby,
I think I remember Faith writing that you are being read all of these postings, so I just wanted to let you know that I’m dragging myself through life and refreshing the SuperTopo website everyday, all day long. One thing is certain; you have an incredible base of fans and friends. I am jealous of all of the people, a lot of them I have never heard of, who have been fortunate to spend time with you the past 10 years and right now. I do know you surround yourself with good people, so I think of them as “our” friends. You’ve been a hard man to keep up with, especially to those of us landlocked in the USA. When we follow your adventures though websites and magazines I think it makes most of us look at our own accomplishments as pale in comparison.
I’ve definitely had a few laughs at the embarrassing stories posted lately. I decided that I will save the real embarrassing stories like when we were in second grade bell choir....wait, did I just type that....for when we’re hanging out as you heal up. Besides, an entire childhood full of memories would take up too much space. I looked up my last e-mail to you and the last sentence reads, “I just hope you stay safe out there, your friend Scott.”
Guess I need to have some words with you!
Your friend Scott
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Cookie
climber
aspen co.
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Jun 21, 2007 - 11:18am PT
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thinking of you all with love and prayers..
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JCB
climber
Lander, WY, someday again
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Jun 21, 2007 - 11:42am PT
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Bomo, you sandbaggin' sunovagun. I was reading Mallamo's post, and thinking about the first time we met: Steve and I were camping on your floor--you were renting in Cody, just back from somewhere abroad--and we convinced you to go climbing with us.
After hemming and hawing a bit ("I don't know, I haven't been climbing in over a year. I'm so out of shape. Let's see...I can't remember the last time I went. I wonder where my ice gear is?") you agreed. And so we set off, by way of Our Place.
My first clue was on the approach, but I was sweating too much at the time to notice. You were not laboring--a conspicuous absence of sweat or heavy breathing--as we plodded up to the base of the route, despite the fact that you were wearing about three layers, including a thick fleece. Steve and I were down to base layers, and my heart was beating so hard from the exertion that I thought it might explode.
My second clue should have been that you didn't eat or drink anything the entire day. Sure, we'd all had the farmer's breakfast and lots of coffee at the diner, but by the top of the second pitch Steve and I had blown practically all of our food, and most of yours.
After Steve and I lead a number of pitches, we came to the last hurdle: a free-standing pillar of steep, over-hanging ice. Courage not only left me, it ran back to the car, rolled up the windows and locked the doors, and drove back to Lander crying. The sharp end of the rope lay there in the snow, waiting.
You, Mr. Nonchalance, said, "The ice looks okay to me, I can give it a try unless one of you guys wants it." Steve's relieved response was, "It's my turn to belay." And then your ice clinic began: good swings, testing every placement, solid footwork, great pro. Basically, you rocked it. No panicked "Watch me!", no limp wrist swings from forearm pump, no it's-too-hard-to-place-pro-so-I-won't. Following your lead left my arms so pumped I thought I would have to chew through my thumbs to release my grip on my tools.
You didn't have much to say about your super-hero performance--I think I recall a "that was a nice pitch"--even though we were blubbering "That was awesome! Incredible!" Okay, maybe I was blubbering. I don't want to ruin Steve's rep. In any event, it was my third and final clue: you are Superman.
Just typing this today, I realized that what I really learned that day is that you're the rarest of all characters: a doer. I plan and train and practice for climbing or for skiing or, to get all big picture on you, for life. You don't have time for all of that training and practice, because you're too busy getting out there, getting after it, doing it. You saw the climb, you wanted to climb it, so you did it. In your life, you see what you want, and you just do it.
So, get better and get your ass back here for a spell. We are waiting here patiently for you, ready to belay. You can add your accident to your list of excuses on why you're out of shape for climbing. But personally, I won't buy it.
Lots of love, my dear friend.
Justin
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Wendy Cortez
climber
Cody
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Jun 21, 2007 - 12:33pm PT
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Bobby, Faith and Family:
It is amazing each day to read all the notes on this site to Bobby and your family, he has made a huge impact in many people's lives. Bobby keep on fighting, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers each day!
Love
Wendy
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J. Lehman
climber
Fort Collins, CO
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Jun 21, 2007 - 02:07pm PT
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Tiffany and my prayers and best wishes are with you, Bobby. I don't know you that well, really, just of you. I've always been kept abreast of your doings, however. Your mom tells my mom who tells me. In that way, you have always inspired me. I love hearing of your adventures.
I remember the first time you made an impression on me. I was eight or nine years old and in my Sunday school class. My mom was the teacher. You were in the older kids' class and politely entered our room. You asked my mom for some paper and a stapler. She grabbed them and handed them to you and asked what you needed them for. You graciously accepted the items and responded, "We're making spitballs. Thanks!" And you left the room. Man, you were cool. I really wanted to be in your class. I still wonder to this day, what the hell did you do with the staples? You'll have to let me know.
Get better, Bobby, you have many more adventures ahead of you.
Josh and Tiffany Lehman
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 21, 2007 - 08:37pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Just heard from Faith, who sent an email at something like two in the morning SA time (hey, you know her better than anyone ...) and she confirmed that you are getting these messages every day. I'm not sure who benefits the most from them, you or all of us who apparently check the web site dozens of time each day in the hope of hearing how you are and to hear from others who love you as much as we all do. I'm afraid you're going to have a fair bit of explaining to do when you wake up ... (and, Bobby's childhood friends, PLEASE keep the stories coming!!!)
It sounds like you are surrounded by the best people, and there have even been some reports from some of the (cute) nurses who claim that you may not be completely asleep and who swear that you check them out when no one is paying attention. Knowing you for the gentleman that you are, I know these dastardly rumors to be untrue but, just a friendly advice, you may want to be more discreet in the future ...
I called Julie in Nairobi and she and Eduardo are well. We talked about their wedding and the fun you all apparently had. Great, now I feel even worse that I missed it! I know they are all waiting for you to get back and I will hold you to your plans to be in Kenya for the year's end holidays (this year or the next, it doesn't really matter).
Otherwise, all is well (and boring) in DC, I'm actually working a lot these days but hopefully it won't last much longer. I'm definitely planning on going back to Madagascar in the fall and, as you know I always "have" to fly through NBO, so hopefully I'll see you and Faith there.
OK, bud, that's all the news for the day, you take good care of yourself and hug everyone for me,
Charlotte
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Matt
Trad climber
State of Mind
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Jun 21, 2007 - 08:52pm PT
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unbelievable thread here on the taco-
must be an unbelievable guy, this bobby feller.
(did i type that wyoming accent correctly?)
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labrat
Trad climber
Nevada
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Jun 21, 2007 - 10:24pm PT
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Good thoughts going your way
Erik
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Mees
climber
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Jun 21, 2007 - 11:41pm PT
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There were so many good memories form the Christ Episcopal church growing up. To this day the only person I've seen wear full camo fatigues to church was young Bobby. Well at least the only person that was in the Bell Choir and under 10 years of age. He would come packing m16s, radios, impressive blades and everything else a young soldier of fortune required for the sunday service. There was a secret crawl space under the church where many of us could be found from time to time. I seem to recall a certain young explorer being one of the more bold that ventured into that particular "cave". He did have m16s and flash lights, yes..but it was creepy down there and the m16s were made by hasbro..
Hard to imagine that was almost 30 years ago, but I can remember how impressive it was that a much younger lil feller haha showed the big kids how to get down there. Most of whom were too scared to enter in the first place. You definitely were and have always been a charger, a term our friend would say. You always charged forth and lived in the moment and those moments are so dear to all of us man. We can't wait to hear about the next project and all of the amazing people you have met along the way.
Heal Wholly my friend
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emagic
climber
Cody
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Jun 21, 2007 - 11:45pm PT
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Bobby,
I am truly grateful for the opportunity to know you. Insipration. So many have said this word when speaking of you. So many stories have been told of you and your crazy zest for life! Knowing you since the second grade and all through school and life has given me lots of memories to reflect on, smile about and even laugh that we were so neglectful to caution! Somehow God smiled on us and protected us for a purpose. Your purpose could very well have been to inspire and bring hope to those who were in need. Now let us return the favor and inspire you to recover. We have been through difficult times before with Tyler, Miah and others we were close to, and we made it through. Lean on us for your strength right now, let us carry you through till you can climb on your own.
To Bobby's family: My prayers and thoughts are with you and Bobby.
Inspire us one more time with a full recovery!
Eric Mackay
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Crystal Lee (Deroche)
climber
Cody,Wy
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Jun 22, 2007 - 12:54am PT
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Bobby,
You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. You are such an inspiration to many and loved by the world. Reading through the postings I have laughed and remembered some of these great stories and have really enjoyed reading from many people I have not seen or talked to for years. It has been some time since I have seen you and thru your great family and friends I feel I have gotten to know you again! You are a special person with much more work to do in this life KEEP UP THE FIGHT. To Bobby's family and friends THANK-YOU for sharing the news and updates. Hang in there Bobby
~Crystal
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Coezy
Social climber
Cody
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Jun 22, 2007 - 12:54am PT
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Bobby - Jim and I ( also Meg and Jay ) are thinking about you and praying for you every day. We love you and want you back here in Cody with us. Love, Anne
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nickrohrbach
Trad climber
bainbridge island
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Jun 22, 2007 - 03:39am PT
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Hi Bobby, Nick here-
In the past 2 weeks there hasn't been a day, let a waking hour, that I haven't thought of you. With every one of those thoughts comes a memory of you, expanding the last thirty-some-odd years I've known you. From hooking the treehouse up with electricity, hucking throwing stars into Sylvia' restaurant after skiing, catching your first lead fall on 5.8 crack when we ventured alone because Charles could lead for us, and the college years and Dr. Jaeger... Ouch, those shots hurt...
I do look forward to more of these great times.
I am sooooo happy that Faith is at your side. No one better than that! Faithy has always been a sister to me, and in that regard, you have always been my older brother. A little picking on, but only to make me stronger... right?
Man, Brother, your in our thoughts, prayers- everything.
I'm coming home to Cody for the 4th this year and was hoping to see you. Lets meet up next year for sure!
I love you, Bobby, and look forward to seeing your mischievous grin again soon.
Love Nick, Morgan, Simi, (and kid #2...) Rohrbach
PS Faithy: We love you more than your could ever know!!!!!
PPS Bob, Ann, Jim, Mona: out warmest and best thoughts for you! We are praying day and night.
PPPS Joe: Thanks for being there- It is a comfort to know your there keeping watch.
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 22, 2007 - 09:05am PT
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JUST GOT THE JUNE 22 UPDATE FROM FAITH:
Dear All,
I'm really struggling to find words that might convey a glimmer of the
magnitude of gratitude that we have for the worldwide support, love, light,
hope and affirmations directed toward Bobby and his healing process. I
believe this is one of the greatest gifts of our lives and we will never
forget. You have been extraordinary and we are sharing and saving every
written and sent note, letter, email, gift, picture, rock, plant, etc for
Bobby when he wakes. As I've mentioned before, I am sure that Bobby is
closest to the surface when I settle in for what has become a morning ritual
of message reading. The nurses often tilt their ears to listen and I can
hear one or more softly laugh or sigh behind me as they bustle about,
continually shaking their heads in amazement at the mass of support and
love, sometimes wiggling Bobby's knee and adding to the encouragement. Your
hope, love and humor are infectious.
It's been really great to have Joe Maxwell here, not only for Bobby, but
also for the rest of us...and frankly, it's good to balance all the
nurturing and petting with some additional masculine Wyoming love. My dad
and Jim are thrilled.
Bobby continues to rest peacefully with very stable vitals. We've been
meeting with the doctors and we're information gathering at the moment as
there will soon be decisions to make about possible additional procedures,
where do we go from here, etc. Needless to say, the priority is to ensure
that Bobby is on the best possible healing path for him. Once we have more
information and clarity about all of this, we will let you know how we will
proceed. Bobby, in his infinite wisdom and anal retentiveness, has made it
very easy to navigate through all business matters and logistics. He's the
best.
In the meantime, we send endless thanks and much love from us all,
especially Bobby.
Faith
PS: Mariella showed us all this story about a friend of hers and I find it
encouraging and inspiring, so im passing it on...
http://www.nppa.org/news_and_events/news/2005/02/trotter.html
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Brown
Trad climber
New Forest, UK
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Jun 22, 2007 - 09:19am PT
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Dear Bobby,
We have not met but I feel compelled to write after hearing about your accident. I came across your name and learnt a bit about you last month when I was reading ‘Beyond The Summit’ by Todd Skinner. Your skill and commitment on Trango Tower was and still is truly inspiring. Although a climber myself, in general I don’t keep a breast of what is happening in the professional climbing world – but after reading Skinner’s book I wanted to look up the Trango team names on the internet to see what they were up to now. I was saddened to hear of Skinner’s death last year and your unfortunate accident earlier this month and the disappearance of Steve Betchel’s partner. I am praying for all of you and your families as I write and thought with everything that’s going on right now you especially Bobby could do with some words of encouragement.
In the early 90’s I had a serious head injury after falling off a route at The Roaches, a grit-stone crag in the UK – I landed on my head - I wasn’t wearing a helmet. My skull was smashed at the front and my brain was exposed to the elements. I got a ride in a helicopter off the mountain and then spent time in the Neuro Ward of a very good hospital. It was 50/50 whether I would make it or not - but eventually I pulled through.
I bought Skinner’s book last month mainly for his intended application in helping achieve business goals - rather than climbing goals. But on reflection, the way he explains the ascent of Trango Tower is apt for anyone embarking on a ‘summit’. I wish the words in his book had filtered my may earlier after my climbing accident - as I may have dealt with it and recovered quicker, but he hadn’t written it then.
Skinner has a way with words – I’m sure you know. Have you read his book recently? I thought I’d share some of my notes from ‘Beyond The Summit’. In some way they may help put into context where you might go next in your present situation. I’m not sure where you are on your current summit and whether you know how to get up to the next pitch or even the pitch after that.
Skinner talks about clearly defining your summit and then ‘facing the wall’ and the importance to leave the ground with the right attitude, getting rid of the spectre before you climb and carrying in the pack only what you need – dumping excess baggage. He talks about translating fear and doubt from ‘shouldn’t have come’ to green lights to greater achievement, he says to succeed you must be willing to risk failure. You may start the climb knowing that you’re not good enough, but stay to begin the process of succeeding. Before the 1st step believe the 2nd step will follow and eventually to the millionth step. Skinner says that if you don’t make the commitment to the summit, even if you move upward you will eventually turn back. He talks about keeping in your backpack the habit of ascent, a frontier mentality (believe in impossible being possible). He goes on to talk about breaking the mountain into chunks – must do this to achieve that. He says it’s a physical and mental process – right move you’ll go up, wrong move you’ll go down and find a new way.
Skinner goes onto to say it’s not the fall that’s important; it’s what you do afterwards. He talks about you Bobby – right below the top of Trango Tower – everyone was spent and you fell on a very difficult lead, and at altitude you tried again. He talks about the importance of improvising instead of quitting. I need X to do this, but I have no X – can I make X out of Y and Z? Gather belief in 10ft parcels not 100ft. Skinner talks about taking one more step? Saying yes gives you the option of continuing – answering yes is to leave the past behind and step into the future. Going to the edge of what you can do and then going beyond. He stresses that you never arrive on the summit alone, you come with teammates who shared your struggle and you also bring heroes who inspired you. Don’t compromise your destination for sake of position – you may have to go down to go up – and don’t curse the mountain – it’s your ally, never your enemy.
At the summit you are fundamentally a different person, improved skills and improved belief. Physical fatigue needs rest, emotional fatigue will not be rid through rest; you must consciously drop it. The summit often has a repelling force, that’s why you need life-long ascents – always look into the future and see where you can go.
I hope the words from your buddy Todd Skinner will help you in some way with what you’re going through. Wishing you the very best and continuing to pray for you and your friends and family.
Best, Darren Brown x
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lr
climber
on exile in DC from Cody
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Jun 22, 2007 - 10:25am PT
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Good morning from Virginia to all of you strong people there. Like so many, we have been checking here daily as well as receiving regular updates from dear friends in Cody. What a wonderful community to be connected with! Bobby, while not surprised, I am impressed and inspired with the many people you have touched with your personality as well as your art.
Faith, Anne, Jim, Bob and Kara you are all number 1 our prayers as I know you are with everyone back home at Christ's Church.
Our love to you all,
J.O., Liz, James and Allyson Ratliff
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jet
climber
red lodge mt
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Jun 22, 2007 - 10:33am PT
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Hey Bobby I hear that Joe is there haseling you. if anything will gwet someone goiung it would be him. Gald things are on the up swing. Thinking of you lots. Your pal Jet Joe, safe travels.
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Todd Gordon
Trad climber
Joshua Tree, Cal
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Jun 22, 2007 - 10:55am PT
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Bobby. Hope you recover from this . I don't know you at all, but I was friends with Todd Skinner, and he stayed with me in Arizona , and at Joshua Tree. You always have a place to stay at Joshua Tree, and the climbing community wishes you the best. We are all praying for your well-being, and you have lots of fellow climbers and friends you have never met are behind you all the way through this. Stay with it, and stay strong. I look every day on S T to read about your progress. You can do this. It will happen, with all the love and support from family, friends, and the climbing community. Todd Gordon Joshua Tree, Calif.
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 22, 2007 - 11:49am PT
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MOTIVATION TO LEAVE THE TENT. TRANGO TOWER 1995
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 22, 2007 - 05:59pm PT
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Hello all:
Just returned from seeing BOBBY: He is resting and appears to be recovering. His sutures on his head have been removed and seem to be healing well.Still looks like a big old softball.Bobby BP,heartate,and respiration are all in the normal range.++
To me Bobby seams very close to the surface???I feel good about his progress,of course I wish it was much faster!!!
The neuro report yesterday reported that approximately 75% of the brain is still alive /functioning, I'm not sure??This is good news what ever it is. I got this second hand ala Faith,Bob,Merriella,Austine?? I So hope its all true!
Most of the swelling on Bobby face has gone down a bunch.This appears to have taken some pressure of his eyeballs,which helps his facial appearance.
Bobbys still ahngin TOUGH.Keep Him in your Thoughts and Prayers.We read Supertopo daily and pass word on to Bobby and the family. Thank You All for Your continued Strenght."Together throught it all". JOE
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montanaclimber
Trad climber
Marysville, MT
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Jun 22, 2007 - 06:32pm PT
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I hope Bobby your condition continues to improve and you can recover from this terrible accident. Please know that you are in my thoughts and I'll be sending all the good vibes I have your way.
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Tahoe climber
Trad climber
a dark-green forester out west
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Jun 22, 2007 - 06:33pm PT
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That's pretty positive news.
I don't know you, Bobby, but COME BACK!
We're rootin' for you.
-Aaron
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Jennifer harvey
climber
Sausalito CA, formerly Cody,WY
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Jun 22, 2007 - 07:48pm PT
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Bobby -
Like many I've been watching updates on this site to hear how you are doing, but didn't feel I had anything more relevant to add to everyones very thoughtful prayers and well wishes.
Until John Quality discovered free climbs. This evening, "Jack", the15-month old love of my life, had already scaled the side of the couch, flipped over the arm, and landed on his back before I could grab for him. When I got to him he gave me a look of abject terror, but what panicked me was how quickly that look became glee. Terror and then glee, sound familiar to you? Somewhere between the green, faux leather couch, and the Cheerio covered carpet, my son found Nirvana. And as I looked at his cheribimic, mischevious face with a scratch on his cheek from bouncing off the fireplace, and a slightly blackened eye from a game we call "Head Meet Wall" I had a revelation: "Oh Lord. This is what Anne must have felt everyday when Bobby was a baby."
So I said another prayer for you, and my son, and lets face it, I said a big one for me. I guess this note is for you, but also Anne because I'm no adventurer, yet here I am raising one. So if you have any tips on how to raise a first rate adventurer like Bobby, I could really use them. Now I'm off to intervene in a struggle with the sock monkey, who seems to have already lost a limb in battle.
We think about you daily as you continue to heal,
Jennifer (Parko), Matt, and John Quality Harvey
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 22, 2007 - 08:19pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Good news! (for me, for you, not so much ...) it's Friday night, and the week is FINALLY over. The week-end looms, filled with the promise of long bike rides, some runs, maybe a hike, and DEFINITELY too many mojitos - Anne, you're not reading this are you? if you are, consider yourself hugged anyway ... Maybe it's the emotional drain of following all you're going through from afar, but this week has definitely been one of the longest in a while ... in any case, it is now officially OVER.
I finally got hold of Kazuki last night and he sends his very best. He is actually in the midst of moving his young family (his son Eddy is less than two months old) from Hilo to Molokai so things are a little crazy but he's otherwise well. I'm also sending all the updates to Kim and she too sends her love. We're all rooting for you, bud, so you go right ahead and wake up soon, OK?
The news from your side of the pond seems to be getting better and we all take great comfort in that. They say you now look like a big softball. But wait, I'm confused, didn't you always look like a big softball???? Do tell everyone that we are thinking of them, and tell your Dad that I can't wait to see him again so we can talk politics. I'm sure we will have HEAPS to agree on, like ... like ... uh, hang on, it's going to come to me soon, like ... Never mind, it will be great to see him anyway.
OK, bud, all for now, you just carry on getting better and, as always, give everyone there all my love,
Charlotte
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 22, 2007 - 09:16pm PT
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hey there, dear faith, i am wishing wonderful insight to unfold and grow, for bobby... this article that you shared, is bringing light onto a very hard subject...this is the hard challenge of the head injury, as in the article of the BEE photographers...
the world needs to see and hear more from these survivors, as they are the hidden heroes of the world, that the world overlooks... heroes of life, when the brain leaves behind all, or some, of what one has know all their life..... hard trails, and these heroes find themselves in the saddle of a "critter" they wish they could set-in-the-barn, for a remount.... having their "past beloved critter back" would be a dream come true, but they must press-on to new dreams.... they can be wonderful dreams, if there is loved-ones and friends, to cheer them on.... i sincerly am praying and hoping that bobby will be be a successe in his pressing-on, so that he may help others, press-on as well and give many thousands inspiration to reach out to seemnigly overwhelming goals.... thanks for sharing that head injury link, folks need to see and understand these matters.... it has been hidden in the dark, even as epilepsy (seizure disorders, have been).... god bless, and smile... the good lord is holding your hand, once you take that reach-out...
from what a lot of folks have said, as to head injury and the healing process... (cry in secret, become strong...) then, take your self and smile in the mirrow, as you are a a healing-vessle... then, take that smile, and coach your loved into what ever victories he is reaching out to... go from there, with patience... and have joy for each sucess, no matter how small... take our disappointments, back to your room, pray, cry and be stong and refresshed for the new day.... and do it all over again...
two things can happen with a head injury patient... some may never even know that they are not at the full level of capactiy, and therefore, each victory is great for them---sorrows at what you see, can send them to slide...
others, they know of their failings and can become frustrated... then, you must rise to the call and the challange, and reach out and coax them on, with whatever they need---as all folks are different... some will need words spoken in a certain way... louder, softer, with rythem, or other, not... others will need words spoken in strong strait facts...ONLY you will know, AS YOU WORK WITH BOBBY.... that is the key--relationship... and careful watching and studying....
course, once one is fully on their way... do not feel that you must hide your feelings of their life, or situations... as that is not true relationship... at his point in time, there must be times of talking, shareing and geting feelings out into the open and respecting the person as for who he still is... a fellow man/woman, in the walk of life.... worthy of honor, insight, understanding, compassiona and guide lines of keeping a form of self-discipline and acheivement, for self respect....
god bless and much love, neebee.... just new, and hanging around here, cause i saw my brothers name (chappy) ... here...
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Jun 22, 2007 - 10:07pm PT
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Thanks joe for updates, honest and difficult for you. Faith, you are amazing. I keep thinking of ABC's Bob Woodruff and his amazing return to his profession. As a mom, and friend of Anne's Ipray for bobby to be able to return to profession, but hope he finds something tamer to keep him happy. I too was there when he was a toddler, climbing, jumping, runnin, always with a wide grin. I understand he may be heading to US soon. I know he is in an amazing facility but it just seems right to have him closer to home and family and friends sarah
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 22, 2007 - 11:36pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
Well the grass isn't in yet, but the sprinkler system is being installed. The trees and shrubs look great. The plants are green. We have a little guy from Northern Gardens who sits out by the trees and waters them so that they stay wet. Hopefully, the sprinklers will go in the first part of next week and then the sod can be laid. It is going to look so nice. I feel sorry for the guy who has been keeping things wet. It has been really hot outside lately. He does a good job though.
Anne - I wanted to let you know that Steve went out to the place today and took care of the pool. He got with the folks who are caretaking for you and they got it done. If you need anything else, please just give me a call or write something here. I check this everyday for updates and to see who is here wishing Bobby well. I will do whatever it takes to ease your mind and keep you from worrying about things here while you are doing what is needed to be done there. Give Bobby a hug for me and tell him that I continue to think of him everyday - better yet, I will tell him myself.
Bobby - I am thinking of you and I am praying that you come back to all of your friends and loved ones and talk about this time in your life and say "remember when - look at me now! Would you have ever guessed?". This is my hope for you Bobby, as it is for everyone else talking in this list; so long now, by the way, that it takes a while to scroll down to the bottom. You have touched many lives, whether through your pictures, through your voice, or by just being an inspiration to people who have never even met you. You are a wonderful, amazing human being and your kindness and caring for all mankind has made you someone that everyone wants to know. So, get better so that some of these people here that have never met you may have an opportunity to see what so many of us here see in you. This is my deepest wish. You are so special to so many, just look at this list and you will know.
Heal well Bobby, we are all waiting to see the next chapter to be written in the life and times of Bobby Model!! We are watching and listening so intently - you can't even imagine!
Hope to see you soon,
Janet Cozzens
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WillH
Sport climber
Salt Lake City
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Jun 23, 2007 - 01:08am PT
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Bobby, I heard about your accident the day before I left for Asia. It's been hard being a world away wondering how you are doing. I've thought about you everyday since I've left, always waiting for the email that says you're well and cracking jokes with the nurses.
As each day passes memories flood my mind. I can see you now on top of Huyana Potosi laughing as I gasped up the final summit ridge. Where did a cigar smoking, scotch drinking cowboy get such big lungs?
I'll never forget how you barreled down Lava Falls like a pro. Not bad for a rookie! I still can't believe you won the best boatman award even though I had 15 years rowing experience on you!
You always had a way of making things look so easy. I can hear you now saying, "Come on Willy!", as you led the charge down something I'd come up with, but you somehow stepped up to show me how it was done.
From the simple pleasures of drinking gin and tonics by the pool after climbing Mt. Kenya, to suffering through the worst basecamp cook in the history of climbing in the Quimsa Cruz, I've enjoyed every minute of your unabashed commentary.
Even though I haven't seen you much in the past year, you always made an effort to stay in touch. Your phone calls from the wilds of Pakistan or the African bush to just say hello were more than appreciated. I always got a kick out of telling my friends, "excuse me while I take this call from the Baltoro Glacier".
So Bobby, keep fighting. I've seen you do so much in your life that I know you can conquer this new challenge. Know that all the folks from the Grand, Bon, myself and the Salt Lake crew, Peter in Gremany, and everyone else we've crossed paths with over the years are all pulling for you. I"m looking forward to hearing your voice calling again from some far away place saying, "Hey Willy........
Take care my friend,
Will
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 23, 2007 - 01:28am PT
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hey there all...
this is for friends that are interested in learning about seizure and head injuries, so that you will be prepared to help in the long run---if need be... if this is too much to think on now, please feel free not to check it out.... it is in regard to our returning war-soldiers... and what they will most likely face 3-5 years down the road, after recovering...
i know it sounds hard, to learn these things... but even as gals give birth, it is easier for them when they learn what their bodies are doing, then there is no fear or panic, etc... and all goes smoother..... so:
if one knows more of how the brain responds, one will not be a fearful, and one will be able to face overwhelming situationa and overcome and conquer in MOST WONDERFUL ways...
god bless to all.... hope this helps folks that may be learning of new things...
PLEASE NOTE... ON OCCASIONS, this website below will say: ERROR JRUN, or some-such-nonsense, as we all call it :)
but please, try again, sooner or later, it will work...thanks for the try:
http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/epilepsyusa/news/perlmutter.cfm
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 23, 2007 - 01:40am PT
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hey there all... thought perhaps you all might like to see that NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC is HONORING bobby model, here on their page... (it appears that the injury-mention, though was from earlier, as we just heard that he is progressing, here at this site)... but you may see your dear friend honored, here...
http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2007/06/070611-geographic-model.html
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bunnypoo
climber
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Jun 23, 2007 - 04:12am PT
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Bobby -
I would like to remind you of the first yoga class I dragged you to . . . after which you took to dropping into warrior 2 and booming out your newly learned mantra - "Love is my weapon!" (For those not present - yoga posed no greater challenge to his stunning athleticism than anything else.)
So, Bobby, call on your warrior spirit now and remember LOVE IS YOUR WEAPON!
Love YOU!
-Molly
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Mooncrest Cowhand
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 23, 2007 - 10:07am PT
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Bobby,
Were praying daily for you and your family. Hope to see all of you very soon.
Thoughts and Prayers,
JC Hicks and Family
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eric/erin
climber
meeteetse, wyoming
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Jun 23, 2007 - 12:08pm PT
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Bobby: Eric and I are planning on riding in to Robber's Roost for the weekend. I have a good feeling I can get some stories out of him about you all in your younger years on the ranch. We'll be praying for you as we venture out. I hear there has been bear sign there this week. I'd love to see one...but then again, not too close!
Joe and gang: there is a guy here in Meeteetse that had a brain injury last year. His brain was functioning at 10% at one point and I just talked to him in Wal-Mart last week! They predict a full recovery...just takes time. Thought that was encouraging after your last report!
Erin Geving
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Largo
Sport climber
Venice, Ca
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Jun 23, 2007 - 12:37pm PT
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Still pulling for you. If I should have so many good friends as you have!
JL
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Wolfie
Trad climber
Mammoth Lakes
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Jun 23, 2007 - 02:20pm PT
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Positive vibes from the Sierras.....You will pull through this Bobby.....your determination for life is so strong....You are healing....Love surrounds you....We are all waiting for those wanderlust eyes to open.....
Gretchen
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 23, 2007 - 03:03pm PT
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Hello Freinds,
I'm heading off to see Bobby again today/tonight? He rests and is very comfortable.
As i sit with him and watch i think ok Bob enough! Wake up!Bobby is just not ready? Bobby is healing ,Bobby is getting better!?+
The nurse said that when she gave Bobby a bath this after noom Bobby opened his eye?!+++ I hope so!!!!
Marriella (Bobbys Freind) told me that she saw REM(Rapid Eye movement)I have not seen it, I feel Bobby haas been deep in rest Today. Shit! Bobby give me a sign! We are all waiting on the edge of our chairs! Speak to Us !!! love JOE
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 23, 2007 - 04:45pm PT
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Thanks, Joe, for posting these updates, you have no idea how much we look forward to them. Any news, no matter how small, helps keep the hope alive, so please keep them coming.
Hey Bob-Meister,
As you can imagine, my thoughts have been with you a lot recently and I remember fondly the New Year's in Montana and that time in Nairobi when we hung out with Faith and your friend Peter from Germany. Really, I don't know why people keep referring to you as anal ... you totally let us invade your space, the three of us were camping in your living room and we spent a good deal of time hanging out on the little porch, drinking Tuskers and smoking Sportsmans. It was such a healthy break too ...
In any event, as is often the case, I associate a certain music to that time and a few months after I moved to the Turks and Caicos, Faith sent me a kick-ass CD with some of those songs. Now, all I need to do is close my eyes, hear the first notes and I am back in Karen, hanging out with you, and having a devil of a good time. So, in an attempt to take you back there, and maybe give you yet another nudge to wake up, here is a list of some of the songs. Faith can read out the titles to you, and maybe she can also sing some of them to you, and ... No, wait, that would be cruel and unusual: Faith, why don't you just read him the titles. Here goes:
 OAR Crazy game of poker (the really long version ...)
Nelly - no matter what I do (all I think about is you)
The Wallflowers - closer to you
Finely Quaye - (nothing can compare to when you roll the) Dice
Outkast - Caroline
Tori Amos - A sorta fairy tale
Coldplay - Beautiful World
Jack Johnson, Flake
and one of my favorites, Dixie Chicks - Cowboy Take me away
Now, there is also one about "real american heroes, mister underwear inspector # 12" but that one I'd rather forget ...
OK, bud, that's it for today, I need to go for a bike ride, my next tri is in less than three months and I need to get the miles in. Rest peacefully, but feel free to come back to us as soon as you're OK with it. We're waiting for you!
As always, hug everyone for me,
Charlotte
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Kate Borgelt
climber
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Jun 23, 2007 - 05:39pm PT
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Faith~
I just recently learned about the accident and wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of you and Bobby daily. My love and many prayers being sent straight to you two. My love,love,love. Kate Borgelt
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jun 23, 2007 - 07:25pm PT
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Hi bobby, I sent you another prayer yesterday, this time on the beach of the Oregon Coast. I wrote Heal Bobby!!! in the sand at low tide. I started thinking about how far that prayer had to travel to get to you. Which way did the tide take it? Pacific Ocean to the straigts of the China Sea , to the Indian Ocean and finally around the Cape of Good Hope. It sounds PERFECT!!
As you have already heard some of us have planned a reunion in Cody for the 4th of July. I tried to get Sonja to come too but her baby is due any day now so she'll have to stay in Jackson Hole. By the sounds of the progress your making, maybe you could fit it into your busy schedule too.
Keep fighting. I remember something you used to say, Mono Y Mono and then you'd kiss your bicepts. I always figured it was a quirky climbing thing.Dig deep, find your holds, and mono y mono.
Love Heather.
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Conrad
climber
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Jun 23, 2007 - 07:59pm PT
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Dear Bobby,
Get well soon. The world needs fine fellows like you to keep it on the straight and narrow.
Keep the old sailors adage that, "All storms pass" in mind and the journey will be shorter.
You are in in our thoughts. Be strong!
With kindness,
Conrad
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Jesse Schulz
climber
Vancouver, WA.
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Jun 23, 2007 - 10:38pm PT
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I just heard about your accident Bobby, I didn't know you all that well, just the little I remember from the ski team in Cody. You were quite a great skiier, with a crazy personality that not a one on the ski team could forget. You will be in my families hearts and prayers, even after you recover.
Jesse, Anna and baby Joesph Schulz.
Vancouver, WA.
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Wolfie
Trad climber
Mammoth Lakes
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Jun 23, 2007 - 11:46pm PT
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Bobby....
I was looking through some of my favorite quotes from those individuals like you who have touched others...and this one jumped from the pages of my journal, and I thought that I would share it with you, for it is the essence of who you are....from the many postings from loved ones and friends...and those that do not know you personally, but that you have touched....you are a gift...a rare individual that makes a difference in the lives of so many....keep fighting.....your positive energy is needed in this world....
"When we feel responsible, concerned and committed, we begin to feel deep emotion and great courage"
~The 14th Dalai Lama
Gretchen Blossom
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inhisfootsteps
Sport climber
the ♥ of WY.
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Jun 24, 2007 - 01:57am PT
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Bobby-
I know I have met you before at my Uncle Todd's memorial I am pretty sure- but all my family's thoughts and prayers go out to you! Get better soon.
Becca
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 24, 2007 - 06:23am PT
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Hello All: justreturned from a vist from Bobby : Hen rests well! brought him Nicki's IPOD and put it in his ear ,I hope Bobby likes Nickis picks for dads trip I surre did.
Bobby is closer to the surface today. Maybe the music?
Bobby is still in the ICU and on the ventalator.Bobby is running a low grade fever and they are fighting that with antibiotics.In talking with him he said this is not uncommon with patients on a vent. Dr also told me that neurologicly ther is slight improvement++++.A Journey of a thousand miles begins with one step!
The nurses all Love Bobby and talk to him constantly,very nice!!!We asked Bobby if he wanted a Lollipop Bobby would move his mouth? I thought it was a coincodance but Bobby did it several times++++Like I said closer to the surface??
Keep The Strenght JOE
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stace
Social climber
slc ut
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Jun 24, 2007 - 10:12am PT
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Bobby
I've been thinking of you daily since your accident and sending positive healing energy your way. I also send my love but there is certainly no shortage of that coming your way.
I met Bobby on a 17day river trip. Bobby's not a fan of water or a swimmer but on day 3 or so he decided to become a boatman. Learning to row a raft on the mighty Colorado river through the Grand Canyon. Of course Bobby took to it like a natural.Thank goodness. I was hanging on for dear life with a rookie rowing my boat! Rowing through the likes of Crystal and Lava falls (BIG water for those who are unfamiliar) with style. OK so maybe not Crystal we got out of that on on pure luck after a wild spin or two!
Bobby broke an oar on his first or second rapid and still managed to take a great line!
Faith, Bobby spoke so highly of you and I do know for certain that he would take that concrete to the head a thousand times so that it didn't hit you.
I wish your family strength through this very difficult time.
xo Stacey
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stace
Social climber
slc ut
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Jun 24, 2007 - 10:14am PT
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Hi Stacey
You don't know me, I am a friend of Kelly Larrabee, I
met Bobby through her when I was working in Kenya last
year. She sent me an email informing me of the
accident Bobby had a little while ago.
I just wanted to express my deepest sympathies to his
family, and to let them know I am keeping him and them
in my thoughts...I really enjoyed the little time I
spent with Bobby, he made a very positive impact on me
during my time there, as did his sister.
Thank you,
Sincerely,
Janka Flaska
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Jaime
climber
Michigan
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Jun 24, 2007 - 10:44am PT
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Bobby,
You and I have only met a few times as we always seemed to miss each others trips to Nairobi, but I always kept up with your adventures through Faith and the Sinnarys. When I think of you I always remember the first time I met you in ’99 when you came to visit Faith just as she was finishing her internship with SFS. You gave an incredible slideshow of your photos and blew everyone away. Photo after photo my vertigo kicked in as you showed amazing shots of rock climbers dangling from insane heights. I remember thinking of a quote about Ginger Rogers… that she did everything Fred did but backwards…and in heels. A similar thought kept coming to mind with each photo highlighting these climbers and their amazing feats… You were doing the same insane climbs, at the same insane heights but you were doing them with your camera equipment…and still managing to make beautiful art.
If anyone has the strength and courage to pull through such an unfortunate incident it is you. Add to that the amazing love and strength of your family and friends and there is no way you won’t pull through this.
You and your family are in my thoughts and I am sending all the positive energy that I can muster up.
Love,
Jaime
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Natethesk8
climber
Omaha
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Jun 24, 2007 - 12:32pm PT
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Bobby I don't know you personally. I know of you from research on climbing and mountaineering and then from the news of your accident.
I have a poem I wanted to contribute which I hope you will accept as a tribute to you and people like you who have lived their lives with passion, courage and curiosity to explore and to have a positive impact on the world. The world needs others like you and I know you'll pull through this because you have too much yet to contribute to the world.
My prayers go out to you and your family.
~a fellow "explorer" from NE
Precipice
The dawn of a new day
Enlightens the burden I share
With only my soul
But even that is not there
In its place only a void – dull and cool
Like the amber, marble peak that I see when I stare
At the dead, dull pond in the depth of my fear.
Ocean eyes gaze
Into an azure sky
On an eagle in flight,
Gathering momentum for its last fateful leap
To hurdle the summit of a neighboring peak
It catches my eye in a withering stare
When a reflection of light - shimmering, laughing at me
Lights up my vision - a crystalline jamboree
Focus, Patience, Energy
I depend on all three
I am walking the tightrope of life you see
Vital, intoxicating, frightening and free
I blink at the drop of painful brilliance
Midnight returns for an eternal instance
Purple velvet backdrop, firefly lights
Spiraling galaxy – at its center an orb
The same as I saw in the eye of the eagle
The galaxy spirals or is it me who is spinning
The light from the stars seem to fuse into white
A blanket of cloud, cloaking the night
I lose my hold, my grip and my faith
Shuddering, Falling
Falling
Falling
At peace in my mind as I begin my dream
A promise of warmth and security
That must be ignored as long as I strain
Upon myself I depend when I’m ragged and worn
What it’s like to hang from only an arm
And scrape and claw and scratch and groan
And cling to the Precipice – it is my home.
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Joanie
climber
Cody
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Jun 24, 2007 - 05:09pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
My prayers and thoughts are with you daily, as they are with your family. The last time I saw you in Cody was March 7, the due date of my baby. You were at Whole Foods Trading Co. and you were (as always) gracious and kind. I had a little girl 2 days later (Noelle).
I think back on the many years I have known you, and you have always been such a humble, joyous, and capable person. I am praying that you pull through this and heal, so you can continue to be an example of courage for all of us.
Love and many prayers,
Joani (Joanie Miller) Graham
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emswally
Trad climber
pocatello, idaho
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Jun 24, 2007 - 05:14pm PT
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Hi Bobby, Ann, Faith and Bob
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Bobby. Haven't seen you in years but always hear great things about you. Everyone is pulling for you and you've amassed a world of friends whose hearts are behind you.
Chad Waller
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 24, 2007 - 05:31pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
The latest news is that you are still not completely back with us, but getting really close. So, I started thinking about things that are going on that may be an extra incentive (if you EVER needed one) for you to come back to us. Here goes, in no particular order:
first the weather, I don't know what's going on, but the weather is gorgeous, sunny and hot, but not muggy, which is unheard of for DC. Perfect outdoors weather. Not sure what it's like in Cody but maybe someone from there will fill us in, or I will check on some website for you.
Second: watermelons! they have now arrived in full force, and bud, they are a force to be reckoned with, sweet and watery, you can't eat one without a change of clothes, a real delight! I do have a pet peeve, though, the last one I bought was seedless. Now what, tell me, is the point of eating watermelon if you don't get to spit out the seeds??? I swear, they have pushed this whole GMO thing way too far ...
the music: there are some seriously cool songs that have come out recently and I am right now burning you a CD of the songs that I have listened to while I think of you: totally kick-ass. My favorite of the moment: If you read my mind, by The Killers (the irony of that one just hit me as I was writing this ...)
on the movie front: A mighty heart, about Daniel Pearl and Pakistan (and I know how much you like Pakistan) and Knocked up, which I haven't seen yet but is widely described as sophomoric humour. Hum, sophomoric humour, that sounds like you, doesn't it???
These are the reasons I can come up with off the top of my head but others may want to pitch in on that one. And most importantly, bud, we really miss you, and we can't wait for you to come back to us. Whenever you feel like it, come on back and we'll be waiting for you.
As always, hug everyone for me,
Charlotte
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radio
Trad climber
Glenwood Springs, CO
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Jun 24, 2007 - 08:52pm PT
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Model Family, Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Words cannot express the shock that we felt upon hearing of Bobby's ordeal. We know that he is strong and will persevere as always. Sincerely, Joe, Erin and Olivia Radosevich.
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Timi Davenport
climber
Littleton, CO
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Jun 24, 2007 - 11:02pm PT
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Dear Bobby, Anne, Jim, and everyone else in Cape Town, Cody, and everywhere! Dave and I think are thinking of you, praying for you, and sending you good vibes. Bobby- You don't know us, but your adventures and accomplishments have always inspired us. We just got back from a great day hike in the Indian Peaks Wilderness, and the sunset over the front range is absolutely gorgeous right now. We read about Bobby's tragic "accident" in the Cody paper last week (the paper gets to us about a week late, then it usually sits in the stack of mail for a few days), and have just now gone to this supertopo website. We're glad to read the recent posts about Bobby's improvement! Like someone else said, "Go, Bobby, go!" Love, Timi and Dave Davenport
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Jun 24, 2007 - 11:40pm PT
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You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May God speed Bobby's recovery.
Much love to all,
Sharon and Bill Baker
PS Many thanks to SuperTopo for hosting this forum.
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brooks emeny
Social climber
bozeman, mt
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Jun 25, 2007 - 09:41am PT
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Bobby, Summertime in Montana is going well. The girls 6 and 8 have their own horses and are riding almost every day. I think of you often and know you are going to pull through on this one. It is not your time. Keep strong and get the heck out and back to the mountains. Here is a poem I believe I took from Outward Bounds.
Men go back to the mountains as they go back to sailing ships at sea. Because in the mountains and out on the sea, they must facce up as did men of another age, to the challenge of nature. Modern man lives a highly synthetic kind of existence. He specializes in this and that. Rarely does he test all his powers of finding himself whole. But in the hills and on the water, the character of a man comes out.
Bobby, you have the character, you are "DA MAN", you are what this poem is about. Keep up the fight and show us all "THAT A CODY BOY WILL SURVIVE".
Love, Brooks, Kenzie, and Lexi
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 25, 2007 - 09:44am PT
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Hello All:
Bobbys condition is stable .Sorry no new news "no news is good news"?? Bobbys temp has decresed which is good++. The staff is ever vigilaite of infection.We all wash throuhly and are very careful.heart rate down from yesterday mid 90's,respiration 20+still high .More REM by others,nurses said Booby opened both eyes yesterday++I'll keep ya postedJOE
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Concerned
climber
SLC
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Jun 25, 2007 - 10:06am PT
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Ann, Jim, Bob, Mona and Faith,
I just wanted you to know that Bobby and you are all in our prayers. We pray for a speedy and healthy recovery. Liz has been helpful in relaying info and I mentioned the accident to Frank and Betsy who are very concerned as you would imagine. love the Jim and Kathy Taggart Family
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Erynne Selk
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 25, 2007 - 12:32pm PT
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Faith,
This email is purely for your enjoyment, although I hope you will read it to Bobby and everyone there. Depending on the story, you can decide how much you want to explain.
I apologize to everyone reading the forum- I find it annoying to read emails such as this, but wanted to keep it quick and simple without revealing much of the details.
So, off we go!
-"I'm a bear!" Bobby chasing a screaming Lance through the fire. I believe Lance started getting seriously worried when the chainsaw came out. Right, Lance?
-"You're not my parent"- same night.
-"olly, olly, oxen free"
-Pink Harlem, care of Jan Ackerman
-"Then what's my name?" -"Uhhhhh, Kevin?"
-Stupid pet tricks- the lady who's dog chased the vacuum. Who's dog doesn't chase the vacuum? Cripe.
-Mr. White's video assignment: Bobby was a Neanderthal and the Eagle narrated. (We do have it and we will watch it)
-SOUL TRAIN- yeah, Meg.
-Did we ride home in a police car from Jay Hayes's house in Laramie one night? Didn't you and Jay sit on his front steps munching on a bag of chips while I was being interrogated?
-La Comida
-The Male Room
-Lester Lanin
-Ulee's Gold
-Evan at Redneck Olympics (because I don't want to leave you with that image in your head. . .)
-Merrill in a pink thong (I certainly can't leave you with that image in your head. . .)
-Hm hm hm hm hm hm hm hm hm. Hm, hm hm hm hm hm hm hm hm. (Count 'em. They're all there.)
Thank you for calling. I ache to be with you. Obviously, the prayers go out more than daily.
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Wapiti Bob
Mountain climber
Wapiti, WY
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Jun 25, 2007 - 01:08pm PT
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Bob, Ann, Faith and everybody at Bobby's bedside:
I just returned from the Boone and Crockett Club's meetings in Fort Worth, and the blessing before each meal focused on our hopes for Bobby's total recovery. There was a tremendous outpouring of hope and concern, and each and every one of us continues to have Bobby in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob Hanson
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Mandi Feeley
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 25, 2007 - 01:28pm PT
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Just wanted to say hi. Took my kids rock climbing in Vedauwoo this weekend. They are 7 and 6, so it was pretty easy going, but I can tell they are getting the bug. They love it. We made it to the top of our little rock pile and the view took our breathe away. My daughter said to me, "Oh Mom, can you believe how beautiful it is?" and my son said, "Ah yeah, it's great," and was on his way to look for other rocks to conquer. Ha Ha Boys! But with the words of my daughter, the energy of my son, and the scene before me, I whispered a prayer to the wind. You are loved, Bobby.
Mandi
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Nathan F
climber
Lander, WY & New York, NY
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Jun 25, 2007 - 01:29pm PT
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Bobby and Family -
Just writing to say hello and like all the rest here, grinning to think of fun times in the past and sending all good thoughts towards Capetown for you to rest comfortably and recover well.
Perhaps the last time I saw you in Sinks Canyon you wondered what I was still doing with myself in Wyoming. You were right, I imagine. Have since moved to New York and now made it as far as Liberia. So stick a pin in Monrovia to mark the places where we're rooting you on. Breathe easy and I'll see you back in sunny, wonderful Wyoming or somewhere further afield someday in the future when our paths cross again.
all best wishes
Nathan Foster
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Katrina
climber
Roseburg, OR & Cody, WY
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Jun 25, 2007 - 03:52pm PT
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I get my Cody paper a week late and it usually takes me a few days to get to it, so I just learned of Bobby's ordeal. I ran into him on the 4th of July, I believe it was the year before last, and he talked very humbly, yet excitedly about his accomplishments. I've known Bobby since grade school and have been extremely impressed by the amazing things he's done. I've seen his photography and it's amazing. I've read about his recognition by National Geographic and was incredibly impressed (and jealous, as working for Nat'l Geo. is every wildlife biologists dream!). It's awesome to see that a quiet boy from little ole Cody Wyoming can go out in the world and achieve so much in such a short time. I admire Bobby and my thoughts are with him and his family during these trying times and I wish him a speedy and complete recovery. Get well soon, Bobby! You have a lot of people pulling for you!
Sincerely,
Katrina Krause
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scott milton
climber
Canmore, Alberta
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Jun 25, 2007 - 04:19pm PT
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Hi Faith and Bobby
I've spent a lot of time with Bobby in some strange places around the world and I know how strong and tenacious he is, so I won't be surprised if he sits upright today and asks for his climbing shoes.
Bobby has always been fun to hang around; something entertaining was sure to happen. As athletic as he is, Bobby often seemed a bit clumsy at the act of walking. I don’t know if it is his Wyoming swagger, or just a sign that he is more comfortable with more extreme physical endeavors. For example, Bobby and I (along with Todd Skinner, Paul Piana, Peter Mallamo, Andy deKlerk, Ed February, and Bill Hatcher) were in Mali, West Africa, climbing on the Hand of Fatima. We had reached a ledge about 1200 feet up and were trying to find places on the rocky ledge to settle in for a sleep. I had found one spot right on the lip of the ledge and was stacking some rocks along the edge to keep me from rolling off in the middle of the night. Model came clomping over towards me in his lumbering gait, lost his balance on loose rocks, and wobbled over towards the precipice. Of course none of us were tied in at this point, so one bad slip would mean a 1200 foot ride to the desert below. Bobby corrected himself as I grabbed his arm and the back of his jacket, and pulled him to the ground. I was freaked, but Bobby just laughed and said “Just kidding!” Unfazed, he got up and wobbled further along the ledge in search of a resting place.
That’s how I always picture Model, wobbling along that ledge. He is like those toys, the Weebles and their theme song:
“Weebles Wobble, but they don’t fall down”
Bobby is our Weeble, he wobbles plenty but he won’t fall down, especially now. Keep on wobbling little buddy, I’ll be there to grab your arm anytime you need me to.
Stay strong.
Scott and Sandra
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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Jun 25, 2007 - 05:14pm PT
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Hey Bobby and Family,
I hope that hearing Joe Max's voice while he was there was just what the doctor ordered. Just wanted to let you know that Doug,Austin,Jim Kadous and me have been thinking about you a lot and we know that you will come out this like nothing happened. We all hope you have a speedy recovery and look forward to times in the mountains again.
All Good Things Bobby,
Rob Hart
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Katy and Joe Asay
climber
worland, wy
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Jun 25, 2007 - 06:20pm PT
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Hi, Faith, Austine, Bob, Mona, Ann, Jim and Joe. We just wanted to continue to let you know that we are praying for each of you, and especially for Bobby's recovery. Our 3 kiddos are certain to include Bobby in their daily prayers, too. He is also being prayed for by our church and our friends from South Africa(living in Cody.) Bobby has experienced more than his share of heartache and loss, and has always pulled through. I know that he will this time, too. It is awesome that you are all able to be there at his side. I am sure that he knows you are there!
With love and prayer,
Katy(Tilden) and Joe Asay
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Jun 25, 2007 - 09:04pm PT
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Just wanted to let you know that you all remain on our minds every single day. We hope and pray for a full recovery for Bobby. What's the saying?? "You can eat an elephant one bite at a time". Faith, I think about you often and when things calm and time allows I would really love to catch up..
Joe, thanks for the updates and for being there-
Bobby, this is your elephant, start chewing!!
Love you guys-
Talia C. Kenney
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 25, 2007 - 10:05pm PT
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Hello Family of Bobby:
I am good friends with Charlotte. She informed me of the news of Bobby. While I have never met Bobby, I have heard wonderful things about him. I wish Bobby and his family the best of luck in his recovery. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love
meghan
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 25, 2007 - 10:39pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
There is this song by Ryan Adams that we listened to endlessly when Kim came to visit last week and it really makes me think of you. Part of the lyrics include:
And I hold you close in the back of my mind
Feels so good but damn it makes me hurt
And I'm too scared to know how I feel about you now
How I feel about you now
La Cienega just smiles and says, "I'll see you around"
So, bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind.
I'll see you around,
Charlotte
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EricSw
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 26, 2007 - 10:53am PT
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Bobby,
The last couple years I have closely followed your accomplishments and whereabouts. If you were wondering why your ears were burning from time to time it was me talking about you to co-workers and friends. PROUDLY telling them Bobby Model is from my home town and explaining my connection to you.
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you and praying for you and your family. I look forward to good updates on the SuperTopo site!!
Faith (aka 'Faith No More') my thoughts and prayers are with you. Can't wait to give you a big hug.
Eric Swope
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robin
climber
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Jun 26, 2007 - 11:22am PT
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Our hearts, prayers and thoughts are with you each and everyday-
Robin and Bill
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Jun 26, 2007 - 01:07pm PT
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Model Crew,
I was just at moms and my coffe cup there is the one Bobby gave me one year for Christmas. If felt like an honor to have that cup to drink from. I really miss you guys. My times taking care of Austine and our trips have been wonderful memories and getting to spend my days off with Bobby and Faith were the best days off I ever had. Even when Bobby was telling me how to drive on a freeway in L.A. the first time. (Even though he wasn't old enough to drive yet!) "You're suppose to weave in and out and pass all the other cars! Don't you watch people drive on TV." I was so nervous driving that station wagon. It's was scarry going from driving in Wyoming to a freeway in L.A. and Bobby was doing a great job making the mood lighter. He always has a way of knowing when I need a laugh and relax. I love you and I pray for Bobby and all of you guys 24/7. Faith thanks for the updates. Love you guys Brenda
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SSSEFreeman
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 26, 2007 - 01:32pm PT
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Bobby, Bob, Ann, Faith and all those with Bobby. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Please keep the updates coming about Bobby. We look forward to the day when he is, again, updating all of us on his latest adventure.
Sandee, Soxie III, Erin and Soxie IV
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 26, 2007 - 05:06pm PT
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Hello Freinds,
Here is tonights update .Bobby rest still in ICU,tempeture is falling slightly.
Bobbys eyes flicker ocassionly++++ some time open? Has some response to stimli++ All are positive steps,one of the one thousand?
Try to get Bobby stable/No Temp/off ventalator,to med jet back to states .+++ As soon as conditions provide??
Keep up the hope troops ,Keep pulling for BOBBY!
My plans have changed from leaving tonight to maybe Sunday so I'll try to keep in touch Thanks Again JOE
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fjpyle
Mountain climber
cody, wy
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Jun 26, 2007 - 05:14pm PT
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Hi Bobby and Faith,
As I was standing on the summit of Half Dome last week I recalled Bobbies words to me, "Keep climbing and taking pictures!"
Bobby, my thoughts and prayers are with you, Faith, Bob, and Ann. May your recovery be quick and your strength return so, you can "keep climbing and taking pictures."
May God be with you,
Frank Pyle
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Jaybro
Social climber
The West
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Jun 26, 2007 - 05:36pm PT
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Hang in there Bobby, and take it at your own pace. I don't know that we ever crossed paths, but with the friends we have in common (Todd, Paul, Bill, Tim T ,Sam and a host of others) it seems likely. In amy case I feel connected through your photo work.
Kinda like what Mandy said; about a year ago my two brothers and I climbed the tower of the Devil via Bonhomme var, with my then 16 yr old daughter. It was warm on the approach and a lot of humpy work, as always. Arriving at the base of the route Natalie, instead of grunting, spontaneoulsy blurted out, "This is gorgeous!" she was overwhelmed with the location, and that was just the approach!
Great advice, I'm always taking pictures.
Jay Anderson, formerly from Laramie and, briefly, Big Pine; sporadically from Gillette, as well.
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Jun 26, 2007 - 08:03pm PT
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I am not a climber but have known Bobby for nearly 10 years and count him among my closest, most special friends. It is so wonderful to see all of the support pouring in through this forum. Bobby is everything written on these pages and then some. He is truly one in a million and I, for one, feel honored to know him. I know all of this good kharma is helping our friend, so please keep up the good work.
I read the latest update from Joe Maxwell and it was heartening to hear that Bobby's eyes are flickering and that he is still hanging tough. I can't say it surprises me one bit, the tenacity with which Bobby holds on, and the strength of his family and friends who are with him. I was feeling a bit helpless when I first heard the news but now I know I need not feel that way at all. Bobby is stubborn and he's gonna pull through this, I know.
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RyanMyersTinsel
Boulder climber
Portland, Oregon
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Jun 26, 2007 - 10:23pm PT
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Thank you Faith, Anne and Jim, Bob, and all the other helpers!
It's nice to have this forum to have someplace to go with this rawness of knowing that an old friend is in such an ordeal so far away. The Myers family is following Bobby's progress
and lobbing love toward the Cape of Good Hope.
Where are you right now, Bobby? Are you travelling through the past 34 years of Bobby Model memories like I am, like we all are here in this forum? I'm having fun lingering in the memories, so I can understand if you would too, though it seems that in the 20 years since we lived in the same town you haven't stood still too much.
First, you tried to make a go-kart with a wood frame and an old kick-start washing machine motor. I tried to help but that never did roll. The next summer you had a real go-kart and we found freedom up and down Rattlesnake Creek valley. Your urinal in the ranch treehouse is still genius. And I admired your audaciousness the day we dug up the sprinkler line at your house in town to hook up the shower in the playhouse (two-storey, freestanding, built with 2x4s). Did you have a truck for awhile in which I believe the driver's seat was a wooden rocking chair?
Here's to more adventures and hope to see you soon!
Ryan Myers Tinsel
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 26, 2007 - 10:45pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Not much new to report today, the dream "dry" summer is now over and we can barely breathe it's so muggy on the streets of DC - I really need to get out of here. I went to the Eastern Shore of Maryland today, across from the Chesapeake Bay, and just getting out of dodge felt wonderful. We drove across the Bay Bridge, which is a real architectural wonder, and in spite of the speed and the surrounding cars I couldn't help but wonder at the sheer beauty of this ecosystem. It was just a moment out of time, but it was good. I was thinking, maybe the next time you come to show NG your latest photos I'll take you there, though we'll park the car and go kayaking or sailing, or something fun like that.
Has anyone told you what a pain the time difference is for all of us here in the U.S.? You're six hours ahead of the east coast, and basically after 6.00 pm we know we're not going to get any more news about how you are doing, and that sucks. Then again, when we wake up in the morning your day is well started, and on a good day we get a little bit of news about you, and on a very good day we hear that you seem to be coming closer to the surface. And almost every day we get a very cool email from one of your childhood friends, and that pretty much sets the tone for the day. We all smile at the thought of what a rascal you were (and still are), and we root for you some more, and we wait another day.
We'll keep on waiting, bud, and we'll be there for you when you're ready.
Sweet dreams,
Charlotte
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skm
Sport climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 26, 2007 - 10:47pm PT
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Bobby remember two years ago when Mary was hurt and Bruce threw that amazing party for her to help in her recovery. I think we talked about how cool it was that she was able to see how much everyone around her loved and supported her. And how lucky everyone was to have a chance to convey to Mary how special she was to each and everyone who knows her. Well, I think this Supertopo forum is kind of the same thing for you. How cool (sorry to keep using that word but I don't know what else really captures what I'm trying to say) it is for you to get to hear from so many people how you have impacted their lives. I have to say, I am a bit jealous when I read all the stories and realize that when you aren't spending time with us you're not just biding your time, but you're actually having amazing experiences with any number of other people!!
Well since I know that Faith may be the one reading these notes to you I thought I'd have to include a reference to 24. You know in 24 how you never quite know what will happen next, who will be discovered as a double agent or who won't make it through the episode. Well one thing we always know is that Jack Bauer will survive – he has to or there's no show the following week. No matter how dire the circumstance he finds himself in he'll come out some how, some way unscathed. This time it's you – you're Jack and some how, some way you're going to get through all of this and soon enough you may even find yourself coming to Casper Drive on a Monday night for dinner and the latest episode of 24. You'll call from the grocery store to see what we might need for supper and then show up, crack a beer, have a seat and start talking about the latest Cody gossip. But as soon as 8 o'clock rolls around it's down to business - no talking, no phone calls, we can't even manage to get up for dessert until there's a commercial. In spite of the sometimes boring and often unbelievable plot twists and turns we can't get enough of it. Well the same could be said of our time with you Bobby – whether we're out on a never-ending mountain biking photo shoot, camping in Ten Sleep, getting coffee at the Beta or kicking back watching the latest episode of 24 it's always worth it. I'm counting on you to come back, Jack Bauer-style, ready to take on your next assignment, whatever it may be. Oh, yeah and fyi, I don't think the next season starts until at least January so you have a little time!!
Sharon
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Double
Sport climber
snowmass village, colorado
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Jun 26, 2007 - 11:39pm PT
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Bobby,
Hey man...
You and Steve used to resole my shoes back in good ol' Lar'.
Bobby, I have been thinking alot about Lander, my second home, and all that has happened recently. You probably don't know me from Adam. However, I remember you! Hang in there. You are a special man. You are a man who takes life head on and as it comes. I am sorry to hear about your accident, but am confident about the guy I know. Beat this thing and come climbin' at the Iris. Thanks for giving a guy like me a kind hello. Thanks for giving me the insight on a tough project. And, thanks for being you! You are a person who I, someday would like to become. Stand tough! I'll see you soon.
A
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Rhon
Social climber
Cody
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Jun 27, 2007 - 12:12am PT
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Bobby and family,
You are in our thoughts daily - sending you prayers, positive energy and looking forward to your return to Cody.
Rhonda and David Summerlin
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 27, 2007 - 10:01am PT
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JUNE 26 UPDATE FROM BOBBY'S SISTER:
Dear All,
Thank you all so much for your heightened thoughts and prayers yesterday,
they are having a tremendously positive impact. Bobby's eyes now flutter a
bit and he's been swallowing and moving his mouth, particularly when he's
being spoken to or in response to pain. He's not at all happy with the vast
array of tubes poking into his arms and he's been fighting pneumonia, which
is tiring. They are trying to wean him off the ventilator completely, which
will greatly reduce his risk of infection. His vitals also stabilized a
little bit from yesterday. He's tough, resilient and fighting and I'm so
very proud of my brother. He's extraordinary.
We are in the process of arranging for Bobby to be flown back to the states
as soon as he is stable enough to fly, which could be any time. We will let
you know as soon as details and location are finalized.
And finally, the letters, stories and cheers are being read to Bobby twice
over and I SINCERELY believe he's listening and loving it. We are all
grateful beyond words, particularly in light of the effect this is having.
And of course, we're all greatly entertained, touched and heartened. Thank
you, thank you.
Much love and thanks to all from all of us here, especially Bobby,
Faith
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jun 27, 2007 - 11:49am PT
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Bobby, we are still praying hard in Idaho. Starting to Plan our trip back to Cody next week. Jake is going to take Hayden climbing on all your local routes. He is 8 now and quite the climber.
Keep making your way back home! Wyoming is calling you. There is a song that's popular right now by Daughtry, it reminds me of you and this situation.
Here are some of the words:
I'm going home, back to the place where I belong, and where your love has always been enough for me. I'm not running from, no I think you've got me all wrong. I don't regret this life I chose for me. But, these places and these faces are getting old. So, I'm going home.
Here's to you. Keep fighting!
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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Jun 27, 2007 - 12:39pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
I just saw that Joe Max is staying on for another week in SA and I hope your old coach can still work his magic and that some of your buds down there drag his ass up Table mountain and if not on the end of a rope than ar least a good hike up one side and down the other.
I was also just going through some old slides for Crazy Creek's 20th anniversary and I came across some photos you took while we were waiting out a hot afternoon before our summit departure on Kili,I may have to use one in our catalog this year as the photo looks like I am floating in the clouds riding my chair. There was also one of us sitting under an umbrella enjoying a cold beer and a smoke knowing it was the end of a great adventure.
Here's to many more great adventures that I know will take place in your life. Keep feeding the Rat Bobby.
All Good Things Bobby,
Rob Hart
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cowman
climber
cody, wy
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Jun 27, 2007 - 01:10pm PT
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Bobby...It is amazing to me to read all of the stories about the places and the people in your life! I have bee looking at your websight and all of your pictures for sale on art.com. YOU HAVE LIVED! They are beautiful Bobby.
We have a special holiday coming up a week from today. I know you are no stranger to the party in Cody,Wy. Many people that are on this sight are either here or are perhaps coming here. No doubt that this celebration will for many, be in your honor. How wonderful it would be Bobby if you could stablize so that you could come "home" --- The Homeboys miss you!
God Bless America, and God Bless you and your family!
Peace and smiles,
Amy Cowan-Banks
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David & All of Us in Greenwich
climber
Greenwich, CT
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Jun 27, 2007 - 01:23pm PT
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Dear Faith,
Our friend Bob Ix is a walking miracle in his mid-seventies – 30 some years ago he was given a maximum of 6 months to live due to a rapid growing tumor around his pancreas and kidney. They did surgery and radiated as much as they could and sent him home with a terrible prognosis. Today he thrives and is full of fun, having even survived a huge tree falling and crushing him almost to death several years ago at the age of 72. These miraculous survivals are very much contributed to his and his wife’s work as Knights of Malta, a wonderful Catholic organization. When I became so sick two years ago Cissie IX visited me at Sloan Kettering with Lord’s Water and I went on their prayer list which goes world wide and I feel had a strong influence on my recovery from multiple myeloma where I continue to thrive today. Cissie and Bob now have Bobbie on the prayer list and I believe all things are aiming towards his complete and total recovery, because prayer really can work. We are heartened to hear of his progress and hope he will be able to stay in Cape Town until he really is better before flying home. We truly believe in miracles and are sure this will be one of them and the Bobbie we know and admire will be here in full strength soon again. Thinking of you with all our prayers.
Love,
David, Anne, Charlotte, Wells and Field.
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Dan Pyle
Trad climber
Cody, Wy
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Jun 27, 2007 - 06:39pm PT
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To Bobby
The one thing that I can tell was told to me is this.
You are from Cody,
You are a Cowboy
You will get through it ONE step at a time.
I had Brain Surgery I know. 10 years this December.
I pray everyday for you and your family.
Dan
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HeatherSpooner
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 27, 2007 - 06:52pm PT
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Dear Bobby,
I just learned about your accident a few days ago, and have been catching up on this blog to the latest in your situation. This accident was terrible beyond words, but the love that surrounds you in the form of your family and friends is incredible. And there is nothing stronger than prayer. Even though you are clear across the world, we are all pulling for you.
Faith, I have been treasuring old memories of times with you too! What hilarious times we had at MCT camp, and reading for the "playreaders" groups back in "Cotay". You are a beautiful woman who, no doubt is helping and supporting everyone else during this time. I pray you can take care of yourself too.
Anne and Jim, you are both a part of my youth as well! My parents have been traveling abroad for a few weeks, which is why I didn't hear about this sooner, but I know they join me in wishing you all the peace of God during this difficult time.
Here's hoping you all come home soon! And that Bobby experiences a miraculous healing TODAY!
Love,
Heather Spooner Baker
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
don't u worry 'bout a thang, baby
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Jun 27, 2007 - 07:09pm PT
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dear bobby, i'm so happy to hear you're getting better. you don't know me, but hi, i'm a 25 year old girl who lives near lake tahoe. i ain't gonna lie i'm sometimes scared to go hiking by myself but last week after reading all these letters from your homies about how you're such a crazy awesome adventurer i did go out to the mountains in the mokolumee wilderness near kirkwood in the sierra nevada and hiked 8 miles all by myself, i hiked cross country and scrambled up some cliffs and sent good thoughts to you and your family from one of the most beautiful spots in the sierra, it looks kind of like the alps. i had the most beautiful day ever and have you to thank for it. thank you for that gift of inspiration, you're beautiful. maybe someday i will meet you in person and can show you all about it, you have a friend in cali always. you sound like a totally amazing person who can pull through anything anywhere, anytime. the daughtry song "going home" your friend posted about is playing right now as i type, i know that's an omen. stay strong.
many blessings to you and your loved ones,
tuolumne*rainbow
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jun 27, 2007 - 07:46pm PT
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BoMo
Damn, son. I never thought so many women liked you. You must act differently around them than you do us. Or maybe they think this is a DIFFERENT Bobby Model. It's MOW-DELL, ladies, not MAH-DULL.
I especially liked the part when you opened your eyes while being bathed by a nurse. I'd bet a hundred rupees it was a female nurse, too. Did you say, "Heh, heh...", too?
I think its nice that people are going out climbing and hiking in the mountains and seeing beautiful things and thinking of you. I went out looking at new routes today and thought of you, too. It wasn't so much that it reminded me of our many days climbing, but rather my dog had really bad gas. I guess ALL the senses bring back memories!
I was thinking today of hanging in the portaledges on Ulamertorsuaq and you asking everyone for a pee-bottle but no one wanted to jumar up fifteen feet to your ledge, so you ended up just peeing out the end of the ledge and soaking Todd and Paul's ledge just below you. Ahh BoMo.
Or your 300' free rappel off the massive roofs near the top of the 3000' wall. Sure it made a great photo, but I almost puked just watching you.
Or the fact that you didn't know how to cook spaghetti. (Or was it a ploy to avoid cooking duties forever?)
And the Tillamore Dew. I hate that sh*t, but Mike and I choked a bunch down for you.
I know you will be OK. There are miles to go before you sleep. We still haven't been to Antarctica. Plus, you've never told me why you always roll up just one pant leg...
I know you'll come out of this close shave. I know in my heart your last words will be "Hey...watch this!"
Steve
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Mallamo
climber
NC
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Jun 27, 2007 - 08:10pm PT
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My Man Mo,
I spoke with our friend Nazir at the Indus Motel in Skardu, Northern Pakistan this morning. He, Mahmoud and all of the guys there are praying for you at mosque. He said our kitchen barrels are still upstairs in storage and will be there for us anytime we return. Remember hanging out on the roof of the Indus holding our sat phones up trying to get a signal? Also, Nazir will get word to Ali Kahn and all in Hushe as well as his son Anat Ali, who is still in school in Skardu and doing well thanks to your sponsoring him. Our man Hassan will be arriving in Skardu in a week or so, he is guiding an expedition up the Baltoro somewhere. I believe Nazir said to Trango Tower, but you know how hard it is to understand him trying to communicate over the phone to the loud lobby of the Indus. Hassan will take word to all of our friends in Askoli; Asgar, Asim, Furman and of course Mr Hamsa who is still probably wanting a new sleeping bag and binoculars! Not to mention all of the porters who have come to know and love you from the Braldu to the Bialfo glaciers to the beautiful Gondogoro La.
So the way I see it you have people all over the world, worshipping deities from God to Allah to Buddah to our great Mother Nature, all praying to their divine saviors for your well being and healthy awakening. You have so many looking out for you right now and I am confident in knowing that you will find your way home where we are all anxiously waiting.
I miss you my brother and I am looking forward to seeing you soon.
Peter
Bobby somewhere near Payu along the Baltoro Glacier-Northern Pakistan
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Jun 27, 2007 - 10:20pm PT
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More hugs and love to bobby, faith, anne jim, bob and all. i so appreciate the updates and stories, and encouragement from this sight. Bobby, I love reading about your adventures and shenanigans. as one who chased you as a toddler and kid, I am only slightly surprised that the insane amount of energy you had has taken you on such adventures. You all are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Anne, I have always considered you an honorary (for me) big sister. Faith, i had to chuckle reading the note about MCT camp. You girls could giggle!!! I know the love, respect, you all have for Africa, but to be honest i told Jarod(living in Germany) that no way no how is he to attend world cup soccer there.See you all in cody soon sarah
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Michael Power
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 28, 2007 - 12:10am PT
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To Bobby and family,
I just heard of this from my family and want to wish you our prayers and best wishes from Idaho. Bobby I'll never forget your picture in our Senior annual with that Bad Ass sneer on your face!!! You were always one to live on the edge and I know that you will recover from this and continue your ways. Again our prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Mike Power
CHS Class of '91
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Renee Young-Jelinek
climber
Cheyenne, WY
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Jun 28, 2007 - 02:16am PT
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Bobby, Faith, Austine, Bob and the rest of the family. I just wanted to say that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Although I barely knew Bobby when I was Austine's nanny, I think about your family often, and how kind you all were to me. I will keep you in my thoughts and pray for a quick recovery for Bobby.
Best wishes,
Renee Young-Jelinek
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Russ Walling
Social climber
Out on the sand.... man.....
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Jun 28, 2007 - 03:34am PT
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Bobby.... seriously man.... I'm not sure if we have ever met, or perhaps I'm too far gone to remember, or some of each... but I've now looked at your work and seen all these people rooting for you, and it seems you are in pretty high demand. So I'll add my vibes to the batch, and hope that you press the miraculous recovery button real quick here. From what I have read so far in this and other threads, you are wanted back pretty darn bad. Make it happen.
All the best to his support crew too.. you guys are doing great work. Here's to you!
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Max and Sally Spooner
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 28, 2007 - 11:28am PT
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To All of You there with Bobby in South Africa,
We got back to Cody from the UK a couple of days ago and heard the terrible news. We just want to add our thoughts and prayers to the many others. I read every one of the forum notes and know these are a great uplift to you.
Sounds like you are just what Bobby needs around him right now. When he wakes up, he'll want to see all of you.
Hope to see you back in Cody soon which will mean GOOD NEWS.
Max and Sally Spooner
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amy skinner
Social climber
lander, wyoming
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Jun 28, 2007 - 11:29am PT
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Dear Bobby
We had a Lucky Lane party last night. You know the scenario - Kirk and Steve lowering my children headfirst into the irrigation ditch, great food, scattered fireworks around Lander ( a warm-up for the 4th). When we got home and settled into bed, Hannah asked for a story about Stumpy Model and I told her the one that started the legend. . . You on the Nameless, fighting it out and even when "your feet blew off" you continued to climb! All the kids love that story and so do I. Here you are fighting it out again. Do your best. We often ask ourselves WWTS (What would Todd say?) The kiddos figured his advice to you would be: Dig Deep. Look Ahead. Follow through.
My love to you, Bobby. You are fortunate to be surrounded by South Africans. I haven't been in the country for 10 years and that community is still taking great care of me.
Love also to Faith, Anne and all the rest of the crew.
Amy and team
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Kira Salak
climber
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Jun 28, 2007 - 11:32am PT
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Hi Bobby,
This is Kira Salak. I've been thinking about you all the time. My friends and parents and I have been sending you lots of loving energy. You're in my prayers each day.
We had a lot of cool experiences in Libya and Iran--I'm thinking of some more totalitarian countries for us to visit, once you get better. You'll probably end up getting the good camel again!
Hey Bobby, remember in Iran?--all of us crammed into that very small tent with the Armenian vodka?: Damn-it-garm!
Get well soon. I'll be thinking of you, Bobby.
With love and prayers,
Kira
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 28, 2007 - 12:12pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, well, well, it sounds like your peeps are doing all they can to try and get you back on this side of the pond, which would be GOOD. no more problems with the time difference, and who knows, maybe we can bribe someone to call you in the room and tell you dirty jokes over the phone - that would surely help with your recovery.... In any event, we all miss you like mad and it will be good to know that you are closer.
Otherwise, not much going on here, I have quite a bit of time ahead of me so I am going to try and sort my photos of Madagascar and check if I can show them at the local Patagucci store (Madagascar is awesome, yet another place you can look forward to going to some day). I may also do something with those of Morocco, though they are not really Patagucci material - maybe at the Moroccan embassy here in Washington. (BTW, these were all taken with the D80 I bought last year: VERY nice!)
All right, all for now, bud, never forget that we are all rooting for you, and waiting for the next email that tells us you have woken up - we're waiting for you, and we'll just keep on waiting.
Hug everyone for me,
Charlotte
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COT
climber
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Jun 28, 2007 - 12:17pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
Just wanted to let you know that I have been doing some more research about the climbing/photography trip to Boliva that we talked about a couple years ago. The area looks awesome miles of splitter cracks, beautiful weather and amazing peaks. Heal up quick Bobby, there is still lots of exploring to do!!
Dave Anderson
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Wilky
climber
New Orleans, LA
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Jun 28, 2007 - 01:32pm PT
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Howdy Big Bob, Anne, Faith & friends. This is Mark Wilkinson, from the old days up on the Mooncrest Ranch, Cody, WY. I send my heartfelt, most positive prayers & thoughts for Bobby's recovery - and for the family members. I remember Bobby as a little boy who I babysat every once in a while. He'd be in diapers, put his boots & cowboy hat on and go tearing outside and you literally had to chase him down or he'd be headed for the hills. From reading the thoughts by his friends posted on this forum I can see that his big smile & free spirit hasn't deminished. Get well soon brother - we need you here with us.
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skm
Sport climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 28, 2007 - 03:14pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
I was driving down the Greybull Hill about an hour ago and happened to look up and saw this sign at the Carter Mountain Hotel. I thought you might like to see it too. Not exactly sure how to post it but here goes:
Sharon
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JCB
climber
Lander, WY, someday again
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Jun 28, 2007 - 03:53pm PT
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BoMo, your convalescence spurred to me to attack our Lander house/climbers ranch project. I couldn't find anything as nice Bison Willy's, but I did find a house that is both well located and cheap:
This is actually the most flattering picture of the place. The inside needs a little work. Actually, the inside makes the refugio in Rio Blanco look like a suite at the Ritz, but it's nothing we can't fix with a couple of Level A hazmat suits and a few hundred gallons of bleach. Or a match and some gasoline.
Anyway, it's close to Steve and stumbling distance from the Lander Bar. There's plenty of room for the both of us and a couple of South African nurses.
Get better.
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Ron & Cindy
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 28, 2007 - 03:56pm PT
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Bobby, Faith, Bob, Anne, Mona, Austine...
Wow, Bobby is a remarkable man. We've been impressed by his work and now reading all the well wishes and remembrances from his friends....
Life on the Mooncrest is moving along. The cows went up on Rattlesnake yesterday. Lots of grass up there. Moss got a haircut. He's embarassed. (Ron is embarassed for him, too.)
Our prayers are with you, Bobby. Bob, Mona, Anne, if there is anything we can do....you know where we are.
Ron & Cindy Roberts
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 28, 2007 - 04:47pm PT
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Hello All,Just left Bobby.He rest for his up coming journey back to the states?? His vitals are are fairly stable and the neuro says lets pack him up and send him "across the pond"++++ Hopefully very soon.The "Medjet" air ambulance system has been activated from the states.Bobby has lost some weight I figure he is just gettting down to "Fighting Weight".Like Lance Armstrong after his cancer treatment.I feel we will have a new improved model of BOBBY.I know hard to imagine but can be. Keep up the good work all of you, it is helping ,your positive feedback is what keeps recharging us at ground zero.It's working.Thanks JOE
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Scott Bragonier
climber
Cody Native
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Jun 28, 2007 - 05:25pm PT
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Is it too early to say what hospital he will be moved to in the USA?
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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Jun 28, 2007 - 05:55pm PT
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Hello Bobby, and the Rest of the Crew at Ground Zero.
Good to hear the positive news. I must say I have to agree with Steve B, about all the gals who keep coming out of the woodwork for Bobby,you are well traveled and very well liked.
I once heard a Robert Service poem in 1982 at 20.000 ft.on a mountain in China called Rudshe Konka and what I remember went like this:
"The Men Who Don't Fit In"
There's a breed of men who don't fit in
a breed that can't stay still
so they break the hearts of kith and kin and roam the world at will
They range the field
They rove the flood
They climb the mountains crest
There's is the curse of the Gipsy blood
and they do not know how to rest
If they just went striaght
They might go far
For They are Strong, Brave and True
But they get tired of the things that ARE
and they want the Strange and NEW
Well Bobby,here's to being able to get the Strange and NEW.
keep up the good work.
All Good Things,
Rob Hart
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Jun 28, 2007 - 05:56pm PT
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Soon Scott
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ClairePotter
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 28, 2007 - 08:53pm PT
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know that we (Cody) are there, in spirit, sending comfort to you during this tragic time.
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 29, 2007 - 12:21am PT
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Well Bobby,
I am waiting for that day that you will be walking up the sidewalk and popping your head in to say "Hi". The flowers and plantings are coming around nicely. The sprinkler system has been installed and the grass is next on the list. The lot looks incredible. We made the front page of the Enterprise again. Mike had to go before Park Co. Planning & Zoning for the approval of the building. The article was nice. They commended the efforts of the Collier Group and said the "bar has been risen". This will sure improve the neighborhood.
I spoke to Jim today and conveyed my thoughts and prayers to him and all of the family, but most of all you. I told him how all of us here are pulling for you and thinking of you and your family every day, we are hoping to pop in here to this forum and see that you are smiling at your Mom and Faith, eyes bright with life and all is well.
It sounds like you could be getting another plane ride soon. Just wish you would be sitting up looking out the windows. I remain believing in my heart that you will come through this and begin to spin a web of adventure once again.
Tonight, as I read through the newest input here, I think of you and say a prayer for you and your family. Get well and come back to all of these people with such fond memories of you and begin to make new memories with each one of them. You are special to so many.
Sincerely,
Janet
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kdriese
Social climber
Laramie, WY
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Jun 29, 2007 - 09:08am PT
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Bobby: It's a beautiful sunny morning here in Laramie--one of those perfect cool days that we dream about all winter here. Just wanted to let you know that we're looking forward to having you back here in the States where it won't be quite so hard to drop by to visit you. Great news that you are already strong enough to make the trip. Before you know it you'll be conciously figuring out how to avoid having to climb Vedauwoo wide cracks. As you know, we're all following your progress every day from this side of the pond. Ken.
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Demity Baughman
climber
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Jun 29, 2007 - 10:41am PT
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Mona -
John and I miss you and can't wait until you, Bob, Bobby, and Faith are all safe and sound back here in Cody. In the meantime I'm sending you and Faith all of my energy so you can give it to Bobby. Stay strong and call me the very first minute you can.
Lots of Love -
Demity
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Jun 29, 2007 - 12:10pm PT
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hey Bobby,
In case you wake before I take off for a long w/e without email access, welcome back. We are all pulling for you and have missed the sound of your voice, can't wait to hear it again soon.
Much love and big hugs from across the pond,
your friend Liz
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B&CC
climber
Missoula, MT
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Jun 29, 2007 - 12:29pm PT
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Bob,
Just a note to let you know how sad Susan and I are to hear of Bobby's condition. You can rest assured that Bobby, you, and his entire family are in Susan's and my thoughts and prayers.
Jack and Susan Reneau
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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Jun 29, 2007 - 05:42pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
It is great to hear that you will be flying back to the states very soon and that your condition is good enough to make this happen. It was quite a shock to hear your dads voice on the phone yesterday and he souned as if he were in Cody and then he put Joe Max on as well and he gave me the run down. I do hope Faith's friend does drag him up Table mountain so he can see the fantastic view of Cape Town and the surrounding area.
I look forward to seeing back out here in the Rocky Mountains. Keep up the Good Fight.
All Good Things,
Rob Hart
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alars
Social climber
Tucson, AZ
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Jun 29, 2007 - 05:45pm PT
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I haven't checked updates for a week or so, so it's been with a mix of enormous sadness and great happiness that I've spent the past half hour catching up. Steve, Amy, Scott, and wow - Nick Rohrbach and the Norwegian Olympics! - it's been old home week. Bobby, know that the Long and Larson Families are in your corner as much as we can be. Erik knew of you from his days in Laramie and at Vedauwoo and always greatly admired your prowess on that gnarly granite.
I didn't know you as well as Lilygren and the other guys who worked at Wild Iris, but when you were around you always seemed to wear a goofy, wide grin and have time for a story. Inexplicably, the day of your accident I pulled out my copy of the National Geographic covering the Nameless Tower climb and thumbed through the images, lingering over the gorgeous shot of you on the snowy ledge with the tents. The next day my mom phoned to tell me what had happened.
As evidenced by this blog, you have touched and improved many lives. We continue to focus all our thoughts on your complete recovery and will look for updates as you head back to the States.
Our Best Regards,
Alicia (Long) & Erik Larson
Gary & Mary Dell Long
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 29, 2007 - 08:50pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, time flies when you're waiting for your bud to wake up because, lo and behold, it has happened again and I've just wasted another perfectly good week. All that to say: thank heavens it's Friday (again)! So, week-end is now upon us, and some of us are going to go out and PLAY! This week-end I'm biking again, and I'm going to try and increase the mileage (Why, oh why did I choose triathlons? crochet sounds so much more civilized...).
The news from your side of the pond sounds positive, and though we are a little hazy on the details, we are desperately waiting for you to make your way back to us. Med-evac? how very glam, I hope whoever goes with you will take notes and let us know how you react to VIP treatment. As far as I'm concerned, it doesn't matter if they row you across, you cannot come back fast enough.
Hey, a propos of nothing, the new iPhone came out today. Now I know you're a mac-man because you showed me a couple of things one can do with an iPod that are better done in Nairobi than back in the States (though not strictly speaking illegal, of course ...) and which are very cool. Well the phone looks very slick, but funniest of all is the fact that people have been queuing for days (I kid you not) to be amongst the first to get one. You, on the other hand, appear to have chosen to wait a while, till Apple works out the (unavoidable, even for Apple) bugs, the prices go down, etc. In any event, you probably already have a Thuraya, which is WAY cooler, and for which apparently you don't have to wait in line. Either way, you're a clever little bugger ....
OK, bud, here's wishing you and everyone who is with you a good week-end, and, hopefully, soon a good trip. And bud, remember we are waiting for you, so make your way back to us, whenever you're ready.
Hug everyone for me,
Charlotte
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kelly bustos
climber
cody,wyoming
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Jun 29, 2007 - 10:00pm PT
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To my long time friend Bobby and family
Bobby, I want you to know that Tania and I are praying for you, and a speedy recovery, you are in our thoughts and prayers each and every day. Remember when me, you, and Ryan Myers used to lock Faith in trunks and closets in the house? Your mom used to get so mad at us.(sorry Faith). Our prayers go out to all of you, take care, and thanks for always keeping us posted we check the website everyday.
God Bless
Kelly and Tania Bustos
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Ron & Sandy
Boulder climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jun 29, 2007 - 11:46pm PT
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Dear Bob, Anne and family,
We've been following this forum since hearing the news. What a powerful tool this is, bringing people together from all over the world with a single purpose, to offer hope and strength to you all, and especially to Bobby for his recovery.
We don't know him personally, although we feel like we do after reading the messages from all those who are fortunate enough to have shared experiences with him. He's obviously loved by many. We just wanted you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Ron & Sandy Livesay
Buffalo Bill State Park
Cody, WY
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Frances
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 29, 2007 - 11:55pm PT
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Bobby and all,
We've been reading all the posts and are so thrilled to learn you will be home soon.
God's Peace to you and yours,
Frances and Paul Clymer
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bunnypoo
climber
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Jun 30, 2007 - 03:57am PT
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Hey Bobby,
I’m just remembering a flight you took us on from Lamu to Nairobi last year. It was your first time flying a plane and after a few minutes of in-flight instruction you were handling the little plane with complete dexterity. Mid flight you even took a few one handed photos. And back on the ground you decided that when you had the time you’d really like to get your pilot license. That was a gorgeous flight and with the help of some good music on the ipod, a smooth ride, and the Kenyan landscape gliding below I was cured of a stubborn fear of flying in small planes (thank you). I hope your upcoming (possibly even current) flight is as comfortable. Looking forward to having you and your family closer to home.
Love to All -
Molly
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Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich
Social climber
Des Moines
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Jun 30, 2007 - 01:33pm PT
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Bobby and family,
This will be one of the few Cody July 4th celebrations that we will be missing. The kids are quite upset, but we'll make it out later in the summer. The reason will actually hit home with you more than any of us could have realized a month ago. We are building a new children's rehabilitation unit where I work. We already offer a number of services for children that have special health care needs. However, the hospitals in the area told us that they really needed a place to send children who aren't ready to go home yet but don't need hospital care either. We will be one of six facilities in the U.S. to offer these services. We are opening in July, and already have children on the waiting list!
I have never really worked much with head injuries and ventilators, but it sounds like that will be a large portion of the children that will be referred to us. Since I am the educator for our organization I have spent time at a similar facility in Toronto, taken more classes concerning the neuro system and head injuries, and done research to present to our nurses. It hit me pretty hard when I heard about your injury. I almost wished I didn't know as much as I do. On the other hand, I also know that there are more resources available than one would think! I have also met some incredible people who have gone through similar circumstances and are great role models for all of us now.
I know that one day I will be asking you to come out and talk with some of our children to help motivate them! Through this incident you have already pulled together a number of friends who haven't seen each other in years. You have returned Cody to the good old small town that sticks up for it's own, and I am sure that God has even greater plans to turn this tragedy into good. Meanwhile, know that we are all there with you in spirit, and excited that you may be coming closer to home soon.
Let me know if there is anything I can do for all of you!
Cheryl
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 30, 2007 - 07:14pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
I just talked to Peg and Steve, who didn't yet know what had happened. Peg is a bit shaken up, as you can imagine, and of course very concerned for Faith and your Mum, so you're going to have to hug them extra special, OK? They're both really relieved you'll be back soon and send all their love. So, there you go, bud, two more very special people rooting for you.
I thought a lot about you today, I went on this amazing bike ride in a place called Poolesville, in Maryland, which is basically in the middle of horse country. The ride was very hilly and crossed huge fields of corn and sunflower, all breathtakingly beautiful. When I saw something particularly stunning I thought of you and tried to take a snapshot in my mind. I even worked on the composition, you would have been mighty impressed. And then when I hit the really big hills, all I thought about was when they were going to end, and swore myself to never, ever, ever have a fag while I sip a Tusker on the porch of your little house in Karen. Or at least, not for a few months anyway ...
OK, bud, that's the news for today. Keep on fighting the fight for us, and we'll keep rooting for you. We're waiting for you, and we're ready for you whenever you are.
Hug everyone for me,
Charlotte
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 30, 2007 - 08:13pm PT
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hey there... to Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich, who just posted here... i have a non-profit book, that deals with head injury and overcoming, by love of family and relationship--this is how i came to learn so much, even as you have---if you EVER need or want to use this book, or its pre-stories, for anything---it is for complete non-profit.... please let me know...
i wish it was already well established, so that the funds could help bobby's family---but it is just "being birthed" so to speak... i have dreams that the funds will one day, help kids, families and help families learn to have patience and time for loved one that face new-lives from such tragic wounds....
keep up the good work for kids... if you need to know more, please email me, if i can help in some way, this is all for free, once it can be figured out how to do it
but--put ATTEN: FROM Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich, FOR KIDS HOMES... as i do not open unknown email, and could pass you by [neebee1shaaboo1@yahoo.com]...
love and god bless to all, and more victory prayers to you bobby, and your family... REMEMBER:
bobby: you are like a plant... you may have been smashed a bit to the earth, but a tenatious root system, warmed by god's sun, and fed by his watering streams, can one day become so very strong, that it will even PUSH ASIDE the rocks around it, that try to wall it in, and like-wise, the rocks that are too solid and deep for it to be pushed aside, will THEN, be encompassed by said-plant and embelished into its beauty, for all to see---why, lo and behold, SUCH FRUIT WILL COME, that one would never known that there was a "rock-of-adversity" in its midst, except by exploring, and hear-say, from those that knew before-hand, during the hardship.... grow, dear plant, grow and prosper, in the lord-god's futile soil...
god bless, from neebee, spouting-off the flourishing-plant, way, you see...you don't know me... but i accidently stumbled across you'all, you see....
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Jun 30, 2007 - 09:51pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
Well the 4th is upon us and we will miss seeing you hangin out at the Dollar with the rest of the die hards. We will be holdin you to next year though.
Kirt, Monty, and Todd are about to venture out on a 4 day hike. They are leaving on the 8th and will be back on the 11th or 12th. They are hiking up in the Beartooth's. It should be a good time for them. A time to reminisce and think about old times. I can't wait to hear that you are back out there enjoying what this wondrous world has to offer.
Cheryl, we will miss you and Milo this 4th. It seems that this is the only time that we really get to see you and talk for a while. We will miss enjoying the sparks in the sky with you at the Madsen's. You know that is where the Cozzens clan will be spending the evening. The boys will miss playing with the kids too.
Well Bobby, Keep fighting and we will keep praying. You come back here and give your take on this situation. I know that you are going to chalk it all up to just relaxing and taking a break. Whenever you decide to wake up and come back, we will all be here.
Sincerely,
Janet
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Hello All,
Bobby is well and very stable,he remains on a tracial ventalator with its capacity on very low.It remains on to keep Bobby stable without any undo stress in preperation of his up coming trip "across the pond".
Yesterday Big Bad,Anne,Faith,Hanns Peter and I hiked to the top of Table Mountain, We had the most beautiful view of the inside of a cloud that you could ever imagine? It was a flat out "Turd Floater".At least it was warm, not like back home in the winter thank god!
The trip was a great relese and very regeneraiting for us all.Big Bob did great considering knee surgry in Febuary.It was great.Thanks To the Spirit and Strenght you all have given us.
Keep up the Strenght JOE
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Rick A
climber
Boulder, Colorado
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Don't know Bobby, but sending best wishes for a safe return and speedy recovery.
Rick
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Jake Cowden
Mountain climber
Hagerman, Id
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Hi Bobby,
We are heading for Cody tomorrow. Lyon is flying in tomorrow too. The Henyon's left for Cody today. This meeting is of course totally in your Honor and we know if you could be there you would.
Yesterday, we hiked to the top of Baker Peak just past Ketchum, Idaho with elvation of 10,000 plus feet. We were leading a bunch of woman who have never completed such things. Not all of them made it to the summit, but for those that did it was empowering. There was a legder at the top hidden beneath the rocks for all the summiters to sign. We dedicated our summit to you and left a prayer for you to HEAL! This ledger dates back to 1992, pretty cool. Anyway, when you are better maybe you can work your strength back and do some training hikes on a humble little peak like Baker. You can sign the ledger and amaze the world once again.
Love Heather and Jake, Hayden and Hilde.
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Crystal Lee (Deroche)
climber
Cody,Wy
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Hello Bobby,
Just wanted to pop in a lil Hello! My family is sending out possitive energy for you to heal and be stable to come home closer! That's great news!!! Am going to miss seeing you over the fourth! Like posted before, this fourth will not be the same not having you here! Everyone here, and coming here is sending out possitive energy, support and much love. See you soon. Keep FIGHTING! Joe,Faith and all family and friends with bobby have a great 4th you are all amazing. Thoughts and prayers with you all.
Crystal
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, the week-end is coming to an end, but it's been a good one, and it sounds like a lot of your friends have been out and about and doing cool things all around. I'm glad everyone had a good time in Cape Town as well. I also, especially hope that you are resting and building up the strength for your next journey, everyone here is so chuffed that you will soon be closer to all of us.
I talked to Peg again today and she, Lynn and Jim are up in Littleton, which is always a bit of a treat. Nathan, Deirdre and Jacks and Maddie J will be going up later this week, which will be nice. I know they are all thinking of you and send their love. Peg said she is using all her energy to send you positive thoughts, so you make sure you catch them and use them to come back to us soon, OK?
Right, that's all for now, bud, so just rest, get stronger and come back to us real soon, we'll all be waiting for you.
Hug everyone for me,
Charlotte
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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FROM MOUNTAINPROJECT.COM POSTED BY S.HARPER 6/30
Saturday June 30th
... Bobby and I will be heading to NYC by air ambulance early Tuesday morning and arriving very early Wed morning. Bobby will then be at Mt. Sinai in the Neurological ICU for his initial assessment in the states. The schedule: the air ambulance crew will be arriving here from the states on Sunday night and need a 24 hour layover rest and time to assess the situation. Then we fly out Tuesday morning with a fuel stop in Dakar. My parents, Mariella and Joe will all be leaving Monday night/ Tue morn, but we'll all eventually be
meeting up in states.
Otherwise, Bobby is stable and doing so well. His shrine at the hospital is growing and the nurses, doctors and people at the lodge where we stay have been an incredible support and become like a small family to us over the last month. This morning we're all hiking up Table Mountain to bring crisp mountain air and sun to Bobby. Hans-Peter and Joe will climb.
I will be in touch with more contact info and addresses soon.
Faith
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norden van horne
climber
Arizona
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Bob,
As you are aware, I know only too well know the anguish and grief felt when one's son is sudenly stricken by accident or disease.
My family's anxiety was in time lifted through his somewhat miraculous revovery, and I hope with all my heart and soul that you and your family will soon be similarly relieved.
The most recent news seems encouraging and his return to the US can hopefully provide more direction and expertise to a resolution of his condition.
I look forward to future updates and in the meantime send heartfelt good wishes and prayers to you and all your family, Bob.
Norden
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Hey Bobby,
Well, it sounds like there is a lot of hiking going on today in your honor. Kirt and I and the boys went to Red Lodge and met Todd, Todd's girlfriend, and Kirt's mom and step dad for breakfast at Cafe Regis. Todd and his mom drove through the park and Kirt and I and the boys drove up to East Rosebud and dropped off the truck for the oncoming hike next weekend. We hiked up to Elk Lake. It was an awesome day. The boys are getting really good at those 7 mile jaunts. They don't do too bad for being 4 and 6.
I thought of you again today as we hiked into the majestic wilderness. I think of your upcoming journey and hope that everything goes smoothly as you come back to this side of the pond. We will be waiting anxiously to hear how you fare the ride and, most of all, getting news from not so afar.
Keep up all the good progress and I have no doubt that you will be swinging from the end of a rope somewhere again soon.
To all of these people here that are wishing you well, have a happy 4th and be safe in all that you do. Friends, know that we are thinking of you and wishing you could join us in a little R&R. I am sure we will be talking soon.
Take care,
Janet
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Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich
Social climber
Des Moines
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Janet talking about taking the boys hiking reminds of a story about Scott B. Sorry Scott, but Bobby has taken his hit of stories- so this is one he can through back at you in the future!
Scott made his first hike into the Thorofare when he was about 6. Since he "wasn't a baby anymore" he thought he could carry as much in his backpack as the rest of us. He kept putting more food, stuffed animals, blankies,etc. into the pack. Mom kept taking things out and Scott would put them back in. Finally, Mom waited until after Scott went to bed to unload his pack. It was a very good thing that she did. Scott abandoned his pack by mile five without the extras he wanted. It didn't help that he had to chase every frog and water snake he saw!
I say that a bunch of us do it again when Bobby is able, we'll see how much Scott can carry then! Between Kirk and Janets' boys, Scott's boy, and my kids we should have plenty of frog and snake catchers.
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Meinecke's
climber
Cody, WY
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Bobby and Family -
It is so good to hear you are coming home. Our prayers are for a safe and comfortable flight. We anxiously await the next update.
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DwayneM
climber
Laramie
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A day has not gone by since Niko called and let me know, that I have not had some image caught in my head that reminded me of the stuggles you have all made in the last month.
Your in our prayers as is your family.
Still skiing and fishing this week in southern WYO.
Dwayne Meadows
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Sal
climber
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Faith Update, June 30, 2007
Dear All,
I hope this email finds everyone happy and well. Your letters, emails and forum messages continue to bring light and humor to our days and they are the source of many an eye flutter and cough from Bobby. Thank you thank you.
Bobby and I will be heading to NYC by air ambulance early Tuesday morning and arriving very early Wed morning. Bobby will then be at Mt. Sinai in the Neurological ICU for his initial assessment in the states. The schedule: the air ambulance crew will be arriving here from the states on Sunday night and need a 24 hour layover rest and time to assess the situation. Then we fly out Tuesday morning with a fuel stop in Dakar. My parents, Mariella and Joe will all be leaving Monday night/ Tue morn, but we'll all eventually be meeting up in states, although everyone's schedules differ.
I will have my old phone in the US: 303-883-6734. Please understand that the first few days back will be quite a transition. We will try to be in touch as much as possible, but I imagine the first couple of days will be extremely full. Please do keep the messages and stories coming as they are so important to Bobby (and all of us :-) ). I will continue to read these to my brother every morning, no matter what.
Otherwise, Bobby is stable and doing so well. His shrine at the hospital is growing and the nurses, doctors and people at the lodge where we stay have been an incredible support and become like a small family to us over the last month. This morning we're all hiking up Table Mountain to bring crisp mountain air and sun to Bobby. Hans-Peter and Joe will climb.
I will be in touch with more contact info and addresses soon.
Much love and endless thanks to you all, we are ever grateful,
Faith
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John & Pam Feeley
Social climber
Cody
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Bobby, both of us are sending our prayers as you fly home. It's so wonderful, just to know you'll be closer. We are thinking of you constantly and reading these wonderful posts from all over the world is amazing. We've been able to experience so much more of your wonderful life this way. Thanks to everyone who is sharing their stories with us. Sending all our love to you and the family, Johnny & Pam Feeley
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Nathan Roy
Social climber
melrose, ma
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Bobby - We have only just found out about your accident, so i am sorry for not writing earlier. I hope the addition of our thoughts and prayers help you as you continue to fight. Its great to see all the support you have here in these posts.
Through your fantastic photographs of Jessica you have a prominent spot in our home, which I have always been thankful for. Please know that as you continue to get better you have our love, and the love of my parents as well.
Faith - i hope you are as well as can be. Our love and prayers goes out to you as well.
nathan, deirdre, jackson, and madi j
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Deirdre Roy
climber
MA
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Bobby- It is so wonderful to read all the supportive posts of the friends, family, and acquaintances who's lives you have touched. We are reminded of you and your magnificent talents daily through the photographs you have taken of Jessica. It is through these photos that my children have come to know her and for that we are eternally grateful.
I wanted to share with you and Faith an experience that took place today on our way home from a walk with Jackson (3) and Madison Jessica (20 months). While I realize that Madi J has yet to meet you and Jackson was only 3 months old when you met him, they are, in their own way, sending you their support as well......
We were returning from a walk, when out of the blue, Madi J began to chant "Bobby, Bobby, Bob----by.......Bobby, Bobby, Bob----by." Jackson let her finish, and yelled "Yeah Bobby" and then together they started the chant again, and again, until we reached our house a mile later.
So clearly, you are in all of our thoughts, and prayers as you continue to grow stronger.
Faith, I am continually amazed by your own strength and send you our love, support, and encouragement through this overwhelming time.
Deirdre, Nathan, Jackson, and Madison Jessica
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jiimmy
Boulder climber
san diego
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Good luck in surgery Bobby.
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Mees
climber
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Well it's cowboy christmas time in Cody. One of the more hilarious Bobby memories for that time of year ocurred at the old Silver dollar. This was back when the dollar had the volleyball court and the outdoor area. Started looking around for you and couldn't find sign of you inside. Started outside and saw a crowd of disturbed people forming near the exterior wall of the building. They were shouting and pointing at something up above them. twas very loud and crowded, at first couldn't tell what all the comotion was about. Turned around and looked up and there you were. You'd soloed up the side of the sandstone block building about 30 feet or so in your cowboy boots, I think you may have had a beer in your back pocket. Let's just say the mortar between the blocks wasn't exactly "fresh" and your balance just might have been "compromised" by the nights activities, but you were holding strong with a huge conquerer grin on your face. You'd gathered quite an audience some were yelling jump, others looked as if they were about to start crying, most were just dumbfounded. It's not easy to be the life of the party at the dollar on the 4th but you managed it in classic BoMo style. Well, since you won't be scaling the dollar this year,
I guess sponge baths in NYC will have to do--
heal up man
so many prayers for your journey, for your noggin, for your family and friends
Pat
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Abby Thomas
Trad climber
Baltimore, MD
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Faith, I'll be on standby and ready to get up to NYC as soon as the support team needs respite from the bench! In the meantime, in case your email is overwhelmed with messages I wanted to post part of a note I emailed for Bobby here to be sure you/he gets it. Peg and I are wrapping our arms around you and your mom right now...
Bobby, it's been nearly three years, and though it's hard to think back on those first weeks after Jessica's accident I was reminded of something just now that applies to you at this moment more than ever: emotional pain is almost always more challenging to cope with than physical pain. You have been brought to your emotional core before through the deaths of both Jess and Todd, and you came through those experiences pulling the light from both of them and adding it to your own. Although I have never met Mariella I am quite certain of this - you are surrounded by four angels right now. Jessica is sitting on your shoulder as a guardian angel and your mom, Faith and Mariella are at your bedside as ever vigilant real life angels. These four women are sending you their love and watchfulness and have your heart held tightly by their love. And though you may be traveling between the physical world and a space most of us do not know, the fact that your heart and your emotional self is being so closely guarded by these women gives me complete confidence that you and the medical staff will tackle the physical elements and return your health.
Though you are in a hospital, the air surrounding you is filled with love. From what Faith reports, you have captured the hearts of the hospital staff, and I can tell you first hand that when a nurse is touched by a patient, and when the entire nursing staff is touched by a patient, the love infused into the care of that patient is tremendous. While the tubes and bags and drips and medicine can seem impersonal and technical, they are set up and maintained by humans with big hearts, and in that sense even these most impersonal of objects are channels of love and healing energy for you. Have a safe trip across the pond and know there will be an equally loving community here to take over your care. - Abby & Jeremy (& Peso and & in utero Bobby cheerleader)
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Caryn-Cole's sister
Social climber
Minneapolis, MN
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Thanks Joe for all the updates. It has been great to know that Bobby is doing so well and that so many people love and admire him and are pulling for him.
Nice job everyone keep up the good thoughts and prayers for the Model family!!
Caryn (Greer) Jones
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Candace DeSarro
Gym climber
Los Angeles
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Hey Faith It's Candy and Jenny D
I hope you were able to receive my e-mail last week. Just remember that we are on that flight with you and Bobby so if you need some laughs just think back to when we were little, or take a time out and know that Jenny and I are holding you both close and tight(It's a Big Joe HUG) We love you both and give Ann and Bob kisses from us!!!
Love cd and jd
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Hello friends;
I just left Bobby, our friend! You know Bobby was responding.I don't want to jump up and down but I was just over saying good by.Eye movement,jaw movemnt,We are all trying to get back home, trying to cordinate all our plans with everyone . Not EASY!BOBBY AND FAITH leave tommorro 6am SA.I'm gone.
Hi all, Joe had to rush out. This is Faith finishing for him. Bobby and I will be hopping all over the west coast of Africa tomorrow. It's a small med ambulance, so we have to refuel every 4 hours...Angola, Ghana, Senegal, Azores, New Foundland, Montreal and then NYC. Whew. I will send an update later, but just want to use this to thank Joe for his extraordinary support and friendship. He has helped to transform this journey into one of healing and hope and friendship for all of us. Anyhow, have a fantastic 4th of July, Bobby Model style. We'll be thinking of you all as we blip all over the continent and then homeish.
Love and thanks,
Joe, then Faith.
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scott milton
climber
Canmore, Alberta
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Okay Model, it's time to bring out the big guns. I was hoping not to have to use this on you, but you leave me no choice. There are two words that are sure to conjure a strong reaction outta you and I have been keeping them in reserve for selfish reasons. Those two words are:
Peanut Butter Pasta
(Yes, I know that is three words, but I say it as an homage to our friend Todd who undoubtedly would have held up two fingers as he said those three words)
So what are my selfish reasons for not saying this earlier? Well, if anything good was to come out of this incident I was hoping that you would forget your hatred of that infamous recipe and my prankish actions towards you. So in the quest for your speedy recovery, I will remind you of the details and once again beg your forgiveness.
It all started down in ol’ El Paso, Texas with our cook/organic-chemist, Kirk Billings, who claimed to have found this recipe for Peanut Butter Pasta in a real cookbook. I suspect he just made it up one day when he forgot to go to town for groceries and threw together whatever he had in the cupboard and fridge. If anyone is interested I think the ingredients are spaghetti, PB, garlic, soy sauce, probably some of the black stuff that grows in the back of the fridge’s veggie compartment, maybe fish sauce or fish heads and flippers, and some secret ingredient that only an organic chemist would know about. So believe it or not, the damned stuff actually tasted great and we, you included, ate it fairly often throughout the winter at Hueco Tanks. So far, so good.
Then you go off to Pakistan and install yourself on the Nameless Tower for what must have felt like a year and a half, and on the expedition menu is Peanut Butter Pasta. Through the magic of micro-biology, viral hitch-hiking, or accidentally omitting the organic-chemist’s secret ingredient you got sick after eating the Peanut Butter Pasta and blew chunks all over the Baltoro Glacier. Declaring it the foulest thing on the planet you swore you would never eat it again, and for years after even the mention of the name caused you to physically shutter. Which is why, a couple of years later when Kirk had made Peanut Butter Pasta at the Hueco training camp, I came up with an ingenious idea:
“Hey Kirk, let’s FedEx some of the leftovers to Model!”
Obviously, Kirk thought this was a brilliant idea and we tossed a generous serving into a Ziplock bag. But being cheapskate dirtbags we decided that couriers cost too much and went with the cheaper and slower alternative, the US Postal Service. So after a week of festering in various mailboxes, mail trucks, and postman shoulder bags, our package arrives at your door. I’m certain you were excited that we had sent you a nice gift and I pictured you quickly ripping open the package, only to discover not just your most hated of food-like products, but something that had become a rotting and moldy sack of Satan’s own sputum. You claimed to not have gotten sick, but that the incident had brought back horrible memories and further deepened your hatred of Peanut Butter Pasta. Not to pat myself too hard on the back, but at that time I called it a job well done. Now I feel bad about it all, and have to ask for your forgiveness for bringing it up again. If we’re looking for things that might get a strong reaction out of you, I thought that Peanut Butter Pasta just might get the job done.
So it’s up to you Bobby, swim to the surface and get you head above the water or I’ll have Kirk whip you up a heapin’ helpin’ of the nasty stuff.
Be strong Buddy, we all need you back.
Cheers,
Scott and Sandra
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Livy
Mountain climber
Cody, WY
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Hi, Bobby, It's Virginia thinking about our trip into Purvis Meadow up the South Fork with you and Anne and Jim and fam. Good fish treats. It was lovely to be with you then and get to know you better. You even did dishes. I have prayed for you since I heard of your grave injury. I remember when I got the call that my brother was dying and he is alive still. We prayed with every breath and slowly he healed up and came home. I still pray for him, though. Point is, prayer calls the miracle and we are all focused on you, my friend. Wishing you healing. Virginia Livingston
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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I just read Mees's story about Bobby climbing the Silver Dollar on the 4th. I remember it well. I’m sure he was underage, and thus had minor problems getting into the bar, but he was not under motivated. Faith had no problem getting in to the joint, however, even though she was younger, Jake and I would muscle the door man into letting Faith and Booby in, as we were older than him, grew up with him and thus was easily influenced. But Bobby being an unattractive female was left out side by the open bar. Like always’s when Bobby saw a challenge he stepped up to it.-
It was probably a more amazing & technical climb for Bobby then the Trango expedition considering the condition's he was facing. A hostile crowd, Jagermister by the gallon, ancient crumbling mortar between the bricks, dollar beers, 4th of July it’s self (meaning he had been up for at least two day’s solid ( prior celebrating in the particular Wyoming cowboy way),total darkness, rattle snake skin cowboy boots (although looking back this could have been an advantage considering the rotten mortar and the way he was driving them in between the bricks, like ice climbing) Needless to say, he came, he saw, he conquered. It was seriously a mind blower seeing him up on the wall like some kind of spider man. I don’t think anyone ever though of climbing it. I vaguely recall that he was allowed into the bar after that and pouring a pitcher of beer on his head. I do know for a fact that he stayed at the Dollar celebrating until at least 6 that morning (the bars don’t close in Cody during the 4th) and he helped sweep the floor. It’s a little hazy but I think we threw him over the fence into his yard right after that, he was sleeping like a baby. Faith and everyone else passed out at my house all over my parents floor etc. But a good time was had by all. All of your friends are in Cody right now Bobby. We are gathering for you and having a party in your honor on the 3rd. We LOVE you, We Support You, We are Thinking and Praying for you ALL the time. I’ve spoken with a lot of people and in Cody in the past few day’s and YOU are on everyone’s mind. Faith, we have been talking about you incessantly. I just want you to know that we are here in Full Force supporting you and the family. We are all so thankful that Ann, Big Bob and family are there with you We cannot imagine what you have been through with Bobby, but one thing we agree on is that you were named FAITH for a reason, we all LOVE you so much.
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Mr. Southfork
Ice climber
Cody, WY
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Hey Bobby, The posts on this forum are bringing back some great memories. I was not present when you scaled the Silver Dollar but I do recall many of the yearly festivities in Cody over the 4th. We'll miss you tremendously over this holiday week....
I enjoyed the apologies that went with the Peanut Putter Pasta story and I have an apology of my own.... Many years ago I sat and watched you and Pat work your freshly bolted project at The Island. I watched, learned and memorized all the moves as you guys nearly sent it. When you'd had enough you graciously offered me the rope and I got the first ascent. I should have kept my seat and let you have at it the next day.. I'm sorry.
I understand there is a gathering on the 3rd in your honor in Cody. I would very much like to attend. Can any one post the details?
Todd G Cozzens
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Faith and Bobby, tons of prayers and love as you begin a long journey almost home. I have to laugh at all the 4th stories and references. Big Bob was involved in a wee bit of my underage celebrations , when i was off duty babysitting you guys. There is no way I am old enough for you guys to be over 30!! Happy days ahead love, sarah (williams)
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ccaldes
climber
Golden, Co
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you all as you make your long journey back to the states. To Faith: you are a powerful and inspiring woman. I can't imagine what you (and the whole family) have been through since the moment this happened. We are so glad you are here and survived the ordeal. To Bobby: we look forward to having you a couple thousand miles closer and can't wait for a full recovery.
We wish you safest of travels. Literally, the thoughts of thousands of people are with you.
With all of our love,
Brice and Chris
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Crimpergirl
Social climber
St. Looney
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I need to report that the mere story of peanut butter pasta is now responsible for chunk blowing in St. Louis Missouri.
ew.
Hahahaha! Thanks for the great story!
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Save travels Bobby and Faith!! You remain in my thoughts daily.
Liz
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handsome B
Gym climber
SL,UT
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Looks like Wyoming is welcoming you back. Safe travels Bobby.
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Toma Knapp
climber
Laramie, Wyoming
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Hey Bobby, Our prayers are with you everyday. Toma Knapp & Beau White P.S. We hope you have a safe trip home. Your sister will take good care of you.
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L
climber
A Light Glider on a Rising Thermal
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Ya know Bobby (and Crimpie), I thought Peanut Butter Pasta was sounding fingerlickin' good when I first read that story...
Then I read about how you snail-mailed it to a friend in a ZipLock bag...
Which brought back memories of opening 2-month-old Tupperware containers of pasta at the back of the fridge...
And I instantly started to gag and blow chow with the St. Louis crew! Thanks for the treat!
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John B
Social climber
New York, NY
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Bobby,
The thoughts and prayers of all the Budniks are with you and your family as you return home.
Love,
John
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jet
climber
red lodge mt
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Hey Bobby So glad you are back closer to home. Can't wait till you get back to Cody. A freind a my self are off to the bugaboos on the fifth. When we get back I will show you the pictures. Talk to you later. Your pal Jet.
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brooks emeny
Social climber
bozeman, mt
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Bobby, I hope your trip to the big apple was uneventful and successful. Happy 4th of July. We are praying for you lots and are excited to hear of the great news. Keep strong Bobby. I can't wait to see you later this summer. All our love and support, Brooks, Kenzie and Lexi
PS. A little note that I stole from Bode Miller. "Joining will require that you agree to disagree whenever it feels necessary. It will require that you solemnly vow to be what you believe. It will require that you love to do at least one thing so badly that it hurts not to do it. It will require that you write your own creed and live it intensley, even if no one ever asks to see it. If you find these terms acceptable, LIVE ON!!!!!!" Well Bobby, Keep on livin'!!!!
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Faith,
I hope you and Bobby had an uneventful trip to the states and are settled in. If you get a chance can you send me an address where I can send cards to you and Bobby. Bobby, I drove through Yelloestone last week and the snow on Silavan Pass was calling your name. Take Care and Stay safe. Brenda Cronk
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Petra
Social climber
South Africa
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Dear Faith, Bob, Mona, Anne, Jim, Bobby's Mom, Mariella and all Bobby's other family please do know that we are praying for all of you on continuous basis and are thinking of you all. Will think of Bobby many times during each day and may this tragedy end in truimph. You are a stunning bunch of people and I wish you all the best. Do know that their is POWER in PRAYER and we believe with you that he will be doing just fine. I think you are all very strong and what a priviledge to meet such stunning people like you all. Faith and Mariella, keep up the good work with the hugs and reading and talking and kissing. Keep us updated please. Lots of love and continual thoughts, Petra
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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JULY 5 UPDATE FROM FAITH:
Dear All,
Bobby and I made it to New York early yesterday morning and arrived at Mt.
Sinai around 6:30am. It was a very difficult trip for Bobby and much too
long. He is struggling with pneumonia again, so please keep your prayers and
healing energies elevated as you all do so powerfully. He does have the best
doctors on his case and is much more comfortable and I know relieved to be
here, as am I and the rest of our family. I will update you all later with
more details, but I did just want to send out a quick email to let you that
we had arrived and are glad to be home. We said teary goodbyes to the
nurses, doctors and those at the inn where were staying and it felt a bit
heart-wrenching to leave those that had become such an incredible support to
us over the past month. But it's also time to be home and time to be closer
to our extraordinary web of family and friends here--it's a relief. I felt
teary smelling the air when I finally stepped off the plane (the US has a
particular smell that is always my first informant that I've returned).
As for the celebrations in Cody over the weekend of the 4th, I can only
imagine...the mere thought unleashes a flood of memories. I'm sure you were
all in rare form and I'll be filling Bobby in, although he'll be
disappointed he wasn't present late night with camera in hand...At any rate,
we were there in spirit and I would imagine the toasts and celebrations
helped carry us through the flight back.
As always, our deepest deepest thanks and love to you all,
Faith
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Hello Freinds,
Well it sure is good to be back home in small town Belfry Montana.Thank you Kay And Nicki for your support .
On to Bobby , he now rest in the neuro ICR at John Hopkins in New York City. Faith reports "It was a trip from HELL" in the air ambulance . I can only imagine !! I few business class and I'm just now starting to feel somewhat like I'm coming around .
As you can imagine Bobby was stressed also .So temp up, respirations up,infection showing also? Hopefully Bobby will quickly get use to his new accommodation's and get back on the trail to recovery .
I'm much more out of the loop but will try to report any news I receive to you all via SUPERTOPO .Thanks you again SUPERTOPO this have been a great medium for Bobby's friends to work together to get us all through this very difficult time.
This not a race, it is one step at a time,slow,steady,and thoughtful.
I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to all the great people we mrt during our stay in South Africa.We could NOT have done this without you.I thank you ALL.I hope someday to return to your country and see you again I'll never forget what you have done for us!
Pretty sappy Huh? Oh well ! Keep up the good work all! Bobby needs us now more then ever.LOVE TO ALL JOE
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Kira Salak
climber
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To Bobby's Family,
My prayers continue to go out ot you and Bobby. I saw the great Hindu saint, Amma ("the hugging saint") two days ago, during her visit to the Midwest from India. When I was with her, I asked her to please help heal Bobby. She is a powerful personage and her healing abilities are widely documented and profound. She sends healing prayers and the white light of compassion to you and Bobby.
With love,
Kira
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shannon becker
Mountain climber
big sky, montana
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hello models,
I don't know if you remember me, I used to be shannon wyatt. My cousin Nick Czarnecki knows you well and speaks of you often. I just want you to know how much I have been thinking of you since I heard the news. After reading the different posts, I have nothing but confidence that you are all strong and will pull through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you-
sincerely
shannon
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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I'm back rereading my thread I saw I wrote John Hopkins then I read Faiths with Mount Sanai .Sorry if I caused any cofusion.I not quite 100% . Did any body see the HBO special on our soldiers in Irag, surviving head injury? I've heard it was quite good. ? Thank you JOE
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Jakeb
climber
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Dear Bobby, Faith, and Model Family,
I never know what to say when something like this happens. I have taken refuge in the fact that your family is strong and loving and Bobby's a very strong individual who will pull through. I was so excited to see that you were able to get back to the states! Please continue to keep us posted.
Love to all of you!!
Jake Beaudrie
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there joe... i did not see the HBO special, as i have a very low income and cannot afford tv cable--do not get stations...BUT i have seen many articles... THANK you so very much, as we must learn about this, if we want to be there for friends, family, loved ones, etc, that have had such injuries...
it seems, that now, through such terrible situations for these soldiers, that now, for the first time, head injuries are finally being made public, and THAT MEANING, the heroes of every kind that face these issures, whether form car wrecks, accidents, assaults, etc, will finally be given honor as to how their struggle reaches so far and wide for victory at regaining life
instead of being pushed aside and ignored, or treated as not needed in society....(now, i am more so even referring to those that aren't so lucky to have reached such huge bounds in their recover)...
there has been hard trails for them, and they usually travel alone, once healed, without their past good jobs, and without many friends left that have patience to along side " their world" long enough to even visit them....
i am very happy that bobby here, has such wonderful friends, you all will never really know how speical they are, until you see more folks that are alone from same-such situations ....you all are wonderful folks... god bless
*LAST ADDED NOTE: 3, 5, or even 10 years later, after a head injury, very high percents of these folks begin getting seizures (epilepsy)...
AS TO THE SOLDIERS AND HEAD INJURIES:
i just read an article on how everything (so they said) is now being done to find a cure for this, in honor of course to help these soldier....
now, there are already:
2.7 million americans living with seizures (epilepsy)...
and did you know:
every YEAR 200,000 MORE american will experience a FIRST time seizure? It is lie changing, and can happen to anyone at any age, for even unknown reasons....(also, many times, a long past, head injury)
it will sure be nice for these folks that already need help, to get to benefit from whatever they can learn to help these young soldiers... so far, only medication and some brain surgery has helped, and a nerve stimulator, and even then, these are not permanent solutions and the seizures come back....
pray folks, and lets all try to learn to be the best-informed that we can be for those that need us...
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Mark Jenkins
climber
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Bobby-
Mark Jenkins here. Was on assignment when I heard the horrific news. Read the whole thread. Man, you're so loved brother!! There's so much hope and healing winging your way, no chance for anything but a positive outcome. Just wanted to add my voice to the chorus of kindness. This is simply another crazy challenge Bobby, and nobody takes on a challenge better than you. Get well friend, at your own pace, in your own time.
Mark
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Bobby and Faith,
So glad you are safe and in the states. I will try and recap the 4th of July activities as best as I can remember, since our theme was party down Model Style, I may end up leaving some details out.
To start, it was beer, food and good stories at George and Lynn's house. It seems George and Lynn always provide us Base Camp Cody, and always are well stocked with good food and beverage. They are such great hosts!!
Of course we had to start with an adventure which was the River, because it was hot! Lyon and Hodgel fought over being Captain of the raft, while Selk and I were the two hard working ship mates. Jake and Hayden kayaked. Hodgel did awesome, him and I even swam a bit.
The afternoon barbeque continued at George and Lynn's with the Steve Simonton crew and the Catchpoles, Finnof's, Henyons, and Selks. We thought of you alot, remembering past times.
So , the real fun began a bit later in the night. When Jake, Lyon, and Henyon were good and liquered up. George and Lynn were quite amused at some of the tales that were told. After we had enough of mostly razing Henyon ,who's stories always seem to get better as the night goes on (we love you , Henyon) , we headed for the Coe Mansion party. There we met up with, who other than Nick Rohrbach and his lovely , expecting wife. Can you believe it , Nick is grown up! Party hosts Jay Hayes and HR Coe were there and Buster Ivory. From there we ended our night , where else , you guessed it, the Silver Dollar.
Everywhere we went we added a few more old faces to our group. Andy Strike , is doing great, I think he has added 40 pounds of pure muscle to his skinny bones. Aaron Brown finally got his drivers license. Pete Meleski and his wife Terry climbed the routes during their visit. I think there were about 1000 people at the Silver Dollar!
I am not sure who won , for Partying down Model Style that night, but I think it may have been Lyon, who lasted the longest. I was told he finally headed in at 5 a.m. My night ended shortly after Erynne Selk and I toasted you with shots of crown royal, which were supposed to be followed by jagermeister but we wimped out.
Have a good day Bobby and we are all glad you are back in the States!!!
Love Heather
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Jill McMillan
climber
Colorado
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Bobby,
We were classmates for only a couple of years in Cody but I wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you and am sending you and your family many good thoughts during this difficult time.
Jill McMillan
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Jakeb
climber
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Dang, Bobby and Faith!!
I wish we coulda been there! Sounded like a barn burner. But there are many more 4ths to come. The one I'm looking forward to is the one where we all raise the roof together and watch you strip down to cowboy boots and climb the dollar again!!!!
Jake Beaudrie
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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Hey Bobby & Faith and the rest of the Family,
Glad to hear you made back to good Ole US of A. The flight plan didn't sound all that fun,but probably better you were asleep.
We blasted a bunch of six inch Salutes and Five inch salutes in your honor theo night of the Fourth and they really do make the Big Boom,which I know you like.
Well,keep up the good fight and in no time you will be down at the 21 club enjoying a big steak and some really expensive wine.
All Good Things,
Rob Hart
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scott milton
climber
Canmore, Alberta
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Hey Bobby
Being a Canadian I totally forgot about the 4th of July celebrations, but reading the other posts here reminded me of the time we had a large gathering on Lucky Lane in Lander, WY. It was a typically hot 4th of July and we had a huge potluck spread stationed inside Todd and Amy's garage. 20-30 people grazed the tables, gorging on all sorts of BBQ'ed flesh, veggies, salads, fruit, etc. We were all killing time until it was dark enough to begin firing off the ludicrously large amounts of semi-restricted fireworks. Of course we were all too excited to wait for dark to blow things up, so we decided to see what happens to various melons when they are violated by an M80 firecracker. As you may recall, honeydews and cantaloupes completely evaporate, leaving only a small spray stain of juice on the ground, while the larger and juicier watermelons blew soft chunks and misted the crowd with refreshing melon scented vapor. Then someone found a bowling ball. It seemed like too much of a coincidence to ignore, that an M80 fit perfectly into the finger holes. Welcome to your first war zone Model; someone lit the fuse and rolled the ball into the middle of the street and everyone started to run for cover. KA-BAM! Stupid idea? Yes. Exhilarating, you bet your ass! We never imagined that it would destroy a bowling ball, but it did and we found chunks of it BEHIND Holly’s house (#8 lucky lane). No one got so much as a scratch, not a single car was hit, and all the house’s windows were spared, which was amazingly lucky considering the amount of shrapnel that flew around our heads.
I thought I would share that memory with you, just in case you forgot about it and one day found yourself asking: “I wonder what would happen if I put a firecracker into a bowling ball?”
Rest well and heal fast.
Cheers,
Scott and Sandra
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Bobby.
More great rock. I just walked this cliff the other day. Catches shade in the afternoon. You should really consider taking a little time to relax in Lander - I think in about six years we could climb-out this cliff.
Also, I really think JB is moving forward on the house in Lander. I'm sure between the two of you you could make buying a house in town a money-making enterprise.
He'll be in town for the Climbers' Festival. Jade and Peter are coming up, too. There's going to be a new event this year: the "Bobby Model Drunken Railing Dash". Participants have to yell, "Get drunk! Party!", then go sprinting between tables on the Gannett Grill patio and leap onto a wet railing. Should be fun. My money is on Leif.
Sorry to hear about the respiratory infection. I have to say it doesn't worry me much, as you ALWAYS have one for weeks on end whenever you are on a hard expedition. Be strong, brother. Work hard. Be Bobby Model. We are counting on you.
Steve
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kirk billings
climber
lander, wy
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Bobby,
I just read Bechtel’s post and couldn’t help but brag a little about my upcoming trip. I’m counting the minutes until I get off of work here in lovely Landiego, then it’s a quick stop at the Breadboard for nourishment and a mad dash (?wobble) into the mountains with an 80 pound pack. Should be enough mosquitoes to drain my body in a few unprotected minutes, but it will all be worth it when I get up tomorrow and go climbing on the new crag that I found.
Check out these specs: 40 feet high at it’s peak, 80 degrees, slightly chossy to ricey and peppered with flaring offwidths where it’s not completely bereft of holds. It’s a twelve mile hike straight up a scree slope to camp, there’s no water (except for a fetid marsh for the mosquitoes) except what you can carry from the river 2.36 miles away and the sun should bake up there, unless the hillside is being raked by lightning.
It’s a pity you can’t be here to take photos of the first ascent(s)! The rock is sort of a mottled dull gray, as are the hills that mask the view of the sunset/sunrise and the greater mountains beyond. I’m not going to be able to comb my hair, I have a big zit on each cheek, I’ll be wearing a black t-shirt along with some non-descript shorts with a stain on the side and my eyes are going to be closed most of the time.
Aw what the hell...everyone knows pictures of me don’t sell.
Wish me luck. I’m sure as hell rooting for you.
Kirk Billings
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Camster (Rhymes with Hamster)
Social climber
CO
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Folks,
I spoke with Bobby a week or two before this happened. We spent 45 minutes on the phone, etc. Does anyone know his condition now?
Best,
Cam
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hi everyone, this is Charlotte, reporting from New York. I saw Bobby and the gang yesterday and wanted you all to know that his is in the most incredible place and being looked after by the most outstanding people. He is on the 8th floor at Mt Sinai, a hospital that would blow your mind, in a (ICU) room with a very large window that practically looks over Central Park. When I saw Bobby it was mid-afternoon and the whole room was bathed in the most beautiful light, and because his head is almost directly under the window it really looked like he was drinking it in. I also have this personal theory that because he is so close to so many trees he is also getting a massive dose of chlorophyle. Not very scienitific, I know, since he is lying behind a window, but that IS what I believe. The staff are very nice and super professional and it's funny because they ask a lot of questions about Bobby, and invariably it comes down to "so he's a pretty amazing fella' isn't he?" And of course, by everyone's answers you would think that Bobby is Superman's second coming and ... but, hang on, he IS Superman's second coming! In any event, please rest assured that he is in the best imaginable surroundings and that everyone here is doing their utmost to see him through this, now it's up to Bobby to rest and recover, and it's up to all of US to keep supporting him, sending our thoughts and prayers his way.
Speaking of thoughts and prayers, Bobby's family is doing amazingly well given the circumstances. Big Bob is there right now, and he has agreed that we shall soon have our long-threatened political conversation (Yay!, see my previous post). Faith is slowly getting over the flight, which apparently was pretty draining. Best of all, she is surrounded by an amazing group of friends and family and believe you me, she IS looking over her big brother and asking the doctors lots of questions. Mariella spends a lot of time at the hospital as well and her crossword puzzles book is now well worn. This being the Model gang, there are still some good moments of levity and I'm sure there will be many more to come.
OK, everyone, that's all the news for now. Faith sends her love to everyone. Do keep all the thoughts, prayers and energy coming, Bobby is enjoying them. I will post again before I leave New York with the latest update.
Take care, Charlotte
PS: the NY Times published a short piece on Bobby this morning (in the Sports section), he he, now he is TOTALLY going to be the rock star of Mt. Sinai...
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Mallamo
climber
NC
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Hey Mo,
Welcome back my friend. Now that you are only a 12 hour drive from NC I have no excuse but to come up there and visit you. Remember all those times you were in DC or NY and I attempted to shame you into coming down for a visit? And the one time you finally did come and we were going to go up to Stone Mountain and climb some scary friction it snowed the night you arrived. Not only did it snow but it snowed over a foot, an unheard of amount here in the southeast, and believe it or not is has not snowed since. Hard to believe it was over 3 years ago.
So you see, you are our good luck charm, and if you don’t wake up and get your butt down here the entire state of NC will be in a persistent state of humidity and drought and we will never see snow again. Which, after all of those nights in the snow cave up at Passo Superior, post-holing jaunts to the base of Fitz Roy or the storm that kept us tent-bound at Urdicus on the Baltoro Glacier in Northern Pakistan, sounds like a pretty positive forecast. But remembering our snowball fights and wrestling matches in the front yard here in balmy NC only makes me long for the days of the great “BoMo Blizzard of 2004” as Jade and I have come to know it.
You are greatly missed my brother, but I am certain that when you are ready you will wake up and ask where your 100-plus lb. backpack full of camera gear is.
It’s waiting for you.
Peter
Bobby approaching the base of Fitz Roy-Patagonia, Argentina
Anyone who has attempted to keep up with Bobby in the mountains knows this is what you usually see-his backside about 100 yards ahead of you. And then, when he stops to rest long enough for you to catch up, he removes his headphones and says "Man, I sure am dragging today".
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Hey Bobby,
I saw your beautiful mom yesterday. She looked good despite everything that is going on with you. I hope to meet Faith someday so that I can see that other person that makes your moms eyes glow with that love that only a mom knows. I know that she will bring a part of that hug I gave to her back to you and share it. I will be asking you if you felt it. She told me of the layover in London. It doesn't sound like alot of fun, to say the least. She truly has been through alot, but would do it all over again for her sweet sweet children.
Rod from Northern Gardens has been quite busy next door. He put 3 or 4 loads of river rock around the trees and shrubs the last couple of days. We showed your mom what the building is going to look like. She was very excited for the upgrade. It is going to look great. Wish you could drop by like old times and we could give you a sneak peek as well. Guess that will have to wait. The grass still isn't in, but it won't be long now.
I will be taking Todd and Kirt and Monty up to Cooke City tomorrow for their big hike. I think that they are pretty excited. I think that we will be taking a jaunt over to Cody tonight to meet Monty's new girlfriend. I am so glad that he found a nice girl. Monty's dad is quite ill right now, so he is spending some quality time with him before he leaves on the hike.
I look forward to that day when you wake up and ask for your 100 pound pack full of camera gear. We are all very happy that you are back on "this side of the pond" and we are thankful that the trip went as well as it did. Keep fighting the infection and pretty soon, you will be joining us for some good conversation and whatever else strikes you as fun at the time. Maybe some food that you can actually eat with your mouth - Peanut Butter Pasta anyone??? Heck, who knows, maybe that is something that you are longing for right now. I am sure that they remember how to make it and they would be happy to come to your aid if that is what you truly wished for.
Bobby, heal well and know that we all stay close to the computer to read of the events that are happening in your daily life. How is that for stardum? You mean so much to so many.
Take care,
Janet
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Becky
Social climber
Las Vegas, NV
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Bobby, Faith, and Family:
You don't know me; nor I you. I work with Lyon Davis and have been following Bobby's progress. What an amazing family you are...I have been reading the posts. I just want you all to know that there is more positive energy being sent your way than you can probably fathom. Even people you have never heard of are thinking of you daily and visualizing your full recovery. I told Lyon that I fully expect to meet you one day when you come by to visit him.
Believe it or not, I spent the 4th of July in Cody myself some 40 odd years ago. I was just a child; but I remember the parade and the friendliness of the people. That trip has always been among my favorite childhood memories. At the time, I lived in West Virginia.
Well, I just wanted you to know how many people you continue to reach and what lessons you will share with so many when you fully recuperate and we ourselves can see the miracle of your total healing.
Recently I read The Secret and am thinking of the Miracle Man Mr. Goodman. I have no doubt that you will be climbing again.
God bless you all
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Aryn Rossett
climber
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Hi Faith, Bobby and Team Model at Mt.Sinai,
I just wanted to pop in and tell you that I'm thinking of you all and praying for you daily (usually more).
Several years ago, I was at the Mooncrest Christmas party. You were supposed to have been there, Faith, but somewhere along the way your travel was delayed and you were driving up from Denver that night, but would be home way late. Anyhow, I said hello to your father and told him that we were classmates growing up in Cody - and you should've seen his face light up. He was glowing with pride. He was so pleased to catch me up on your latest adventures, and Bobby's too. I can only imagine how proud he is of you now. Both of you. The Model stamina is inspiring.
Prayers and love going your way,
Aryn (Holm)Rossett
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Sammatt
climber
Boulder
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I was cleaning out my inbox today and saw this note from Bobby after Todd Skinner's death. Bobby, I've never met you in person, but I'm sending the same good thoughts and energy your way that you put out there for your friend Todd. As Todd said, "Kick at the darkness till it bleeds daylight."
Matt
"Hi Matt,
Sorry for the late reply.... Just returned from Lander where we celebrated Todd’s life last Saturday and also his birthday. A beautiful and perfect day... Many stories, slides, and a huge fire in the crisp October night.
I spent 60 days camped in a tent... 30 of which were tent bound at a touch over 18,000 feet on Trango Tower with Todd Skinner. I remember while after being trapped in a tent during one storm for nine days strait when the wall above was caked with ice and most expeditions in the Karakoram had left the Baltoro Todd wrote a quote on our tent wall “You must kick at the darkness until it bleeds daylight !!” It was Todd’s perseverance that got us to the top a couple weeks later. Big wall free climbers are forever indebted to him for his unmatched determination and vision that he brought to the sport.
Sometimes I pass through places where I had traveled with Todd and meet the same people we had encountered in the years past...whether it be a Samburu goat herder in the northern district of Kenya or a Balti guide in the Karakoram, the first thing they ask is: How’s Todd? He cared about the people that crossed his path. He always gave more than he took. Never will a day pass that I won’t think about Todd Skinner. His spirit will live on through his wonderful family and children and also through all of us who shared his presence no matter how short or long it was.
That’s what made him uniquely Todd Skinner...
Thanks Matt
Bobby"
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Cruiser
Mountain climber
Cody
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Good Morning Bobby,
just a quick blog before I head into the Beartooth wilderness with brother Todd and Monte Madsen. Leaving Cooke City today and may encounter a few bumps along the way. Glacier Peak, Mount Villard, Granite Peak, Tempest Mountain to name a few. We'll see how it goes. We'll be thinking about you and sending good vibes. Hang with us and be strong.
Sincerely,
Kirt Cozzens
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Largo
Sport climber
Venice, Ca
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If Bobby is still in a coma (and I can't tell by reading these p[opsts), we might consider doing a group prayer/mojo session at a given time just to see if our colllected passion might help the cause. I've heard of that working before. At the very least he'l quite possibly get a strong message from all his friends.
JL
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there largo (jl)... there was a bull rider that was stepped on by a bull(his skull) and his wife was asking for prayer, and folks were praying from all over, and he has had an amazing recovery in just 3? or 3 1/2 months...and was recently at the funeral for past-rodeo cowboy, jim shoulders... but, he, lee akins, stilll have more therapy to go...( i am not sure how his speech is going yet, but he is walking)
sooo---i said all this to encourage you all, that, that is a great thing to do... prayer is great as doing wonders,but JOINED-UP prayers have that extra humbleness of folks carying to "carry another burden" and we can do that....
i am fasting on fridays, and hoped that others would join me---WHAT is one day of no meals, when bobby has to go without all of his?.. if you or anyone wants to join and do that... that is kind of like "bringing out the heavy artillary".... so keep it up folks, this a powerful stuff--joined efforts in love...before god above...
ALSO one folk, here, mentioned to pray at 8:00, (every friday??? was it?)... everyone can set that time aside for bobby...
there have been many head injuries folks that are able to function today by the grace of god and they have powerful stories...
so now, GO FOR IT!
ps---*yes, sadly, on some occasions, some folks don't survive past the first few days...but even these folks, through prayer, knew that it was time to let go of their loved one and they had peace in there heart that it was a "timeing element" even as babies being born, is , that's just how it goes, here in this life, for reasons that we do not see here, but one day will see...
so, we have that "flag to plant" for this young man, as we all here and his family, in person, have seen bobby come this far, already... the path seems to opening daily for him... one will never regret days given up as to food, or prayer, when one see the victory, afterwords...
you all being climbers, can really feel how great the victory of conquering a rough chore, can be... much more than us little ol gals at home, :)
largo, (jl)---thank you very very much for suggesting this again.. as some folks had earlier mentioned joined efforts, so you are sure on trail!...
sorry, i am getting so strong with this, and ready to press on some more, it is just that i have seen so MUCH done, in these areas, and i really want bobby to have his victory...( i got three boys, and a girl, all grown, and little grandkids, too, so i have just been hurting for his folks and his sister)....
there is something very very special about familes... :)
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hi everyone, this is my last post from New York as I am about to head back to DC, but I wanted to give you the latest on Bobby and the whole Model clan. Bobby is still in the Neuro ICU and he seems to be really taking to his surroundings. The nursing care here is exceptional and the doctors have shown tremendous empathy. One of Faith and Bobby’s cousins is a resident at Mt Sinai so he is getting extra support and TLC. One of the nicest things is that someone is practically constantly at Bobby’s side, and everyone takes turns talking to him, updating him on your posts and messages (I made a point of recounting in great details the most embarrassing of his childhood memories … BUSTED!), holding his hand, rubbing his arms and generally letting him know that he is not alone. We all think that he seems to be reacting in small ways and we have definitely noticed that he looks better by the day, calm, resting, very much at peace.
The nurses are definitely getting the hang of Bobby. As I was standing by his bed, they started discussing what a big guy he is (his arms and legs are still incredibly muscular and I’m pretty sure he was trying to flex his muscles when he overheard them) and one of them asked how tall Bobby is. All I could answer was something to the effect of “yay high” with my hand way above my head, but then another nurse jumped in and answered that he is 6 ft 2 in. Apparently, she had checked on him and already knew the REALLY important info on our big friend. Then they were all excited to report that following the publication of the article in the NY Times a complete stranger had called the ICU to check on him, “just because they had been following his progress.” Now the nurses are all convinced that our Bob-Meister is a complete rock star – WHICH HE IS!!!!
The other thing I wanted to share with you is a taste of the love and affection that have surrounded Bobby and Faith here in New York. A host of cousins, aunts and uncles are providing a constant source of visitors and both Bobby and Faith really appreciate the visits. Big Bob is here (and yes, we DID have our little conversation, we still disagree on some issues but appear to agree on most …), spending time with Bobby and Faith, and overall being an awesome father. Today, the family of another patient asked him if he had just flown his son in from Africa. Bob said that yes, he was the one, and he was tickled when they said that they had just read about Bobby in the NY Times. Word travels fast on the 8th floor at Mt Sinai … On top of this, Faith has a small posse of Loomis alumni (Loomis is the high school they all attended) who are constantly at her side or a mere phone call away. It is clear from seeing their concern, love and affection that they are much more than Faith’s friends, but rather that they have incorporated Bobby in their circle as the vicarious older brother they have long admired and now watch over. Helen, Liz Kohn and Kilby were at Mt Sinai when the ambulance pulled in from the airport and someone has been with Faith ever since. Liz Romig has also come to visit, all of which has made Faith visibly stronger. Anne is flying in from Wyoming today (Sunday), and I know that this is going to strengthen further the circle of love, strength and support on which Bobby and Faith depend so much. In other words, Faith and Bobby are clearly in very good hands. Of course, they could ALWAYS do with more thoughts, messages and prayers, so do keep them coming!
On a final note, Faith sends all her love and thanks to everyone. She’s still not able to respond individually to all the messages and emails you all have sent, but she really appreciates each and every one of them.
OK, you are now completely up to speed on how our friends are doing. All the best to everyone,
Charlotte
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Great to know that Bobby's surrounded by not only his amazing family and loved ones, but great, caring doctors. Very good to know.
Keep holding on Bobby..in your own time...we're not giving up on you.
your friend Liz
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John & Pam Feeley
Social climber
Cody
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Bobby, I don’t remember where I saw this, but I read this the other day and thought of you.
It’s hard for everyone to deal with what’s happened to you, especially the way it happened; but maybe all of us, the ones who admire and respect you, the ones who think your absolutely nuts, and the ones that love and adore you, can find some comfort in knowing this is who you are, and you’d never do it any other way.
TO RISK
To laugh is to risk appearing a fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out to another is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
To hope is to risk despair.
To try is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken because
the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
The person who risks nothing, does nothing,
has nothing… is nothing.
He may avoid suffering and sorrow,
but he cannot learn, feel, change, grow or live…
By William Arthur Ward
We want to see you soon, and I know you’re ready to get out of that bed! We miss you and are sending positive thoughts and endless prayers for you and the family.
Johnny & Pam Feeley
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Katrina
climber
Roseburg, OR & Cody, WY
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Bobby,
Welcome back to the good ole U.S.of A! I just spent an hour catching up on the last weeks posts. All the stories make me wish I had the chance to get to know you more than I did! The only story I can conjure up involves the 4th grade Box Social at Eastside Elementary. You "bid" on my decorated boxed lunch and had to eat lunch with me. I recall you and Tyler Chambers only being interested in seeing who could shotgun their soda faster and burp the loudest afterward. I was mortified at this boyish behavior and embarrassed that you wouldn't even try to eat any of the food my mom had packed for the occassion. After the lunch we had to square dance with people (after spending the whole week practicing in PE) and I remember having to dance with Tim Barrus. Another mortifying moment in my life. Apparently this whole thing was traumatic enough that I remember it vividly all these years later! I always wonder if you remember it too. :)
I just spent a week in Cody enjoying the 4th of July festivities. I spent a day and 1/2 in Yellowstone taking pictures of all the incredible wildlife and if my photos turn out even a small fraction as good as yours, I'll be damn happy!
I truly hope you are hearing and feeling all the love and support everyone is sending your way! Every one of us reading these posts can only hope to get a small fraction of the kind of love and support you are receiving if something of this nature were to happen to us.
You truly are a role model and I wish you a speedy recovery! If you're going to be climbing The Dollar in cowboy boots again, I really want to witness that this time, so make sure I'm invited! ;)
Get well soon,
Katrina Krause
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Tripp
climber
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I am not big on publicly posting personal stuff to groups, but I know a lot of people all over the world are closely tuned into reading this thread so I'll give it a try mainly because I was tremendously inspired by Joe Maxwell's words from SA and I have really enjoyed so many stories from Bobby's friends, some of whom I know, but many of whom I only know through stories Bobby shared over the years.
I got to spend some time with Faith, Big Bob and friends this morning and then Faith and I visited with Bobby. As many of you know, Bobby is so amazingly blessed to have had Faith by his side through all of this, her commitment and bond with Bobby is and always has been so much deeper than most sibling relationships. It was tremendous being with Faith and watching how she cares for and communicates with Bobby.
Faith let me know right away that Bobby heard us and as we joined hands with him it became apparent. While he is not conscious in an outright state you could clearly tell, as Joe Maxwell has said, that Bobby is right there, just below the surface, itching to respond. I could defnitely feel his energy and his awesome strength while just standing with my hands on him, I really got the sense that he seems close to getting up, shaking himself off, making a couple of strides of the Model swagger and walking out of the building to get on with life.
All of that good mojo out there is definitely feeding and fueling Bobby so keep it coming, keep believing. Take care for now - Tripp
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Somerton Manor
climber
Somerset West South Africa
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Hi Bobby and Model Family & friends.
We are all thinking and praying for you here in South Africa. It’s great to read that you are having such a great support team. It was a privilege to meet your family and friends here in Somerset West. As I can read you are also charming the nurses there in NC. It is going to be a hard clime for you but as far as we can see you are the one how will concur this one as well. Your support team is amassing and this shows what a great man you are.
We at Somerton Manor and Vergelegen Medi- Clinic are missing you and hope to see you do well.
Lots of thanks & hugs to friends and Family.
Antonie and Somerton Team.
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Bobby and Faith,
Good Morning-
It was nice to start my day out with a laugh re: you and Tyler shot-gunning sodas in the 4th grade and frightening the girls. It's always nice to hear a memory. I laugh, I cry, and then I laugh again.
My mom recalls an afternoon- Ty had just walked home from school and was telling her about his new friend Bobby. Mom asked if you were a nice kid.. He said "yeah... yeah, he's a good kid, but he flipped a cop the bird through the fence at recess". Game over, you were the best of buds from then on.
I know without a doubt that Tyler is right there with you in spirit- If he were here, he'd be by your side to support you and Faith every step of the way. He'd be one of your biggest fans, although I can see him torturing you into waking up by prying your eyes open or something only he could think up-There was nobody quite like him :)
My two oldest Aubrey and Tanner know of their uncle and bless Tyler's friend Bobby every night at their bedsides.
Chris and I send all our thoughts, prayers, and energy your way.
Faith, don't forget to take care of you.
Rest well our friend-
I love you both-
Love to the rest of the family.
Peace
TCK
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Hi Bobby,
I've got another training peak for you. This weekend was Johnstone Creek , elevation in the 9,000 range but a spectacular view of Ketchum, Sun Valley, and all of Baldy. This peak sits just across from Hyndman, Old Hyndman, and Cobb . The access initially has a well maintained path until you come to the cross path for Pioneer Cabin, then you just start hiking saddles and peaks about 5 in all until you reach the highest of them all. The high altitude wild flowers on this hike are fantastic. It is definately a must do. Beautiful yet rough enough to be a challenge.
Have a great day Bobby! Miss you.
Heather Merten Cowden
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Mees
climber
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Hey Bobby,
It was early May, the truck was packed, goodbyes were said, merely 1000 miles or so stood between us and Yosemite Valley. So many thoughts and dreams rushed through our heads. Had our few years of groveling up the walls of Shoshone Canyon prepared us for THE greatest MOST intimidating climbing area in the world? Well, you were certainly wasting no time to find out. Before I knew it we’d put the Nevada desert behind us (quite beautiful at night) and found ourselves driving through the most switch-backed narrow paved road I think man was capable of creating. It reminded me of an I love Lucy episode I’d seen where Desi and Lucy tried to take a camping trip pulling a gigantic trailer and seem to take every road they shouldn’t have. I’d almost bet money they had to have filmed part of it on that road. We’d gotten closer and were counting down the 1/10ths of miles and were just about ready to crawl out of our skin there was so much anticipation and excitement to catch the first glimpse of The Big Ditch. We arrived at one of the western park entrances and still had a ways to go to get to the valley proper. The last 20 miles seemed to take longer than the first 1000! Finally, we rounded a turn and there it was in all it’s glory Yosemite Valley! Words of course fail when trying to define or describe what laid before us.. El Capitan on the left, Bridalveil falls on the right and Half Dome lurking in the distance. One would be hard pressed to find a more heavenly view on this earth. Holy moly!, Bobby we need to pull over... About 20 seconds later we had pulled over, you had managed to drain your coffee, get your tripod set up, camera mounted, metering the light. Other tourists saw your whirlwind and just kind of got the hell out of your way. After you had snapped a roll or two we were ready.. or were we? We drove the valley floor loop a few times with our jaws on the ground, and headed to the Mountain shop to get a guidebook and hopefully some good advice for our first climb. The helpful climber working there suggested Central Pillar of Frenzy on Middle Cathedral Buttress, for a first introductory climb and it just happened to sit right across from El Capitan. WoW, great! So we set out, you were driving and I was sizing up the climb based on the description in the guidebook.
Pitch 1 Offwidth! “Uh Oh” I said to myself, “that pitch is Bobby’s”. During the ride out I’d heard many stories about the OW’s at the VOO (Vedauwoo outside of Laramie) and how you had even managed to befriend and climb with the OW master himself Bob Scarpelli. I chuckled to myself thank God I have a rope gun because I’m about as good at OW as I am at reading Mandarin.
Pitch 2 hands/finger crack that ones mine.
Pitch 3 Fist crack roof… Another chuckle silently to myself, “My this is working out nicely” another wide crack and it just happens to be Bobby’s turn to lead again.
Pitch 4 hand crack YES no OW no problem!
Pitch 5 manky chimney OW to the max. congratulations Bobby
So I finally suggest, “want to take the first lead Bobby?” “Sure why not, let’s get it on”. I smile both at my ingenious tactical maneuverings and your innocent bravery. We hike up to the climb and a 25 foot high snow drift sits in front of the climb with nearly a 4 foot wide gap between it and the rock. Looking down at the gap from the top of the snow drift we noticed a dark mote that one just probably shouldn’t fall into if you know what I mean. Looking up Middle Cathedral seemed to just go on forever, “We Ain’t in Kansas anymore Model!” You sized up the first pitch and instantly saw there was a wide section guarding the top of the pitch. You weren’t impressed, to say the least. I cheered you on and reminded you of all the chicken wings (not food), arm bars and how Scarpelli would chastise you if you didn’t go up and crush this pitch. Well true to form you went up and with moves that were part inch worm, part mule you styled (that might not be the right word here as I’m not sure styling an OW pitch is technically possible) to the top and signaled your safety and disgust. The second pitch was an amazing clean hand/finger crack as advertised, I was almost laughing out loud as I got towards the top and saw the fist roof crack looming above on pitch 3. You seconded the pitch and like me were blown away with the quality and flow compared to the drudgery of the first pitch. I looked up and tried to sound surprised when I said you “might” want to take a couple of larger friends for that wide roof above. You started to catch on to me I think at that point. “HUH, another OW pitch what the hell Mees!” Trying to contain my laughter I reminded you that you were the man, Vedauwoo etc. etc.. Off you went chugging along until you came to the roof and somehow managed to get over it with equal parts , pain, ribald Wyo slang and true grit. The pain and blood were quickly forgotten when you got to see me grovel through that roof with eyes larger than saucers complexion dimming with each foot gained spattered with my timid squeaks “watch me” “how’d you do this” “awesome lead bro”. Your condescending laughs always were inspirational to me though and somehow I managed to get through just to spite you I think and steady myself for the next beautiful hand crack above us. It was hard to believe such benign graceful climbing could be part of the same route as the pitch we just completed. It was so easy compared to what you just did and I was almost in tears with laughter by then when I looked up and saw the rotten chimneys of pitch 5. Your lead Bobby! You were on to me for sure then, and were giving me hell for sneaking those gnarly pitches on you. We had a good laugh and I thanked you for being such a good rope gun. We looked over at the sheer majesty of El Capitan, as we had the perfect view of it from our perch directly across the valley from it. I knew we didn’t really have the experience to give it a go that trip, but I knew in my heart that when we did you would be at the top of my list for partners as you always have been. That month went way too fast, SO much good climbing and adventure, mountain bar shenanigans, dinner at the Ahwahnee (thanks Anne!) Snake Dike and the amazing redwoods of the Mariposa grove to name a few of the highlights , oh yeah you took a few pictures to. Love ya man thanks for that trip. I still gotta do El Cap (pretty sure you already have) I sure as hell still need ya for the OW pitches man, no better at them now than I was back then, so heal up, tape up and strap that camera on, I’ll be waiting with the rack in hand and OW above us, we got a lot more laughing to do.
Pat
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Toma Knapp
climber
Laramie, Wyoming
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Hey Bobby, were glad your back in the US. It is so amazing how many people write to you. You have a lot of great friends and family that care about you so much. Also it is neat to see all of the people writing you that we went to school with. Beau and I are praying for you everyday. Keep fighting Bobby, your friends Toma Knapp and Beau White
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Jill McMillan
climber
Colorado
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Bobby and Family,
What Toma said is so true! You may never know how many people are out here thinking about you, but we hope you are feeling it! Everyone I know who has any connection to Cody is now checking this site daily and sending more and more good thoughts your way. We're all glad you're back in the US and are in good hands at the hospital. Thanks to everyone who is keeping us up to date!
Jill McMillan
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Mark Jenkins
climber
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Faith-
Would it be possible to explain in medical terms how Bobby is doing? He's clearly surrounded by love from around the world, but I find myself wanting to know specifics about his condition. Hope this isn't too much to ask.
We're all pulling for Bobby.
Mark Jenkins
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Angi
Social climber
Cody
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Jul 10, 2007 - 12:46am PT
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Faith, hang in there girl. You and Bobby are amazing individuals. Faith I am truly blessed to know both of you. I do have a couple angels up there that are taking care of the good ones down here, so they are taking care of Bobby. My prayers are with you and your family, God Bless and I hope to see both of you soon.
Angela
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himills
Social climber
Filthydelphia, PA
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Jul 10, 2007 - 10:30am PT
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Hi Faith, Bobby, Annie, and company,
The Chapmans up and down the East Coast are all praying and pulling for your well-being. Bobby, it has been over twenty years since I saw you (I think it was when our families saw ET in the theater), and you certainly have been up to some amazing things. I know Ashley loved seeing you last fall in New York. Faith and Annie, I wish you peaceful mindfulness amidst the storm.
Also, even in the worst moments there is a place for humor, so I went and collected some good jokes for you:
http://www.lotsofjokes.com/dirty.htm
http://www.the-jokes.com/listjokes.php?id=Best
http://www.rd.com/content/50-funniest-jokes/
http://jokes.siteuri.ro/jokes.01.html
Peace, Mills
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jul 10, 2007 - 11:57am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, I'm sorry to report that I am back in DC, where the temperature has finally hit the three digits range (38 degrees C for all of us Euros and scientists) and where it's so miserable that the last thing one wants to do is go outside and play. I think I'm going to stay safely indoors and wait for dusk to go for a little walk once it's decent again. Fortunately, I had brought my guitar to New York (until I realized that Duh! it wouldn't be cool in the ICU, but never mind ...) and had the strings changed and tuned so I have picked it up again. Which is good news (for me, for my neighbours, not so much ...) as it gives me something to do while I'm locked in. I've been playing some of the songs we had played at Peg and Steve's in Portsmouth after Jessica's service and others that I know Faith really likes. These are all songs Faith, Jessica and I used to sing with our students in the Turks and Caicos and the funniest is one on which Faith has put her personal twist, basically chiming in at the wrong spot so that it sounds like echo. I swear, I can't play that song with a straight face anymore, as soon as I hit Faith's "echo" part my face cracks up in a big smile and, believe you me, it's actually hard to carry a tune when you smile from ear to ear...
There is also a beautiful song that I like a lot, called Easy Silence by the Dixie Chicks. It's my new favorite song because listening to it reminds me of the fact that we cannot hear you right now but hope, nay KNOW that you can hear us, in your own way. My favorite part goes:
When the calls and conversations
Accidents and accusations
Messages and misperceptions
Paralyze my mind
Busses, cars, and airplanes leaving
Burning fumes of gasoline
And everyone is running
And I come to find a refuge in the
Easy silence that you make for me
It's OK when there's nothing more to say to me
And the peaceful quiet you create for me
And the way you keep the world at bay for me
The way you keep the world at bay
I'll try and email the song to Faith and maybe she can play it on your iPod. I'm also trying to teach myself the chords so hopefully when you are better I can play it for you.
All right, Bud, that's is it for now, but never forget that everyone is rooting for you. We are waiting for you Bobby, and we will keep waiting for as long as you need.
Hug everyone for me, and an especially big hug to Anne,
Charlotte
PS: when I was in NY we talked a lot about that crazy New Year's in Cody and Montana two years ago - good times my friend! (And a big hug to Molly, Sharon and the rest of the gang back in WY)
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ashley
climber
NY, NY
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Jul 10, 2007 - 12:44pm PT
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Dear Bobby, Faith, Anne and Bob-
I hadn't seen Bobby and Faith since we rode big-wheels in my driveway 20+ years ago, but I'd heard so much about them both from Uncle Ben & Aunt Pat over the years. Last winter, I finally got to meet up with Bobby during his visit to NYC. (Faith, I was sorry to have missed you then.) It was amazing to reconnect after so long and compare our very different paths in life.
Bobby - I've been so inspired by your countless adventures around the world, and I know you that have many more to come. I'm finally learning how to use that camera you suggested I buy, and I look forward to using it when visiting you guys in Kenya next year. After all, you promised you'd show me around, and I'm holding you to your promise. You better recover soon!
We're all cheering for you, every hour, every minute.
Thinking of all of the Models and hope to see you while you're here in New York.
With love,
Ashley Chapman
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mark musser
Social climber
cody, wy
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Jul 10, 2007 - 04:11pm PT
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I just received this email and thought I would post it here for all....
I think it says alot about Bobby!
Three things in life that, once gone, never come back -
1. Time
2. Words
3. Opportunity
--Bobby made the best use out of these 3
Three things in life that can destroy a person
1. Anger
2. Pride
3. Unforgiveness
--I dont' think Bobby had any of these
Three things in life that you should never lose-
1. Hope
2. Peace
3. Honesty
--Bobby has all of these...
Three things in life that are most valuable -
1. Love
2. Family &Friends
3. Kindness
--The comments on this forum says it all about Bobby!
Three things in life that are never certain -
1. Fortune
2. Success
3. Dreams
--Bobby made sure they were certain!
Three things that make a person -
1. Commitment
2. Sincerity
3. Hard work
--Bobby is an expert here!
Hang in there Bobby!!
We're waiting for you to return to Cody soon....
mark & shelley
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Penlop
climber
NY, NY
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Jul 10, 2007 - 04:11pm PT
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Dear Bobby, Faith, Mr & Mrs Model - Hello,
Ashley Chapman is one of my closest friends. I distinctly remember the first time she mentioned Bobby and Faith and shared his website with me. It was on December 14th, 2006. This is the email she sent:
"have been thinking of you as i went to dinner the other night w/that photographer i'd told you about a while back - he shoots for national geographic and is based in Nairobi. He lives w/his sister over there who is an aid worker in the Sudan. It was fascinating to talk to him, he LOVES Nairobi - by the end he'd convinced me to visit there, if not move..."
I told Ashley a few weeks back that I was moving to the Rift Valley in Kenya, in September, and she had mentioned - she thought it would be a great idea to put me in touch with Bobby. Its for this reason that Ashley discovered last week the shocking news of what had happened to Bobby in Cape Town when she went on to his website.
Ever since Ashley told me this - I've asked her to keep me updated and this morning she shared this blogspot and the NYTimes article. I only just finished reading this entire string at 3:02pm today ... I'm at work but whenever I had a quiet moment, I read on to learn about about Bobby's progress.
I feel compelled to write although we've never met to let you know I am praying for Bobby and your family. Praying for his speedy recovery. From everything I've read - he has a strong spirit, a fearless personality and many many friends from far and wide who have shared so many funny and loving stories on this site, deeply love and support him and want to see back on his feet.
Bobby - I truly hope that when Ashley comes to visit me in Kenya during my time there - that you will have regained your strength and have returned to Kenya so I can finally meet this wonderful and fascinating individual that she's told me so much about! Perhaps you'll have time to show us Nairobi and the other parts of Kenya that have inspired you so much!
I will continue to read this blog and check in daily.
Sending and wishing you all much energy, hope and continued strength.
Much love,
Penny Killebrew
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 10, 2007 - 05:20pm PT
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hey there, to ashly and your family of chapmans... my brother and i, and our siblings, and folks, are west-coast chapmans... (from relative in ohio that none of you folks would know)---i just wanted to say how neat it is to know that there are others chapmans out there praying, too...
when we were growing up, we never ran into any other chapmans... i'm a gonzalez now...
this is amazing, as other folks have said, how so many folks can be drawn together to pray for one young man--meaning--there far-reaching ways that the good lord chooses to bestow love on those that such terrible accident has stuck...
god is bestowing treasure from heaven, for bobby and his family... in far-reaching ways... and THIS part, is NO accident...
i have learned so much about just one national georgraphic photographer, out of who knows the total, than i would have ever thought possible, when i first picked up my very first magazine, from my mothers house...
all this is being done, as a gift for this one young man and his family---how speicial is this---it is heaven sent
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Soaring Eagle
Boulder climber
Grand Forks, ND
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Jul 10, 2007 - 08:04pm PT
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Hello Bobby's Family, I'm keepin' Bobby in My Prayers! God Bless!
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Jul 10, 2007 - 09:29pm PT
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Bobby, Faith,Bob,Anne,I had decided i wouldnt keep commenting , and just follow updates, because there are so many amazing ,thoughtful,anecdotes and words of encouragement that I cant compare with;but i cant help myself. Bobby , I have talked about you to friends for so many years. I had a meeting at my house with a bunch of women and our program was "off the wall". we were to talk about a favorite something from our home's walls. I jumped up and took a photo of yours to brag about. i cant wait to meet up with you in Cody soon. Your mom has been an amazing support person for me since my cancer diagnosis. Not a great thing to have in common!
Faith, i talk about you all the time too! You are not supposed to be over 30. You are an amazing young woman and your parents have every right to be overflowing with pride. Our church was looking for a project in Africa, and i was sure you could be a contact. We will work on that soon. You are an amazing little sister for your brother. I remember a bit of picking on each other. that was a few years ago.
Anne,another ginormous hug and thanks for notes.
Bob, ran into someone that knows you at Boone and Crockett when we were at car repair joint. was an amazing,karma ish meeting. They are sending all their thoughts and prayers. Well we in Missoula at the Bennett household think and pray for all of you constantly. Sarah
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Cruiser
Mountain climber
Cody
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Jul 10, 2007 - 10:16pm PT
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Hello Bobby,
Well, the grass got planted today. There was a double load of sod that showed up on the truck and they worked all day to get it unloaded and put down today. It looks great! We are so excited to see the finished results. Next is the building. We are getting the final drawings put together and we are anxious to get started. Barron, Mike, myself, and Heather (the new girl) will finally have the office space that we need and be able to get things lined out. I really wish that you could see what we are doing. It is so exciting!!
How is your mom today? Give her a hug and tell her that I am thinking about her. I can't wait to see your family back here and settled in to old routines again - including you in your travels and adventures around the globe.
Kirt, Todd and Monte must be having a great time in the Beartooths. We haven't heard anything to the contrary, so my moto is "No news is good news". They might have gotten a little chilly last night. The air was kind of crisp down here this morning. Wonderful Wyoming weather you know.
I have been thinking about you a lot lately and praying for you to wake up and see all of these posts for yourself. I know that Faith and everyone there is reading them to you, but there are some amazing pictures here that would bring back some great memories for you. There are so many people that haven't seen or heard from each other in a long time and this site has really provided a way to see, talk, listen to each other again. It has been amazing to see it unfold in the writings of others as well as Kirt and myself.
You are an incredible individual and I know that you are incredible to every person speaking to you here on this site. You have touched each and every one of us in some way. Every one of us here knows you in their own special way and it is so unique to see. Many people here have never even met you, but they are compelled to send you their good thoughts and prayers. You will always be that special Bobby. You just have a special personality and kindness about you that people recognize right away, whether they have met you or not.
I don't know if there are many people in the world that haven't at least heard about you at this point in time. It is incredible to see how many people are talking here from so many parts of the world. It is astounding!
Keep being that incredible, loveable person we have all come to know and love in one way or another. You are dear to all of us. Give your mom a big hug for me!
Janet
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Michael Power
climber
Cody, WY
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Jul 11, 2007 - 02:59am PT
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Hey Bobby,
Just wanted to welcome you and your family back stateside. Keep up the good fight. From reading the posts I realized that your good ol' buddy Jake Cowden lives about 20 minutes from me in Idaho. I took a Geology class with him at UW. It's a small world and you seem to know about 90% of everyone that lives in it! I'm so happy that you are surrounded with such love. Take care, and get back on those climbing feet!
Mike Power
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JCB
climber
Lander, WY, someday again
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Jul 11, 2007 - 09:37am PT
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BoMo, I'm heading to Lander tomorrow to see Steve, Peter, and the gang, and to move our real estate venture forward. In light of the messages posted here, however, I've decided that a two bedroom will not have enough room for the two of us plus your legions of female admirers.
Speaking of females, I talked to Steve recently, and we were both marveling at your female fan club, especially since we've both spent extended time with you in close quarters. Seriously, what gives? Did the knock on your head improve your looks? Has the hospital food reduced your normally toxic flatulence to a bearable level?
We will soon find out the answer because we're coming to visit. Peter is driving up, while Steve, Mike, and I are flying in. First item on the agenda: fixing your hospital room. You see, your room sounds awesome. Too awesome, in fact, and we think the luxury surroundings, combined with the considerable female attention, may be impeding your recovery.
In your current situation, you are surrounded by female admirers who are reading to you, feeding you, giving you sponge baths(!), rubbing your feet, etc., etc. Where's the upside to getting out of bed? You're in the catbird's seat.
That's why we've decided to redecorate your room to make it feel like a Patagonian refugio. Let's see, we will need: rotting timbers, mud, plastic tarps, bailing wire, duct tape, E coli, salmonella, and a few large rats. And about a decade's worth of climbers' flotsam, jetsam, and funk. We're not bathing for the next two weeks, and during this period we're only eating meat, cheese, and Powerbars. We will be sleeping in your room, and pretty females will be barred from entry (while anyone resembling a dirt bag climber will be welcomed). Oh, and we'll be turning on the hospital's sprinkler system for the duration of our stay. Sure, it will inconvenience the other patients and hospital staff, but that's a small price to pay. In short, by the end of our visit, you'll have considerable incentive to get out of there.
Looking forward to seeing you shortly.
jb
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Jul 11, 2007 - 11:00am PT
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Ok, I was holding out with the fart stories, but speaking as a woman who dated Bobby years ago (and remained close buddies ever since) I have to say it's all true. Once, while driving in the Canadian Rockies, a perfectly gorgeous landnscape was forever marred b/c Bobby decided it would be REALLY funny to torture me with flatulence. He was driving and yet still had the ability to retain complete control of the vehicle and the passenger (me) while: farting and laughing uncontrollably, keeping BOTH of my arms at bay with his ONE right arm, controlling the windows and door locks so that I might not escape, and turning the heat on HIGH to add to the whole effect. Later when I returned to DC and he to Wyoming, his first email was "Do you miss my farts?" And strangely, I did. I still found him utterly charming. Go figure...
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HUEY
Social climber
Worland, WY
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Jul 11, 2007 - 12:51pm PT
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Bobby,
If someone is reading these to you I hope that you will hear this. I dont really understand what your condition is right now???
Im sorry I haven't written, I could make up excuses about how busy I am, but I think ultimately I havent written because what happend to you scares the sh#t out of me and I dont know how to wrap my head around it. I cant send regular emails acting like everything is OK, or telling you about whats going on in my world.
But I do want you to know that I love you.
I have been in Tensleep these past weeks inbetween assignments thinking of you. I walked past that route you put up a few times (Bare Back Buckle Bunnies) and saw a few photos I took of of you climbing in Tensleep on my computer.
We miss you.
One thing more: I dont know if I ever fully expressed my gratitude to you for what you did for me early in my career. For those who dont know - Bobby, already shooting for National Geographic, gave me his office and home in Cody for a month while he was way on expedition about 7 years ago. He showed me how to scan slides and archive my photos, and gave me a model for how someone in a small town in Wyoming could make it as a photographer. Im shooting for Nat Geo and the New Yorker, and Smithsonian, and a dozen other magazines because Bobby took the time to help me out when I was still living in my van trying to figure out how my camera worked. I owe you so much my friend.
Bobby, please come back to us so I can tell you these things myself.
Ill try to write again soon.
Aaron
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Jul 11, 2007 - 04:29pm PT
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FYI a friend in NYC tells me Good Morning America (ABC?) is doing a piece on comas and recovery tomorrow a.m., July 12-- not sure time or any other details though--
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jul 12, 2007 - 08:33am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
I was really chuffed yesterday when I got the Patagonia catalog and noticed that they used another one of your photos. It's the one of Leslie Paul free climbing a painted wall off Main Street in Cody. The pic is really good and I have to admit that whenever I get one of their catalog the first thing I check is whether one of your pics is in there, so this last one really made my day.
And then I cracked up because it reminded me of the first time we talked: years ago, I was hanging out with Jessica in DC during one of her visits and we were doing the usual, drinking tea and talking for hours on end. We were checking the latest Patagucci catalog (it's a bit of a religion, I know ... Right Tripp?) when she noticed that there was a photo of Faith, hanging laundry in Lamu, in the most beautiful light of dusk. Of course, we got totally excited randomly seeing Faith in print, and then we realized it was one of your photos. At this point, neither of us had met you but we got so excited that we figured we just HAD to talk to you, right there and then. So ... we did the only thing a girl could do, found your number in Cody on the web and picked up the phone. Now, Jessica was way too shy to call you out of the blue so it was one me. As I recall, the conversation went something like this:
Hey Bobby, this is Charlotte, I'm with Jessica, we're both friends of Faith's. We've never met but your sister told us you're an awesome fella and we just saw one of your pics of her in the Patagucci catalog.
Oh, hey Charlotte and Jessica, it's nice of you to call. How are you guys doing?
Well, we're just peachy thank you, and were wondering what Faith is up to and where she might be.
You know, Faith is in Africa, blah, blah, blah ....
And you stayed on the phone for a good 10 minutes, graciously answering all our questions and being a perfect gentlemen to two nut-jobs who happened to be friends of your sister's. Jessica was mighty impressed and even more impatient to meet you. Best of all, when we did finally meet, you were kind enough not to remind me that a few months earlier we had called you, out of the blue, because we had just loved one of your photos in a patagucci catalog. That was real classy of you, Bud.
OK, I know this was totally random but I can't really help it, it was just great to see a new one of your photos being shared with thousands of people when I least expected it. And if I ever needed it, it made me think of you and reminded me of what a great guy you are. All this to say that I'm rooting for you, Bud, as I know everyon else is. And I'm waiting for you, and I'll keep waiting. And when you're back with us, it will be OK for you to give me grief for once calling you out of the blue. You can give me grief anytime, Bud.
Hug everyone for me,
Charlotte
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Mallamo
climber
NC
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Jul 12, 2007 - 01:20pm PT
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Hello All,
A few days ago John Long (aka Largo) posted a message suggesting that we pick a time to all send our friend Bobby some good mojo. Fully believing in the collective power of human energy I expressed to John what a great idea that was and we should really do it. I am currently in Lander, Wyoming for the International Climber's Festival and we decided that this Friday, July 13 at 8:00 pm would be a very opportune time to have a moment of silence and all send Bobby our thoughts and prayers. At that time we will be paying homage to our good friend Todd Skinner in a slide/video presentation celebrating his amazing life and will have an auditorium full of climbers, many of whom know Bobby personally. John is down in Venezuela and will be coordinating it from South America at 8:00 pm Wyoming time.
So, whatever time zone you are in, plan on taking a moment closing your eyes and just thinking good thoughts and sending them to Bobby in New York. With everyone reading this forum all over our world I have to think that his room at Mount Sinai will be full of positive energy, thoughts and prayers. And I do truly believe that Bobby will feel us.
8:00 pm MDT. Even if you have to set an alarm to wake up do so, as our friend is so much worth it.
Best,
Peter Mallamo
Bobby swinging high above the valley floor on Mount Poi, Ndoto Mountains, Northern Kenya
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Jul 12, 2007 - 02:57pm PT
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Dear Peter,
Don't know you but have heard of you through Bobby. I will make sure and tell all the National Geographic (where I work) folk about 8pm this Friday...nice idea
Liz
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L
climber
Atlantis...before the flood
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Jul 12, 2007 - 05:07pm PT
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What a fantastic idea!
That would be 7:00pm Pacific Time for all you Cali wall-rats who don't understand time zones.
Peter (or anyone)--could you post a good mugshot of Bobby so we have a healthy face to focus our energies on?
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Mallamo
climber
NC
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Jul 12, 2007 - 05:13pm PT
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Sure, here is a shot of Bobby in the main bazaar in Skardu, Northern Pakistan. It's one of my favorites of him.
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Mees
climber
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Jul 12, 2007 - 11:01pm PT
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Excellent idea and we'll be ready 9:00 PM our time.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 13, 2007 - 01:45am PT
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hey there all... say, i have a medium sized, poem to for bobby's sister, faith... does anyone know an email address that i can send it to, so that you can resend it to her, or make sure she gets it... or shall i post it here, as she can read it here, just as well?... ?...
as most of the messages are for bobby, and about bobby, to encourage him, i did not know where to put a message for faith...
please post, and let me know... thanks, all...
*more wonderful joint effort for the prayers/good vibes, etc, ...say, all, as i am new to visit here, i do not know todd skinner, but send condolences for his family...
**and also for, mike strassman's family, as i have seen that he passes-on, as well....
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L
climber
Atlantis...before the flood
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Jul 13, 2007 - 01:32pm PT
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Thanks for the awesome photo, Peter.
I'm bumping this to keep it on the front page to help everyone remember about tonight.
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Staples10
climber
Jeffrey City, WY
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Jul 13, 2007 - 05:52pm PT
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Bump!
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Big B
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jul 14, 2007 - 01:50am PT
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Hey Bobby,
The Big B talking here, I've been thinking about you and Faith on a daily basis, some times I laugh and some times my eye fill with tears and I get choked up. I read what others have written and see names of people that I haven't seen in years, but most seem like family as we all grew up together. Many people would say "small world," maybe so for a man that has stood on top of it so many times. I enjoy the stories people tell about you, all with that special hint of Bobby.
A new member to the KBL Tech. family is your good friend Peter Chivers, As he works away on the building he'll pass a almost Bobby like grin at Mom (Becky) as she say's "Good Morning" or when he stops in to tell us his plans for the next day. As his work is almost complete, we will miss Peter being around every day to pass off a grinn, a smart ass comment, or just maybe to makes us feel a little bit closer to you.
As I talked with my wife tonight she said that out of the dozen times she has been able to meet you, you were always quiet, polite, and ask how Jaidyn our daughter was doing, (growing like a weed); most of all having time to just say hello. But what she hasn't seen is this wild Bob that every one is taking about. That is just your style. Make the Females think your this shy quiet type.
For anyone that wants to see that other side of Bobby or to read a great story about Bobby go to WWW.m-11.com/story
It was posted by Peter Chivers.
Take care Bobby were here for ya.
Faith much love and prayers
Brent,Heather,and Jaidyn Lohrenz
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jul 14, 2007 - 08:44am PT
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Great story Peter (and great story writing ...), thanks for posting it, I got more than a chuckle out of it, it all sounds so like Bobby.
Hey Bob-Meister,
Today is turning out to be a beautiful day, the sun is all out and the sky is gorgeous, and of course when I saw it, the first thing I thought about was you. I don't know if you felt it, but I think quite a few of us tried to send some positive thoughts your way last night (this morning in Africa). For me, it was made all the more special because I had just picked up my big bro at the airport who had just flown in from London. And what could have been just a regular visit is becoming very special for me, because I think of what a brother you have been for Faith, and then I notice, and love my own brother even more. You're a very special guy, Bud, having this kind of effect on so many people, even when you're hooked up to a ventilator in a sun-bathed room of an 8th floor overlooking Central Park. What is it about you that touches people's lives so?
Love you, Bud, take good care of yourself and come back to us soon.
Hugs to everyone,
Charlotte
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chivers
Mountain climber
cody, wyoming
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Jul 14, 2007 - 12:34pm PT
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This blog is nothing short of amazing! I haven't posted yet, but like everybody else, I do check it regularly.
I did write a story about my visit to Kenya to see Bobby. There is some foul language and such, so be forewarned. Here's the link again:
http://www.m-11.com/story
Thanks for the update, Faith.
Take care,
Peter Chivers :)
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Tripp
climber
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Jul 14, 2007 - 01:33pm PT
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Chivers, that is beautiful story, tears to my eyes, make sure Meado reads it.
Everyone should take a minute to read it and laugh. Thanks for sharing finally, now the pressure is on and we expect more!! Bobby would get a good heh, heh, heh out of remembering that ride. T
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jul 14, 2007 - 03:29pm PT
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BOBBY UPDATE FROM FAITH 7-14
Dear All,
Last night, the powerful and loving prayers, healing vibes and thoughts
flowing to and through Bobby from all of you, and so many others, all around
the world carried such divine power and grace and love and the effect on
Bobby was so extraordinarily positive and powerful. I am awed and Bobby is
blessed (as are we).
Many apologies for the sparse updates, it has been busy and full and the
days fade away with only fraction of the things I would like to attend to,
addressed. But we've now got our routine at the hospital the medical staff
at Mt. Sinai are amazing. Specialists abound and it seems like every
possible thing is being covered. The picture shrine is growing and we've
snuck all sorts of other shrine-like items around the room. Bobby is also
getting lots of alternative care (reiki, energy work, etc)--healing coming
from every angle.
Many of you have asked for an update of Bobby's medical condition. This is
tricky to get into because with head injuries there is so much unknown and
the brain is such a mysterious thing...I can only leave it at that for now
until we actually learn more ourselves and these things all take time. But
that we have plenty of. On the physical side, he has been dealing with a
multi-drug resistant pneumonia, which seems to be responding to the latest
cocktail. He still spikes a few fevers, but they are trending down and his
white blood cell count is also down. These are very good things. He is
getting food again, which I know he's happy about and the biggest news of
yesterday is that he was off the ventilator for most of the day. This is
huge as ventilators are one of the biggest sources of infection. He got a
bit tired and they put him back on at night.
Bobby is still in a coma (not drug-induced), but is showing significant
signs of alertness. His eyes track noise and he is moving his hands and arms
and generally feels very close to the surface.
He had an MRI two days ago, but we are still waiting for the full report.
We can't thank you all enough and I wish I could give every one of you a
huge hug. Sending thanks and love always,
Faith
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L
climber
Atlantis...before the flood
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Jul 14, 2007 - 09:08pm PT
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Thank you so much for the update, Faith.
Bobby has gone from a perfect stranger in a coma to a brother and friend for many of us who check this thread daily. Between your hospital reports and the endless stream of wondrous stories about Bobby's larger-than-life existence, one can't help but like your brother instantly, and empathize deeply with his family and his situation.
During my half hour healing meditation for Bobby last night, I felt a tremendous surge of energy about halfway through the process. Like a brilliant light, only on the inside. I think there were hundreds, maybe thousands of people turning their thoughts and energies towards Bobby just then...and I received the distinct impression that Bobby was going to be just fine.
I'm not a psychic or anything like that--just someone who meditates everyday. What I experienced last night was so out of the ordinary and intense, I truly believe it was the result of many minds focused on Bobby's complete recovery...we were all tuned-in to Bobby's channel.
I don't think it's about hoping anymore. It's about having complete faith in the process of healing.
Namaste,
Laura
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terry dean
climber
cody/bklyn
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Jul 14, 2007 - 10:18pm PT
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Love to you Faith. I just got back from 3 weeks in Venezuela (apparently a popular place to be lately as I read the past posts on this forum) and am so heartened to see Bobby is here in NYC now. I look forward to seeing you both.
A funny thing. Just before I left, I was at a friend's wedding, and who was the groom's cousin? but Liz English from MCT camp. (small world huh?) We had a lot of catching up to do, of course, apparently I "broke up with her" for Christina Houghten? and she never fully recovered... :) we had quite a laugh over the irony. She asked that I pass on to you greetings and much love.
Bobby, it's so good to hear you are putting up strong fight.
See you soon.
Terry Dean
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 15, 2007 - 12:28am PT
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hey there faith... and all... say i hope that this news from another head injury can be of encouragement... all head injuries are different, as the brain is so complex---even as you are learning.... this is one family that has gone on before you, and they are conquering.... long and slow....but they are gaining wonderful VICTORIES.... with all the folks helping your brother at the hospital, as they did for lee akin, here's hoping that soon it will be bobby turn for such victory stories as this, too, though they will be HIS OWN PERSONAL ONES, they will be most treasured... keep holding on to the good lord's hand.... here is some encouragement from lee akins story....
http://www.equestmagazine.com/article11-7-a6.htm
*extra note, hope all is well, i have a poem to send you--perhaps that is your email address, i will try, later and send it....
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eric/erin
climber
meeteetse, wyoming
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Jul 15, 2007 - 12:21pm PT
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Hello Bobby, Faith and rest of family,
Erin and I have been praying and thinking of you all and especially you Bobby. I know Faith is probably by your side every moment she can get. Make sure you get enough rest Faith!!!
Over the past few weeks there is not an hour that goes by that I don't think of you Bobby. Just reading some of the forum letters you seem to be an inspiration to us all.
Just to keep you up the weather here in Wyoming. It has been pretty hot in the past few weeks, however, the last few days have been cooler with some slight rain showers in the Meeteetse area. There are slight patches of snow left in the high mountains still this year. By this time last year the snow was all gone.
In late June, I took Erin up to Robber's Roost and stayed the night. It brought back many memories of our childhood and teen years of moving cows. I remember your trusted mount "Kelly" and all the miles you two put in together. Faith would usually ride numerous horses while you rode Kelly for the most part.
Just being outdoors is awesome. I hope you can experience that feeling sometime soon. It rained at our house for a short spell last night, and just to smell the rain was invigorating.
We prayed for strength and healing within you on Friday night at 8:00pm. It is just awesome to know the Lord can do miraculous things when you turn towards him and let him come into your life. I know I'm finding that out more as I mature and age with time.
We will continue to pray for you Bobby. There isn't a day that goes by that we haven't prayed or thought of you many times.
Get rested up my friend, since I'm sure you will want to hit the ground running when you wake up. You will probably be wanting to scale the hospital walls with all the ambition that you have.
Faith tell your dad and mom that we think of them often. You all are an awesome family to say the least.
Love and prayers from Wyoming,
Eric, Erin, and Tade Geving
P.S. Tell Bobby that we taught Tade to say "Go Bobby" last night. Tade will be two in August. Bobby last seen Tade in January. So "Go Bobby Go"
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Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich
Social climber
Des Moines
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Jul 16, 2007 - 11:28am PT
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Faith and Bobby,
Thank you so much for the update! I am glad to hear that the vent weaning is going so well. That is key.
I am teaching a class Wednesday on brain injuries..........I am going to throw in some pictures of you and have a moment of silence.
I just know that you are going to pull through this, and do something inspirational! I am hoping that, sooner than later, you will be able to come talk to our children that have TBIs to inspire them.
Love and prayers,
Cheryl
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jul 16, 2007 - 01:27pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
I have yet another spectacular training opportunity for you when you feel up to it. Saturday I hiked to the peak of Hyndman which is the 9th highest peak in Idaho at 12,009 feet. The highest peak is 12,600 feet. This hike is a photographer's dream. I don't know how many times I said I wished I had my camera. So the trek is 6 miles from the trailhead, but you literally gain 5,000 vertical feet when you reach the peak. Truly it was amazing for all the wildflowers were blooming around the high alpine lakes.
The last 1000 vertical feet it basically vertical bouldering, but at the top of course you have amazing views and a 4000 vertical drop off the east side. A prayer was left for you at the top in the old nalgene bottle that some other summiter left a time before, and I know you will get up there some day to read it.
The most spectacular thing about this hike was swimming in the crystal clear alpine lake at 10,000 feet, with the most luscious green grass surrounding it, and masses of colorful wildflower. I just floated there in that cool water looking up at the majestic peaks of Hyndman, Old Hyndman and Cobb, thinking again how I wished I had a camera to capture this perfect day.
12 miles, 5,000 vertical feet, and your camera. This is must for you to do.
Have a great day, Bobby and love to Faith too.
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Lori Christenson
climber
Las Cruces, NM
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Jul 16, 2007 - 02:10pm PT
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Bobby, Faith and Family
So glad to read that you have the support needed to create the healing atmosphere that is so powerful at this time. Faith, we hope that you too are finding the time to heal and send you our strength as well. I don't think a day has passed that we haven't thought about you all. We have been inspired by the places that you all have been and experienced. We will continue to send you our well wishes and plan to see you back in Wyoming someday soon.
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rstoney
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Jul 17, 2007 - 01:06am PT
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Howdy to all --- I'm just now catching up (yep I'm a bit slow) but what an amazing list of messages and great way to keep up. Bobby, obviously there are a LOT of people pulling for you, many of which echo our thoughts and prayers from Wyoming. You've been through quite a bronc ride lately ... hang tough in there, partner. To Faith, Anne, and the rest of the family --- we all wish you our very best --- KEEP the FAITH and STAY STRONG!!!
Rick Stonehouse and family
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 17, 2007 - 02:01am PT
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hey there dear faith...
this is hopefully some encouragement from someone that has gone on the this "trail" before you... i had accidently found this when working on my novels.... it was a new event--and many folks were praying for this young man too.... he has since pulled through... here is his event's in order story, posted long ago by his mother:
http://www.simleywrestling.com/KyleAnderson.htm
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Kate Borgelt
climber
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Jul 17, 2007 - 01:03pm PT
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Faith~
Bill and I pray for you and Bobby everyday. Wrap healing arms around Bobby. Thank you for the continued updates. Wishing I was closer. Love Love Love. Kate Borgelt
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Cynthia Weed
Social climber
Cody
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Jul 17, 2007 - 01:13pm PT
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Hi Faith and All,
Faith, I have been thinking about you reading to your brother. You probably do not remember this, but one time I read aloud to Bobby, and he was the best audience I ever had. Cast your mind back to the days of Wednesday Weekday Church School. Do you remember that from time to time on Wednesdays, all of the helpers and all of the little children would help prepare an evening family meal?
Of course some of the helpers were more help than others and some of the children were no help at all. It was one of those days at weekday church school, too much busyness everywhere and it was suggested that maybe I might like to take some of the busier children off into a little room and read to them until supper was ready.
Well, I was happy to do this and I had the perfect book. I had what I considered to be a hilarious…albeit somewhat irreverent…children’s book called The True Story of the Three Little Pigs by A. Wolf by Jon Scieszka. I won’t traumatize you (and Jenni Desarro and Nathan Weed) with too many details of this tale…but in this story, the wolf did sneeze down the home of one little piggy and (yikes) in effect killed the pig. Thinking it a bad idea to waste pork, the wolf ate the pig and decided to try another neighbor. And so it went.
Here's what you have to contend with if you read this book to little weekday church school children…you have a wolf eating pigs. Which is, to be fair, what wolves do. Now Faith, you never see the wolf actually put each pig in his mouth. And you never see the pig's faces prior to their devourement…but you and Nathan and Matty and Jenni started edging out the door looking askance …*not* Bobby Model. Bobby stayed right there for the entire story; he laughed heartily and guffawed loudly and hooted appreciatively in all the right places. Like I said, the best audience ever!
If you would like I would be happy to send you a copy to read to dear Bobby. I’ve looked it over and it (trust me if you can) is still as funny as ever.
Thinking of you all oh so very much,
Cindy Weed and family
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Mees
climber
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Jul 17, 2007 - 01:56pm PT
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Peter Chivers, thanks for creating that awesome story of your wild ride on the Model crazy train, it was such classic BoMo. Well done, I felt like I was right there with you guys.
I finally got a few more pictures to add, sorry if the quality is low they were scanned from slides compressed etc... enjoy
Taken when we first entered Yosemite Valley. The young master was hard at work capturing Yosemite, about the time Bobby really started shooting a lot of photos. I was so impressed with his dedication and knowledge even though he hadn’t been a serious photographer for long
On the way to Snake Dike (Half Dome)
Bobby and I went up to the South Fork for some ice climbing. This was late 90’s so he had started to establish himself as a top notch shooter. He shot a fair amount that day and mailed me some slides later. I was really excited to get them to see what kind of amazing ice climbing shots he'd managed tocome up with--- this one was my favorite
his sense of humor is precious.
pulling every day for you big guy MUCH strength and hope to you and family
Pat
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Jul 17, 2007 - 05:50pm PT
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Bobby, the beer slayer.
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Kalakay
Big Wall climber
Bozeman, MT
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Jul 18, 2007 - 01:27am PT
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Bobby,
It's mid-July, hotter than hell and you still haven't paid us a visit. Take time to rest and recover because you're going to need all your strength in the adventures we have planned.
Not an hour goes by that we don't think of you. We miss you friend.
-Tom, Betty and Fritz Kalakay
P.S. Here's a slightly incriminating photo to get you riled and give others a laugh. Be forewarned, I have others that are much less flattering...
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Big B
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Jul 18, 2007 - 01:41am PT
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Bobby and Faith,
Thought that I'd share a few words from another inspirational person, Mike Vallely a 37 year old pro skate boarder. After a trip to Israel and upon leaving Tel Aviv; Mike V talked about his life and he said,
"The journey continues and I'm more determined than ever to do the distance. Twenty years, twenty years... I failed, I fallen, but I got back up.
Still I go on. Still I FIGHT!
I will never give Up!"
Bobby I know this is your heart, keep on fighting, keep on working to get better. Little steps, don't push to fast, take your time and heal yourself.
To Faith: I wish I had the words, but I don't, just know that love from all corners of the world surround you, Bobby, and your family. Keep your head up and stay strong as you are the rock, the stone that will not crumble. Like everyone says "you got to have Faith." And Bobby does.
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WillH
Sport climber
Salt Lake City
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Jul 18, 2007 - 02:11am PT
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Bobby, I've been thinking about you a lot lately. We were supposed to hook up for a bit of climbing up in Wyo around now but I guess I'll have to take a rain check until you're back on your feet again.
I've put together a collection of my favorite photos of you and I hope you don't mind me sharing them with all your friends around the world. We've had some great times over the past decade and I expect many more to come! I"m going to need another strong oarsman on the Grand again so I'm counting on you being ready when the call comes!!
Hang in there my friend. I hope you can muster a chuckle or two thinking back over all the good times.
Your good buddy, Will
Well I hope this works. I created a gallery of photos of Bobby on a web site called Smugmug. The URL to Bobby's gallery is http://www.smugmug.com/gallery/3151784
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matt power
climber
Brooklyn, NY
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Jul 18, 2007 - 01:51pm PT
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I was fortunate to spend an amazing three weeks this past February with Bobby. We were working on a story together for National Geographic Adventure, which will be out in the September issue. with a selection of astonishingly beautiful photos by Bobby. We climbed Mount Kenya, following the 1943 route of Felice Benuzzi, the author of "No Picnic on Mount Kenya". The story was Bobby's idea, and I was lucky to be the one he tossed it to, considering I had never been mountaineering before. We spent 7 days on the mountain with our friend Alex Fiksman, and made it up the Southwest ridge all the way to Batian. It was one of the greatest experiences of my life, and Bobby was incredibly patient and encouraging for this novice climber. We made it all th way to 17000 feet on a route none of us had climbed before, and bivouacked at the Howell Hut. I could never have made it without him, and my thoughts are with him and his family.
much love
Matt Power
http://www.matthewpower.net
I have many great pictures from the climb I'd like to post, I just have to figure out how to do it.
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Mees
climber
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Jul 18, 2007 - 05:01pm PT
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These Photos are from Matt Power's trip with Bobby to Mt. Kenya
(I'm helping him post them)
Elephant tracks in the bamboo forest
Bobby and Alex Fiksman in the bamboo forest along the Burguret Route.
American Camp, below the Darwin Glacier
Naro Moru Route
Mount Kenya Massif w/ giant groundsels
Bobby on Batian's SW Ridge
Bobby descending the Normal Route
Me and Bobby at Batian's summit, 17,058 feet
Bobby at point Lenana, sunrise
Bobby below the castles on the Burguret Route, with lobelia flowers.
Naro Moru Route
Bobby at 12,000 ft, with inversion clouds below, looking out across to the Aberdares.
edited for captions from Matt Power
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matt power
climber
Brooklyn, NY
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Jul 18, 2007 - 06:11pm PT
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Hey Faith,
Matt Power here. If there is anything I can do while you are in New York (if you or any of your family need a place to stay, etc) we've got a big house out here in brooklyn right near the express train, and we'd be happy to host your family or friends. Lord knows I crashed on your floor in Nairobi for long enough! Don't hesitate to call if there's anything I can do:
Matt 917 302 8688
And is it possible/helpful to visit Bobby?
Our story will be out in a month, and the photographs are terrific. National Geographic Adventure will also be posting a portfolio of his Mt. Kenya images.
Sending good thoughts across the East River
lots of love
MP
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RY
Sport climber
Pasadena
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Jul 19, 2007 - 12:08pm PT
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South Africa is the most dangerous country in the world which is not at war. It has an HIV incidence of 40 per cent. I can satisfactorily tour it via the Animal Planet and get my kicks on El Cap. This "accident" was likely an act of violence.
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Jul 19, 2007 - 02:31pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
I saw your dad and Mona yesterday. They were in good spirits and looking well. I conveyed my prayers for you as well as your whole family. I know that this has been a trying ordeal for all of you. You are so blessed in the family and friends that hold your hand in theirs, whether it be in person or through the power of thought.
It has been fun to read the stories posted here. I don't know you as well as so many other people here, but I have learned a great deal in reading. You are a WILD MAN. I always knew it, but I never saw it in writing until now. I just know you as the guy next door that picks up his mail on accasion and chats in meeting on the street or out among the town. I am glad to know that you are not a stuffy stick in the mud that has no fun!! (I always knew that but now it is blackmail material!)
The trees and grass in the lot are great to look at. The little guy from Northern Gardens is out watering again. I can't wait to get started on the building and get it done. I think we are all a little anxiuos. It can never go fast enough when you are on to bigger, better things.
I am hoping that Kirt's blisters are healed up enough to go hiking this Sunday. He kind of tore up his heels on his Beartooth hike. We didn't go hiking last weekend, but instead took a drive up to the Mystic Lake trailhead to see what that would be like for the boys to hike soon. It was beautiful! The lakes were incredible and the grass is so lush and green right now. It has been awesome to have the grass still be green this time of year and not brown and dried out. This drive was incredible. It made me feel so blessed to live in this part of the world surrounded by the myjestic mountains and everything wild that I love so much. It was kind of cloudy coming out and I got that indescribable feeling that you get when it is starting to get cloudy and the possibility of rain lingers in the air. It touches my soul and is incredibly serene. I know you have felt axactly what I am talking about. How could you live here and not have, at least once or twice? I love everything about this part of Wyoming that I was born and raised in.
Well Friend, I guess that I should probably stop talking and get busy doing something productive. I am here praying for you right along with so many others. I think of you and your family throughout the day - everyday.
Best,
Janet
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Daniel hayward
Mountain climber
Laramie Wyoming
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Jul 19, 2007 - 03:10pm PT
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Dear Bobby, Faith family and friends,
It is so difficult to know how to begin writing such a letter, to nearly no one that I know. Bobby, you are my link to everyone else around you and writing into this forum, and even you and I are more acquaintances than friends. Not by choice but by how life goes.
Dearest Faith,
We’ve never met but your incredible unconditional Love for, and amazing dedication to, Bobby is inspiring beyond words, and almost beyond the emotional ability to truly wrap my mind around the essence of such selfless giving!!!!! I pray for you that you are able to find the time for yourself that each of us needs, especially when providing another with such care and such emotional support. I also pray that in your darker times during this tremendous trial, that there are people close to you who simply hold you, and that you are able to allow the Creator to hold you in arms of pure Love and Compassion, allowing you to drain away whatever pressures and troubles you have so you are cleansed and balanced, for you, and then for Bobby and others who you care for.
I met Bobby here in Laramie when he gave possibly the first slide presentation on the Trango Tower ascent. He knew of me through my own photography, and we found an immediate bond between us. Although we never talked a lot or too often after we met, we did talk about exhibiting his photographs in my gallery here in Laramie, and I always considered him a friend. I am now considering re-opening my gallery here and wonder about showing his work in the gallery in a special exhibition, and possibly on a regular basis. I’d like to talk further with all of you about that. I know he was showing in Cody, and I don’t know if his gallery there continued after his move to Kenya.
So, Bobby... I, like others who have written here, believe that you are soaking up all the Love and healing energy that is pouring out to you!!! Much of that is coming to Faith and then through her to you!!! She is such a pure conduit for much of that Love to reach you, and you seem to be so very open to receiving all that Love as well. I pray for you often and in Ceremonies (sweats and other Ceremonies in the Lakota (Sioux) tradition), and know that you are healing every second of every day. I pray also that upon your recovery, each of us be open to accepting the ways the trauma, and now this healing experience, will have changed you. You and your whole family and many close friends (and even us on the fringes) are, and/or will be, renewed in small or powerful ways, by each person’s connection to you and our participation in this epic, communal journey.
Be Brave, everyone, and strong, courageous, wise, respectful, generous, patient and humble. BE!!! And Bobby will BE too!!!
In Peace and Love to all, Dan Hayward
http://www.haywardphoto.com
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jul 19, 2007 - 08:19pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Sorry, it's been a while, but I was busy soaking up all the recent posts and photos. I'm telling you, Bud, we have been learning A LOT about you and I just cannot wait for you to wake up so that I can give you a whole lot of grief. Don't worry, though, everything that was posted is just soaked with everyone's love for you and your secrets are safe with us. I particularly enjoyed Matt's post on your climb of Mt Kenya and I was chuffed to read the article before the mag even comes out. Now that's what I call ACCESS ... but then again, I expected no less from you and your friends.
Hey, by the way, I wanted you to know that I went to the Patagucci store in Georgetown when my bro was visiting and they have a little montage that features your latest photo in the catalog. They were advertising "urban climbing" clothes, whatever that's supposed to mean, with cinder blocks, and the catalog open to your pic. It was very cool, and I was the only one in the store who knew it was yours. I sent you some extra positive and strong vibes so I hope you got them loud and clear! Usually, I have to confess that I tend to brag about you every time I go to the store, nonchalantly leafing through the catalog, and, as soon as I spot a hot guy I exclaim "whoah, check it out, it's one of my friend Bobby's pictures!" It's great pick-up line and makes me look way cooler than I really am (OK, I'm busted ...) but this time I couldn't tell anyone, didn't want to go into explaining where you are and what you have been through. So, I just thought, of you, and nothing else.
Otherwise, the latest news posted by Faith about you sounds really good, it's good to know that you are in good hands and that you are just doing your best trying to get better. You just need to know one thing Bobby: that we are all rooting for you, waiting for you, and that we will keep on waiting until you are ready to come back to us.
As always, Bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
PS: stop the press! The new (and last) Harry Potter is coming out tomorrow at midnight. I'll send you my take on it and a blow-by-blow of the resolution, though I will probably not post it here since I don't want to ruin it for anyone. 'ello 'arry!
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Jul 20, 2007 - 04:58pm PT
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Thanks for everyone for all the posted pictures and stories about Bobby's adventures from around the world. It's comforting to see what a wild man he still is. From the photos he looks incredibly comfortable & happy with who he is and what he's doing in the world. He is truly a blessed person and a humble one. You can always count on him for taking whatever your doing with him to the next level and I expect no less from him with what's going on now. Thanks Bobby for putting Cody, Wyoming on the map and making us all so proud of you and your accomplishments, it's like we were all right there with you. One thing he would always say was "if your going to be a bear, be a Grizzly!” Then of course he would tackle you and bear hug you to the ground. Keep pushing it my friend and we'll all be here when you come back to us.
Your friend,
Lyon
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Jul 21, 2007 - 11:34am PT
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I wanted to post a few words about our friend Bobby b/c I visited with him this past Wednesday, along with Rebecca Martin (NGS) and Tommy Heinrich (photographer). I don't know most of you on this forum but have known Bobby for about 10 years now and first want to say how astonishing his reach has been and how comforting it is to know how many love him and are pulling for him.
Know that Bobby truly is in the best hands possible with the best doctors possible. His family and friends and their unwavering support is nothing short of heroic, but they wouldn't say so. They are just doing what comes naturally. Between Faith, Anne Bobby's Dad, Mariella, and all of Bobby's many admirers, he is covered nearly 24/7, but is also given the time he needs to rest alone, and heal. The staff caring for Bobby are a very warm group of people who have come to know Bobby and realize who they are dealing with, how special he is to so many, and how important it is that he come through this.
Having spent a few hours in ICU with him I (and Rebecca) definitely felt that Bobby experiences varying stages of "awareness," though he is still in a coma. We are not just paying lip service to that, we both felt it, as I know his family and close friends have on their visits.
Luckily Rebecca was a good talker, as I found it hard to find words upon first seeing Bobby. She was telling him all the right things he needed to hear, and I was "seconding them" :) It's very comforting to hold Bobby's hands, whether he responds with a squeeze or not. I understand each day is a different experience, with varying levels of response. Bobby seems to know when he needs to rest, which is a very good thing.
And I'll be quite honest, despite a bit of a tough-looking spot (indentation) above his front right brow where the impact was, (reconstructive surgery will take care of this later) Bobby truly is handsome as ever.
When he is off the ventilator, which I believe is the majority of most of his days, they add steam to keep things moist around his neck and face, and so his skin, lips, etc look very healthy. His skin probably rivals that of a newborn at this point!
Bobby definitely responds to discomfort, i.e. one of the female nurses was shaving him with only soap and water (the day before we arrived) and well, that simply wouldn't do, of course! Bobby made a fuss and so later Tommy Heinrich went on a mission to find the finest electric shaver and shaving cream money can buy in NYC. That simple gesture for some reason was one of the most poignant things I have ever witnessed between two men. That, and the way Tommy came in to say goodnight to Bobby, quietly, with gentle but masculine strength. That was the first time the entire day that I cried.
After Tommy and Rebecca left, I was sitting with Bobby just holding his hand, close to the end of visiting hours (11-7 each day) The nurse put him back on the ventiltor, just to give him a break (she said he was doing quite well, but as a routine they give him breaks)..anyway when she was attaching it back to his throat he seemed quite agitated for a bit, but within seconds after it was adjusted, he calmed right down. In other words, he is responding to stimuli as Faith has reported, and this is a good thing, surely. Several times Bobby yawned some very big yawns, which at first startled me, until I realized they were yawns. Since yawning is an unconcious way of bringing oxygen to one's brain, I took that as a good sign.
His infections are under control at this point. During our day-long visit, his vitals were strong, he was breathing on his own all day long, the color in his face looked great, and his eyes were constantly in motion (his left eye almost always open when someone was in the room, his right eye not open yet, but moving--the right side being the injured side) At one point when Rebecca and I started to leave the room, the second we were outside, his left eye, which had been open and seemingly alert, slowy started to shut as he began to rest. We also noticed that when we were talking "across" Bobby (two people allowed at a time with him), he would sort of cough, almost as if to say "ahem, here I am, talk to ME" and maybe it was coincidence but when we started to talk directly to his face, he seemed to calm down! Since I'm obviously not a doctor these are just a few observations, but wanted to share with those who have not yet had the chance to see him face to face.
And I want to say to Bobby that it was wonderful to be with you, and let's hope the next time you receive visitors you will be that much closer to waking, or better yet already awake--lots of love to Bobby and all--Liz
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Jul 22, 2007 - 11:16pm PT
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Liz, A million thanks for your honest, insightful, loving, report on your visit with Bobby. Those of us too far away really appreciate such notes, Sarah
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Jul 23, 2007 - 03:24pm PT
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Sarah,
Sure thing. It's certainly the very least I can do. I'm just so glad I'm close enough to NY to have gotten to scoot up there, and Bobby's certainly worth the trip.
A lot of his really close friends will be up there with him in the coming weeks and that is bound to have a positive impact.
I hope to get only positive news the next time we're updated on his condition.
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jul 23, 2007 - 03:29pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
Still thinking about you. No big hikes this past weekend. I had work in Anaheim,California. I bet it has been awhile since you've been to Disneyland, and it certainly isn't as cool as sooo many of the places that you have been, but it is a magical place. You may have to add it to your list of places to go while you are building up your stamina again. Mono y mono.
Heather
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HR Coe
climber
Cody,WY
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Jul 24, 2007 - 12:41am PT
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Hello to all. I was just catching up on some of the postings on the website here, and wanted to say that we are all still thinking about Bobby everyday and are still anxiously waiting for the day that he decides to wake up. I guess since he missed this 4th of July in Cody we will just have to do it up twice as good next year. I can't wait until he is back because I am planning on making alot of money betting on Bobby scaling the side of the Silver Dollar Bar here in Cody. He did it once I'm sure he can do it again. Anyways, keep fighting bobby, we are all pulling for you.
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jul 24, 2007 - 10:40am PT
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BoMo
Just back from a weekend in the Winds. Saw this sign on the Big Sandy road...funny that in the middle of Oil Country you'd get to see something like this without even one bullet hole through it.
See you Friday.
Steve
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skm
Sport climber
Cody, WY
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Jul 24, 2007 - 02:53pm PT
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Bobby's mother, Anne, asked me to please post this note from her to Bobby's "SuperTopo" family:
Dear All,
I am Bobby's Mom and how I appreciate your notes, messages of hope, and most of all, your stories! Treasures!
Bobby and I are very close but mostly at the Mom angle.Your tid bits and tales of more adventure fill in lots of gaps and make Bobby bigger than life, tho I know he is bigger than life anyway. He's fighting. Keep 'em coming.
With thanks and love to you all for your precious lives!! Hug your kids or somebody else's!
Anne (Young)
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Mees
climber
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Jul 24, 2007 - 03:50pm PT
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An update from Faith via Helen...
Hello all,
This is Helen writing from/for Faith. To start, I know Faith and her family are so deeply touched by your continued support, prayers, love and outreach to Bobby and her family. It is what brings smiles to their faces and carries them through these long days and they tell Bobby about every e-mail, text, voicemail, letter, gift, photo that you send. They are very grateful and as you know Faith wishes there was more time in the day to respond personally to everyone.
Here is the update:
On Saturday and Sunday morning, Bobby was showing good signs of
responsiveness - squeezing hands, tracking with his eye and had heightened awareness. At the end of Sunday night, however, Bobby was stretching his arms and locking them in a stretched position which looked as though it was causing him some pain, which they addressed. Yesterday, the stretch and locking of his arms/posturing was escalating and around 5pm EST, Bobby went
in for a CT Scan to see why this was happening.
The scans essentially show that Bobby needs surgery. The surgery is an extensive and delicate one and it is not without risk. So now more than ever please keep your prayers and positive thoughts high for Bobby. He should be having the surgery in the next 24-48 hours once the surgeons have
assembled the correct team and plan of action. Due to the delicacy of the surgery, the family asks that until they know more information to please continue to send your love and support but please no visitors at this time.
I'm sorry I can't give you more medical information at the moment, but everyone is still in the process of information gathering.
I know how anxious everyone is for updates and as soon as there is more information, an update will be sent.
Thank you from the family for your prayers, positive thoughts, love and
support.
With love,
Helen
pulling for you Bobby and family
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jul 24, 2007 - 05:28pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, as promised, I finished the new Harry Potter (all 750 pages!) in, ooooh, maybe 24 hours. And the word, my friend, is that it is AWESOME!!! I was even able to read it without going straight for the last pages and the denouement. It is dark, but not so much more than the last two, and of course all the characters have become more mature. Anyway, I don’t want to give anything away for those who haven’t read it yet, but here’s yet another reason for you to come back to us: to find out what happens to “the boy who lived.” As I was reading it, it reminded me of the first time I saw 24. I was at your house in Karen, you recommended it as an awesome show, and I started watching it around 7.00 at night. I managed to squeeze in about 3 hours of sleep and was done with the whole first season before 7 the next day. In other words, I lost a WHOLE day of my life to one of your recommendations!!! And of course, I loved every second of it …
Otherwise, things here in DC are OK, a bit on the boring side, but I am counting days because I take off for Turks and Caicos in three weeks: awesome! On the schedule, lots of beach time, scuba diving and lobster fishing … all right for some, I know. We also got a nice message from your Mum on this site and an update from Faith so we are all up to speed.
Well, that’s it for now. I know you have a few trying days ahead of you, so just remember what you can always count on: we are here for you, thinking of you, praying for you, and sending you heaps of positive thoughts.
As always, Bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
PS: and hugs right back at Anne.
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Shelley
climber
Cody, WY
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Jul 24, 2007 - 06:21pm PT
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It's been a while since I've posted, but I've kept up with the reading. One day, this will make a wonderful memoir of an incredible person. Bobby, I'll be there for the book signing! Remember that I babysat you and Faithy and you were good kids - hopefully you'll say something nice in the cover of the book!
In fact, I would've adopted Faith to be my little sister, but you seemed to have a strong grip on her. She is indeed an angel in our midst.
The weather is too hot and dry here in Wyoming; even in the Big Horn Basin. Things just don't feel normal. We need you back, being you Bobby. The thoughts and prayers never cease.
~Shelley Simonton
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Jul 24, 2007 - 08:52pm PT
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Hi Faith, Anne, Bobby, Bob, All the fam, All our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you as you go through surgery. All the mountains you have climbed Bobby, climbing out of this challenge is so in your reach!Your Mom is waiting to hear your side of all these stories she's reading. Tons of love and hugs, Sarah, Michael, Jarod and Alyssa
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Kari
Sport climber
Bishop CA
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Jul 25, 2007 - 04:06am PT
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Hi Bobby...We have not met YET!!! I hope to some day in the future...I fly with your Aunt Cookie...she brags about you all the time. I just want you to know that many of us in the flying community are thinking about you and sending all the healing energy and the strength you'll need to get thru this next part of your journey...stay strong and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kari
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Jul 25, 2007 - 10:19am PT
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hi Bobby,
You can do this--having seen your strength and spirit last week I know you can..
your friend,
Liz
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Scott Bragonier
climber
Cody Native
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Jul 25, 2007 - 11:07am PT
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Bobby on Devils Tower, circa 1990
Here’s a photo of the wild man on Devils Tower back in high school. This is just before a snow storm hit us. We loaded his ol’ blue VW down and headed out after school one night. I think we only had two tapes that trip: “The Wall” and “One Love” still ring in my memory. That was a great trip. Check out those golden locks! Hang in there buddy, we love you.
Scott
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jul 25, 2007 - 11:49am PT
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Bobby
I am sending you all the strength and positive energy I can. Keep fighting like we all know that you can. You will be climbing mountains and walls again.
Love and strength to you Faith, and Anne and Big Bob Model.
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Karen Gibbons
climber
Cody/Laramie
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Jul 25, 2007 - 12:49pm PT
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I received this story this morning and it made me think of all the people who are praying for Bobby and for his family....I loved imagining all the friends, surrounding Bobby, so today and every day you have hundreds of people standing around you to keep you safe and to help you heal. The fact that this took place in Africa made it even more moving.
A missionary on furlough told this true story while visiting his home church in Michigan
"While serving at a small field hospital in Africa, every two weeks I traveled by bicycle through the jungle to a nearby city for supplies. This was a journey of two days and required camping overnight at the halfway point. On one of these journeys, I arrived in the city where I planned to collect money from a bank, purchase medicine, and supplies, and then begin my two-day journey back to the field hospital. Upon arrival in the city, I observed two men fighting, one of whom had been seriously injured.
I treated him for his injuries and at the same time talked to him about the Lord.
I then traveled two days, camping overnight, and arrived home without incident....
Two weeks later I repeated my journey. Upon arriving in the city, I was approached by the young man I had treated. He told me that he had known I carried money and medicines. He said, 'Some friends and I followed you into the jungle, knowing you would camp overnight. We planned to kill you and take your money and drugs. But just as we were about to move into your camp, we saw that you were surrounded by 26 armed guards.
At this, I laughed and said that I was certainly all alone in that jungle campsite. The young man pressed the point, however, and said, 'No, sir, I was not the only person to see the guards, my friends also saw them, and we all counted them.
It was because of those guards that we were afraid and left you alone.'
At this point in the sermon, one of the men in the congregation jumped to his feet and interrupted the missionary and asked if he could tell him the exact day this happened.
The missionary told the congregation the date and the man who interrupted told him this story:
"On the night of your incident in Africa, it was morning here and I was preparing to go play golf. I was about to putt when I felt the urge to pray for you. In fact, the urging of the Lord was so strong I called men in this church to meet with me here in the sanctuary to pray for you.
Would all of those men who met with me on that day stand up?"
The men who had met together to pray that day stood up. The missionary wasn't concerned with who they were, he was too busy counting how many men he saw.
There were 26!
Bobby, your army is growing!
Karen Gibbons
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Dennis Reed
climber
cody, wy
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Jul 25, 2007 - 08:31pm PT
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Dear Bobby and family,
Our prayers our with you everyday as you are all going through this time. We have been enjoying all the pictures, etc being posted! Thank you everyone! As you go through this surgery know that you are in God's hands and that you have so many people pulling for you!!!
Love,
Dennis and Misti
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ccaldes
climber
Golden, Co
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Jul 25, 2007 - 09:19pm PT
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Hey Dark Bo,
We just want you to know our thoughts are with you as you climb this next mountain. You can do this. I have had this image of you carrying Gina on your shoulders when she was just a pup on a camping trip and too tired to walk. It is just an analogy of the massive source of strength and inspiration you are to all of those you encounter as evidenced in this forum.
Now it is time for you to rest on the enormous support of your family and friends while you muster your strength.
All of our love and prayers are with you,
Chris and Brice (and of course Gina too)
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Mees
climber
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Jul 26, 2007 - 09:50am PT
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another update was circulated from Faith through Helen
Bobby is in surgery right now (since 8AM EST) and will be most of the day, another update may come tonight following the procedure.
Prayers of healing and strength for Bobby and family
wisdom, precision and endurance for the surgery team.
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Dropline
Mountain climber
Somewhere Up There
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Jul 26, 2007 - 12:50pm PT
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I don't know Bobby, other than by following this thread, but if I've read these last few posts correctly, he is currently in emergency brain surgery of some kind.
This is a bump to keep him foremost in people's minds so maximum positive vibes continue flowing his way.
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handsome B
Gym climber
SL,UT
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Jul 26, 2007 - 01:15pm PT
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stay strong Bobby
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Kammi
Social climber
Sheridan, WY (Cody)
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Jul 26, 2007 - 01:33pm PT
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Hey Bobby...just wanted you to know you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I, as many others have also said, enjoy the stories about you as each story gives a different perspective on your life. I've lost touch since high school and college with many, but feel as though I'm catching up a bit through you and this forum. Many, many, many constant thoughts and prayers to you, Faith, and your family. You are leading an amazing life (yep, I'm a bit jealous) and have just begun it! There will be a HUGE "quarter beer night" starring you in the near future.....keep fighting. Kammi Mock
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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Jul 26, 2007 - 03:21pm PT
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Hey Bobby and Family,
Just wanted to let you know that all of here in Red Lodge continue to send you good thoughts. We are all keeping a very positive outlook to your up coming surgery and look forward to seeing back here in the west soon.
keep up the fight.
All Good Things,
Rob Hart
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jul 26, 2007 - 04:04pm PT
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Bump!
Good thoughts coming your way, Bob-Meister!!!
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Mees
climber
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Jul 26, 2007 - 04:31pm PT
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This is photo from Liz Grady Bobby's friend from NG with her nice comments added as well.
Faith has this posted in his hospital room, so I know she likes it. I took it last October while passing through Cody en route to DC. I like it because it is just a nice Bobby moment, nice light, we were just sitting having a beer, relaxing and chatting. He was helping me with driving directions and was getting really into it, as men with maps are wont to do :)
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bunnypoo
climber
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Jul 26, 2007 - 05:51pm PT
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Bobby,
Continually sending love and prayers your way. Can hardly wait to visit you next week.
Molly
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Crystal Lee (Deroche)
climber
Cody,Wy
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Jul 26, 2007 - 06:02pm PT
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Hello Bobby!
Just saw Joe yesterday and was talking of your surgery. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. The Spirit and soul are more powerful then the body. Keep up the fight, we are sending every ounce of faith and possitive energy your way.
Much Love,
Crystal, Felix, Kaiden and Ethan Lee
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 26, 2007 - 10:22pm PT
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hey there .... dear faith... i still have your poem, i will postit here... but i will wait until after the surgery---am praying most earnestly that all goes well... god bless to your family.... i do not know any of you all, but as i know of similar situations, i am pulling strong, for you all....
a freind of mine that works with head injuries has offered some insight, as to why this surgery was needed.... sure hope all goes well, ... am leaving it in the good lord's hands....
say, when you get a chance, tell bobby he has cleared yet another "hurdle" and is marking his track, as to reaching the next goals...
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brooks emeny
Social climber
bozeman, mt
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Jul 26, 2007 - 11:24pm PT
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Bobby, We three here in Bozeman are thinking of you lots. Keep up the fight. We send our love and prayers. Talk to you soon.
Love Brooks, Kenzie, and Lexi.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 27, 2007 - 03:21am PT
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hey there .... i dont know if anyone, or even if i, myself, had already posted this link--if your are like me, and did not know who bobby was, until now---this is article has some very very fine commments made by him, to help us learn how he feels inside about other people, people that were strangers, until he knew them up close:
http://www.nationalgeographic.com/emerging/bmodel.html
HERE ARE SOME HIGHLIGHTS FROM IT... I JUST SAW, WHILE I WAS PRAYING:
Although physically demanding, photographing mountaineering expeditions had always been well within Model's comfort zone. "I worked with very supportive teams, people I'd bonded with through longstanding friendships." The opposite was true as Model moved into photojournalism. "When you cover issues in faraway cultures, you arrive as a complete outsider. It's essential to find something in common with people, some way to connect. One minute I may be having tea with a village elder and need to prove my knowledge of his culture and history. The next moment, I could be standing in a field with a local farmer. Only by forming friendships and earning trust, am I allowed to document truly powerful experiences."
Drawn to show the human face of Sudan's civil war, Model covered refugee camps, conflict zones, and field hospitals. "I remember a man who had been shot and was about to be flown over the border to have his legs amputated. He and his wife were holding each other on the floor of a little dirt hospital, knowing he might not return to Sudan for years. Moments like this make me realize that wherever we are, people have certain universal emotions. We're really all the same. I hope my work in these places will have some sort of meaning, bring new awareness, and help change situations."
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jul 27, 2007 - 01:19pm PT
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JUST GOT THIS JULY 27 UPDATE FROM HELEN:
Dear all:
This is Helen again writing for Faith. A heartfelt thank you to
everyone for your prayers for Bobby's surgery. Just to ease
everyone's minds, from a surgical standpoint, the surgery was very
successful. The doctors went in and did everything they needed to do
and Bobby remained stable throughout the surgery.
Bobby is recovering now and focused on fighting some infections.
Faith will continue to keep you updated on his progress.
Thank you for all for your positive thoughts and prayers and please
keep your recovery and infection fighting thoughts and vibes high for
Bobby in the next few days.
With much love and thanks from Faith and her family,
Helen
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 27, 2007 - 06:38pm PT
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Dear Faith and family--
I do not know Bobby,but I had a poem for you, Faith , as I have known
many folks that have gone throw some hard sorrows...
It takes two to travel a hard road...
or so I am reminded from what i was told...
it was the for the best...
that, with a sister, Bobby was blessed...
this road he is on, is a long, dry, and rocky hard place...
there is no map, in front of his face...
but there is a sister, to guide and lead...
its so much better, than any ol' faithful stead...
you will help mark the way...
starting with each morning, 'til each end of day...
your voice in greeting, to him,will be a familiar song...
yet, as he presses on to conquer, you will warn
if things go wrong...
a sister of many knacks and trades...
a shining ace, that never fades...
where and how can this be?...
it's by God's good hand, you see...
He knit you as brother and sis, together...
for not only joys, but for troubles, to weather...
yes, the joys have been there...
happy and lofty dreams, done with care...
but to earnestly refine man's soul...
there is a bit of turmoil needed to enhances its
eternal "grow"...
thus, when life goes wrong, as now, in this way, it had...
this is when love from a sis, steps in to take up
the burden, to help shield mom and dad...
yet, those that work hard, though these
long sorrows...
will share in the glories, of the victories, of many tommorows...
remember that, as you press-on...
hope always reaps some kind of new dawn...
prayer will sooth and comfort the way...
even as the shade, or cool rivers, comfort trails, as climbers
press on, exploring a day...
use what bobby has seen in his life days...
and apply into principles so needed, to conquer each hurdle, so he'll
soar all the way...
these are the things that he will relate to and feel...
as he fights to make each new chore, become real...
a good coach and mentor, releases full potentials that can hide inside...
so may you continue guiding him to victory, until he one day, does fully "arrive"...
by God's grace, to work hard and fight to conquer more, with you, side by side...
hang in there gal...
you're so much MORE, than just his pal...
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 27, 2007 - 06:46pm PT
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hey there faith ... another thing you can do... make hand shapes, or such, in his hand, when you say certain words to him... like one for love you, one for help, one for good, one for whatever you like... then, later as he gets stronger, if he cant talk to you, you may just find him making these shapes with his hand, trying to communicate with you... it sure is worth a try....possibly he can associate the word, with the sign, each time it is used, and then some day, do it back, in return....god bless...then he wont feel so helpless, as he can reach out to you..
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Judy Wallop
climber
Oklahoma City
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Jul 27, 2007 - 07:52pm PT
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Grace be with you and your family. Northern Wyoming was my home for many years. I found this site via press reports. Thank you for sharing. You are in my thoughts.
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Jul 27, 2007 - 08:16pm PT
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Dear Bobby and family,
I didn't want you to think you were no longer in our thoughts... you are... and we pray daily for Bobby's recovery.
The love and encouragement of his friends is AWESOME beyond words.
Love to you all,
Sharon and Bill Baker
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jul 27, 2007 - 09:12pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, the news is that you went through the surgery with flying colors, which is a big suprise to ... ABSOLUTELY NO ONE! It was just wonderful to get Helen's email and to hear that you are back on your recovery trail. I hope you felt all the thoughts and prayers coming your way yesterday because I know there were a ton of them. In any event, we are all ever so pround of you for putting on such a fight, you just keep it up, Bud, and we'll all keep pulling for you.
So, this morning I did something special for you, Bud, I went hiking the so-called Billy Goat Trail in Great Falls near DC. Now, I have a personal theory (yet another, I know ...) that there are as many Billy Goat Trails in the US as there are states, or even large cities, just as there are as many "Shark Alleys" as there are islands in the Caribbean - go figure - but this particular trail is really awesome and it totally whooped me - which is exactly what I was after. Now, at first I was a little sore because was recovering from my first real run for my tri training (so far I had stuck to the eliptical for injury reasons), but about half-way through climbing some fun bolders (which in my mind were nothing short of the Himalayas, but never mind ...) I realized that my old muscle pains were being replaced by much worse new ones: AWESOME!!! by tomorrow I expect I will be so sore, I won't even be able to type ... Seriously though (seriously? seriously!) it was just the most beautiful day, the rocks we were climbing overlooked some small rapids, there were a couple of kayaks, it got to be really hot, I got sun-burned, it was JUST PERFECT, Bud, and I kept thinking of you the whole way, because I was doing the kind of stuff you are really into. And, it made my day.
Not sure what I will be up to for the rest of the week-end, but I know that I will be thinking of you the whole way. So, Bud, keep up the great work, know that we are thinking of you, sending you love, thoughts and prayers, and that we will just be waiting for you, as we always do and will carry on doing until you come back to us.
And, as always, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Jul 28, 2007 - 12:16pm PT
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Bobby and Faith, You have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly and I'm am so glad you, Bobby, came through the surgery ok. I got a kick seeing a photo of Bobby, from Scotty, in your younger days, the time I knew you.
You guys had a special bond in your childhood days it doesn't surprise me that you two are so close now. The four years I spent living at your dads place I can't remember a fight. The only scuffle I got from Bobby was when he and Scotty tried to throw me in the pool! Little brats!!! Ha
Anne and Bob, you raised some awesome kids. Of coarse I thought that the day I met them. It is probably because you guys are "good people". I love the whole crew and can't wait until you ALL return to Cody so I can come up and see ya.
Take care of yourselfs and stay safe,
Brenda Cronk
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mattstan
Social climber
Seattle
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Jul 28, 2007 - 07:20pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
Glad to hear your surgery went well! I have a story I want to share with you. A few weeks before your accident, I went cragging with my dad and a good friend of his, Andy.
What was a “fun” for my dad and myself was something else for Andy. About two and a half years ago, Andy fell twenty feet off a ladder and sustained severe head injuries. At first, the doctors weren't even sure he'd survive. They told his family,
"If he makes it through, he'll be a vegetable."
When Andy finally came to, months later in the hospital, he couldn't move, he couldn't talk, he couldn't remember who people were. Over time, he recovered somewhat, but the right side of his body was essentially paralyzed.
The doctors told him,
“You'll be wheelchair-bound for the rest of your life.”
Andy said, No, That Will Not Be.
Months later, after millimeters of progress per day, Andy walked.
The doctors told him,
“That's fantastic, but you'll never hike hard, ride a two-wheeled bike, or climb a mountain again.”
Andy said, Yes, I Will.
Over the course of the next year, Andy hiked, biked, and climb mountains.
So last fall the doctors told him, “That's fantastic, but you'll never rock climb again.”
Andy said, Yes, I Will.
That day out with my father was Andy's third day back on the rock, his best yet. He struggled here and there, but “weakness” was not present. Andy said to me, “I think it'll be a couple of years before I'm back to full speed, but I'll be back.”
A few weeks later, he was toproping 5.10.
“Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.”
--Dylan Thomas
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Sunlight
Mountain climber
Cody, WY
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Jul 28, 2007 - 11:04pm PT
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Bobby, Faith, Anne and Bob and all family,
You have been in our thoughts and prayers every day since we heard of the accident. We are sending you healing thoughts every days to speed your recovery.
Love,
Bob Sandy & Wiley Newsome
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bunnypoo
climber
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Jul 29, 2007 - 01:45am PT
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Bobby (& Co.) -
To add to Charlotte's list of amazing things that are here to be enjoyed when you're ready... breeze on a summer night, the eternal music of crickets, and the first sight of the full moon. Stay strong Cowboy.
love and blessings to all,
Molly
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jul 29, 2007 - 06:47am PT
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hey there mattstan.... i know that you posted this for bobby, but so many other folks can use this too...thank you for this post of this wonderful story of your dad's friend... this is a huge and victory for someone... and something to remember and cherish always... please when the need arises, continue to share it....
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jul 30, 2007 - 12:50pm PT
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Bobby,
Sounds like you are doing great after the surgery. You should know that your sister is a ROCK. Someone posted the greatest poem about you and her. It gave me goose bumps and just about got me teary eyed.
Some other great news is that Sonja had her baby last Tuesday. His name is Kellen and they are both doing great.
Have a good day Bobby. Thinking of you. Love and Strength
Heather
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spacebelle
climber
NY
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Jul 31, 2007 - 07:31pm PT
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Hi Faith and Family,
Its Sarah Pace. I heard from Erin C. about what happened and I've been thinking of you almost everyday. You're amazingly strong and so is Bobby. Love to your parents as well.
All of my heart and positive thoughts are with you.
Tons of love,
Pacer
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terry dean
climber
cody/bklyn
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Faith.
I am hoping I may come by the hospital and see you and Bobby but don't know if this is alright?
maybe take you to lunch or go for a walk in central park?
So great the surgery went well.
Much love.
Terry Dean
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Hey Model gang, just returned from Cody. Walked by the bobby house, Bobby, cant wait for another tour.Anne, sorry to not see you, but had a wonderful, brief, visit with sister Katie at church. Faith, Faith, Faith, from the cutest l'll thing , to the most amazing sib. Take care of yourself dear. Tons of love and prayers from the Missoula gang, Sarah
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jet
climber
red lodge mt
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Hi Bobby We had a great trip to Bugaboos. Perfict weather, climbed a lot, need to go back. Summer is fyling by as usal,will not be long till fall. HOPE TO SEE YOU IN CODY SOON You Pal Jet
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Bobby, everyone (I hope) is keeping the intensity of positive thoughts & actions coming your way, no slacking off now people! Every time I’m out in the hills I always yell your name as loud as I can, a good old whoop. Just want you to know that were out there and that we are so thankful for your kick ass sister and fantastic Mom & Dad. Keep marching! I found some good party pictures but I haven’t posted them yet, too incriminating!
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Laura Bell
climber
cody, wyoming
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Hey there, Bobby- Your mom asked me to post this email sent through her and Faith on the day of your surgery July 26- the day of your big surgery and "the day it rained in Cody." Cheers, you!!
Dear Bobby,
We woke to rain this morning in Cody.....a real rain!!! Thoroughly soaking, big drops, the mountains disappeared in clouds, puddles everywhere......and it's still coming down, hours now, no sign of letting up or lightening. You know how it is here, when all we get is hot wind and maybe a few drops and
the smell of rain. Even that is wonderful. But this, on the day of your surgery today, feels like a blessing, a reassurance. So, we are all pulling for you today, Bobby!!!
Blessings on you and your family today, always. love and hugs, Laura
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Jill McMillan
climber
Colorado
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Bobby,
I just received my NG Adventure magazine in the mail and I love seeing the photos you took on Mount Kenya. And I love the one of you on the Contributors page! You are incredibly talented and I'm glad I've been able to reconnect with you through your work.
Sending you all sorts of healing thoughts,
Jill
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Cruiser
Mountain climber
Cody
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Bobby, Kirt here. you've been through an incredible and extremely difficult journey so far in your life. Your Dad posted his thanks to the community in the Cody Enterpise today and that is the least we can do to support your recovery. I want you to know how much you have influenced the next generation of outdoor explorers of wyoming to explore the reaches of the world. God Speed Bobby.
Your Friend and Companion,
Kirt Cozzens
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Hayes'
climber
Ft.Collins/Cody
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Bobby, Just spent another evening checking this forum for updates and wanted to try to express into words what I feel in my heart for you and your family. Just as Lyon said you do have a "kick ass" sister, family and friends. We have shared some great times together growing up and into college and I know getting past this will be just another accomplishment in a man I am proud to call my friend.
With Love, Jay Hayes
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Hello All, Long time no? Just had dinner with Big Bob and Mona in Red Lodge with Kay,Nicki, Bob/Carol Carolson? and I. What a great night we talked of all of YOU. Thank You so much for all the support and dedication shown towards Bobby and his Family!
Keep up the Good Fight, Bobby needs us now more than ever!It's not a race, it's a matter of survival.And we will SURVIVE!!!You are in my Thoughts Always LOVE JOE
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Kari
Sport climber
Bishop CA
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Hi Bobby...I'm still thinking of you everyday, keep fighting over there...you have sooooo many people sending healing thoughts your way I'm honored to be part of the collective force!!! You are so lucky with family and freinds like these...I will wait for the day to meet you in person!!!
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Mees
climber
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From Faith
Dear All,
Finally an update! I really apologize for not being more consistent with keeping in touch since being in New York; I know it's frustrating to wait and wonder. But many thanks to all the people who have filled in the gaps and as always, the messages, letters, thoughts and words of support, complete faith, love and humor are extraordinarily powerful and infinitely appreciated. You are all incredible and I'm not sure how we'd be coping without you.
Bobby has been resting and healing in Bobby Model style--focus, indomitable strength and will and success. He was battling a lot of infections and at this moment is beating them all. They are in the process of taking him off sedation and he is definitely waking up a bit, but also seems to be in some
pain so it's a balancing act of easing him off sedation, keeping him on enough painkillers, but letting him ease into a more conscious state. In sum, the steps are forward and that's great news.
Thank you again for all the healing vibes and thoughts, they are clearly working! We are ever grateful and as always sending all of you love and
thanks.
Faith Model
keep up the good work BoMo!
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hey Bob-Meister,
OK, by now I think you know that a whole lot of people are thinking about you a whole lot of all the time. I think of you when I do something cool, when I see something beautiful, when I eat something really good, before I go to sleep I send lots of good vibes your way, and every morning when I wake up I remember the fight you are fighting, and I commit all over again to fighting with you throughout the day. And then there are moments when I am totally overwhelmed by something and I just wish you could share in it. A little while ago I was in my car, enjoying DC traffic, and I had the radio blasting, and the station played “The River” by Bruce Springsteen. As any safe driver would do I cranked that baby up, got totally lost in the lyrics and the music and overall had myself a kick-ass little bit of time. And here’s what I wish for you, Bud, that you will soon come back to us, regain control of your iPod and totally blast it when it comes to a song that you really like. Which then led me to think of all the other really cool things you will be able to do when you wake up, like sip a nice cool beer on a really warm day. Now, I’m making a couple of assumptions here, the first of which is that none of your doctors or nurses is reading this … if they are, my name is George W. Bush and please send any complaints to 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue. The second is that one of your crazy cowboy buddies will be close-by and will be able to smuggle a cold one for you. And if all that fails, well it’s OK, we’ll just wait for you to be totally well and able to order your own brew. But think of it, Bud, there are so many good things waiting for you and I just know that you are really going to enjoy getting better. So, think about it some, take your time, heal that body of yours, and come back to us when you’re ready, and we’ll be waiting, with a cold one and some Bruce to ease you back in this world of ours.
As always, Bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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himills
Social climber
Filthydelphia, PA
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Hi Everyone,
I don't know if anyone else has done this, but a couple of nights ago, I meditated on Bobby and his recovery, and I found it really empowering. With each inhale, I visualized that I was sucking away any negative thoughts, feelings, and energy around and in Bobby, and then with each exhale, I visualized that I was breathing nutritious and invigorating energy into him and Faith. It felt so effortless in doing this, and I recommend that others do it too.
If only our church congregations did this during the prayers for the people. - Mills
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bunnypoo
climber
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Hello All,
I think it's time to collectively send out another high vibe group prayer for our dear friend Bobby. His enormous strength is an inspiration to us in our daily lives and to further support his healing let's gather our focus and love at 8 pm mountain standard time on Friday the 10th.
Please continue to send all prayers and thoughts via your definition of the great mystery to Bobby and his wonderful family as they continue this healing journey together. Our network surrounding Bobby is the greatest gift we have to give, so hold up your highest vision of his full recovery and know that he receives each gift with absolute gratitude.
Love to all of you,
Molly Morehouse
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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LET'S NOMINATE BOBBY FOR THE 2007 ROWELL AWARD -- will give him all the more reason to wake up!
The 2007 Rowell Award nomination period is open from July 16, 2007 to November 15, 2007. The Rowell Award recipient will be notified by January 15, 2008 and the Award will be presented at the annual Rowell Lecture Series in San Francisco in Spring 2008.
If you know an individual that would make a great Rowell Award candidate, please review the nomination form at this link: http://rowellaward.com/nominate.htm
The Rowell Award for the Art of Adventure honors that adventurer whose artistic passion illuminates the wild places of the world, and whose accomplishments significantly benefit both the environment and the peoples who inhabit these lands and regions.
This $15,000 annual cash award was established by The Rowell Legacy Committee composed of friends, business associates and admirers of the late Barbara and Galen Rowell. The award will be presented to an individual selected by a panel of active and influential members of the outdoor adventure world.
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Patrick Sawyer
climber
Originally California now Ireland
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Keep it up Bobby.
Gradyphoto, excellent suggestion. I'll check out the award's website.
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Ivana
climber
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Dear Bobby,
We wish you a speedy recovery. Our thougts are with you. Best wishes from Paklenica, specially from campsite Marko.
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Bobby: Alot of your freinds where at Erin Freemans wedding (A Scottish Affair) Saturday the third.The name Bobby Mobel and Klan ,was a very popular topic of conversation.I did my best to stop any miss information an give everyone an accurate idea of your current condition.We all send our best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery very soon!!!! So buddy LETS Roll!!! LOVE JOE
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Short update a propos of nothing: your photo of wall climbing in Cody is now in the window of the Patagucci store in Georgetown. It totally made my day to see it, Bud, as I know people will be touched by it (no way they can miss it now ...) even if most don't know what you're going through. You know what it is? it's you, from your bed in your little room overlooking Central Park, yelling out at everyone: "I'm here, don't forget about me!!!" And it's working, Bud, because even the ones who don't know you just stop, check out the pic, and think of you. Just like that. I just think it rocks all around.
Will be sending some special thoughts your way on Friday - I just love it that Molly has organized this new edition of "let's give Bob-Meister a thought-a-thon."I will email Jules and Eduardo so that our Kenyan friends get in on the action, even if they need to wake up in the middle of the night to be with us.
OK, that's it for now, Bud, I can never tell you too much how much I'm thinking of you, pulling for you and sending you lots of love, hope and faith.
And, as always,Bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Hi Bobby,
Well, it has been quite a while since I have checked in here to see what is happening with you. I saw your mom today. I also saw Laura Bell. Of course, we talked of you a little bit. Your mom looks great! She is in good spirits and is very excited of the progress that you have shown lately. She loves that you are tracking with your eyes. You just keep giving her those little bits of inspiration and I am sure she is going to pop through the doors one of these days and tell me that you are fully awake and ready for the next step to coming back here and being the you that we all know so well.
I also talked to Jim today. He said that your mom is on her way back to be by your side again. You are truly blessed to have such a wonderful, loving family. I can't wait for the opportunity to meet Faith. It seems she is a well kept secret that you have kept to yourself. I don't know if she has left your side at all during all of this. How fortunate are you?
I don't think I have hugged anybody as hard as I hugged your mom today. I hugged her extra because I knew that she was going back today and I know that she will share that hug with you. I also would like her to share that hug with Faith. I have never met Faith, but I know that I would instinctively hug her if I ever get a chance.
I am so glad to hear the good news of your surgery. We all know how tough you are and you're not about to stop now. You just keep being strong and recover so that we can all talk to you in person again.
This forum has been wonderful! It is nice to be able to talk to you even though we aren't close, geographically speaking. It has to be cool to hear all of these stories from friends far and wide, some I am sure you haven't heard from in a while. I guess this is one way to get your friends together, but I am sure they would have accomodated you if you just would have asked.
The landscaping is almost done in the old Cody Feed lot. It looks so nice. Barron was showing your mom and Laura what the front of the building will look like once the renovation is done. We are all so excited. New office space and a face lift to the building will sure put a new spin on the block. It is very cool. Barron is so generous and I never take that for granted. I am very thankful for the job I have and the family that I work for. They are wonderful people.
Mr. and Mrs. Read have arrived back in Wyoming. They are in good spirits and glad to be back. There is just something about this wild country that we call home.
Well, I think that this is all I have for now. Just because I haven't written doesn't mean that I haven't been thinking about you. I think of you at least once every day. Seeing your mom just makes my heart full. Stay strong and keep fighting. I want to see that great smile that only you have. I pray for you each and every day.
Sincerely,
Janet
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skm
Sport climber
Cody, WY
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Hi Bobby,
I wanted you to know that we have Dan's poster of YOU hanging on the wall in our dining room. Little Curtis's high chair sits right in front of it. Every day when I take him out of his chair after he eats he points at all the pictures of you and I remind him, "that's Uncle Bobby, remember how funny he is. He's working hard right now to get well so we need to send good thoughts his way." And then Curtis looks at me as if to say, "ok." Today when he finished breakfast he looked at you and, without a prompt from me, he said, "Baba." So now you've made it into the big three, Mama, Dada, and Baba!! He's a lucky boy to have his Baba.
We're lucky to have you in our lives too. I'm so glad to have had the chance to see you last week in New York and I can't wait for you to be back in Cody. In the mean time Jeanette and I will hold down the office and when Chives gets back he'll put the finishing touches on your building, which by the way looks amazing. In other words, all is well here and everything is ready for you!
love
Sharon, (Dan and little Curtis)
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Hi Bobby,
I thought it to be coincidental that here I am in San Francisco and the new mojo is to nominate you for the Rowell Award to be presented here in 08. You deserve sooooo much. I still think about you all the time. I am hoping that when your devoted Sister Faith reads our notes that you remember all the previous great times. I want to literally say hang in there Bobby, because that is one of my most vivid memories of you. Hanging from my front porch awning on 1210 Grand in Laramie, Hanging from the Norwegain Olympics rope in the Snowy Range, and Hanging from various amazing places that we all only see in pictures from NG.
Love ya, Heather
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Mees
climber
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Got this from Faith today
Dear All,
I am soo happy to report that last night Bobby moved from the Neuro ICU to a private room in a ward!! It all came about rather quickly, but the process was smooth and the room is the Ritz: overlooks lush Central Park, Feng Shui'd (sp?), private bathroom and most importantly, it's peaceful and quiet. We were all beginning to show signs of "ICU psychosis" from all the
incredible bustle, activity, beeps, alarms, voices, etc. that were unrelenting. Bobby's doctors felt he was definitely ready and we're all much happier in this new very open space with much natural light and good energy.
I'll send a more detailed update within the next day, but just wanted to make sure that you all knew this exciting news and that your powerful thoughts, vibes, prayers and all the other good stuff make a difference and ease our days! That's the truth.
With love and thanks always from all of us here (and we have a great crew),
Faith
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Faith and Bobby-
Great news!! I'm a big believer in good surroundings equals feeling better. Still sending a thousand good thoughts your way every single day. I'm always thinking about you and love you both very much.
Big hugs to the rest of the family and crew at MT.S.
Talia(Chambers)Kenney
Chris, Aubrey, Tanner, & Tyler
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brooks emeny
Social climber
bozeman, mt
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Bobby,
Still thinking of you every day. I am glad to hear the positive news. Keep up the hard work. I can't wait to hear that you are back in Cody and when I do I'll definately be there to welcome you back to the mountains of Wyoming!!!!!
"ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING"
Love, Brooks, Kenzie, and Lexi
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L
climber
A seagull-poo covered cliff in Big Sur
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Aug 10, 2007 - 02:14pm PT
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What a fantastic idea, Gradyphoto! I reviewed the nomination form, and from what I've read on this thread, Bobby is exactly the type of person this award was made for. He certainly reminds me of a younger version of Galen.
LET'S NOMINATE BOBBY FOR THE 2007 ROWELL AWARD -- will give him all the more reason to wake up!
The 2007 Rowell Award nomination period is open from July 16, 2007 to November 15, 2007. The Rowell Award recipient will be notified by January 15, 2008 and the Award will be presented at the annual Rowell Lecture Series in San Francisco in Spring 2008.
If you know an individual that would make a great Rowell Award candidate, please review the nomination form at this link: http://rowellaward.com/nominate.htm
The Rowell Award for the Art of Adventure honors that adventurer whose artistic passion illuminates the wild places of the world, and whose accomplishments significantly benefit both the environment and the peoples who inhabit these lands and regions.
This $15,000 annual cash award was established by The Rowell Legacy Committee composed of friends, business associates and admirers of the late Barbara and Galen Rowell. The award will be presented to an individual selected by a panel of active and influential members of the outdoor adventure world.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Aug 11, 2007 - 01:36am PT
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hey there faith... thanks for sharing this news with all us strangers, and of course, bobby's dear friends... hoping it is time for new seeds to grow, in this much better "green house" light, etc.... prayers as we all say, are still coming....
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Aug 11, 2007 - 09:43am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Man, is the news about you good or what... It's just awesome to know that you are putting up such a fight and doing so well. We never expected any less from you, but it's just nice to be finally getting some good news.
Following Mollie's suggestion, I put everything on hold last night so that I could give you my full attention at the same time as a whole lot of other people. This time I wanted to do something special, so I took a night run through the streets of DC, leading me to the Khalil Gibran memorial on Massachusetts Avenue. Now, this memorial is one of the coolest places in DC, and a spot that Jessica had visited and really liked. It's basically a fountain with a few sculptures and quotes by the great poet. It's surrounded by trees and thus quite shady, though that was completely irrelevant last night at 10.00pm ... What I found particularly relevant, however, was one of his quotes, which is also one of my favorites: "We live only to discover beauty, all else is a form of waiting." Now, I don't know about you, Bud, but who, better than you, lives to discover beauty? And you know that we are now all pros at waiting, waiting for you to be well again, to come back to us, waiting to hear your voice, and, most of all, waiting to hear that wicked laugh of yours ... I'd taken my iPod along and played a few good tunes in your honour, including some really cool U2, and, of course, the song about holding you close in the back of my mind. Overall, it was one of the best night runs I ever had, and it made me feel really close to you, so I hope you felt it.
All right, Bud, that's it for now, just keep up the good work and we'll keep waiting for the awesome updates from your little sister, and we'll keep pulling for you, sending lots of thoughts, strength and hope your way.
As always, Bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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Mees
climber
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Aug 11, 2007 - 03:18pm PT
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another update from Faith sent out yesterday Aug 11
Dear All,
I'm writing as the bearer of good news! For the past day and a half Bobby has begun to show some real signs of alertness: tracking voices with his eyes, flexing and moving his right arm and fingers and at times following simple commands. The various doctors and specialists who saw Bobby yesterday were all very encouraged. I think the move to the private room with a view
makes a significant difference in Bobby's ability to heal--even if it's just in terms of getting more peace and some space. At any rate, we are all in really high spirits and am so happy to pass this wonderful news on to you all--the most extraordinary support network imaginable.
I will keep you posted as things progress. I believe tonight's 8pm Mountain Time prayer is timed perfectly. Bobby's gonna feel and heal with the vibes
:-)
With love and thanks always and to everyone,
Faith
This really sounds like one of the best updates yet! Great things are happening in NYC, pretty soon someone is going to have to answer that question---- "where the hell am I" but maybe first it will be "where's my camera" haha
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Anastasia
Trad climber
California
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Aug 11, 2007 - 04:26pm PT
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Wonderful! It is nice to hear that he is doing better. Please note that I had a friend take three years to heal from a head injury. (Motorcycle accident.) Yet... He did "fully recover" and his recovery started with very similar small steps.
Sending prayers,
Anastasia Frangos
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Aug 11, 2007 - 09:57pm PT
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Great news! An answer to so many prayers-
Love to all of you.
Kenney's
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Tanya
Trad climber
Johannesburg
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Aug 12, 2007 - 05:01am PT
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Hi Faith and Family
I have been following Bobby's recovery and so so glad to hear of the improvements. Sending strength and love from South Africa. I have vivid memories of Mt Kenya - topping out on Nelion at sunset and looking across to Bation and seeing Bobby and his team celebrating on that summit! It took them another few hours of climbing in the dark to make it across to the little hut on Nelion and of course there was no space, so they opted to bivi outside. We all sat the next morning wrapped up in our sleeping bags, drinking tea, watching the sun rise over Kilimanjaro. Magical! Ciao Tanya
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rstoney
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Aug 12, 2007 - 10:41pm PT
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Hey Bobby and crew,
Good news - so glad to hear it. The way I see it, it's kinda' like a long ski race... some tough combinations, variable conditions, and you never know about the weather. But stay strong, amigo, and before you know it, you're across that finish line and livin' large!!! Hang in there!!!
Rick / Jill Stonehouse and family
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nita
climber
chico ca
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Aug 13, 2007 - 02:00am PT
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=o298SRDF2Mo
Some Music for- Bobby and Faith.
Day once dawned, and it was beautiful
A day once dawned from the ground
Then the night she fell
the air was beautiful
The night she fell all around
So look see the days
the endless coloured ways
And go play the game that you learned
from the morning
And now we rise
And we are everywhere
And now we rise from the ground
And see she flies
She is everywhere
See she flies all around
So look see the sights
The endless summer nights
And go play a game that you learned
from the morning.
It's so great to hear good news!
Bobby and Faith, you are in my thoughts and prayers. sweet dreams.
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Katrina
climber
Roseburg, OR & Cody, WY
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Aug 14, 2007 - 04:16pm PT
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Someone mentioned this article in the Cody Enterprise, so I thought I'd post it for those of you who might be interested in reading it:
Model family grateful for community support, kindness
By Richard Reeder
Living in a small town is different.
Neighbors know each other and everyone has a grasp on what's happening to anyone else.
Some people bristle at this.
But Bob Model loves it - especially after the troubles his son Bobby, a noted photographer for National Geographic, is going through.
“Cody is a wonderful place,” Bob said. “Everyone is supportive of the children who grow up here.
“Bobby has received so much support from the people he grew up with,” he added. “The community has been so supportive and loving.”
Bobby, 34, was injured eight weeks ago when a cinder block was thrown through the windshield of the car in which he was riding in Johannesburg, South Africa.
He has been in a coma since then and is currently at Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City.
Bobby underwent surgery last week to relieve swelling of his brain and make him more comfortable.
“It was a complicated and difficult surgery,” Bob said. “He had an infection in the brain and it cleaned up some things.
“He had some air leaking in behind his right eye that was causing discomfort,” he added. “It was painful, but he's more comfortable now.”
While Bobby hasn't regained consciousness, he is doing better.
“His sister Faith said he's resting comfortably,” Bob said. “They aren't sure when he might wake up.
“There's no way to predict that,” he added. “But we are encouraged and hopeful.”
The ordeal has been tough for Faith, Bob and Bobby's mother Anne Young.
“I went right to Africa after it happened,” Bob said. “It takes two days to get there. Anne was there already.
Bobby was in the hospital there for about three weeks as doctors battled an infection.
“We had a window where the infection was under control,” Bob said. “The surgeons urged us that this was the time to make the move (back to the U.S.).
“So we moved on it quickly,” he added. “It was a real stretch to move him to New York - he couldn't have gone any further.”
The move was made as quickly as possible.
“We had med jet insurance,” Bob said. “Once we made the decision, we had a plane within 72 hours.
“He arrived in New York on the Fourth of July,” he added.
Once in New York, the family and doctors faced new challenges.
“He was having discomfort and was acting differently,” Bob said. “The doctors were right on it.
“As the swelling was going down, it was making other issues worse,” he added. “The doctors were working on the decision for the risky surgery.”
Bobby faces some serious physical injuries.
“His brain stem is intact,” Bob said. “And the blood is circulating through the brain, so that's good.
“His right lobe is damaged, but the left is intact,” he added. “But we don't know the extent of anything else until he wakes up.”
Bob and his wife Mona are returning to New York on Aug. 5.
“We'll be going back and checking on him and Faith,” Bob said. “We are just thankful for everything the community has done for us.”
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Aug 14, 2007 - 05:11pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, the time has finally come and I am about to take off for my little island in the middle of the Caribbean - affectionately dubbed "the Rock" for those of us crazy enough to call it home - and I have to tell you, Bud, I just can't wait to be there! The Rock is where I initially met your little sister and Jessica, so you know it has a very special place in my heart. Hey, if it weren't for the Rock, I probably would not have met you: what a loss!!! (for you, of course, and, OK, for me too ...).
This summer has been a little tough on all of us and it will be nice to catch a break, though I'm also worried that this will put me out of touch with you and Team Bobby for a while. So here's the deal, Bud, I need you to just carry on and get better while I'm away, and then I promise, I will post even wilder messages on this forum when I get back at the end of the month. Deal? For my part, I will try to be gentle to the lobsters I catch (until I eat them of course ...), to wear lots of sunblock while I sit for hours on end on a beach, to observe safety stops when I come back from a dive, and to go (somewhat) easy on the cold ones when I hit the bar (hey, it IS a holiday after all ...). But throughout all this hardship, you need to know, Bud, that I will be thinking of you constantly, wishing you were there, and prepping for the day when you too can come over and do some time on The Rock. My thoughts and support will be sun-drenched and salty but I know you won't mind, and surely they will help you overcome whatever obstacles are in your path.
All for now and for a while, but as always, Bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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bunnypoo
climber
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Aug 14, 2007 - 07:42pm PT
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August 14 -- update from Faith:
Dear All,
Bobby had a CAT scan and lumbar puncture today and it turns out he
needs another surgery tonight to clear out a pocket of infection on his right
frontal lobe. This surgery is more straightforward and not as extensive, but
please send the strongest waves of healing vibes and prayers toward
Bobby this evening as I know this will help maintain his already
extraordinary strength. It's not clear when the surgery will be, but probably
sometime in the next few hours. Ultimately, this is moving Bobby towards being
infection-free, where there is more space for the rehab phase to really
take-off.
Thank you for your endless support, love, humor and prayers. This is
just a small little ebb within the larger flow of healing.
Sending love and gratitude always,
Faith and Team Bobby
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Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich
Social climber
Des Moines
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Aug 14, 2007 - 10:00pm PT
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I am tickled to hear that you are able to communicate with us a little more! Many of the children we serve aren't able to speak, but their smiles are absolutely priceless! I also let them know that I appreciate it when they whine or make any noise to let the nurses know they need something. It is funny how sometimes the littlest forms of communication can be so important. We have a sixth month old infant who has had a trach tube since right after birth. We just put a valve on the end of the tube so that he can actually "speak". I started crying because it was so sweet to hear him babbling away!
My 8 year old son, Jack, wants to know if you have ever made it to the top of a ledge only to place your hand in a pile of prickley pear! That happened to him recently and he was most upset. In between the stomping around and yelling I tried to across to him that it could be worse- a man recently got hit by a rattlesnake!
Ours thoughts and prayers are with you daily. Praying especially now as you endure yet another surgery! Don't give up on the hope that you will be able to tell us everything that is on your mind soon!
Cheryl (and Jack)
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bunnypoo
climber
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Aug 15, 2007 - 09:05am PT
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August 15 - update from Faith
Hi All,
The surgery went well, it didn't take long at all and Bobby recovering!
More soon, but just wanted to let everyone know.
All the very best,
Faith
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David & All of Us in Greenwich
climber
Greenwich, CT
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Aug 16, 2007 - 03:32pm PT
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Dear Everyone,
Once again all the prayers are working, not to mention all the wonderful support Bobby is receiving from Faith and everyone surrounding him - you all are the best people ever to be on the team of such a wonderful person. We send our prayers for the continued return to health and wellness and think of you often.
Love,
David, Anne, Charlotte, Wells and Field
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Mr. Southfork
Ice climber
Cody, WY
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Aug 16, 2007 - 04:09pm PT
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Hey Bobby, Sorry I haven't posted for a while... I'm still thinking of you many times a day and I know that you will come out of this with flying colors, as usual. I really need some advise on what I should do with an incredible reflection photo that I took in the Beartooth's. I know you could give me all kinds of ideas on how to frame, mat, market, etc... I also need you to go to the "Dirty Sox Club" blow-out party in Bozeman next month. This should be a most excellent event.
We all miss your ass and are wishing you the very best! ~ Todd
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two ravens
Boulder climber
jackson & pinedale, wy
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Aug 16, 2007 - 09:56pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
You don't know me, but we shared a bonfire at Todd's memorial and of course I've heard your name through the years as I followed his adventures. I've been checking in here and sending good thoughts your way. I have no doubt you'll pull through this - it's kind of a long old slog, but just settle in and keep working on healing, and we'll keep the good healing energy current going your way.
BTW - i'm a BIG fan of peanut butter pasta, i've loved it for years. Maybe it's an anomaly some of us are subject to from growing up on the "wrong" side of the Winds?!? Ha!
OK, here's Happy Healing Thoughts To You!
Kelly
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Egie
climber
Long Lake, Mn.
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Aug 19, 2007 - 12:35pm PT
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Hi Bobby, Faith and Anne! I am praying that the recent operation went well, and know that you are in the beginning of an upswing. We send many positive vibes from Minnesota! With love, Ellie
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Bobby's Mom
Social climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Aug 19, 2007 - 05:04pm PT
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Once again this website has cheered my day and provided needed mental vitamins! A note from an old friend not seen for ages (Hi Ellie), Charlotte's wisdom, etc. Again, many thanks to you all.......and thoughts to Molly Absolom in Lander. What devasatating news about Peter.
Love and warm wishes from, Anne Young, aka Bobby's Mom
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Aug 19, 2007 - 11:19pm PT
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Good day Bobby,
I'm still praying in Idaho for your recovery. Hang in there. Life is full of challenges. A wise man said to me once.
We are the sum of our life experiences.
Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered with loss, then to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much for they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory or defeat.
Your sum is greater than everyone I know!And there is no doubt you have dared the mightiest of things. This is just a bump in the road. It makes me think too about the fires that are charring my mountains right now. The fire will pass ,the snow will come and by spring the mountain flowers will begin to resurface. One of the beauties of life is that not even your troubles last forever.
Love Heather
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Aug 19, 2007 - 11:25pm PT
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hey there to bobby's mom---say, that was very very kind of you, at this hard time, to say thanks to all of us, strangers like me, and of course, his dear friends... thank you for stopping by for your "vitamins" and saying hi, in the process... god bless... as you can see... we are all praying, setting out the fishing-lines for good fortune to be hooked...
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Yancy Bonner
climber
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Aug 20, 2007 - 12:17pm PT
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Hi to Bobby, Faith, Anne, etc:
I just want you to know that our family is keeping you in our thoughts and prayers daily. What others have expressed so eloquently is true--we know that Bobby will prevail. Just keep up the good fight and continue to draw from the amazing strength that comes from the love of family and friends.
Yancy Dearinger Bonner
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MichaelUtt
Mountain climber
Minneapolis
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Aug 20, 2007 - 06:23pm PT
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Bobby, My family and I would like to send you our well wishes and positive energy from Minnesota in hopes that you will awaken soon. Now is the time to use that strong work ethic that we all so admired you for at the University of Wyoming and put that towards healing yourself. Besides you need to wake up so you can enjoy some Lutefisk, potatoes, and peas that we talked about the last time I saw you on the 4th of July in Cody a few years back. Hang in there Bobby our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Michael Utt and family
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Mees
climber
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Aug 21, 2007 - 12:11am PT
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Hey BoMo, it's all out here waiting for you,
when you're good and ready...
Amazed by your progress!
Prayers of healing from all around
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kelly bustos
climber
cody,wyoming
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Aug 21, 2007 - 11:07pm PT
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To Bobby and family
Bobby, Tania and I hiked to the top of Timber Creek this weekend and we were looking over on the North Fork, Buffalo Bill, and the South Fork, it was breathtaking to say the least. We sent all of our energy and good vibes your way. You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday, get well soon.
God Bless you and your family
Kelly and Tania Bustos
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a foley
climber
cody
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Aug 22, 2007 - 09:07pm PT
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Just wanted to send prayers of support to Bobby and his family. I went to school with Bobby and hung out with him after moving back to Cody a few years ago. I have to say that the power of prayer is amazing! My daughter was born 4 years ago, and my husband and I have been told many times that she would not make it (she received a liver transplant at 7 months of age).....but she's living proof that prayer works. She's a survivor and a miracle. Hold on tight to hope....it can get us through many many tough times. You are such a strong fighter Bobby! My prayers are with all of you.
God Bless!
Angie Forbes Foley
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inhisfootsteps
Sport climber
the heart of WY.
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Aug 22, 2007 - 11:56pm PT
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Still in our prayers.
♥
Becca
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Jello
Social climber
No Ut
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Aug 23, 2007 - 12:36am PT
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Never met you, Bobby, but of course I know of you through mutual friends who only speak of you with great love and respect. Get well soon.
-Jeff Lowe
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Shaya
climber
Flagstaff, AZ
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Aug 24, 2007 - 02:18pm PT
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Hi Bobby & Faith,
You may not remember me but I met you both through the Rohrbach family in Cody.
Bobby-- I met you years ago (10?) when I was in Wyoming for my cousin Sara Rohrbach's wedding. I remember well because we went climbing just outside of Cody (I can't remember the name of the spot but it was just before you go through the tunnel at the reservoir dam). That was my first-ever experience climbing, and even still I think of that day when you introduced me to climbing.
Faith--the last time I saw you was a few years ago at Nick & Morgan's wedding in WA, although I do hear updates from the Rohrbachs every once in a while.
I was in Cody earlier this summer and heard about the accident and have kept your family in my thoughts and prayers since. I frequently check this blog for updates and am happy for the good news of progress!
I just wanted to say hello and let you know I'm thinking of you with well wishes for a speedy recovery.
Cheers,
Shaya
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Aug 26, 2007 - 02:05pm PT
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Hey guys I just wanted to touch base and tell you that all of you are in my thoughts daily. I loved the Slide show from Matt, Thanks for sharing. I am a massage therapist now and ever since I heard about the injury I close my eyes when I'm working on a client and pretend that I am giving Bobby a massage. I hope you are feeling my loving touch. I have photos of Bobby all over my office and I get a lot of questions about him. I love telling peole about how wonderful you are and they walk out telling me that they are going to add you to their prayers. My kids on the other hand are getting jealous because I have more photos of Bobby than them!! Ha Actually, They can't wait to meet you Bobby. I talk about you and the rest of the Model crew a ton.
Stay safe and I hope all is well, Brenda
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Mallamo
climber
NC
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Aug 27, 2007 - 07:01am PT
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Hi Everyone,
Since Bobby’s accident most of the messages I have posted on this forum have been for him. This one is for all of you. I just returned from visiting our man up in NY, with brothers Steve and Jeff Bechtel, and have to say our visit really re-freshened my outlook. Like the rest of you I have been anxiously reading Faith’s dispatches and totally relying on those to form an image in my mind how Bobby is doing. Trying all the while to keep up the positive vibes. But, at the same time, as each day passed the impatient part of me that wants to hear progressively better news and more of it was slowly starting to win the game of tug of war being played out in my mind and heart. As that game was being fought I was starting, on a very small scale, to lose a little bit of hope. For that I am sorry.
Now, having seen for myself, I tell you all that our friend is very much here with us. When we arrived Friday he was still pretty sedated but the staff was slowly weaning him off those particular meds. Still though there were moments that his left eye was wide open (his right eyelid was closed due to the injury but his eye underneath moves and his right lid blinks in unison with the left which is a good thing) and there was no doubt in my mind that he was aware and looking right at us, from one of us to the other. When Jeff walked in the room there was even a little smile on Bobby's face. It felt so good to see that recognition. Yesterday was the same way, with moments like the day before that convinced me even more that Bobby was slowly coming around.
This morning I stopped by the hospital on my way to the airport for one more visit before I left. It was early, before 7 am, and Mariella had told me that early morning was his best time. For the first half hour he was asleep, but as I spoke to him and rubbed his arm all of the sudden he opened his eye. And maybe it was because I was the only one there, but I had Bobby’s undivided attention and he was totally aware that I was present and talking to him. I would walk from one side of the bed to the other and his eye would follow me. When I had to leave I told Bobby I wasn’t saying goodbye but that I would see him soon and that I loved him and I squeezed his hand. He squeezed back and he held on. I know in my heart it was him squeezing and not just a reaction because as I let go to leave, after a few seconds, he let go as well.
I also want to assure you all that Bobby is in the best hands that he could possibly be in, and I am not just talking of the hospital staff. He has these two beautiful guardian angels looking over him constantly. Faith and Marialla are always talking to him, massaging him, assuring him and are there with him. They monitor his stats and know more about all the machines he's hooked up to than some of the staff! Seeing those two care for him the way they do was a warm and amazing thing and I cannot thank them enough for all that they are doing. It is truly inspirational and their strength is simply awe-inspiring.
Keep up the positive energy, the prayers and mainly the hope. I think I can speak for everyone who has seen Bobby when I say it is undoubtedly working. And if you are able to, go visit him. I highly recommend it. It will do wonders for Bobby and probably for you as well.
All the best,
Peter
BoMo, Steve and myself below Haystack in the Wind Rivers
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Aug 27, 2007 - 07:30am PT
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Thank you for sharing your story Mr. Mallamo. Very touching.
As always, to Bobby and the rest- We send all our love, hope and prayers your way every day.
The Kenney's
Chris Talia Aubrey Tanner & Tyler
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Aug 27, 2007 - 10:49am PT
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Peter,
Wow. Thank you so much for your honest and moving account about visiting Bobby. When I heard you guys were there last week, I was telling a friend, I felt this rush of calm all of a sudden. That day I sent out an email to all the NG photographers, with a picture of Bobby attached, to remind them that he is still fighting with such inspiration. Photographers who don't even know him were writing back in support. And those who do were grateful to be reminded of him.
And you are right about the way Faith and Mariella care for him. They do it with strength and grace and it is amazing to watch.
Having visited Bobby in July I can say I felt that same awareness coming from him. I wasn't lucky enough to get a hand-squeeze but it didn't matter. :) What matters is that Bobby is gonna come back to us all, I can really feel that now. Like you I have to admit there have been days I've not been as hopeful as I should but your email reminded me we all need to keep that hope going because Bobby is in there and he wants to survive--and he will!
thanks again--Liz
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Aug 28, 2007 - 08:29am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
OK, here's the deal, I'm basically in paradise right now, on a small island in the Caribbean. The ocean is so blue you can hardly believe it, the people are friendly, the sun is hot and the (frozen) drinks are cold. In other words, it's all good. Best of all, I found a wifi connection so I am able to check on you. And now, I just got Peter's latest (thanks Peter, you the man!)... Goodness Bud, you DO make my day, you know!!! Only you could make a perfect setting even better. I was SO chuffed to hear how well you are doing and I am taking Peter's word for it, I too KNOW that you are coming closer to us. I just love it that you are being looked after by everyone, that Faith is still there with you day in, day out, and that, as a result you are getting better. So, I'm hereby sending you a bit of sun, lots of fresh, salty air and all my renewed hope and energy, as well as a good dose of Caribbean lovin'.
I know you already know this, but remember, we are all here for you, pulling for you and ever waiting for news of your progress.
And, as always, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
PS: I'm playing what I now consider "your" song as I write this - can you hear it, Bud?
And I'll hold you close in the back of my mind
It feels so good, but damn it makes me hurt
And I'm scared to know how I feel anymore
La Cienega just smiles and says I'll see you around
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Aug 28, 2007 - 10:29am PT
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It is so hard to stand next to Bobby and watch him struggle to heal. We all want so desperately to help him, but it is his own long road. All weekend, we were privileged to sit with Bobby Model and told stories, asked questions, and let him know how important he is to us. I was exhausted at the end of three days. I can’t fathom how Faith, Mariella, and Bobby’s family have had the strength to do this for almost three months straight.
I was wracked with the thoughts of how fortunate I am for the wonderful times I have had with Bobby and how badly I want more of them. It was also totally apparent that one is either on board with Bobby, or not. It is so easy to look at him lying in bed for the eleventh or twelfth week and think that the task of healing is too great. The size of this effort is overwhelming.
It would be an easy road to take to be the naysayer, to declare that all is hopeless and that we should all just move on. To invest oneself in being part of Bobby’s team, signing up to stand by him and believe in him is not the easy road. It is not the road for the weak or the impatient or the selfish. We have got to understand that this is something one does not “snap out” of, that this is a years-long process and that now is the time to start really being friend to Bobby Model.
To hear that he’s responding to voices and tracking with his eyes seems like such a small step. On Sunday morning, Bobby was able to hold up two fingers, three separate times when asked to do so. This is another small step toward a faraway summit. To look always toward that summit is wrong; instead we must look toward the next step. The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a man’s determination. I believe that my friend Bobby has that kind of determination.
Get on board with the team. Do what you can. Write a letter to be read to Bobby. Post pictures here or send them through the mail to him. Send music. Think about him. Remember that every day, as we make our way through our easy lives, he is facing the longest of odds. Next time you are exhausted and can’t imagine doing anything but sitting on the couch, get up and do something to help him, or at least go do something with Bobby in mind.
If we do nothing else, we should learn from this man. Instead of pursuing easier lives, perhaps we should instead try to be stronger people.
Steve Bechtel
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Largo
Sport climber
Venice, Ca
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Aug 28, 2007 - 10:38am PT
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I hope those litle incrimental changes eventually add up to a solid recovery. Should I have so many friends as Bobby. The man is blessed, though his situation is untoward - but maybe, God willing, for just a while longer.
Kind and healing thought to you, Bobby.
JL
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Mees
climber
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Aug 28, 2007 - 11:03am PT
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Glad you guys got out there to visit BoMo I'm sure it helped all of you. When I sit back and consider such a traumatic injury I start realizing how Bobby is taking all the small necessary steps towards recovery, this is a full blown expedition style injury and these things take lots of time 1 small step at a time.
It's difficult to be patient and steadfast in our vigil, patient for Bobby and patient with ourselves, we live in such a face paced world these days. It's an opportunity to slow down a bit every day and offer what you can.
For a perspective think back a few months when it seemed like Bobby was holding onto just a sliver of hope, now he holds onto his friends hands and there are buckets of hope to embrace.
It will not snow until it's ready, the elk won't drop it's horns until the perfect moment, the drunken naked skier won't wipe out until he reaches top speed :P
Keep up the good fight man!
Pat
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The LG
Sport climber
Lander, WY
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Aug 28, 2007 - 02:10pm PT
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Dark Bo,
Sounds like you had a good time with Bechtel. Kenny's coming to see you in a week or so, he's super excited to climb in the Gunks and eat lobster. Lindsay and I are still coming out east, our trip is just delayed a bit. I'm excited to see the New River Gorge and climb in the steep south. I remember the time long ago when we were woodying at your moms place with Nathan and you told me that steep climbing was where it was at. I scoffed at you and swore up and down I'd NEVER climb anything past vertical and harder than 5.11. Guess I was wrong that time too. I found some music you might like, I'll try and send some back with Dad, there's a band called Hird you'd dig I think. I'll throw some Deadbolt in there too, I've been listening to Tiki Man a lot lately trying to get psyched up for the journey. Heal up my friend, remember that e-mail I sent you after Todd died, stay strong and keep moving forward, I believe in you! We'll talk again soon. Adios Amigo!
Leif
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bunnypoo
climber
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Aug 28, 2007 - 02:17pm PT
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AUGUST 28 UPDATE FROM FAITH!
Dear All,
I hope this email finds all of you enjoying the last few days of August with many occasions for joy. I'm happy to report that Bobby really seems to be finding his place in the drivers seat of his recovery and has been making encouraging strides this past week. Not only has he been essentially infection free since his last surgery, but he is showing increasing signs of
alertness--showing two fingers on command several times in a row and on different occasions--that have brought all of us (including docs and nurses)to rowdy cheers of support. Although he is resting a great deal--which is so important--he is also in the best shape he's been in since the accident and
I believe he is on the high road to recovery.
I really apologize for not being more consistent with these updates! But as ever, we are soo incredibly grateful for your enormous support and faith throughout these past few months. I don't know what we would have done without all of you...
With thanks and love always,
Faith
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Matt
Trad climber
always on the lookout for ed's 5.10 OW van
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Aug 28, 2007 - 02:54pm PT
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showing two fingers on command several times in a row and on different occasions
wow- that must be incredible to witness after all that your family has been through. i don't know bobby and i don't even think i know anyone that knows bobby, but i regularly get clammed up reading this thread about his progress and his condition.
sounds like bobby is on the way back to being bobby!
here's to continued healing and eventually, hopefully, a full recovery.
all of us randoms who had never even heard of you are pulling hard for you all (btw- 2 fingers and a thumb and you'll be able to hold a cold beer...)
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Jakeb
climber
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Aug 28, 2007 - 03:41pm PT
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That update raised the hair on my arm and brought a tear to my eye!! Keep it up, dude! You can do this!
Jake Beaudrie
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Aug 28, 2007 - 04:13pm PT
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hi Bobby,
We are all so proud of you and we know you are in there and on the road to recovery. It was so encouraging to hear from your great buddies, and then from Faith today.
Thought I would post one of my favorite quotes which I believe Faith still has posted in your room. It is by Lewis Carroll : "There is no use trying," said Alice; "one can't believe impossible things." I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast."
I dare say Alice has never met you, either :)
Keep up the good work, you're doing a fantastic job, Bobby.
xo
Liz
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Lambone
Ice climber
Ashland, Or
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Aug 28, 2007 - 04:35pm PT
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yay! I have been waiting and praying for this update. come on Bobby!
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Aug 28, 2007 - 06:02pm PT
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If anyone can climb out of hole this deep, dark & nasty it's Bobby Model. They say that everything happens for a reason, it makes me wonder what Bobby's purpose from now on is. It's something greater than being a photo journalist, that I know. He's really gifted in areas not many people in the whole world are. I have never seen such drive and tenacity in anyone. Bobby has this powerful low-key energy about him, just below the surface, you might not notice it when you first meet him, but get in a touchy situation and it comes right out. He's on my short list of people I would want with me in times of trouble. I've seen this in him since he was just little, always giving more than his best, almost to the point of being obsessed. Remember his deal with chainsaws & tools? When he was scouting cliffs up North Fork to jump off on his skiis? He is that way in everything, skiing, climbing, photography you name it. He has always put in the time and effort in when he wanted to be the best and it's sure got some results. I would like him and you (Faith) to know that this whole situation has really changed my views on a few things. One of them is that Never Ever Give Up, never lose hope, not on your friends, yourself or a situation. If you keep going at it only good things will result. If you give up, that's where you are. It's unacceptable. Bobby has been gifted, that's for sure, but his greatest gift I think is yet to be realized. There is something else going to come from this guy, something truly meaningful. I feel it in my bones! He's setting the stage to blow all of our minds once again. Give him a squeeze for me!
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Cruiser
Mountain climber
Cody
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Aug 28, 2007 - 10:13pm PT
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OK Bobby, two fingers and a high five to you!!! What wonderful
improvement and good news to all of us. I'm off to the tetons with the boys this coming weekend and will be thinking of you constantly. I've had some outrageous times in the high country this summer and am trying to stretch the good weather to the max. Fall is in the air and the cool evenings remind me of bouldering on Cedar mountain. Keep up the strong fight that only you can do. From everyone here, keep on the sharp end of the rope.
Kirt Cozzens
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Aug 28, 2007 - 10:32pm PT
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hey there faith... say, thanks for the wonderful news of an accomplishment!!... now, for sure, we know we are pressing on, praying in the right direction!... many more days of success can come your way... just keep praying for more open doors!.... and insight as to how to approach and open them....
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
heart and soul in the boondocks
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Aug 29, 2007 - 01:49am PT
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you can DO IT!!!
LOVE to bobby and the models!
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Kate Borgelt
climber
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Aug 29, 2007 - 11:20am PT
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Faith! This is such a fantastic update... makes my heart so happy. I keep the prayers coming and think of you and Bobby everyday. Miss and love you. Kate Borgelt
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stillman
climber
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Aug 29, 2007 - 12:12pm PT
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My first thought upon hearing Bobby lifting two fingers: Victory and Determination.
Bobby, you inspire with small victories daily.
Sending all our love,
stillman, lara, stillman, luke and faith
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Kari
Sport climber
Bishop CA
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Aug 29, 2007 - 12:55pm PT
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Hey Bobby...I am so stoked to hear about your progress....I am so proud of you for staying so strong!!!! Teaches us all a lesson in life!!!
Can anyone help guide me thru posting a picture on this forum???? Thanks....
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Aug 29, 2007 - 01:54pm PT
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hey there kari... as to photos, i have learned that you are to go to PHOTOBUCKET.com (hope this is correct, :) )... and also there is a post or two, by someone, here at the SUPERTOPO, that tell how to use this.... go through the list, and you will see them--they are easy to spot... good luck and best wishes...
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Somerton Manor
climber
Somerset West South Africa
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Aug 29, 2007 - 03:50pm PT
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Dear Bobby, Family and friends.
We here in Somerset West / South Africa are still praying for you all.
It’s great to read the good news and we are very thankful for the updates from Faith.
What an amassing girl and Family. It’s a privilege knowing you and we sent lots of strength to you all.
You’re Family in Somerset West.
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shannon becker
Mountain climber
big sky, montana
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Aug 30, 2007 - 01:16am PT
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bobby, faith and family,
how happy I was to see Faith's update- the picture that pat mees sent in with bobby holding up 2 fingers and then the update after- gave me chills and a smile. I will keep thinking and praying about you all-
shannon
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Aug 30, 2007 - 02:05pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
Well, Fall is in the air a little bit. The nights are cooler and we can finally get a little rest at night. Too hot to sleep is not so good. We will be in Jackson and surrounding area this weekend. It will be a nice little break. The Collier's have left now - all but Barron and the Read's. Things are starting to wind down for the coming Winter months.
Reading of your progress has made my heart sing. I know that you are going to make another mark on this world and I am waiting with bated breath to see what happens next. You are an incredible individual and we here know that you aren't finished yet. It is like you are holding up those 2 fingers to say "Wait, I am not finished yet - you have not seen it all!" Well, we are waiting with patience and love and we are all still here.
I will be thinking of you alot as we enjoy the scenery and the outdoors in Jackson. You are always on my mind each and every day. Kirt and I will be sitting talking and - all of a sudden Boom!- we are talking about Bobby Model. I would love for my boys to have an opportunity to meet you some time. You are truly an inspiration and I want them to be able to say that they have met one of the most incredible individuals I have ever known. This is another thing on my to do list.
Well, I just wanted to check in and say "HI" I know I haven't written much in the last couple of weeks. Just know that I have thought about you a ton though!!
Tell your mom and dad I said "HI" and I will be expecting Anne to pop her head in when she is in town again.
We will be thinking about you alot over the weekend!
Best to you,
Janet K. Cozzens
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Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich
Social climber
Des Moines
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Aug 31, 2007 - 10:45am PT
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Bobby,
Keep up the hard work! If anyone can stay strong through a climb this tough it's you! You have a LOT of support out here, don't ever forget that.
Faith,
Thank you so much for being so diligent in your care for Bobby. I was a hospice nurse prior to getting my masters in teaching. I wish that more people had someone so caring in their lives. I really appreciate the long hours you've spent grieving, hoping, praying, wondering, and dealing with life at a more basic level than most get a chance to. It is hard to see through the forest sometimes, but the summit IS there, and I praise God everyday that you seem to be keeping your eye on that summit. Hang in there, take care of yourself, and accept any support you are offered!
Cheryl
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Jakeb
climber
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Aug 31, 2007 - 11:16am PT
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This little bit of Pearl Jam lyric has been reminding a lot of Bobby (apologies for the f-bomb. I didn't write it)
He floated back down cause he wanted to share
His key to the locks on the chains he saw everywhere
But first he was stripped and then he was stabbed
By faceless men, well, f*ckers
He still stands
And he still gives his love, he just gives it away
The love he receives is the love that is saved
And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky
A human being that was given to fly
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handsome B
Gym climber
SL,UT
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Aug 31, 2007 - 01:46pm PT
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keep up the good work bobby and faith, this whole community loves and supports you
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jet
climber
red lodge mt
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Hi I am glad to hear that you are comming around, way to go. Be for we know it we will be climbing ice agian. Thanks for your up dates Faith, great work and stay strong. Hope to see you in cody soon. Your Pal Jet
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Hey Bobby, Faith, and Anne, Lots of love and prayers going your way, and so pleased to get such positive , exciting updates. Anne, I gather you are constantly on the move! Love to ALL the Family. Greetings to all you awesome supertopo Bobby fans, Sarah
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Hey Bobby, Faith, and Anne, Lots of love and prayers going your way, and so pleased to get such positive , exciting updates. Anne, I gather you are constantly on the move! Love to ALL the Family. Greetings to all you awesome supertopo Bobby fans, Sarah
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Ashley McEntire
climber
Columbia, SC
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Dear Bobby and family,
I am one of the many who knows Bobby from afar (through friends) and have always deeply respected & admired what he does with his life. His talent and strength of character matched by his humility, which only makes him more exceptional. I am sending every prayer and hope to you that you slowly reawake to find yourself surrounded by those who love you, rejoining us in the next phase of your life.
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Hi Bobby,
Well, our trip to Jackson was great!! We took a hike to Surprise Lake and we got some great pictures. We dedicated the hike in your honor. My boys headed out of Lupine trailhead with me saying "who are we hiking for today?" They would respond in unison "BOBBY MODEL!!!" They would talk about you with other hikers. They would say "We are hiking for Bobby Model today." It was incredible. Cache's shoes were a little tight and he cried about the last 2 miles out. I would look at him and say "Is there any other way to the bottom of this mountain?" and he would reply "No." I would say "can you do this for Bobby Model?" And he would say "Yes!" His spirit was great. I attribute some of his strength coming from you. He was a trooper. His toes were incredibly sore. He has the blisters to prove it. But he never gave up. It was truly awe inspiring to see my 4 year old make it all the way to Surprise Lake on his own 2 feet. These pictures are forwarded to you so that you can see that we are here and we are doing things with you in our hearts. These boys dedicated everything they had inside them to you on this day. I hope that you could feel the strength that they put forth and you pulled from that strength! We are here hoping and praying and hiking for you Bobby. We want you to know this. (I am unsure how to get the pictures to copy, but here are the URL's)
Take care of yourself!!
Janet
http://justcozz.smugmug.com/photos/191607583-S.jpg
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Kari
Sport climber
Bishop CA
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A flight of Joy for you Bobby...I think of you every day...where ever I am....stay strong!!!
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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JUST GOT THE SEPTEMBER 4 UPDATE FROM FAITH:
Dear All,
Wishing everyone a lovely September with cooler breezes and blue skies. The
air is a bit crisper in New York with lots of sun shinning in on Bobby in
his new digs: a private room overlooking Central Park :-). Out of the ICU
(actually from last Thursday) and doing really well! Showing two fingers on
command this morning again and gearing up for a possible move to rehab later
this week or early next (cross fingers). While Bobby is still in a minimally
conscious state, he seems very close to the surface, more than ever now. We
are currently in the process of researching and talking through longer term
rehab options out of New York, but are still in the information gathering
stage, although we will definitely keep everyone posted as we learn more...
At any rate, your notes, posts, letters and emails are an enormous highlight
and Bobby definitely perks up to listen--more than ever now. So thank you
for these amazing messages that help carry all of us through. Your continued
support, humor and love make all the difference.
With love and thanks always,
Faith
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, back in DC, and really not that much to report but I just wanted to drop you a note to say Hi and let you know a little bit about what is going on. The best thing about DC right now are the bumper stickers, everyone has the “End of an Error” one with Bush’s last day in office – Hey Big Bob, how you doing my friend??? – and some other really funny ones, but they are mostly naughty so I will have to wait till I see you again and then we will find out if it’s true that you can make a guy in a coma laugh … Better still, if you are awake by then, we’ll see if I can make a guy out of a coma laugh!
I just made it back from the Caribbean, which is a little sad, but it’s OK because I am taking off for Europe in a few days, mostly to visit my family, a wedding and some chilling with my 11 months old twin nephew and niece. And you know what, Bud? Seeing my family is pretty special these days because you have reminded us all of how important our loved ones are to us. Speaking of, I’ve been really impressed by some of the recent postings on supertopo. Checking out the website is still the highlight(s) of my day (I only do it about four or five times a day, now, a MAJOR improvement from the past few months when dozens of daily visits were not unheard of …) and I just love it that no one is giving up on you, everyone is still here pulling for you and posting little vignettes that put a smile on my face. I particularly like the ones about the kiddos who don’t really know you (like Jessica’s nephew and niece) who still talk about you, hike for you, think of you and pray for you. I’m thinking when you are all better we should all get together so that we can finally put a face on all these names … And yes, there it is my friend, YET another reason for you to come back to us to have a cold one – I’m nothing if I’m not persistent!
Otherwise, I’ve downloaded some pretty cool songs recently so I will put a CD together for when I see you next. A song that I thought about recently, and which I hadn’t heard in years is “Sweet Lord” by George Harrison – totally awesome! I used to think it was “Sweet Love” when I first heard it years ago but now even this die-hard atheist can take comfort in what surely is helping you and so many of the people around you. Is it the music? Is it you, Bud?
OK, that’s it for now but I will try and post again soon. Do you know Bob-Meister how much we all think of you? Pull for you? Bike for you? Hike for you? And yes, sing for you? Well, here’s a small reminder that we are waiting for you, waiting for the day when we get a message from your little sister that you are back, and we’ll all be there for you (some of us with a six-pack).
And, as always, Bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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MichaelUtt
Mountain climber
Minneapolis
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Hey Bobby,
Its great to hear of your progress and the strides you are making towards a full recovery. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers and it is reassuring to hear of the amazing progress you are making towards a full recovery.
Get Better,
Michael Utt & Family
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Matt
Trad climber
always on the lookout for ed's 5.10 OW van
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smell is said to be the sense that is most connected to memory- hey bobby, can you remember what your favorite beer smells like? what it tastes like? what that ice cold pint glass feels like in your hand?
looks like this:
http://www.oceandave.com/index.html
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there faith... hoping soon that bobby will get nearer to home... here is song for him... may sound a bit odd--but it's about pure country land, and most likely as a kid at school, it may have inspired him to roam his homeland, first, as he has done.... he must really love home... perhaps you can sing it to some soft guitar, with the soft sounds of a campfire, on tape as well:
Dr. Brewster Higley (1876)
OH GIVE ME A HOME, WHERE THE BUFFALO ROAM
Oh, give me a home where the Buffalo roam
Where the Deer and the Antelope play;
Where never is heard a discouraging word,
And the sky is not clouded all day.
Chorus
A home! A home!
Where the Deer and the Antelope play,
Where seldom is heard a discouraging word,
And the sky is not clouded all day.
Oh! give me a land where the bright diamond sand
Throws its light from the glittering streams,
Where glideth along the graceful white swan,
Like the maid in her heavenly dreams.
Oh! give me a gale of the Solomon vale,
Where the life streams with buoyancy flow;
On the banks of the Beaver, where seldom if ever,
Any poisonous herbage doth grow.
How often at night, when the heavens were bright,
With the light of the twinkling stars
Have I stood here amazed, and asked as I gazed,
If their glory exceed that of ours.
I love the wild flowers in this bright land of ours,
I love the wild curlew's shrill scream;
The bluffs and white rocks, and antelope flocks
That graze on the mountains so green.
The air is so pure and the breezes so fine,
The zephyrs so balmy and light,
That I would not exchange my home here to range
Forever in azures so bright.
STILL--praying that bobby will enjoy his home of the great outdoors someday, once again...
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Abby Thomas
Trad climber
Baltimore, MD
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Bobby,
As always, Jer and I are thinking of you constantly and have you foremost in our minds as we pull together details for the Canyon trip. That ridiculously long wait list process is now playing heavily in your favor as we have until 9/23/10 to get you back to rafting form, my friend!
I also have you foremost in my mind each day as I do much of what you're doing - fight boredom as an active person forced into an inactive state! I'm now two weeks away from my due date and have to say I don't recommend this pregnancy bit. With that said, this little one is so active that he/she has earned several nicknames that involve profanities as I take continual shots to my ribs. I've now taken to having long conversations with the darling little one in-utero to suggest that he/she send some of his/her energy your way and be a bit more productive with it! ha, ha.
I will let you know as soon as the little one emerges and adds yet another person to the enormously large and strong Bobby Model fan club. In the meantime, keep those two fingers going strong and here's to adding a third real soon...
Much love, ab, jer, peso and the soccer player
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daiva katieb
Social climber
Eagle, CO
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Hello Bobby, Friends, and Family,
I had the opportunity to know Bobby when we were at UW. We had many mutual friends and we were friendly acquaintances. I have been following Bobby's progress through this forum and am thrilled to learn of his progress. I have hesitated to post anything for risk of minimalizing the anguish that Bobby's true friends are going through. However, I believe that it is important for Bobby and his family to know that there are others praying for all of you still at this time. I will continue to pray for Bobby's healing and for his family and friends to continue with their care of Bobby and upkeep of their own wellbeing.
Sending love and good wishes,
Daiva and family
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Thought I'd post a little note from my mom...more good vibes cannot hurt! She is right about both Faith and Bobby.
"Thanks for the update, Liz. Bobby is in my daily prayers. I am always impressed by his sister's messages; she writes so beautifully. Her phrasing is graceful and her tone is so uplifting. She must be a special person. Bless his heart, he is fighting so hard. I pray he continues to make progress. Love, Mom"
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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We're still saying our prayers for Bobby!
Love,
Tanner, Aubrey, & Tyler
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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OK, I just have to say that picture of the kids is ADORABLE!!!!
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hi everyone,
I just spent a few days in New York visiting Bobby and wanted to give you all an update on how well Bob-Meister is doing. The first word that comes to mind is “amazing,” as in “it’s amazing what a difference a couple of months make.” The last time I was up in Gotham City, Bobby was still in Intensive Care, recovering from the medevac and fighting a series of infections. He is now out of ICU, in a beautiful room overlooking Central Park, doing clearly much better and looking GOOD! I’m not a doctor (well, not that kind of doctor anyway, if you have a fish question on the other hand …) so I really can’t give you much of a strictly medical assessment, but he does look well, rested and responsive, and he seems to take in his surroundings. On a few occasions I purposely entered his field of vision, called his name and/or made a funny face and he REALLY smiled at me. They were but fleeting moments, but they were definitely there. And when I once mentioned a good memory from Nairobi he smiled too, without any visual clue. Now, again, I’m not Dr. Mc Dreamy (for all among you who are not Grey’s fanatics (and why not, prey tell?) McDreamy is a neuro-surgeon … on TV) but it felt to me as too much of a coincidence not to take great hope in these few signs. Physically too, Bobby looks good, he is getting some good physical therapy and on a couple of occasions he squeezed my hand so hard it hurt – them good ole muscles are still clearly there.
As he has been all along, Bobby is surrounded by amazing people, who are looking after him constantly – in fact he is practically never alone, even when he is asleep. The nurses and doctors at Mt. Sinai are outstanding and they all, without exception, know what an amazing fella Bobby is (probably because everyone has told them about a million times….). They constantly ask questions about pictures of Bobby that are prominently displayed in his room and they always, always smile when we tell them what he has been up to. While I was there Bobby’s father was visiting, which is always good fun because we are - how shall I put it gently - on opposite ends of the political spectrum. This time around was particularly fun because three of Bobby’s climbing buddies were also in town and, believe you me, I needed some help to hold my own with Big Bob. We all went out for dinner and it was truly one of the most entertaining dinners I have had in a very long while. And to make the event even more memorable, that evening was the 12th anniversary of the ascension of Trango Tower, but you will need to wait for Mike’s post for more details on this (hint, hint, Mike, it’s all you – did anyone say “beagle?”).
So, all in all, Bobby is doing remarkably well, and everyone around him makes all the difference, so please do keep sending your thoughts, prayers, messages, photos, posts, to them all – everything really helps. And, for those of you who have read some of the most recent posts, yes, Bobby also reacts to the cold, but that’s all I will say without my lawyer present …
Best to all,
Charlotte
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mister t
climber
nowhere special
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Great news- Stay strong Bobby.... keep kicking at the darkness...
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Sep 10, 2007 - 02:35pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
Well we went off to the Dirty Socks Club reunion in Bozeman this past weekend. It was a great time!! I finally got to meet some of those people that belong to the names that I have read about and heard about for so many years. There was quite a turn out! Fred Beckey, Jack Tackle, Peter Lev, Dougal McCarty, Grey Thompson, and so many many more! It was a great time for all. Davey Vaughan hosted the whole thing. There was food, drink, bands, and incredible conversation! Joe Josephson was there with his camera and his digital recorder, so I am looking for something to be put out on this in the future. (HOPEFULLY!!)
Here are some pictuires that I thought you may enjoy. We thought of you in our beautiful surroundings. You always seem to come skipping across my mind every day.
Take care,
Janet
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mountain cat
Trad climber
South Africa
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Sep 11, 2007 - 11:39am PT
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SA climber here. Bobby your story is spreading through the grape vines all over South Africa. I stand for my country and love Africa...leaving for Nairobi on Saturday then DRC. To be sure we will be thinking of you. I know you will recover to tell us an amazing story and even better tell it in your special way...will post some Kenya pics upon my return. I read this thread from beginning to end one Friday at work and found myself still there at 1am in the morning, with tears streaming down my face, and yet a faint song in my heart...the wind has wispered into my ears, you will go on...draw energy from the love, the sun, and let's chat someday about our Africa!
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Mees
climber
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Sep 11, 2007 - 04:25pm PT
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Hey bobby,
flew over yosemite a few weeks ago and I was thinking of you the whole time, last time I was there was with you. Some great (puckering) memories there.
It's a beautiful fall day here, no humidity just crisp and clean, some caffeine haha. Watched some of the US open tennis tourney the last few weeks and think I might have seen your hospital room from some of the zoom shots of NYC, really I did, I think I may have just made you out, think you were giving the thumbs up or maybe some other hand signal heh
Your in my thoughts each day man
Pat
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Sep 13, 2007 - 10:55am PT
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What's up Bobby? Your sis say's your getting close to waking up. Great news my friend. Just wanted to let you know that were here for you. I'm glad that your doing so well and look forward to the day you open your eyes and say "What the hell happened and where am I?"
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megs
climber
cody native - minnesota now
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Sep 14, 2007 - 03:30pm PT
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Hi Bobby and Faith,
I am so happy to hear that Bobby is making such great progress! Haven't been on here in a while, have been busy with school starting up again, but I will look forward to reading the update that says he is fully awake! Way to go Bobby!
Meggan Burak (Hockhalter)
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Big B
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Sep 15, 2007 - 01:27am PT
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Hey Bobby,
Haven't written in a while it's been a busy summer, business is good. Kyle and I just got back for Seattle, and then spent most of this week in Sheridan; The Powder Horn is going up fast, tons of building in the Sheridan Area. Kyle is going to California for a week and when he gets back, we head back over the Mountain to prewire a new bank in Sheridan. Can't say that were going hungry, well at least me. ( I could use to loose a few pounds or more)
Got to see Peter Chivers a few weeks back, he was sealing up the bricks on the building. The building looks great, you got to get home and see it for your self. Pete if your out there call the store (307)587-0707 I got a skate board for ya. Bobby people here in Cody and Powell are still thinking of you and want you to get better and come home. It would be cool as hell if you could make it back before the first snow,but I know you need your rest and time to heal, just keep getting better.
Faith, I know the love that you have for Bobby. The love I have for my brother is too strong to put into words. The only word that I found that fits, is loyalty. Lovem', hatem', but always stand by him. Loyalty is love and what people have seen and learned about you in this forum is that you have proven your love for Bobby. Actions speak louder than words. Like I have told you before you are a diamond, the stone that will not crumble and you have my greatest respect.
To all at Bobby's side you have are respect, prayers, and best wishes.
The KBL Family:
Brent, Heather, Jayidyn, Kyle and Linz, Jerry and Becky.
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Livy
Mountain climber
Cody, WY
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Sep 15, 2007 - 08:05pm PT
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Hi, Bobby, You've been on my mind this last month...even more so than usually. I fell and broke my head while walking off dead Indian Pass. Only 3 fractures to my crumple zones, brow, sinus, nose. Certainly not in your league, though Anne says this must stop. Rung my bell and it has been some time getting my brain to click along like I have been blessed to click. Our little community sent me so much good energy that I healed quickly and well. I have been the conduit sending those blasts east from your Mom's park on the hill. Such a sweet and potent spot. I think of you also because I need the name of a place and you may know. A cirque in Tibet that looks like Dead Indian from the top, a little greyer, less vegetation, w a stone structure along the east side w two big circular landings. While waiting for the helicopter and making my brother, Lee, frantic w worry, I flew and spent hours in Tibet watching a pack string of little square headed cattle lead by small people in dark clothes, red horizontal accents.....far more interesting for me than for Twila and Lee holding my hands. Jim says he'll go w me. Still working out where exactly it is. You are one man who may have set foot in both places. Hell of a thing to confess in a climbers' forum..that I tripped and stuck a big rock in my eye. Mostly I blame it on the little horse Tucker because he can't speak up for himself and no one would believe him anyway. You are in my prayers. Hurry home. Much Love, Virginia
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Sep 17, 2007 - 11:11am PT
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Well Bobby,
I went rock climbing for the very first time yesterday. Real rock climbing! We went up to the Island with the boys. Todd and Heather met us up there with Heather's girls and Jim Montgomery came up with his kids. It was a lot of fun. Now I can say I climbed. I know - it was only the Island, but I was pretty proud of myself for actually getting brave enough to do it at all. I like those mountain trails, so this was something big for me. Hiking has always been my game. Rock climbing was always something that I let Kirt take the credit for. I think I would actually like to do it again. Yes- it was that fun!
Brinson did really well. We had to tell him to stop, or he would have been over the top and on his way to God knows where. Heather's oldest girl is a rock hound. She was awesome to watch. She just did it like she had been doing it forever. She seems to like it a great deal. The kids had a lot of fun. The dad's didn't climb much. They were too busy trying to keep everyone else belayed. We had a great time.
Well, the air is getting much cooler and Fall is setting in. I love the seasons. Wyoming has all four and I love it. I wouldn't live anywhere else. The mountains just call to me and I know that I am home. I know that they must be calling to you right now. You have been gone for way too long. Hopefully, this thread and the people here have brought you a taste of home every time you read a story or just catch up on what people are doing. We are all here thinking of you and praying for you, we haven't forgotten you and none of us ever will. We all keep you in our hearts every day and hope that the next entry into this forum is the news that we have all been waiting to read - that you have found your way back to all of the people that care so much about you. That will be the moment in time that will spread like wildfire. I can't wait to read that entry!
Well, I must get going. I have a big day today. Lots to get done. Stay strong and keep inspiring all of us to love our loved ones every single day and tell each other what they mean to us. You mean a great deal to me and every other person here.
Your friend,
Janet
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kozzie
climber
Edwards, CO
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Sep 17, 2007 - 03:53pm PT
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Hey Bobby and Faith,
I know it has been forever since I have seen you both. But I wanted to let you know that you are both in my prayers! I can't wait until you are up and around Bobby, and our paths cross again. Love to you both.
Kristina Koznick
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Sep 22, 2007 - 01:19am PT
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hey there faith...
this is for you, in this long race...
even as winter, which will soon be upon us...
does what it ever-has-done, and must...
and your dear brother, seems dorment to you...
keep wathcing over him, that "precious plant"--and as you do...
take it to heart, that there is a future spring...
and thus, too, for your brother, some new life will ring...
some winters are just harder than others, so it seems...
but the "plant" is still lovely, and not forgotten, in the good lord's scheme...
stay by his side, and keep growing together...
and fight-out-and-through, this bit of bad weather...
you'll find a newer, special bond...
by sitting there, nuturing, each bit of frond...
life may seem to pass on, as you wait...
and the world may seem to "leave you behind', in its wake...
but come a new spring, you will find some praise-worhy notes to sing...
and as with all healing, and newness that re-awakes, may the good lord bless you, with a fullness beyond what pain, did bring...
and may love abound between you and bobby, and your folks...
in ways, that speak of on-going hopes...
prayers and love to you...
you are not forgotten, in all of this, that you do...
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Sep 22, 2007 - 02:11am PT
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hey there... and this is for bobby:
get on up around that bend, bobby... keep making time, there's a whole world before you... just waiting...
Creedence Lyrics: Up Around The Bend
There's a place up ahead and
I'm going just as fast as my feet can fly
Come away, come away if you're going,
Leave the sinking ship behind.
CHORUS:
Come on the rising wind,
We're going up around the bend.
Ooh!
Bring a song and a smile for the banjo,
Better get while the gettings good,
Hitch a ride to the end of the highway
Where the neons turn to wood.
CHORUS
Oooh!
You can ponder perpetual motion,
Fix your mind on a crystal day,
Always time for a good conversation,
There's an ear for what you say.
CHORUS
Yeah!
Oooh!
Catch a ride to the end of the highway
And we'll meet by the big red tree,
There's a place up ahead and I'm going,
Come along, come along with me.
CHORUS
Yeah!
Do do doo do...
by the powerful grace of god, bobby, and pushing-on, you can do it, TOO, someday...
and leave that ol' sinking-ship of past woes, behind, to face that clear-fresh brand new day...
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ThomasKeefer
Trad climber
Between Tuscano and Liguria, Italia
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Sep 22, 2007 - 03:04am PT
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Hey Bobby...
I have never met you but I have been following along and getting inspired by the amazing circle of friends you have brought together.
Your photo work is amazing...
I hope that you are soon back at!
Get well soon.. It is great to see so much progress!
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ccaldes
climber
Golden, Co
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Sep 22, 2007 - 06:06pm PT
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Dear All,
I'm really excited to report that the decision for Bobby's rehab has been
made and to Denver we go! Bobby will be at Craig Hospital, which specializes
in rehabilitation for traumatic brain injuries and has been ranked in the
top ten rehabilitation hospitals in the nation for 18 consecutive years by
U.S. News and World Report. But more importantly, it's an incredible place
and an excellent fit for Bobby. We were all impressed and look forward to
being back in mountain air (and for Bobby to be able to get outside again!).
He will be getting a shunt (to drain excess fluid from his ventricles)
sometime next week and will be ready to move shortly afterwards. The initial
move will be to Kindred Hospital (in Denver), which is essentially the same
as a sub-acute rehab facility geared to prepare people for a more acute
rehab environment. The Craig doctors round at Kindred and will determine
when exactly Bobby will be able to move to Craig (this is determined to some
extent by his level of consciousness, but the average stay at Kindred is 25
days). We will fly to Denver by air ambulance, which will be a much easier
trip from NY to Denver than from Cape Town to NY, for obvious reasons.
In sum, this is a phenomenal step forward. As soon as we know, I'll write
with our exact ETD and a new mailing address.
Thank you ALL for your tremendous support!! The visits. emails, letters,
packages and phone calls mean the world and have helped us to reach the
place we are now. And I also believe the doctors and staff at Mt. Sinai (and
in South Africa) have been touched by the incredible support system that
surrounds Bobby and the quality of his care has somehow been enhanced by
that. So thank you beyond.
With love and thanks and more to come,
Faith
PS We can't wait to see you Bobby! Love, Chris and Brice
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Borgelt
Social climber
Denver
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Sep 22, 2007 - 06:17pm PT
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Faith~
This is wonderful news. I look forward to having Bobby in Denver. Please let us know when you both arrive. Faith, if you or your family want a place to stay for a day, week, month- just let me know. You are very welcome to stay with us. Prayers and love never stop. Kate Borgelt
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shannon lucy Batenhorst
climber
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Sep 23, 2007 - 05:44pm PT
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Dear Bobby M and Faith....Chris of Supertopo is working today, Sunday, and fixed my access so I could send you a note. I have several stories for you in the weeks to come...but most of all, this week, I have been watching the leaves turn and have been taking photos and thinking of you...hopefully transmitting mental communications of the same. I especially have sent the colour of "GOLD"...that beautiful and striking Wyoming Cowboy GOLD...Some of the leaves remain green but as you well know others are in their various stages of transformation...purples, reds, browns, golds. We moved my Mother to the JH Living Center from Thermop last week so we all got to enjoy the beauty of that drive. I especially love the willows in the marsh around Moran as they turn that fiery purple red. Didn't have the camera, and you would say ??Didn't have your camera??...no excuse...or would have sent a bunch of photos your way.
I am excited, shed a few tears, when I learned that you will soon be back in the West and at Craig in Denver. I will get some photos printed and send them to you. I know you have many friends who are excited that they can drive to see you. Admittedly much older than you, I grew up in Big Horn County (yes, a "Niner") so reading the supertopo messages has been often familiar.
Sending much care and love. Shannon Lucy Batenhorst. Lander.
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babboo
Social climber
missoula,mt
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Sep 23, 2007 - 07:11pm PT
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Hip Hip Hooray! bobby heads west, almost to wyo and Gods country!Faith , thanks again for updates. to all--- a very dear friend and surgeon, 2 weeks ago told me that it is way too early to feel at all discouraged by Bobbys progress and that the last report was so positive. Then, we had margaritas while sitting on the beach at Flathead lake, admiring the Mission mountains and Glacier park.Thinking of, praying for , and toasting Bobbys family and friends. Sarah
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EmilyDusel
climber
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Sep 25, 2007 - 01:12am PT
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Hi there Faith and Bobby,
I just wanted to let you know that Clay and I think of you every day. We are very excited for your journey west and will welcome you back to Colorado with open arms.
One of my favorite quotes is from a poem by Mary Oliver- "Tell me, what is is you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
I have always looked up to you and Bobby for the way you have both lived your lives. You both have incredible strength and compassion.
Sending all our love,
Clay, Emily, Madelyn and Hannah
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Jakeb
climber
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Sep 25, 2007 - 02:26pm PT
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I'm SO EXCITED!!! Craig Hospital is about 10 mins from my front door. Model Family, if there is ANYTHING I can do to help i'd be glad to. If someone needs a place to stay it's done. If you all need a place to decompress (read drink!!) besides a hotel room my home is PERFECT!! I'd love to have some type of Bobby Get Well get down at my place. Faith email me below if I can do anything. Or if any of you plan on visiting Denver and need anything.
Jake Beaudrie
jbeaudrie@collegeinvest.org
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Sep 25, 2007 - 04:25pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
First off, sorry I haven't been in touch but I was spending some time on the shores of the other side of the Atlantic and did not have good email access. I was, however, able to read some of the posts and got Faith's email, so I, too, did the happy dance when I heard you were heading back West. No disrespect to New York (why not, one might ask, but never mind ...) but I'm sure it will be that much better for you to be closer to so many of your peeps, breathe some fresh mountain air and even peek at those peaks of yours - what better to entice you back to us? Granted, it is a bit farther for me to visit, but believe you me, I'd rather be hopping on half a dozen planes to come West than to drive a few hours to the Big Apple. In any event, I am really chuffed for you and will keep sending good thoughts-prayers-songs-whatever-it-takes your way.
Europe was good ... in a European kind of way. One of the unexpected bonuses was that I was able to see Jules in London, literally between two flights so we did not have that much time, but she is doing awesome and I was able to give her the most recent updates and she was chuffed when I told her how well you are doing. I tell you, as soon as you are better you are going to have to head back to NBO because those peeps MISS YOU! I am still planning on heading over there sometime in the winter, on the way to Madagascar, but my plans are still not firm at this point. On the good news front I just heard that my contract in Morocco was renewed so I will also be heading back there soon. Oh yeah, and there is also a decent possibility that I will be heading back to Senegal before Xmas so the fall schedule should be interesting... I think I'm going to have to combine some of these trips or I will just be too tired to even think of using all the airmiles I'm piling on. In other words, Bud, life is GOOD!
When I was in Brittany I thought about you a lot, first off because I was having a grand ole time (amazing seafood AND local wines) but also because, once again, music brought me closer to you. This time it was Dire Straits, you know the classic "Brothers in Arms" album. I just sat at a cafe, one of the songs played on the radio and I just downloaded the best songs, put them on repeat, and kept listening to them, a big wide smile on my face, thinking of you and simultaneously looking like a complete idiot. It was ... perfect. Ever since your accident, music makes me think of you, as does everything beautiful that I see. Thanks for that, Bud. Oh yeah, and by the way, I actually did a bit of "climbing" in Paris. I was walking along the Seine just before Midnight with a young cousin of mine and he assured me that he knew of a "way" to get into the Tuileries Garden (where the Louvre is located) even though everything was locked down for the night. Well, his "way" involved climbing over a fence and jumping from a small height - so far so good. Now, as you probably figured out by now, jumping down means "climbing back up" is going to be a bit of a challenge... In the end, we just walked towards two armed guards who were patrolling with mean looking dogs and "convinced" them to unlock one of the gates so we could simply walk out. We became such good friends with those guys that my cousin ended up telling them the truth about how we got in and they told us to bring drinks the next time we decide to jump one of their gates. Good times!
Otherwise, it's actually nice to be back in Washington, the summer is still lingering, the sun still shines and I was able to shed my European jeans for old pairs of shorts - not bad if you ask me. I think there are a couple of good flicks coming out soon so I will try and catch them to tell you more about them. A propos of nothing, Grey's Anatomy will soon be back on, so if nothing else we are sure to discover some cool new songs. And we are all still there, waiting for you, thinking of you, sending our love, and smiling a lot when we think of you. I think that's what I miss the most right now, Bud, this big, goofy grin of yours, so, whenever you feel like coming back, we're all ready and good, right here for you.
And, as always, Bud,
I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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bunnypoo
climber
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Sep 26, 2007 - 12:38pm PT
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Here's the newest news from Faith, September 26:
Dear All,
The new and exciting development regarding Bobby's surgery is that not only will he be getting a shunt on Thursday, but they will be repairing fractures in his right eye orbit and performing a cranial-plasty to repair the small section of skull they removed during his initial surgery. This is yet
another great leap forward and further testament to Bobby's steady progress and his incredible strength, will and spirit. This procedure will delay our departure to Denver and right now it looks like we should be traveling sometime mid next week, but I'll definitely keep everybody posted!
The surgery will be on Thursday at 1pm and will take much of the afternoon.
Thank you all again so much for your powerful thoughts and prayers and well
wishes, they're workin!
With thanks and love,
Faith
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bunnypoo
climber
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Sep 26, 2007 - 01:45pm PT
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Hey Everyone,
Seems like a great time for another collective prayer for Bobby... if you catch this in time will you all please join me tomorrow, Thursday morning 9am MST to send big beautiful love and prayers to our friend Bobby, his family, and hospital staff.
love and thanks,
Molly Morehouse
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Sep 26, 2007 - 05:36pm PT
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hey there bunnyboo... i just caught this, wed, around 5:36--eastern time? .... will be praying... will try to hit this again, later tongiht, for others, too...
best wishes to you and the prayers are coming even now...
*say, there... faith, and molly (bunnyboo)... i thought this was for the move... now that i look at the previous post and see it is for the surgery and shunt, and eye, and skull, stuff:
seems this is the best times to fast and pray as well, for the whole day, with the surgery at 1:00, those of us that can, can give bobby a "static free" whole day... making an even more free-and-clear path for him and the docs... why, we can make a right-fine smooth path for him... god bless...
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Jill McMillan
climber
Colorado
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Sep 26, 2007 - 09:15pm PT
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Bobby,
I am very excited for you that you'll soon be heading west to Colorful Colorado - at this most colorful time of year! I hope you're ready for a blast from the past visitor when you get to Craig.
So many good wishes are being sent your way to help you prep for surgery. I hope that everything goes well tomorrow!
Jill
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Sep 27, 2007 - 12:32am PT
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hey there all... just hoping more folks get a chance to see the call for some prayer for in the morning (thurs)...for this young man, bobby and his family...
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Sep 27, 2007 - 05:53am PT
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hey there all, i noticed that we had the invite to pray, and or, well wish, or send our positive wishes, and etcs....
just caught this earlier, and am just bumping this up, so's in case some folks would like a chance to pray for bobby model's surgery this day (thurs, 27)....
if you just got on line... you can back track, a mite, you will see that it is for today, and you will see the details....
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Sep 27, 2007 - 09:43am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, today is the big day, so I wanted to wish you all the best, good luck, and all that, but most importantly, I wish you some wickedly psychadelic dreams during surgery! I thought of you yesterday (surprise, surprise, I know ...) because I was volunteering at the children's hospital here in Washington, and I was playing with this little kid (maybe 7-8 years old) who is one of our "long-timers" and has been in and out of the hospital for a very long time. So we started talking about what he's been through, I asked him how he fared in surgery, and of course, I asked him if he had cool psychadelic dreams. Now, I don't know about you, but if you've ever said "psychadelic" to a seven-year old little boy, you've probably noticed an interesting reaction ... I just loved it that this little fella was such a trooper and didn't skip a beat at the mention of surgery. Now, I KNOW you're a pretty amazing fella yourself, and that you're not going to skip a beat either, but I wish you the most psychadelic of dreams for today.
We'll be waiting for you, Bud, as we always do, and, as always,
I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Sep 27, 2007 - 01:24pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
I am thinking and praying for you today. All my good thoughts are headed your way. I have to agree with Charlotte. Your smile is what I think I miss the most about you. I see it as clear as day every time I think about you. It is so infectious and warm. You have a good heart and those of us who have been touched by it know it.
I am anxiously awaiting to hear how you pulled through this surgery with flying colors - as always. You never cease to amaze in any challenge or hurdle that you must leap. You inspire me every day.
Your friend,
Janet
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bunnypoo
climber
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Sep 28, 2007 - 07:12pm PT
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Update from September 27:
Dear All,
Surgery was a success! Although Bobby didn't get out until 9pm-ish, it
sounds like the entire surgery flowed incredibly well and the surgeons were
able to accomplish all they set out to do (the team was neuro, ENT and
plastics). Bobby is back in the ICU for a couple days of recovery (bummed to
leave our lovely Central Park view, but the ICU team loves him and they were
more than happy to see us again). My mom and I just left the hospital and a
restful and peacefully sleeping Bobby (perhaps a bit drugged too :-)). One of our favorite nurses is on duty tonight and all is well.
Thanks to allllll of you for the current of powerful thoughts and vibes and prayers and good stuff that swept Bobby's way throughout today! These intentions continue to work gracefully towards Bobby's recovery and help to carry the rest of us as well.
With love and gratitude,
Faith
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Sep 29, 2007 - 07:57pm PT
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hey there faith, through bunny~~
thanks for the update... this was very kind of you to share us...
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Sep 29, 2007 - 08:12pm PT
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Faith,
We are so glad Bobby is making such excellent progress and very happy to hear that he will soon be continuing his recovery in CO. Thank you for your patient updates. You are a truly a rare individual and we look forward to meeting you and Bobby. For now, please give your mom a hug for us... Sharon and Bill Baker
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Jay Hack
Trad climber
bellingham, Washington
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Sep 29, 2007 - 09:19pm PT
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I'm glad your latest surgery went well. I met you once in Cody and have been touched by all the love and support that your energy encourages through these threads. Stay strong brotha!
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amy skinner
Social climber
lander, wyoming
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Sep 30, 2007 - 01:02am PT
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Hello Faith, Bobby and Anne!
I want you to know how much you are a part of our daily lives here in Lander. Tonight, the request at bedtime was the much loved story of Stumpy Model. When I told Jake that my throat was too sore for a story, he said it was OK - he would tell the story! He did a fine job. He hit all the major points, had the timing down, waited for the laugh. . .he's turning into quite the story-teller. The kids never fail to ask how you are doing and are excited to hear that you all are heading back west soon. I spent the day packing up the last of Todd's office - and found lots of notes, postcards, and, of course, photos from you, Bobby. It was a wonderful reminder of how fortunate we are to have friends like you watching out for us. I trust you'll keep up the good, hard work and come back to us soon so that we can continue to live stories that Jakey-boy can add to his list of favorites.
Our love to you,
Amy, Hannah, Sarah and Jake
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Wapiti Bob
Mountain climber
Wapiti, WY
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Hello, all. I am happy to report that I visited Bobby at Mount Sinai on Saturday morning the 29th. Luckily for me, Faith showed up just as visiting hours were about to start. I may have had trouble getting in to see Bobby without her, since he was still in the ICU as a consequence of his surgery on Thursday, and visitations were being severely limited. Faith has already reported on the success of the surgery, so I won't repeat what she told me. Bobby was still sedated and resting peacefully when I stood nearby, and from what I could determine from looking at the blinking monitors, his vital signs (blood pressure, pulse respiration, etc.) looked great. (I wish my blood pressure was that low!) Faith is a pillar of strength and very chipper and optimistic. The latest news is that Bobby may be moved to Colorado within the next week or ten days in order to be housed in a rehabilitation facility where he will start on the long road back to what we hope is full recovery. He continues to remain in the thoughts and prayers of everyone in our family.
Bob Hanson
Wapiti, WY
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Model Crew,
I have been up in Cody and Powell dealing with a family emergency and haven't been able to get on the net to read about how you are doing, Bobby, but as always you are in my heart and prayers. I was so excited to hear how well you are doing and that you will be coming to CO soon. All of you guys are so strong and as I read this Forum you are so blessed with wonderful friends. Take care and have a safe trip west. I hope I can come see all of you when you get to Co. Love ya, Brenda
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bunnypoo
climber
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Here's the latest from Ms. Faith, October 2:
Dear All,
I hope this email finds everyone well and enjoying October, thus far.
This is just a quick note to let you know that it doesn't look like we'll be going to Denver this week as they noticed a small post-op collection of fluid underneath Bobby's skull that they want to monitor and if need be remove. This is really not uncommon and they just want to ensure that the
fluid dynamics in his brain are as should be.
Many many thanks again and I'll keep you all posted as plans evolve.
With love,
Faith
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Jenny Muntingh
Social climber
South Africa
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Hi Faith
Mislaid your email address but have been keeping tabs on Bobster's progress and am not at all surprised by his continuing improvement. Just wish I was there to see it! Please tell him that he remains in my thoughts and prayers and that I speak of him often. What an amazing fighter he is.
Summer is on the way after a long wet winter and we are all starting to thaw a little. I'm not working in the ICU anymore - needed a break but am missing the patient contact so will rethink in the new year.
With special love to you and the Bobster. Please also send a big hug to Mariella when you speak to her.
With lots of love
Jenny Muntingh
ICU Nurse
South Africa
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hi everyone,
I know that we are all rooting like mad for Bobby, and in our minds he is a rockstar, the one we just KNOW is going to make it through this with flying colours. You may have noticed from Faith's last email that there is just a small complication that is impeding his westward journey, which basically is the last hurdle he needs to overcome before he can get back to his beloved mountains. So, I was just thinking that maybe, just maybe, we can all do something extra for Bobby, provide, if you will, the last push that is going to get him over the hump. Maybe Molly will set up another one of those awesome moments when we all get together and all think of him at the same time (hint, hint, Molly), but maybe there is also more we can all do individually, to send him the love, the energy, the prayers that we know he needs. Faith has told us time and again that Bobby can feel it when we are there for him so, with the utmost kindness and respect I ask you to join me in the latest blitz for Bob-Meister. Whatever form your gesture takes, it will make a difference and I think we will benefit from knowing what others are doing. I'll let you all know what I have come up with and am looking forward to hearing from others.
Come on, friends, we can do this! For Bobby and his loved ones, let's do this.
With warm feelings,
Charlotte
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Good idea Charlotte, thanks for that.
One thing I can do today is organize a liquid toast to Bobby at a happy hour with NG photographers this eve at 5:30 EST If anyone would like to raise a glass at that hour feel free (whether it is alcoholic in nature or just a glass of water!)
Reza, a photographer who Bobby admires, will be there tonight and I'll tell you this man is possessed by some amazing spirtual energy--you feel it immediately when you meet him. So I'll have Reza lead the toast for you tonight, B! Also here is a note, ver batim, that Reza sent me upon just learning of your accident in late August (he'd been traveling for months)
much love,
your friend Liz
"OHHHH ....
I have not heard about this very sad news before .
We were sitting together in the Emerging explorers symposium and he was so enthusiast about his work , later we spend longtime together talking about his future work .
I still remember how proud he was being part on NG familly ..-like all of us -
This news make me again think of the same case that happened to Alexandra Boulat photographer who went in coma in west bank ...
The most important thing that I believe we could do is to comfort their families, friends and be with them in any possible way, and look after any need they have .
Dear Liz could you please find out how we could send our support -even a mail- to his family and his close friends ??
I am currently in Kabul for Aina projects , and feel how the life and death are always together .
warmest regards
Reza"
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Bobby my Friend,I miss you very much. I keep in touch on supertopo, and your Mom calls and fills me in on specifics and current developments.
I'm very proud of you and your continued improvement.I can't wait to come and see you when you arrive back to your Mountains. The white of snow has started to appear,Beartooth Pass just closed,our first hard freeze will be tonight.It feels so good. You'll be here soon.I'm thinking of you often.You cannot believe all the support from your friends. We all miss your smile.Keep up the battle,one step at a time.Your the man.Your making progress.LOVE JOE
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Gary & Nancy Axthelm
climber
Cody, WY
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Hey Bobby,
We just wanted you to know that we think of you daily and are encouraged by the reports of your continuing improvement. So glad that you will be heading back to the West in the near future. Gary and I are so amazed by the posted emails that are such a tribute to your awesome experiences! Keep pushing forward and know that you have a whole world pulling for you...We hope your move comes soon.
The Axthelm's
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
northern cali fall with the sunshine
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*sending hope, prayers, good wishes*
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bunnypoo
climber
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To all the amazing people of the Bobby Model support group -
How about a group prayer for Bobby this Thursday at 6:30 pm MST followed by another on Saturday at 3 pm MST. I would like to request that we work with the shared intention (going out to the deity of your personal persuasion) that focuses strongly on Bobby's full and swift return to a conscious, wakeful, and aware state.
Everyone has done such an amazing job of reminding Bobby, and all of us, of the true beauty and wonder of this world and the simple truth that friendship, love, and family really do mean everything. Please continue to send forth these reminders to Bobby and his family in your thoughts and prayers. I was able to spend time with him in August and I too can attest to his unwavering strength and the powerful effect of the love and care being shown to him in so many ways. It would be great if you would all join me in this "welcome back" prayer/party in the ether.
take good care,
Molly
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there molly... say, i will be praying... you can count on me... god bless...
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Hey Bobby,
Well, I am thinking of you today. I just wanted to fill you in on the progress of the building upgrade. They have dug the holes for the "pillars" and cut the windows into the south side of the building. Construction is taking place on the inside to get offices done where Barron and I will be moving into. The front will be started on here pretty soon. We have ordered the new windows and are just waiting for them to come in. There are a lot of decisions to be made on cabnetry and counter tops and paint and the list goes on and on. It will be a great looking building. I can't wait to have my own spot again.
The weather has been cold in the early hours of the morning. It warms up during the day, but I am sure it won't last much longer. The trees are beautiful!! Fall is one of my most favorite times. The colors and the weather cool down are all a welcome change.
We are all here reading and waiting for you to get to Denver. I think that being in "your" mountains again will do some good. It will be nice having you closer to home.
Tell your mom that I said "Hi" and that I miss her. She always brings a smile to my face. You are a lucky man to have such a wonderful family.
Take care and heal well my friend,
Janet
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Oct 10, 2007 - 02:13pm PT
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Hi everyone,
Just swung by New York yesterday and I had a chance to go check on the Bob-Meister so I wanted to fill you all in on the latest. First off, Bobby looks GOOD: the surgery was apparently very successful and he now looks much more like his old self. His head looks completely fine, both his eyes are open when he is awake and he looks very peaceful. He is still in the ICU, but you wouldn't really know it because his room looks AWESOME: there are prayer flags, crystals, lots and lots of photographs, the iPod is playing in the background, Faith constantly uses all kinds of stuff that smells really good, and Bobby just looks really content. I think Faith has already told you how awesome the staff there are and it's true that they are not only super competent, but also ever so nice. Everyone when they come in call out his name (no more "Mr Model" thankfully!) and really try and engage him. I saw him pretty late in the evening so he was probably a little sleepy but I sat with him for a while, tried to lock eyes with him, talked to him constantly, and I definitely felt him squeeze my hand back on a couple of occasions. Faith and Anne were there, paying constant attention to him, and you really do get the sense that he knows it, feels it, and draws strength from it all. It's really no wonder Bobby has done so well so far.
Molly, thanks very much for organizing the meeting of the minds, in which I will enthusiastically participate, and I would like to add one thing on which we can maybe all focus. The previous problem is now pretty much resolved - thanks in great part, I'm sure to everyone's awesome thoughts and prayers - but Bobby is still fighting an infection. Soooo, come on friends, this is what we need to focus on, lots of love, thoughts, prayers and energy to help Bobby fight and overcome that one. I know everyone is anxious for Bobby and his family to get back to Denver so he needs all the help he can get here.
I'm now off to Africa for the next three months so I will rely on all of you who will see Bobby soon to keep me appraised of his progress. I will, however, be participating in all group thoughts/prayers, and will even get up in the middle of the night if I need to.
Best to all,
Charlotte
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Oct 10, 2007 - 10:06pm PT
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Hey Bobby! Just wanted to drop a note and say your buddies here in fabulous Las Vegas haven't forgot about you for even one minute. Chris Mees, myself and Tim Acker all want to send you our very best and let you know that we are here for you through Hell and/or high water, but no peaks over 14,000ft. That’s your domain. We are looking forward to having you in Denver. I live right by Red Rock Canyon, which I'm sure you've climbed a bunch of times. Every morning on my way to work I pass by them when the sun is coming up and flooding them with beautiful red light and I yell your name, some expletives’ and/or something stupid while listing to some of that horrible techno you love so much. You are so funny when you are pumping yourself up. Truly hilarious. Get better my friend and know that we are all here for you.
Your pal, Lyon
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Oct 11, 2007 - 02:43am PT
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hey there... just bumping this up so more folks will see to pray for thurs (tomorrow) and sat, as to the infection just mentioned, as was mentioned to us all...
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bunnypoo
climber
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Oct 11, 2007 - 06:32pm PT
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Here's is today's news from Faith 10/11.
AND...vibrant group prayer tonight at 6:30 MST...JOIN IN & SEND LOVE AND HEALING...
xoxo - Molly
Dear All,
Apologies for the sparse updates of late, but time has a way of escaping my notice.
At any rate, many thanks again and always for the consistent and uplifting support in all the numerous way you all have given it! We are ever grateful and I know Bobby absolutely feels it.
The good news is that Bobby's recent CT scan showed great improvement in the fluid collection I wrote about earlier. He is reabsorbing it on his own and at this point, there is no need for additional surgery to drain the fluid. Very positive news! Bobby was really perking up last weekend, but recently
came down with a mild pneumonia and he's currently resting and recovering. BUT, the infection has definitely subsided and he has been able to beat this much faster than in the past. Really, he just needs to start moving again...and he will soon enough. We're still on track for Denver as soon as Bobby
has fully recovered. If all goes well, this could be within the next couple of weeks, but of course it's hard to say definitively. We will keep you all posted when we know more!
Wishing everyone all the best!
Love and thanks,
Faith
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shannon lucy Batenhorst
climber
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Oct 12, 2007 - 01:10am PT
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Hi...Mr. Bobby M....It is hard to go on ANY drive, do anything, including being "tortured" by Steve at the GYM...without keeping you in mind. Actually Steve says we keep him on his "toes"....great conversation...and he keeps us working...thinkng. Went over the Snowy Range Mtns. this weekend on the way home from the Rockies game in Denver on Saturday...of course the Snowy Range...lets see...any time one wants to embark on an "adventure drive", especially with those who never go off the beaten path for an adventure drive...
Well, of course, as I wrote a couple weeks ago...what do you see...Brown and Gold..that beautiful Gold only we Wyoming boys and girls know by heart...Have a photo / page from the JH Guide to mail so will get your address from Steve. What do they say on the WYO c ommentary...Oh..the Cowboys...Oh the Cowboys.. ( I think I am probably paraphrasing from some other source but what the heck!!)..
Take your time...heal...when the time is right you'll be ready to move West. Oh! There is so much care and love coming your way. Olive and Bug at Steve and Ellen's gym are exuberant with energy. Bug wanting Olive to give her a moments rest.
All of this will work out. As you well know, as your friends are coming to realize, this old TBI takes time.
Oh gosh. The Absorakas,,,snow now on their tops. Winds too. We will all help, patiently, to support you...it's not easy..but there is much karma and care, all our patience to send to you and support for you and family...I still have that 9 county plate on my car...we told steve and ellen that some day the Lander Senior Citizen Bus ( some day meaning soon er than we wish ) will roll up to the Elementals Gym and "drop" us off...I think Steve will still have "stuff" for us to do...
So MUcH care comes your way. I know you know that. It is so great to hear friends say that. Sometimes people think that it is too much to say things often...I don't think so. For you. For Faith. (Hummm..."Faith"...could that be something to think about?) ...for your Mom and Dad. I am really basically a "stranger" but everyday...walk by your picture on my door...think about what Steve said..."Maybe we should be stronger people."
Just lots of care and love. Beautiful trees changing coulour here in and across WYO. Everyday, sending care.
S. lucy batenhorst
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shannon lucy Batenhorst
climber
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Oct 12, 2007 - 01:10am PT
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Hi...Mr. Bobby M....It is hard to go on ANY drive, do anything, including being "tortured" by Steve at the GYM...without keeping you in mind. Actually Steve says we keep him on his "toes"....great conversation...and he keeps us working...thinkng. Went over the Snowy Range Mtns. this weekend on the way home from the Rockies game in Denver on Saturday...of course the Snowy Range...lets see...any time one wants to embark on an "adventure drive", especially with those who never go off the beaten path for an adventure drive...
Well, of course, as I wrote a couple weeks ago...what do you see...Brown and Gold..that beautiful Gold only we Wyoming boys and girls know by heart...Have a photo / page from the JH Guide to mail so will get your address from Steve. What do they say on the WYO c ommentary...Oh..the Cowboys...Oh the Cowboys.. ( I think I am probably paraphrasing from some other source but what the heck!!)..
Take your time...heal...when the time is right you'll be ready to move West. Oh! There is so much care and love coming your way. Olive and Bug at Steve and Ellen's gym are exuberant with energy. Bug wanting Olive to give her a moments rest.
All of this will work out. As you well know, as your friends are coming to realize, this old TBI takes time.
Oh gosh. The Absorakas,,,snow now on their tops. Winds too. We will all help, patiently, to support you...it's not easy..but there is much karma and care, all our patience to send to you and support for you and family...I still have that 9 county plate on my car...we told steve and ellen that some day the Lander Senior Citizen Bus ( some day meaning soon er than we wish ) will roll up to the Elementals Gym and "drop" us off...I think Steve will still have "stuff" for us to do...
So MUcH care comes your way. I know you know that. It is so great to hear friends say that. Sometimes people think that it is too much to say things often...I don't think so. For you. For Faith. (Hummm..."Faith"...could that be something to think about?) ...for your Mom and Dad. I am really basically a "stranger" but everyday...walk by your picture on my door...think about what Steve said..."Maybe we should be stronger people."
Just lots of care and love. Beautiful trees changing coulour here in and across WYO. Everyday, sending care.
S. lucy batenhorst
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Kathy Tomlinson
climber
Denver, Colorado
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Oct 12, 2007 - 05:05pm PT
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Hi! I also live in Denver very close to Craig Hospital. If anyone needs a place to stay - my house is open to you. I have 2 extra bedrooms with 2 full bathrooms and an extra car for transportation. Glad to hear Bobby is progressing so well.Best - Kathy Tomlinson
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bunnypoo
climber
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Oct 16, 2007 - 12:33pm PT
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The UPDATE from FAITH 10/16!
Dear All,
We're heading to Denver! The doctors all enthusiastically agreed that Bobby has recovered incredibly well and that the most important thing for him is to get out of the hospital and into rehab. So, over the last 24 hours we've been busy with departure plans and it looks like my mom and Bobby will fly to Denver tomorrow morning by medical ambulance (non-stop flight) and I will follow on Thursday after tying up all loose ends here. Bobby will initially be at Kindred Hospital (the facility that is similar to sub-acute rehab) prior to Craig. Not sure new mailing addresses yet, but will keep you all posted as things fall into place, etc.
Your continued thoughts and prayers and powerful healing vibes are clearly working!! Bobby's nurse mentioned this morning that he had been sleeping with an easy smile on his face all night--perhaps dreaming of crisp mountain air, the aspen leaves changing to yellow, friends, laughter and probably a cold beer. You all are beyond extraordinary and have been a support beyond what we ever imagined possible. So THANK YOU ALL!!
Ever forward.
With love and gratitude,
Faith
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Mr. Southfork
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Oct 16, 2007 - 05:06pm PT
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It is so good to hear this news!!! I'll do my best to come down and see you.
I spent a day at the Island several weeks ago with my brother's family, Jim Montgomary's family and my girlfriend, Heather's family. Here is a pic of me on the rope, Jim belaying, Heather's girls and Jim's boys.
Safe travels and I will see you soon.
Todd G. Cozzens
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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Oct 16, 2007 - 07:51pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
Sorry to be out of touch for so long,but life has been busy,but not so busy that i haven't been thinking about you. The mountains are getting that wonderful fall shinning of new snow and the trees are into full color. I think it is a good time for you to be returning. All the recent news is great to hear and I look forward to your return.
All Good Things,
Rob Hart
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Oct 16, 2007 - 08:04pm PT
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hey there... bunnypoo and faith... thanks for the update... it sure is good to know such wonderful feedback from us all praying and all.... will be on the alert for the move, too... with more.... smooth flying, driving, and all that...
god bles your trails to the mountain-lands and fresh air and wonderful trees, bobby... and all...
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Oct 17, 2007 - 10:07am PT
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Fantastic!!
I know the mountain air will give new energy to the healing process and provide an opportunity for Bobby’s wonderful friends to help their buddy. I am awed by the spirit, love and determination of all who share Bobby’s dream. Their support is an inspiration.
Safe travels and much love, Sharon and Bill Baker
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Kate Borgelt
climber
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Oct 17, 2007 - 10:22am PT
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Faith~
Very safe travels to Denver -to you, your mom and esp Bobby. My thoughts and prayers never stop. I will be back in Denver on Nov. 5th and will work to find you and touch base. Sending my love, love, love. Kate Borgelt (borgelt@hotmail.com)
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Charlie Blaylock
Social climber
Cody
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Oct 17, 2007 - 03:15pm PT
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Cleany, I'm soo happy to hear Bobby is doing better. I'm sending out drenched Love and Health vibes from Orygun. I miss you guys,
Charlie
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Oct 17, 2007 - 08:58pm PT
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They made it! Quickly talked to Ann they had just arrived in Denver.GOOD work on your journey.Love and thoughts to you all.JOE
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Oct 17, 2007 - 09:53pm PT
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Fabulous. I've been thinking about the Model family all day long. What a trooper Bobby is.
Thanks Joe.
TCK
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shannon lucy Batenhorst
climber
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Oct 18, 2007 - 02:26am PT
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Hey Mr. Bobby M.
Off you go to Home....the rocky mtns.
It was a great day Tues. at Steve's gym when he told us (Dale and I...old ladies who are getting ready for the Bejing Olympics..my specialty is the "snatch"...and Dale and Steve are in competition for jump rope ....have a photo from the jackson hole guide which will be at the center soon...what did Steve say, try to be stronger people...and we are/ Stay strong. Went on an adventure over the Snowy Range..for myself..but also thought of YOU. Stay strong. We will continue to keep on with the spirit..and always thinking of you. Picture on my door at work...always say hello and go for it...Your friend, S. Lucy batenhorst
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shannon lucy Batenhorst
climber
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Oct 18, 2007 - 02:26am PT
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Hey Mr. Bobby M.
Off you go to Home....the rocky mtns.
It was a great day Tues. at Steve's gym when he told us (Dale and I...old ladies who are getting ready for the Bejing Olympics..my specialty is the "snatch"...and Dale and Steve are in competition for jump rope ....have a photo from the jackson hole guide which will be at the center soon...what did Steve say, try to be stronger people...and we are/ Stay strong. Went on an adventure over the Snowy Range..for myself..but also thought of YOU. Stay strong. We will continue to keep on with the spirit..and always thinking of you. Picture on my door at work...always say hello and go for it...Your friend, S. Lucy batenhorst
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bunnypoo
climber
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Oct 18, 2007 - 09:26am PT
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Faith wrote 10/17:
Just a quick note to let you all know that Bobby and my mom made it
safely to Denver! The flight was smooth, easy and the critical care nurses
fantastic. More importantly, my mom called upon landing to say that
Bobby was out in the open air and breathing it in!! He's now at Kindred
Hospital with a view to a park and big tree in front.
Will keep you all posted.
All the very best and blessings abound,
Faith
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Maria
climber
Glenwood Springs, CO
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Oct 18, 2007 - 08:35pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
I am sending all my very best wishes for a speedy recovery to you!!! Hopefully the mountain air will help you get better faster.
All the best to you and your family,
Maria Henriksen
~from the good old days at castle rock "Fragglerock" ranch and cooke city when you impressed us with your stellar chainsaw skills
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Oct 18, 2007 - 10:02pm PT
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hey there bunnypoo.... wow! this is GREAT NEWS! BREATHING FRESH AIR... WOW!
thanks for letting everyone know that bobby got there safe...
still praying...
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Oct 22, 2007 - 01:24pm PT
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Hey Bobby and Clan,
Glad to hear you're finally in the mountain air. Love and prayers always sent your way. Brenda
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Tanya
Trad climber
Johannesburg
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Oct 23, 2007 - 02:30pm PT
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Hey Bobby! Although the writing is sparse the thoughts and prayers are not. I follow your recovery and am so glad to hear that your recent move has taken you to a beautiful place. Every time I read the postings I am struck by your worldwide support network of friends and of course family. Its awesome and inspiring! With all that love and strength surrounding you you can only get better. Heal soon my friend! Tee
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Oct 24, 2007 - 04:42pm PT
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hey B,
Still thinking of you of course. Thought I'd post a nice note from your buddy Matt Mosteller up in Canada. He didn't know that Faith was going to be in Banff at the Film Fest for a couple of days next week but his kids had already made their own little tribute to Bobby and I know Faith will get a kick out of it and you will enjoy hearing about it. So many out there who love you and pull for you daily to get through this....
Note from Matt:
Also please let Faith know that my kids- Murphy and Mackenzie created a tribute to Bobby and it is up at this years festival- believe it will be in area where more industry
types can see as they would have more of connection and need to know what
has happened and also hopefully provide more good prayers for Bobby!
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Lander
climber
Boulder
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Oct 25, 2007 - 09:43pm PT
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I'm in Boulder, so if you need a break for a hike or an extra room, let me know.
Steph
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Oct 26, 2007 - 01:31am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Well, according to your sister, the news from Denver is very good and it seems you are doing better by the day. She also said that you are finally able to spend a little time outside and that put a smile back on my face! I'm ever so proud of the fight you are putting on and I just can't wait for the day when you are fully back with us and we can look back on all the progress you have made.
Last week I stopped over in Nairobi on my way to Madagascar and had dinner with Jules and Eduardo. It was eerie being back there, driving from the airport to Langata, all these familiar places I always associate with you, but knowing that you were miles and hours away - in any event, I thought about you so hard and so much that you MUST have felt it. Then, after dinner, I saw the video of Jules and Eduardo's wedding and saw you on the dhow, about to land on the beach, looking very professional with all your gear, but also breaking in a big goofy grin from time to time: it totally made my day!
Things are good here in Madagascar, and I just came back from four days in the field. We were participating in a big sailing race along the west coast - basically across the Mozambique Channel from Tanzania - with about 25 "boutres", the traditional sailing boats that look a bit like the Kenyan dhows, and it was totally awesome. I will try and figure out how to post photos here and send you a bit of a taste of the whole thing. Otherwise, "work" is still going really well ;-)
Right, Bud, that's it for now. Remember that the distance does not matter one bit, that I think about you day in, day out, and that I constantly send you love, courage and all the strength in the world.
And, as always, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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bunnypoo
climber
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Oct 26, 2007 - 12:15pm PT
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Here's the good word from Faith 10/25:
Dear All,
Denver is proving itself rather quickly to be the "right" place for Bobby! It didn't take long to recalibrate from the momentum and slightly frenetic buzz of New York to the more peaceful, grounded and laid-back energy of Denver. Bobby has settled in incredibly well and we are all soo happy with
Kindred Hospital, where Bobby will be until he's ready for Craig. The days are very structured with alternating periods of high activity and rest, which makes much sense. The doctors, nurses and therapists at Kindred have been fantastic--blending meticulous and thoughtful care with a relaxed and easy feel (and Bobby has a great room with a view to lots of trees). The most exciting news is that Bobby has been able to respond with all sort of different hand signals to commands! AND he went outside and will be able to do so frequently. Things are really coming along and I'll be in touch sooner than later with more updates.
Visitors are really appreciated, but we're also still trying to fine tune Bobby's schedule and routine, so please do let us know beforehand if you're going to come by so we can figure out the best timing. Additionally: It is best to have only 1-2 people at a time with Bobby and when he looks like he is getting tired, it's important to let him rest. A 30-45 minute stay seems to be about right for now. Thanks!
Many many thanks to all of you for your phenomenal support, which continues to carry us all through--and look how far Bobby has come!
Lots of love always,
Faith
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Oct 27, 2007 - 12:54pm PT
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hey there all... faith, bunnypoo, etc...
do you have the full, proper address for the hospital, as i have saved for this gift to send bobby and i want to make sure it gets to the right spot...
i will check online too, for the proper place... please post soon, thank you so very much...
see--that greatoutdoors is just heaven's magic!
i am very happy for you faith, keep cheering your brother on!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Oct 27, 2007 - 05:28pm PT
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hey there bunnypoo and faith.. i sent the package to the hospital, with a note that it is for patient bobby model.. hope this works... god bless to all...
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J. Lehman
climber
Fort Collins, CO
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Oct 29, 2007 - 06:16pm PT
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Bobby,
I've been reading about your progress with regularity. I am not typically an emotional guy, but your and your family's strength, determination and love has brought me to tears. I am overjoyed that you are finding your way back home (both physically and geographically!) Welcome back to the West, keep plugging along Bobby, you will recover. You will get back to tromping across the world on exciting adventures that we all can read about in NG. You are an inspiration.
Josh Lehman
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Oct 29, 2007 - 07:05pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
Keep on working hard, my friend. Just spent yesterday with Amy and the kids and lots of friends celebrating Todd's birthday. I wish you could have been there but am glad as hell you are ANYWHERE at all. They built a great granite monument to him out at Red Canyon. I will get photos for you.
Faith says you are doing great things. Same as it ever was. I am so proud of you, man.
I will be by to see you soon.
Steve
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Nathan F
climber
Lander, WY & New York, NY
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Oct 30, 2007 - 01:13am PT
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Bobby, et al.
Well, sorry that you are no longer a subway ride away, but so glad you are in sight of the mountains (and perhaps jealous!).
Still sending city energy to you (the good parts of it anyway), and amazed at the unflagging energy that you have and inspire in your many friends.
thoughts from the east.
Nathan
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HR Coe
climber
Cody,WY
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Oct 30, 2007 - 01:44am PT
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Great to hear bobby is doing so well. It won't be long now before he comes back to everyone completely. I know having the Rocky Mountains nearby will speed up the process, especially if there are any mountains left in Colorado he hasn't climbed. As always sending prayers your way and wishing you all the best. Keep up the fight Model, we all miss ya.
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ThaVinci
climber
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Oct 30, 2007 - 12:21pm PT
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He there Bobby and Faith,
I am so happy to read this news. I heard about what happened not too long ago, and have been sending my best hopes and prayers ever since. Also people here at Unicef Netherlands were shocked and kept asking about you, feeling a sort of connection with Bobby just by having worked with his pictures from Kenya.
Working with you for two weeks in Kenya, traveling with you to some Unicef projects, was an amazing time. Travels like these are rare, as good and sometimes hard as it was, and Pamela, you and me being on such a good level with each other.
Everyone who loves his pictures as much as I do, see them on http://www.unicef-inside.nl, in bottommenu 'Andere landen' and 'Kenia' - forget about the Dutch text and just dwell on the pictures :-)
Ofcourse, as you know, the invitation to check out the Dutch mountains stands as solid as ever. Glad to see all the support you get, this is heart warming. Faith, get a big embrace for all you are doing, it's good to know you are at his side.
Big hug,
Vincent
ps As in Kenya, on our only day off at Hell's Gate, you were the climber and I was the runner (in awe of the climbers ofcourse). I just ran the marathon of Amsterdam to send you the strength!
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Oct 30, 2007 - 01:49pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
I'm staying with some friends in a beautiful full house in the hills of Antananarivo, and they have a GREAT cook, who cooks some of the best food in town. Tonight, she prepared a great quiche, crudite, salad, and ... what can only be described as peanut butter pasta! I swear, Bud, you haunt me all the way to Malagasy cuisine, and I just LOVE it.
Keep up the good work, Bud, and I'll keep thinking of you.
As always, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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shannon lucy Batenhorst
climber
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Oct 31, 2007 - 12:57am PT
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Hello Mr. Bob...Work out tonight w/ Steve and Ellen and the "Golden Girls"...Bug and Olive the gorgeous yellow lab girls. Still preparing for the olympics...now a jump rope contest ongoing with "the kid" Steve and Ms. Dale...who is whooping the sox off of the kid. He even tried to "cheat" tonite...hummmmm. Anyway, Dale is miles ahead. We did prepare (by Edward Scissorhand's method...snip, clip, glue!!!!) (too bad no time lapse video of us at work...forget this computer graphics stuff...we're into the real thing)...a worksheet for Steve to use as a training guide...will get a copy to you!!
Speaking of "Sox", in Denver Sat for game 3...with son Robert Doug in a hard cast, ankle, both bones...tib and fib...a "few" days in JH hospital with Dr. Champa/Teton Ortho at our side. Fortunately Sat Night the 20th ?? the night nurse's husband's grandfather /great grandfather??? was a former Red Sox player...We (my son says >>>I!!) were whooping, hollering...had to control the excitement or they'd send the Psych Unit down to take "the Mom
away...I don't think most who were there as patients noticed...
Though about you at Kindred...had a handicap parking ticket/ 9$ the cheapest part of the World Series ticket thing. Joe, partner at the Wild Iris, drove into the Handicap parking lot at Coors field...everyone had "sticks", wheel chairs, so for once Rob Douglas felt at home. Joe says, "where are the Handicap parking spots...????"...well there were at least 600 of them..whole parking lot painted blue for every parking spot w/ the WC logo...except for the Sox sweep...parking ALMOST the best part of the whole deal!!!
Couldn't help but cheer for the Rockies at the same time as the Sox...I suppose that's a little "split personality" at work...but who cares.
Love to hear that the Mtn. move has invigorated your outlook. Have a cool picture to mail from the JacksonHole Guide.
In seeing my son's dilemma with his horribly broken bones...and the outpouring from his friends...one w/ family in line when we arrived at Coors field...and right there to say hello and here's where to go...I cannot help but think of you and all the friends sending care and love....you, For Faith, for your Mom and Dad.
Another who cares...Shannon Lucy B.
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shannon lucy Batenhorst
climber
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Oct 31, 2007 - 01:00am PT
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Hello Mr. Bob...Work out tonight w/ Steve and Ellen and the "Golden Girls"...Bug and Olive the gorgeous yellow lab girls. Still preparing for the olympics...now a jump rope contest ongoing with "the kid" Steve and Ms. Dale...who is whooping the sox off of the kid. He even tried to "cheat" tonite...hummmmm. Anyway, Dale is miles ahead. We did prepare (by Edward Scissorhand's method...snip, clip, glue!!!!) (too bad no time lapse video of us at work...forget this computer graphics stuff...we're into the real thing)...a worksheet for Steve to use as a training guide...will get a copy to you!!
Speaking of "Sox", in Denver Sat for game 3...with son Robert Doug in a hard cast, ankle, both bones...tib and fib...a "few" days in JH hospital with Dr. Champa/Teton Ortho at our side. Fortunately Sat Night the 20th ?? the night nurse's husband's grandfather /great grandfather??? was a former Red Sox player...We (my son says >>>I!!) were whooping, hollering...had to control the excitement or they'd send the Psych Unit down to take "the Mom
away...I don't think most who were there as patients noticed...
Thought about you at Kindred...had a handicap parking ticket/ 9$ the cheapest part of the World Series ticket thing. Joe, partner at the Wild Iris, drove into the Handicap parking lot at Coors field...everyone had "sticks", wheel chairs, so for once Rob Douglas felt at home. Joe says, "where are the Handicap parking spots...????"...well there were at least 600 of them..whole parking lot painted blue for every parking spot w/ the WC logo...except for the Sox sweep...parking ALMOST the best part of the whole deal!!!
Couldn't help but cheer for the Rockies at the same time as the Sox...I suppose that's a little "split personality" at work...but who cares.
Love to hear that the Mtn. move has invigorated your outlook. Have a cool picture to mail from the JacksonHole Guide.
In seeing my son's dilemma with his horribly broken bones...and the outpouring from his friends...one w/ family in line when we arrived at Coors field...and right there to say hello and here's where to go...I cannot help but think of you and all the friends sending care and love....you, For Faith, for your Mom and Dad.
Another who cares...Shannon Lucy B.
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Nurse from South Africa
climber
South Africa
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Oct 31, 2007 - 03:19pm PT
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Hi Faith and Bobby. I've been trying to get hold of you, but was unsuccessfull. By chance I came accros this forum! I've read through all 699 messages! I'm glad to hear that things are getting better, and I am still amazed in your ongoing corrage and faith! We at the ICU in Somerset West are still thinking about you and you are in my constant thoughts Faith. It was wonderful meating all of you! My husband and I still want to come and visit you in Kenia. Where is Anne? Have you been back toe Kenia at all?
Please send my love you Bobby.
Estie Thirion
duanenestie@cinet.co.za
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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Hey Bobby,
So glad to hear that you are making such great progress and that Denver seems to be the medicine you need for your final leg of recovery,it must be the mountains in the back yard. I got all the recent info from Joe Max after he and Kay paid you a visit,Joe was full of good vibes. I know you will only improve with all the wonderful support you are getting and knowing that home is only 600 miles away. Ice is forming all over the Beartooths now and it won't be long before you are thowing picks at it.
Keep up the good work.
All Good Things,
Rob Hart
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HeatherSpooner
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Hi Friends,
Just a quick note to let you know that I am still keeping Bobby and all of you in my prayers. I'm so glad to read of his progress, and that he is back in the mountains again. Bobby - keep up the recovery!!
Heather Spooner Baker
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hey Bob-Meister,
At first I thought that I wanted to post something but didn't really have that much new to report. And then I realized that it doesn't matter that I have nothing new to report, or that I have already told you everything I want to write here. Some things just can never be said too much. Like how proud I am of you and of the fight you are putting up. Like how much I miss you and your goofy grin. Being in Africa makes the feeling more intense, but in truth I miss you all the time, even when I am stuck in a big bad city like Washington, because I can always see something beautiful, hear a song that touches me, meet with a person I really love, read something cool, drink a really good glass of wine, or a really cold beer - it doesn't matter what I do, Bud, everything that is good in this world reminds me of you. I hope you can feel the vibes and thoughts I send your way. I just wrote Faith that if thoughts and vibes could heal, you would have run in (and probably even won) yesterday's New York marathon! It doesn't matter to me that you are not yet up and running, though. What really matters is that you are here with us, fighting the fight, getting better every day and keeping all our hopes alive. What really matters is that we will never give up on you, but that we will wait until you are well and ready. So you just take your time, Bud, make sure you heal properly, and we will be there for you, living the good life that you have lived and will soon live again. I can't wait for you to be back, Bud, but I will wait, and I will always be there for you.
As always, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there... just a reminder to pray for bobby model in his new move.... hope it is going well...
god bless to his family, and his new journey of recovery.... snows will mostly come soon... hope it will be nice for his viewing... hope the box made it savely, too....
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Cheryl Bragonier-Vukelich
Social climber
Des Moines
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Bobby, I'm so tickled that you are able to get some fresh mountain air now and then. I would bet that even if it is cold out, you'll enjoy it! I was so praying that you would end up at Craig, they do a great job. Your also only about 12 hours away from us now, let me know if you feel like seeing "Scott's big sis". I'll come visit if you want me to. You might want to say a prayer for Scott today, he will be singing at Courtney F. memorial service today. He is so afraid that he won't be able to make it through the song. Thank God you are still with us Bobby, I don't know if Scott could of made it through loosing two good friends this year.
Love and Prayers,
Cheryl
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Hi Bobby,
Well Scott did a GREAT job at the funeral!! his voice is so amazing! That was one of the largest funerals I have ever been to. The amount of friends that Cort has is just incredible.
There was actual clapping at this funeral! There have been so many times that I have been at funerals and people get up and sing their hearts out and they leave the stage or podium and there is silence. So many times I have wanted to put my hands together and clap, not only for the job that they just did or the speech they just gave, but for the courage they put forth to get up there and show how much that person meant to them. I finally got to do it and it was incredible! My heart was full.
Cort's funeral has brought out a lot of feelings in me not to take things for granted. I want you to know that I don't take our friendship for granted. I wanted to write to you today just to express my feelings as your friend. I remember the time that we were all at Tommy Jacks talking and having a great time. Remember? your dad was there and Hank Coe and a lot of others. It was so fun to be in a place that we were all so comfortable and able to be ourselves and not worry about it. I have thought of that night often. It was so fun to just sit and talk to you and Kirt. I loved it. You helped that to be a memory that I will cherish my whole life. I feel that it is important to tell my friends how much they mean to me. In light of Cort's funeral, I feel even stronger about it. I feel that it is important to say that you are one of my friends and I am thankful that I know you. I am glad that you are still on this earth to be able to tell you this. You are one of the strongest people that I know and sometimes I find myself looking to you to gather strength from. You inspire me.
I just wanted to write to you today and tell you these things. I am constantly praying for you and praying for your family. You mean so much to so many people and we are all here just reading and watching for the words that we are all so anxious to read. The words that say you are back and you have recovered and you are ready to take on another mountain. For now though, we know that you are working away at a different kind of mountain. This mountain takes courage for you to climb everyday. I am just thankful that you keep finding that courage and putting it forth. You are a great man and I am glad that I can call you "my friend".
Janet
P.S. Hi Cheryl, we miss you and we think about you often. Feel free to give us a call sometime! You are our friend and we cherish you as well. Hope to see you soon!
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RN
Social climber
new york
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Nov 12, 2007 - 01:09am PT
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Hi Bobby,
This is Carol here the Scottish nurse who looked after you in
Mount Sinai Hospital in NYC.
From what I'm reading you really did not like our ( air and noise), and I am delighted to hear that your getting better and making significant progress.
Remember Bobby (small steps ).
It was a pleasure taking care of you and getting to know you and your beautiful family who never gave up on you. Faith your sister is aptly named because she was there for you always. By your bedside night & day & never gave up hope that you would come through this . Prayers from New York and, as far away as Bonnie Scotland are being sent to you and yours.
Love & hugs
Carol Anne McGowan.
"God bless you Bobby keep listening to the music."
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Nov 12, 2007 - 10:41pm PT
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hey there all... say, just giving this a bump... for some thanksgiving-soon-to-come, just around the corner holiday cheer... perhaps some nice messages can come in....
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Nov 13, 2007 - 11:37am PT
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Yes.... may this Thanksgiving be especially joyful for Bobby, his family and friends as Bobby continues to recover. The love and energy of Bobby's friends is a critical component in this process... now more than ever keep that inspiration alive. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love to all, Sharon and Bill
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Nov 13, 2007 - 12:00pm PT
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hey B - been hearing little cool tidbits through friends and your sis about progress you are making and am just really, really proud of you. I heard through your buddy Bill Hatcher that you pet a dog, Ella, that he brought by for a quick visit a few weeks ago and that was such a touching and wonderful thing to hear. And we hear you're communicating with different hand signals, my favorite was hearing about the "thumbs up" gesture upon hearing something you are in favor of. Keep it up buddy! We're all waiting patiently for you.
xo big hugs,
Liz
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Nov 13, 2007 - 01:40pm PT
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Hi Bobby,
It has been awhile since I've posted to your forum. Just as I said before, life is about change, and it seems that things are changing for you for the better, My life has changed some as well. I still think about you alot. I actually have a small Bobby shrine in my clinic office that reminds me to send my positive energy to you. One of the pictures was posted to your forum that your friend Mallamo took. It is of you in Skardu, Northern Pakistan and it is a very good picture. The other picture I took at Norwegian Olympics, you are hanging upside down from the rope swing by one arm and one leg.
A couple weeks ago I dreamt that we were all having a good time, like back in college. You were completely back to being the Bobby we know. I dreamt this right before awakening, and they say those are the dreams of the future.
Miss you ,
Love Heather
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ThaVinci
climber
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Nov 14, 2007 - 04:27am PT
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He Bobby and Faith,
I'm just sending out a big hug from Holland. I'm checking on you every couple of days, reading this heart warming forum. I will send a bunch of material from us, with Bobby's photos in Kenya soon, to his home address in the US. Hope you will have a beautiful sunny and snowy winter.
Love, Vincent
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Nov 14, 2007 - 06:58am PT
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a hearty hey, to bobby and faith, and your folks, over there...
fall is here and winter is in the air...
but first, there is a time of thanksgiving, that many do share...
it comes from our heart, and encompasses our past-days of roaming here-and-there...
one roamed-road, has been rough for you, bobby and faith...
but the good lord has been by your side, through this awful, hard race...
the new races to come, springing like light, upon the new day's window sill...
can bring thankful hearts, in spite of this past trial, even still...
as thankfulness runs deeper than just having a path of ease...
true thanksfulness puts us in awe, of overcoming things that we wish had not come-to-be...
by this we see, there is more to us, than we have ever known...
a deeper beauty, and quieter stength, that now will shine, and yet, not for US alone...
all hard chores, dear bobby and faith, will one day give life to other folks, 'tis true...
if they should ever face hardship, and sorrows, unjustly due...
you have been an inspiration, bobby, and a dear friend to many, with all your world-wide "explores"...
yet, now, your success with new goals, can richly touch many-a-folk-more...
may you both, and your folks, have the best time of thankgiving, ever...
and may the good lord wipe away any tears that still seek to linger, as if haunting-bad-weather...
and may some sun, shine through the winter-season's days ahead...
and bring you the strength that comes from the love, that sits around your bed...
as you hold hands and have a thankful heart, for this holiday season, so near...
may you be blessed deeply, in reaping a great harvest of joy, in that your family, is still able to embrace each other, this year....
bless your thankgiving, with this special family time...
and may you, bobby, enjoy this holiday, in ways most-pleasing, and just down-right fine!
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Kate Borgelt
climber
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Nov 14, 2007 - 02:07pm PT
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Faith and Bobby~
Sending lots of warm thoughts and love. I am thrilled when I hear about your progress, Bobby! YEA! Keep gaining strength... Kate
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JoeMax
Mountain climber
Belfry
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Nov 16, 2007 - 12:19am PT
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Dear Bobby,I'm sorry I have some Bad News for you.Our freind STANO has died.It is very sad .He died with his flannel jamies on, in bed.Not sure cause of death??Results of otopsey not yet conclusive.Apears as is his passing was peacefull.Furneal Saturday 1:oopm Saint Agnes in Red Lodge.Rememer your Freind Stano??He's up stairs now he'll be giveing you a hand on your journey thru recovery. You know Stano ! He's always there.Lots of Love,Strenght and Encouragement my Freind.Your moveing foreward,just keep moving!!!!.You Da Man!!! JOE
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Ingrid
climber
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Nov 16, 2007 - 10:45am PT
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Dear Bobby and Family,
I was very sad to hear about Bobby and Faith's accident. I am hopeful that he will continue to improve. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Best Regards,
Ingrid Behrens
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Daniel hayward
Mountain climber
Laramie Wyoming
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Nov 18, 2007 - 04:03pm PT
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Hi Bobby, Faith and Family,
The news of Bobby's progress in Denver is wonderful!! So incredible to hear!! Glad the trip to Denver went well.
I grew up in Denver, about 8 blocks from Craig Rehab. Not sure where Kindred is, however. But I will be in Denver this coming Sat for a late Thanksgiving with the family, and would love to visit Bobby and the family on Sunday or early the following week. How do I contact you about a visitation?
Only Bobby knows me, and I've only written one message several months ago on this forum. However, I believe he will remember me. Even if he doesn't, it will be a positive thing to visit with him and to hopefully meet some of the family.
Again, Faith, your spirit is a tremendous inspiration to me, and to hundreds of people!!! I send you my prayers that you recieve what you need as you provide such a powerful and indescribable service to your beloved brother!! And to all of us as well!!! It will be an honor to meet you and to visit with you!!
dhayward@wyoming.com is my email and my phone in Laramie is 742-6307 if you want to contact me for anything or to let me know how to contact you about a visitation.
All My Love and Prayers, Dan Hayward
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Nov 18, 2007 - 09:57pm PT
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hey there... just giving this a bump...
as the thanksgiving holiday will be here soon.. and some folks may get busy or will be out of town and can jump in early...
there's nothing like holiday wishes--these sure make a heart feel like tackling life in a great way!
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Kate Borgelt
climber
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Nov 19, 2007 - 05:50pm PT
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Does anyone have a more detailed update on Bobby's progress? I have read bits and pieces from some of the previous posts, but would love to hear more about how he is doing, progressing, how he is responding at Kindred, etc.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Nov 19, 2007 - 10:59pm PT
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hey there kate... keep checking... his family has been very kind to share with his friends here, and, with us unknown-folks, too, as we have prayed so much as well... he has not been there very long yet, as compared to NY....so just keep checking ....
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Nov 20, 2007 - 09:23am PT
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FIRST OF TWO UPDATES FROM FAITH:
Dear All,
First off, thanks again to everyone for the steady stream of incredible
support! Our gratitude is infinite.
Bobby continues to do well at Kindred and and has gotten a few days of real
sunshine! Progress is steady and all is well.
We recently had an important discussion with some of the staff at Kindred
about the visiting schedule/protocol for Bobby. We have all (including
Bobby) been touched by the support and the company, but there is a concern
that Bobby may be getting over-stimulated at times, which can be
counterproductive in the recovery process. Because of this, we need to
better regulate visiting hours and there may be days where we will have to
restrict visitors depending on how Bobby is doing. This is such a critical
time for Bobby in terms of healing and while we can see that he is eager to
engage and move forward, his physical body also needs time to build strength
so that it can support his cognitive recovery. This is a difficult and
sensitive balance because being with friends and family is also a very
crucial part of the healing process. So please bear with us as we navigate
through this so that all is aligned with Bobby's highest good.
The most important thing we ask is to please call my mom (307) 899-1586 or
me (303) 883-6734 before stopping by and we will figure out the best timing
for everyone. Popping in is hard on Bobby as he has a very routinized day
and it's important to maintain the structure.
The visits should be roughly 30 minutes, but if Bobby appears tired OR a
little too wide-eyed, then the visits need to be cut short.
Because of Bobby's history of pneumonia, it's also important to wash or
sanitize hands and wear gloves, which are located at the door.
Thanks to everyone for being so understanding and patient! You're all a huge
blessing.
With love,
Faith
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Nov 20, 2007 - 09:29am PT
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NOV. 20 UPDATE FROM FAITH:
Dear All,
As Thanksgiving approaches, I am moved to let you all know of the infinite
thanks we hold for this incredible support system. I've learned a great deal
about the things in my life that I am grateful for and want you to know that
we send thanks and love to all of you every day. And I am ever ever grateful
to my brother for being so strong in this journey; he is an inspiration.
Many apologies for not writing an update sooner, but things have been hectic
(in a good way). Bobby is doing so well and we anticipate a move to Craig
sometime next week. He is communicating well with his right hand and is
using all sorts of hand signals, clicking carabineers and playing with
bouldering holds and basically anything he can get his hand on. His left arm
is week, but he is beginning to move that a bit more every day (and the team
at Craig will work on this as well). An evaluating nurse from Craig arrived
at Kindred on Friday and asked Bobby if he felt he was ready for Craig and
he immediately gave her a thumbs up! The news is all tremendously
encouraging and I think we're all ready for this transition.
In other news, I am heading home to Kenya as I write and will be unavailable
on my phone (altho I can check messages). I'll be back on Dec 3rd, but will
always be available on email and my number in Kenya is: 254-720-733-550. My
mom will be in Denver and her cell is: 307-899-1586.
Because of the transition to Craig, the visiting protocol is a little up in
the air, but just call my mom and I will also keep everyone posted.
Happy happy Thanksgiving and thank you, thank you.
With love,
Faith
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jet
climber
red lodge mt
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Nov 20, 2007 - 12:19pm PT
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Hey Bobby Faith thanks for all the updates, you have been wornderfull, have a great Thanksgiving. Bobby keep up the positive attidude, and work hard. It is snowing here in Red Lodge, got about a foot over night. The ski area plans to open on the first of December. All is well here in R L. You are in your thoughts .Your pal Jet and faimly
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handsome B
Gym climber
SL,UT
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Nov 20, 2007 - 01:43pm PT
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It's amazing the strength Bobby, Faith and the whole crew behind them have.
Simply amazing.
As always, Salt Lake says "Keep up the awesome work!"
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Nov 21, 2007 - 07:27pm PT
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happy thanksgiving, faith and bobby and family... what a wonderful update to start the nearlyyyyyyyyyyyy new year, soon upon you all.......wishing you strong peaceful days of conquest and joy....
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Nov 22, 2007 - 05:08am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
There are so many things I want to give thanks for this year, great job, great country I'm working in, great friends, great family, great life ... But this year, there is ony one thing I really give thanks for: for you, for the way you are doing, for the fight you are putting up, for Faith, for your parents, and for all those who are there for you.
Happy Thanksgiving, Bud, I miss you and I keep thinking of you.
And, as always, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Nov 27, 2007 - 10:51am PT
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Model Crew, I glad about the news of Bobby getting better all the time. Faith have a safe trip. Mom sent me a clipping from the Cody paper about you congrats on the award you deserve it and so much more. My day isn't complete until I read this forum and hearing the good news on Bobby is always a blessing. Thank you for keeping us involved. My prayers are always with you in mind. Stay safe, Brenda
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betsysell
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Nov 30, 2007 - 12:35pm PT
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Bobby, Faith, Jim, and Ann,
Just wanted to let you all know that you continue to be in my daily prayers. Such good news about your progress, Bobby. I've heard wonderful things about Craig. Continue to mend and heal each day.
Faith, you are probably in Africa by now so enjoy some time there. Saw a special article about you in the Cody Enterprise. Congratulations!
Ann and Jim, take good care of yourselves and enjoy some time with Bobby.
Sincerely,
Betsy Sell
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there... just a bump, before i am off for the night...
i had seen some folks planning climbs for the holidays... so i though perhaps there may be some of bobby's buddies around, too, planning stuff for the holidays that he may like to hear about...
so when some of you all show up here, as many do keep showing up:
go for it, guys....
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there to bobby and his family...
as winter is upon us all..
and your winter, stamina, must stand tall...
here's a few winter quotes from others in life...
that encourage or give out views of ongoing insight...
as the snow comes down..
and you are warm, snug, and sound...
perhaps one-day bobby will decide it should be...
he himself, writing winter verses, too, you see...
god bless... here they are:
In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.
Albert Camus (1913 - 1960)
If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant: if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome.
Anne Bradstreet (1612 - 1672), 'Meditations Divine and Moral,' 1655
In the bleak midwinter Frosty wind made moan, Earth stood hard as iron, Water like a stone; Snow had fallen, snow on snow, Snow on snow, In the bleak midwinter, Long ago.
Christina Rossetti (1830 - 1894), A Christmas Carol
Every mile is two in winter.
George Herbert (1593 - 1633), Jacula Prudentum
One kind word can warm three winter months.
Japanese proverb
Winter is on my head, but eternal spring is in my heart.
Victor Hugo (1802 - 1885)
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Bobby's Mom
Social climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Dec 12, 2007 - 12:32pm PT
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Neebee,
What is YOUR address or how can I reach you?? I want to thank you for the incredible meowing CAT! It's a pet with NO problems or cat box. Not many mice (hopefully) in the hospital anyway. You are so thoughtful!!! Keep the quotes coming. They are a huge boost!!
Bobby scheduled for surgery next week on his problematical backside aka bedsore. A bitch bump but then Craig Rehab. We are ready and so is Bobby! Faith will be sending you the Craig address for cards, etc. Have a wonderful Xmas and look forward to hearing from you.
Love, Anne aka Bobby's Mom
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Kate Borgelt
climber
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Dec 14, 2007 - 12:51pm PT
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Faith and Bobby~
I think of you both daily and send lots of healing prayers. Keep growing stronger everyday!! My love, love, love. Kate Borgelt
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Dec 14, 2007 - 07:22pm PT
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hey there bobby's mom.. will find more quotes for bobby...
i sent you an email...
thanks for letting us all know to be praying for the next steps... the holidays of christmas and new year are soon upon us... may they be more wonderful than ever expected....god bless....
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Dec 15, 2007 - 05:43pm PT
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hey there bobby's mom/ann... say, hope you made it to denver okay--did i remember that right?
here are some more quotes.. first winter, and reflections on how even our life seasons, move with this:
SHARED FROM:
http://www.factmonster.com/spot/winterquotes1.html
Compiled by Ann-Marie Imbornoni:
1)Announced by all the trumpets of the sky,
Arrives the snow.
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882)
Poems, "The Snowstorm," 1884
2)Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village though;
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.
Robert Frost (1874-1963)
"Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening," 1923
3)I prefer winter and fall, when you feel the bone structure in the landscape . . .
Andrew Wyeth (1917- )
quoted by Richard Meryman in The Art of Andrew Wyeth, 1973
4)In winter I get up at night
And dress by yellow candlelight.
Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)
A Child's Garden of Verses, "Bed in Summer," 1885
5)It snowed and snowed, the whole world over,
Snow swept the world from end to end.
A candle burned on the table;
A candle burned.
Boris Pasternak (1890-1960)
Doctor Zhivago, 1958
6)Over the river and through the wood,
To grandfather's house we go;
The horse knows the way
To carry the sleigh,
Through the white and drifted snow.
Lydia Maria Child (1802-1880)
Flowers for Children, "Thanksgiving Day," 1844-1846
NOW--PERHAPS you all can glean from these winter verses, as to the order that i posted them in, and picture what you are going through now---go back and match the numbers to the encouragement:
1)first comes the harolding of a "hard season"
we see in the "air" about us...
2)then, we see how it "layers out" around us and others, whether the "others" are nearby or not--it is affecting all...
3)yet, in this "new landscape" (the hospital) you see and learn the "inner structure" of "holding up inside"...
4)you go prepare and face it, as if by "candle light"...
5)trouble seems to drag-out long and dreary, yet the "light stays"...
6)then, the day comes when we "travel over" the troubles, and go to share "thanksgiving" with our friends/family--even through the "trouble" still lays about (as spring has not yet come)...
prayers and best wishes for the good news of the craig move...
bless you bobby model--winter can be a challenge, but this you know, as you've pushed-through many outdoor winters, as we have learned from, by seeing a few of your snow-picture adventures!
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Dec 17, 2007 - 03:08am PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Am sitting at the Java House in the ABC Center, with Julie, and I have to say, all we keep talking about is .... YOU! I hope you can feel the good vibes coming your way because that's all we've been doing all week-end long. I even saw the pics you took of Jules and Eduardo's wedding and of course, they are completely awesome. We drove by Quarry Lane in Karen on Friday and as we did, we both yelled "hi Bobby" so you (as well as all your neighbours, no doubt ...) may have heard us all the way from Denver...
We had a brilliant week-end in Naivasha, went for a boat ride on the lake, saw some AMAZING birds (my favorite was the fish eagle) and came a little close to a few hippos for my taste. We also had dinner at the Talisman, went to the top of Julie's farm - with a breath-taking view of the lake, played around with our Macs, Jules went riding - I tell you, Bud, you had an awesome week-end, albeit vicariously ....
The news from Faith is that you keep improving, with a few bumps in the road, which strikes me as exactly how driving in Nairobi is - how appropriate. I know that already you know this, but you can never hear it enough: we're all thinking of you, our thoughts, our prayers, all the good vibes in the world are coming your way. So, don't worry about a thing, take your time, keep improving, keep regaining your strength, keep giving your family the now famous thumbs up, and know that we are all there, by your side, no matter how far we may be.
And, as always, remember that I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Dec 17, 2007 - 03:09pm PT
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Hey Bobby! I heard from a few different people through the grape-vine how much positive progress you are making. I just want you to know how proud of you I am. You have always been the consummate worker in all things you do. Here's to moment by moment progress! Remember that nothing ever happened in the past or will happen in the future, it happens only right now at this moment. So here's to you for keeping it in the "Now". You are much loved and admired by all of your friends that you've grown up with. Most of your friends from Cody sure don't write much, but I'm here to tell you that we talk about you, your sister and your progress all the time. You have always taken the hard road, but as we've seen, it's usually the most scenic! Merry Christmas and here's to 2008! Keep it coming!
Your Pal,
Lyon
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Jakeb
climber
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Dec 18, 2007 - 10:45am PT
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I have to admit that I feel kinda guilty for not writing as much but I check this site everyday without fail!! I am simply waiting for word from Faith that Bobby is chillin' at Craig and ready for some visitors!!!
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Alane
climber
Ithaca, NY
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Dec 18, 2007 - 01:18pm PT
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Faith,
I thought it had been way too long, so I looked you up and quickly realized what a tough year you and your family have had. You were there for me in my toughest times, and I will always be here for you if you need a friend (even a long, lost one).
Please take care this holiday season. You'll be in my heart.
Alane
akcahalane@yahoo.com
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Dec 19, 2007 - 08:37pm PT
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hey there to bobby's mom ann, and BOBBY:
CHRISTMAS QUOTES, NOW... hope they get you all ready for the christmas and new year holiday... (will even find you all some new year quotes, too)... here you go:
SHARED FROM:
http://www.theholidayspot.com/christmas/quotations.htm
2. "If there is no joyous way to give a festive gift, give love away."
~ Unknown
5. "Christmas, my child, is love in action. Every time we love, every time we give, it's Christmas."
~ Dale Evans Rogers
6. "Christmas gift suggestions:
To your enemy, forgiveness.
To an opponent, tolerance.
To a friend, your heart.
To a customer, service.
To all, charity.
To every child, a good example.
To yourself, respect."
~ Oren Arnold
9. "I have always thought of Christmas as a good time; a kind, forgiving, generous, pleasant time; a time when men and women seem to open their hearts freely, and so I say, God bless Christmas!"
~ Charles Dickens
10. "Christmas is not a time nor a season, but a state of mind. To cherish peace and goodwill, to be plenteous in mercy, is to have the real spirit of Christmas."
Calvin Coolidge
13. "Happy, happy Christmas, that can win us back to the delusions of our childhood days, recall to the old man the pleasures of his youth, and transport the traveler back to his own fireside and quiet home! "
--Charles Dickens
14. "The only real blind person at Christmas-time is he who has not Christmas in his heart."
Helen Keller
16. "There is no name so sweet on earth, no name so sweet in heaven, The name, before His wondrous birth, to Christ the Savior given."
George W. Bethune
17. "Christmas is a season for kindling the fire for hospitality in the hall, the genial flame of charity in the heart."
Washington Irving
20. A Christmas candle is a lovely thing; It makes no noise at all, But softly gives itself away; While quite unselfish, it grows small.
Eva K. Logue
26. At Christmas I no more desire a rose
Than wish a snow in May's new-fangled shows,
But like of each thing that in season grows.
William Shakespeare
here's to you bobby.. i dont know you, of course... but my heart is like the heart of all good sisters, mothers and grandma, and good buddies, all rolled into one...
hope these quotes, to just what they say:
hope they cause the good lords' REAL christmas LOVE to abound and move in the midst of you all, glow unselfishly, and shine light on blind spots, bring back childhood joys... kindle more love, and hope you have a wonderful list of unwrapped gifts of the heart being shared around you bed, and in your room...
and perhaps you all can pretend its a bit of wyoming snow, outthere... as well... but just for a BIT---as the last quote says to enjoy EACH thing in its SEASON....
this year will one day be cherished for what it is... as you step into the future... god bless...
happy christmas to you all, a mite EARLY.... MORE to come later...
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Dec 20, 2007 - 10:17am PT
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12-20 update from Faith
Dear All,
Warmest of greetings to everyone. Just wanted to let you all know that Bobby
has moved to Craig! Happy holidays indeed. Although Bobby won't be able to
start his official rehab for another month (he'll be on bed-rest due to the
surgery on his pressure ulcer), he will be able to move forward on a number
of therapies and we are absolutely THRILLED with Craig! It's an enormous
relief and while there is lots more to tell, I don't have a great deal of
time at the moment, but will write more soon.
Blessings and lots of joy to all of you!
Faith
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Dec 20, 2007 - 11:04pm PT
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hey there faith... god bless and how very wonderful for you all... this will truly be a wonderful start for your new year... thank you for so kindly shareing with all us strangers that have joined along side, here, along with your dear friends, to cheer you all on....
happy pre-christmas and new year... in case i am off and running for the holidays ....
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Dec 23, 2007 - 08:08pm PT
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Such wonderful news!!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Dec 24, 2007 - 04:04pm PT
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hey there bobby,and all your family...
may this evening, in just a few hours, be a warm way of sharing an eve of new beginnings, and, for the soon coming new year, just a week away, as well...
may the good lord continue to go on ahead of you, forging new ways, and smoothing out the rough spots, so you can once again manuever through life, as a most creative adventurer, full of the love the good lord's good earth, sea, and wonderful sky above...and more important--with those you love and admire as a happy throng of friends and good buddies from all over...and, of wyoming, to boot...
may you count your blessing, with the view of each and every star....
happy christmas eve to you, bobby and your mom, and all that are with you this night!...
** say, hope that BIG KITTY is giving a good therapy workout---keep it purring... !!!!....
happy "snow is glistening" season, too...
sing some happy SONGS, you all...they are MEDICINE to the heart, and bring out the young child in us all... :)
*say, perhaps an address, for the new year, and we can send some cards... god bless... happy christmas eve, and day!
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Aryn Rossett
climber
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Dec 25, 2007 - 03:21pm PT
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Faith, Bobby and family,
Merry Christmas! I'm sending you warm thoughts and continued prayers.
Much love,
Aryn
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Dec 25, 2007 - 10:23pm PT
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Merry Christmas friends.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Dec 26, 2007 - 01:37am PT
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hey there... happy sweet christmas day to you bobby's mom, bobby, faith, all the rest of family and all included over there...
god has a way of doing unexpected wonderful things, from the barreness of heartfelt woes... he just did something too wonderful for words here, for me, from a family sorrow--as to some well-needed new-life for those i love...
may he do even more wonderful unexpected new-life things for you and your loved ones, bobby and all, as a gift of prayer for you all...
happy sweet christmas day! god bless...
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Yourguy
climber
Flushing
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Dec 26, 2007 - 03:43pm PT
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Hi Faith,
You may not remember me but I met you and your brother a while ago while working for your father in the mid 1990's at Stillrock Management. I heard through one of your dad's business partners about Bobby and I was shocked and saddened. You and your brother were so warm and genuine in your kindness that it left a lasting impression. It's obvious by reading the many messages left by well wishers that Bobby has had that affect on many others.
However, I'm really happy to hear that Bobby is improving and that with such a wonderful network of family and friends supporting him and praying for his recovery I believe he will continue to regain his vigor. I'd like to extend a warm and heartfelt Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you and yours.
Sincerely,
David Vasquez
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ashley
climber
NY, NY
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Dec 27, 2007 - 11:24am PT
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Dearest Bobby, Faith and all of the Models -
I have been thinking about all of you a lot this Christmas, and saying prayers for Bobby; I know that right now he's surrounded by friends and family and that he's radiating with your love and positive energy.
I want to send Bobby a few things to his room at Craig - momentos from my recent trip to Kenya,etc. - and will try to track down his address. (Faith, let's talk very soon!)
I know that 2008 will bring good things for Bobby! Happy New Year and much love to all of you,
Ashley
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shannon lucy Batenhorst
climber
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Dec 28, 2007 - 11:27am PT
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Dear Bobby M. and "Bob's Mom"...from "Rob's Mom"...deep lucious snow, maybe 30 inches since a week ago here. The black lab Lucy is sliding down the tall piles as if she is a seal...on her back, tummy, and smiling as only a black lab can smile! She is recovering well from a visit to "The Mayo Clinic for DOGS" (and all other creatures, big and small) at the CSU vet school. Must have poked a bit of a stick thru her lower soft mouth and it formed a hemotoma the size of a Red Sox baseball...pushing on her wind pipe. So she is better now and will finish chemo over the next 3 months. Too bad her "Mother" hasn't lost the 5 pounds Lucy has...maybe I should try running and playing, sniffing, and sliding down snow hills. Rob the son has just yesterday returned to Casper...the ankle is healing nicely...so it would seem that the TLC of MOMs, family, and friends is "some of the best medicine" now matter where one is. Cold, cold...and snowy all the way to Casper over the Jeffrey City-Muddy Gap route. Snow piled high and crusty against the snow fences. The usual blowing skiffs of snow across the road and ice on the highway glowing in the headlights. Saw two young bald eagles sitting on fence posts along the Independence Rock - Alcova way. They had their feathers and wings pulled in tight against their bodies and the cold. There is a good Liz McCabe photo of Mt. Moran, capped in snow,in the JH News and Guide this week so will get it wrapped up and sent to you. Also some photos of Mountain Sheep on the Cody side of the Absoraka. The Dubois side of the Absorakas were coated in snow so I am sure the Cody side is as well. So pleased to hear that you are doing well as can be. Too bad I can't share the "cush" of my "tush" and intervene in those pressure spots. Take care and I will keep my eyes and ears open on our drive to JH today. Shannon Lucy aka "Rob's Mom"
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Karl Baba
Trad climber
Yosemite, Ca
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Dec 28, 2007 - 11:38am PT
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I hadn't been following this thread because I hadn't bet Bobby. I saw that it had 750 post and figured it must have been sidetracked to some other subject, particularly some personal attacks or other venom.
Obviously not and pleasantly so. With friends like you, of course he's doing well. He has a lot to get better for.
Best wishes to all for health, healing and love.
Peace
Karl
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Cruiser
Mountain climber
Cody
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Dec 29, 2007 - 05:36pm PT
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Hello Bobby,
It's been too long since I've written to you. It's been cold and clear in the valley the last few weeks. Santa Claus brought me a new 4 season tent for my ventures into the winds, tetons, bighorn, and beartooth adventures. The January edition of CLIMBING page # 87 you are mentioned along with my dear friend Todd Skinner. What a great eye you have for the outdoor experience to show the rest of the world. Hope this note finds you happy and ready to conquer the next summit to recovery.
Off Belay,
Kirt Cozzens
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Jaime
climber
Michigan
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Dec 29, 2007 - 09:49pm PT
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Faith and Bobby,
I just wanted to let you know that you remain in my thoughts daily and I am wishing you a new year of continued progress and success... in small steps and in leaps and bounds.
All my love,
Jaime
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Borgelt
Social climber
Denver
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Dec 31, 2007 - 02:20pm PT
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Faith & Bobby~
Wishing you lots of love and healing in the new year. You both enter my mind every single day! Much love, love, love!
Kate
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Dec 31, 2007 - 03:35pm PT
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hey there annie, bobby's mom....
happy new year, as it will soon be upon us...
happy new year, there bobby!!! faith, and all of you!...
best wishes for a greater success than you ever dreamed of, at craig... it's a hard mountain to climb, but PLANT THAT VICTORY FLAG! (AND----smile, too!)
once again, happy new year!
*annie, i will put some more quotes up here, too...
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Happy New Year Friends May you all stay strong and keep Bobby and Family in our Prayers.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there... in case the little new year-card thread/post was too small and you did not know of it... these are some new year wishes for bobby--sure did not want him to without! god bless you annie and all:
HAPPY NEW YEAR BOBBY MODEL!!!
AND MAY THIS YEAR BE MORE THAN SWELL!!!
MAY THE SUN SHINE THROUGH THE HAZE...
AND MAY THE ROUGH SPOTS OF LIFE, NOT FAZE...
MAY FRIENDS AND FAMILY SHARE A TOAST OF JOY!!!
FOR THEIR MUCH BELOVED, PAL, AND BOY!!!
HAPPY NEW YEARS EVE, AND DAY...
YEP--WISHING IT BE RICH, IN EVERYWAY...
well, bobby, card-time is over now...
and new years day, done, oh wow...
sure hope you had the BEST day of the year...
right here-and-now, among the celebrating-cheer...
course, if you had the BEST today...
then, i NOW must wish you EVEN BETTER in-many a-way!...
there is so much to see-and-do...
beyond the hospital, in the great outdoor-blue...
its all there for you-and-yours...
wow--sure hope you won't be a-getting-bored...
work hard, young man, and reach for the gold...
say, with all those hands among you, to help and uphold...
it will come, dear sir, and you will see...
out of the bad, great good can STILL come to thee...
HAPPY NEW YEAR BOBBY!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there to bobby and family... say, had not seen any new post.. hope you are all well, in the midst of winter...
just letting you know, you are not forgotten here by the folks...
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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FORGOT TO POST THE LATEST UPDATE FROM FAITH:
Dear All,
I sincerely wish all of you--and everyone everywhere--a 2008 that is
fulfilling in all ways. And I also wish everyone fun and joy as much as
possible. Thank you for supporting us through this past year, which has now
been put to rest as a fresh year begins. I know that for some of you it's
been a painful and difficult year in many ways. I hope that this coming year
will bring greater peace, ease and grace into everyone's lives. As for me, I
will carry with me the many blessings of friendship, support and true
community that you have given all of us.
Bobby is recovering from his surgery (pressure ulcer) and will be on bed
rest for another 3 weeks. Unfortunately, it's fairly uncomfortable, but
things will only improve over the next few weeks and he is on some powerful
pain meds (thank God for that). Thankfully, surgeries are now behind him and
once this recovery is complete, rehab will finally begin in full.
Thank you all for holding the space for Bobby's recovery, he is moving ever
forward and I look forward to relaying more and more positive news. Your
thoughts, words, prayers and hopes are still sooo appreciated and we send
them back exponentially to all of you, especially this week.
I'm also sending so much love and comfort to the Rohrbach family, now and
always.
With love and gratitude in 2008 and beyond,
Faith
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there faith and all....
say, thanks so very much for the update... so many of us have prayed and then cheered bobby onward into forward motion for so long... we look forward to his many victories!
so very glad the surgery went well... hope he is enjoying the view of some beautiful snowfalls..
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Jan 13, 2008 - 03:30pm PT
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Trust all is going well...you're in our thoughts as always.
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Carly Sporer Garrett
Social climber
La Mesa, CA
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Jan 13, 2008 - 04:18pm PT
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Hi Model Family-
I moved from Cody 20 years ago- but am truly moved by all this love and support for Bobby. I check here once a week to see how he is doing.
I live in California now- and have raised my kids in the city. Seeing the passion in Bobby's work has motivated me. I bought sleeping bags for Christmas and we are all going camping.
Thanks Bobby for reminding me how great it is to get out there. I am sending you all the best thoughts for healing.
Carly Sporer Garrett
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wooderson454
climber
greeley, co
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Jan 15, 2008 - 06:06pm PT
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Bobby and Family,
We've never met, though we've shared some belayers over the years. I'm just shaking off the after effects of a marrow transplant aimed at ending a 2 yr wrestling match with the cancer beast. I feel like Bobby's on another peak of his own, tenuously making way toward the summit. Over the past few months I've watched from my own perches, inspired by sheer will, difficulty of the line, and the cowboy tenacity to still be hangin there after storms. Just wanted to send some thoughts across the chasm, you are all inspiring. The pride and fortitude displayed by the family and circle of friends attests to the paths in life each of you chose...tip o the hat to you and may you all find peace in that. May the sky see you on the sunny slopes of the southfork on a calm cold winters day soon Bobby!
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Jan 16, 2008 - 05:10pm PT
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Hey guys just touching base and letting you know you are in my prayers daily. Bobby, I was visiting mom this weekend and as ususal drank my daily coffee from the mug you gave me for Christmas one year. As always it put a smile on my face and thoughts of you in my mind. Love you guys.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jan 22, 2008 - 04:18am PT
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hey there... just hoping bobby is doing fine... if he is missing adventures of winter, perhaps a nice indoor slide show, or something may stimulate him to the inspiration of the great outdoors.... just a thought...
god bless.. :)
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Jorie
climber
Boston/Kyoto
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Jan 23, 2008 - 09:36am PT
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Dear Cousins Bobby, Anne,and Faith,
Sending continued New Year's greetings from Kyoto coupled with the power of Fuji-san in all it's glory. I am sure you all could could jog up it but I'd prefer to sit in a hot spring and gaze at it from below. Wanting you all to know how much we pray for those encouraging signs of growth and improvement. Please keep us informed so as to best visualize and focus our powers of love and healing. Hugs all around and lots more. JJ ;--->
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Jan 25, 2008 - 05:08pm PT
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Checking for updates daily and sending healing vibes.
Love to all of you.
TCKenney
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jan 26, 2008 - 07:39pm PT
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hey there to bobby's mom... with all this snow around now, i am looking for some kind of quotes to with it all... new ones... god bless...
say, have you tried doing some slide-shows for bobby...?
say, bobby... keep takeing care of that big white cat! cats like lots of attention!
god bless!
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elemental
Gym climber
Lander, Wyoming
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Jan 30, 2008 - 02:04pm PT
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JAN. 30, 2008 UPDATE FROM FAITH
Dear All,
Many apologies for the dwindling updates! I will try to be better about
these. January was fairly mellow for Bobby as he has been on bed-rest, which
is a tough place to be for 5 weeks. BUT this week he is starting to sit up
and the therapists will begin to flex his hips. This is a slow process as
they want to make sure that the skin flap on Bobby's sacrum stays intact
(but it has healed really well). Bobby's rehab doctor--Alan Weintraub--is
also dialing down Bobby's shunt, which will help to harmonize the fluid
dynamics in his brain. SO--these two things are big big steps on the road to
recovery. I will keep you posted as to how this process evolves. But all in
all, things are moving forward slowly, but surely!
Many thanks for all the continued support, emails, letters, thoughts and
visits! We are--as always--grateful. And Bobby is still feeling all the
support very strongly, of that I'm sure.
Lots going on in the world these days and I'm just sending our very best to
everyone everywhere.
With love and thanks,
Faith
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there faith, bobby's mom, all, and bobby...
thank for you letting us all know how bobby is doing...
i am pressing on in prayer again this weekend... my friend, she has a shunt, and it can be scary, obviously, if something goes wrong....
three cheers for bobby, as he works at sitting up, hopefully in the near future...
*remember, when it does seem so very hard, not only are you learning and blazing a trail---but---your are leaving mighty good fine tracks for others to follow, as well... and you will be support to many that may some day need your wisdom, strenth, and tenacity:
the only way you can then share, will be by leaving your precious experience to pass down to others...
and bobby---well, someday, bobby, you can seek to share whatever victories are most precious to you, for whatever need arises for those around you.... or for your own joy... :)
keep following the trail--so's you can a HUGE FLAG ON TOP...
saying:
bobby model was here... and now he's off to conquer more!
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Hey Bobby! Good news! Well I wanted to let you know that I'll be seeing your old belay slave Lance today. He now lives in Las Cruces, NM(about two hours from were we live now). He is married and has a little boy named Kale. God help us but Lance has procreated! It will be great to see him. We all sure had a lot of fun together over the years. I'm suprised Lance is still alive after all the questionable places you would take him climbing and skiing. Remember that time when we all went spring skiing in the Beartooths and Lance was on his tele's and we decided to ski one of the steepest runs there, you know the one where you started down you couldn't see the middle of the run because it got so steep it was concave? What I remember is that you, Selk and I and maybe Jake were about half way down right before it got really steep. We could see Lance up top and he said he was coming down. He took two turns off the top,we heard a scream, he went down and went flailing past,like he fell out of an airplane us all and slide all the way to the bottom. Some how he didn't die on the rocks below. It was so scary and so funny at the same time. I remember climbing, Lance would pop off the rock and you would let him drop almost to the ground then catch him and watch him bounce up and down while he aimed kicks at your head. Ah, the good old day's. Anyway, get healing and get better. We are proud that your doing better and look forward to a healthy 2008!
Your friend,
Lyon
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Sorry it's been a while but I have been going back and forth between Washington and Madagascar for way too long, and the sad thing is that it's not about to end ... And of course, while I was home for just two weeks last month, I spent 10 of those days in bed with the mother of all bronchitis! So, not to make too many excuses, but sorry I've been such a slacker. Still thinking about you lots, though, and sending you good vibes and love, all across the Mozambique Channel, the width of Africa, the Atlantic and a good part of the North American continent. Not sure what the exact mileage that represents but I still know that it's peanuts when I think of all the joy in my heart whenever I think of you ... Oh yeah, and when I was in DC I had coffee with Liz, who showed me some old pictures of you: there is NO WAY your ears were not ringing full blast then as we laughed and reminisced about you!
I will be back in the US in a short week, and then I will try and call Faith or your Mum for the latest. The last email was pretty positive, though, so I know the news will be good. In the meantime, I need you to do me a favor, Bud, and give Faith a big thumbs-up or squeeze her hand extra-hard on her special day. I don't know about you, but I feel that your little sister is pretty special and I think everyone who knows you guys shares in the feeling. In any event, take good care of yourself, take your time coming back to us, and always know that you are loved much more than words can ever tell.
Remember too that I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Feb 19, 2008 - 08:38pm PT
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hey there bobby and family...
say, you are still thought and prayed for, by all of us, yes, we...
say, when winter hits the hardest, as it seems to have been...
spring is just soon-to-be all the better, then...
hold you hopes up high...
and your spirit's dreams nigh...
when the warm sun again shines...
may even more hope, be thine...
*god bless, for your high places and tough trails...
to put all the more stamina, in your ol' inner-self's, sails...
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JBoydston
climber
Deep South
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Feb 20, 2008 - 10:50pm PT
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Keep fighting Bobby! You are making progress and we are all rooting for you!!! When you have the time, I want to know about any (surely obscure, maybe good... maybe not so much?) routes that you've done on those flatironish fins north of the resivoir on your family's land. I was visiting family over Christmas and looking up that valley reminded me of you and the fun you must have had on those formations over the years. Take care and keep up working hard.
All our love,
The Boydstons
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Nathan Roy
Social climber
melrose, ma
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Feb 21, 2008 - 01:57pm PT
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Bobby, Faith, and Ann,
I'm sorry i don't write in very oftn, but I just keep thinking about how all 3 of you were such a great comfort to my family during such a difficult time, and it makes me sad or maybe even angry that you are going through this. We all think of you often, my folks included. I hope the progress continues, and please know you have our love and support.
Nathan, Deirdre, Jackson, Madison, and Taylor Roy
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Feb 22, 2008 - 03:22pm PT
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Hey, Just a note to let you know I'm thinking of you (on a daily basis) hope all is going good. I was in Cody, January and on my way to moms I always drive by your place, Bobby, and wish I could stop and visit with you. When you get home expect a visit from me!! I'm still thinking of you when I give my massages and hope you can feel the love I'm sending. Faith and Ann you guys are the best! Take care of yourselves and stay safe. Brenda
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Feb 25, 2008 - 08:29am PT
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Update 2/24/8
Dear All,
I hope this email finds everyone well! In Denver, there are strong hints of
spring and I'm excited for Bobby to venture outside as the air warms.
Things continue to move forward for Bobby at a steady pace with the typical
ups and downs, which just seem to be part of the healing equation. The great
news is that he's sitting up again and becoming slowly more involved in
various therapies. From my perspective (based on Bobby's expressions and
other subtleties), it seems like stretching and moving not only feels good,
but it's also beginning to stimulate things. He is off all antibiotics and
is now only on low doses of pain killers. There is some question about how
well his shunt (which keeps the fluid dynamics in his brain harmonized) is
working. It's definitely functioning, but they are currently doing a few
tests on whether it's working well enough. But in general, we all feel
positive about Bobby's progress.
I believe Bobby is in the flow of his healing process and engaging it with
as much originality and flavor as he has always lived his life. So, while
the ebbs and flows and idiosyncrasies of his recovery confuse some, I
imagine this all somehow makes sense to Bobby. I will keep you all posted!
And finally, as always, thank you for the continued stream of support in all
the varied ways each of you have shown. We are--as ever--grateful beyond.
With love,
Faith
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Jakeb
climber
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Feb 26, 2008 - 01:25pm PT
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Those of us here in Denver are waiting for the green light on visits!! It's hard to know that Bobby is just down the street from me and I haven't seen him!!!
jake b.
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Egie
climber
Long Lake, Mn.
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Feb 26, 2008 - 06:11pm PT
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Hi Anne, Bobby & Faith! I have been thinking about you lots recently so thought I should send a note of love and hope on. I sense good things are happening and hope this is correct!
Lots of love, Ellie crosby
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handsome B
Gym climber
SL,UT
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Feb 26, 2008 - 06:31pm PT
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glad to hear the good news, stay strong, you inspire us all
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Feb 26, 2008 - 10:16pm PT
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hey there faith... say, thanks for the update.... say, i will be praying about that shunt and all.... and praying for a very nice spring.... sure hope bobby's friends will be able to see him soon.... friends, like pets, can sure make a smile reach the face....
here's praying that more of your brother's "self" that you know so very well, will be surfacing even more so... :) god bless...
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Double
Sport climber
snowmass village, colorado
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Feb 27, 2008 - 07:45pm PT
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Bobby... I am glad to hear you are making such progress. It is nice to see the change of seasons and I am sure the Colorado air is refreshing. Always thinking of you and appreciate the updates. Get well and keep it up man.
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Tanya
Trad climber
Johannesburg
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Hi there Faith and Bobby
I follow your updates avidly and it all sounds so positive - Faith keep the news coming! Am sending love and strength and prayers and saying hi from sunny South Africa. T
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ThaVinci
climber
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He Faith and Bobby,
Good to hear the news from you, Faith. Sounds like Bobby allright :-) Only travelling for two weeks with him, his great energy made a big impression on me. Talking of which, as did yours, Faith. Spring is in the air indeed, also on this side of the ocean. The season of strength and growth!
Love, Vincent
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HUEY
Social climber
Worland, WY
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Howdy Bobby and Family,
Its been too long Bobby, sorry I havent written in a long time. Ill be in Denver Saturday and Id like to come see you.
I keep seeing your # in my phone and wish I could call.
Please let me know what time on Saturday (March 15) I can come, its my only chance, as I live in Seattle and am never in Denver.
Peace,
Aaron Huey
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Virginia
climber
Cody, WY
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Mar 17, 2008 - 04:09pm PT
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If you check out the 3/16/08 issue of the Billings Gazette, you will see pictures and a story about Bobby's life, career, accident and recovery. It is great to see the pictures and story and remind everyone that Bobby will be back.
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Costopoulos
Social climber
Cheyenne, WY
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Mar 17, 2008 - 07:02pm PT
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I was having lunch with Tim Stubson, a friend of Bobby's, the other day, and he told me about Bobby's accident. I was so sorry to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you Bobby, take care. Angela Costopoulos
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Mees
climber
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Mar 17, 2008 - 09:27pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
been thinking about you ever day sending the good vibes and prayers. Have seen a lot of stories since the accident. One of them was accompanied by this photo that had me laughing pretty hard.
When I first saw it ,thought it was City of Rocks,Idaho then looked a little closer and realized nah, definitely not there (Croatia apparently). An even closer look , oh man!, your right hand is mostly covered in blood as is your other elbow and well you're oozing dude--
classic model
love to hear the story.
keep up the great work man
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Mar 18, 2008 - 03:50pm PT
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Hey Bob-Meister,
Not much to report here in DC, finally back from five months on the road in the Indian Ocean, and it's good to be home. We got a nice update from your little sister - she rocks! - and the news is all good on all fronts - you rock! Also enjoyed reading the article, which was published in several newspapers - you rock AND you're a rock star! So, not much to report and yet I don't want you to think that we are forgetting you: we are NOT! I always think of you at the weirdest moments, when I see something beautiful, when I do something that feels really good (snorkeling with about 30 marine turtles in Aldabra comes to mind), and always, always, when I hear a good song. BTW, a new singer has appeared on the scene, Amy MacDonald, a 20-year old Scot - awesome! - so I will make you a CD and send it to Faith, I want to make sure that you are completely up to speed with the good tunes when you are fully back among us.
That's all, Bud, nothing to report except that I am thinking of you, always, and that I miss you. I will keep on waiting, so just take your time and come back to us.
And, as always, I hold you close in the back of my mind
Charlotte
PS: to all of Bobby's friends, were almost at 800 posts, so let's have a blitz and hit the mark!
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L
climber
Malibu, baby....in a Cheetah shirt
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Mar 18, 2008 - 04:28pm PT
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I love that photo of a blood-covered Bobby, unable to put the camera down long enough to wipe himself off.
Now that's a Photographer!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Mar 18, 2008 - 08:24pm PT
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hey there to bobby's mom, first... hope you are doing well, with spring soon to come... i ran across this just searching for something simlar, tonight... never saw this before....
it has one families accumulation of all they have learned in their daughters brain injury situation... i will also email it to you personal, if you want to keep the link... they have nearly every aspect of what can be covered, covered with what they have gone through, and now pass it along to help others... it is very very full-up and far reaching information...
http://www.tbirecovery.org/Intro.html
hey there to bobby... say, this is from me...
an ol' gal you don't, know, you see...
wishing you a spring full of life...
and hoping you'll soon enjoy singing-birds, taking t'flight...
may the roses honestly still give their sweet perfume...
and may the leaves of the trees, sway, and make room, ...
yep, make room for you to move-out into their midst...
and enjoy them, and for more than just a bits...
so, make all your loved-folks have a good smile...
and may you have success, this spring, for many a future's mile...
god bless, and please keep getting well...
as, say, bobby, there's a world of folks, that think your JUST SWELL!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Mar 18, 2008 - 09:18pm PT
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hey there trad... say, thanks for the link... this is a very nice share for us to learn from...
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Big B
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Mar 21, 2008 - 11:57am PT
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Bobby, It's been a long time since I wrote to you. Kyle and I have been crazy busy, we picked up a bunch of houses on the Powder Horn in Sheridan and with Cooper Leaf coming soon, we'll be swomped! Business is booming and as for what we've seen the housing market in northern Wyoming is still crank N' man.
It is great to hear that you are working on getting better and healing. The Locals here in Cody still think about you, and others in the Bighorn Basin ask how you are doing. The Swope Family still has a sign up at their hotel asking for prayers for you. Everyone is waiting for your return. That will be a day that Cody will really celebrate.
Keep working hard at getting better and give your family a big hug. The Model family has been a great example to all of us, by showing us what hard work and dedication, perseverance, and love really is. What a strong family you have Bobby. Get better, you friends are praying for you.
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kira
Social climber
Livingston, MT
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Mar 22, 2008 - 04:11pm PT
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Greetings to Faith, Bobby, and his family,
I just wanted to let you know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers all this time. How to express what I'm feeling? I just want to cradle you all. I wish I could take away your pain. Bobby is--and will be--getting better and better. Keep the faith.
With love to you,
Kira Salak
(It was nice meeting you in Banff, Faith. All the best wishes to you.)
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Mar 28, 2008 - 06:07pm PT
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Always thinking and praying for you. You and the whole family are in my heart. Love ya, Brenda
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Mar 29, 2008 - 04:48pm PT
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3/29/8
UPDATE
Dear All,
A tremendous breakthrough for Bobby (and for us)!! Bobby first said "Mom" to
my mom a few days ago (which was quite a feat as he didn't have a talking
valve at the time). Yesterday his Speech Therapist (Kaylee) popped on the
talking valve and he started making sounds. Kaylee asked him his name and he
said, "Booobby" and then she asked him to point to his sister and he quickly
pointed at me and said "Faaaith." The excitement and relief on his face was
absolutely incredible. After not speaking for 9 months, the words are a bit
sticky and he's just getting used to moving his mouth again, but we could
all definitely tell what he was saying (and he filled in the gaps with hand
signals). It was a momentous day for everyone and there are hardly words...
This has been and continues to be an extraordinary journey and our gratitude
for your collective support is beyond the power of words...Please know that
all of you have been instrumental in carrying Bobby and our family through.
And look where we are..
With love and thanks always,
Faith
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Katrina
climber
Roseburg, OR & Cody, WY
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Mar 29, 2008 - 08:02pm PT
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Hey Bobby, et.al....
I just read the article in the Billings Gazette and have been keeping up with this forum. Although the posts have slowed down, I know that along with me, everyone is checking in on a regular basis to track Bobby's progress and wish him well. Even though we aren't posting it everyday, there are thoughts of Bobby remaining with each of us. It amazes me the amount of strength and support Bobby is receiving from his friends, family, old acquaintances, and complete strangers from all around the world. All I can say is WOW! With all that support it's no wonder Bobby is making such great progress and I don't think any one of us doubts he will get better and better and continue to amaze us all. Keep up the good work, Bobby, and everyone surrounding him!
Best wishes from an old acquaintance,
Katrina Krause
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
a spaceship built for two
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Mar 29, 2008 - 08:22pm PT
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the brain's plasticity is amazing. what an incredible breakthrough. keep up the good work bobby!
still sending love, hope, and prayers from northern california :)
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Lyon Davis
Social climber
Cody, Wy
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Mar 30, 2008 - 12:58am PT
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Faith. Is this your email? I wonder, I had a different one before we moved.... Anyway I'm sure this will find you well. I just talked to the bald eagle for about an hour. I am still choked up. I think of your brother every day since the incident and thoughts of him lead to others of all my true life friends.
I cannot even begin to fathom what you and your family have gone through since the accident since I'm sure it's a massive amplification of what my own emotions have been since hearing of a life long friend with a grave injury. let alone a brother, son and all the rest. This journey has initially led me through the depths of despair with a heavy heart to the excitement and pride I feel at this moment.
More and more as day's go by I think of the fun, goofy times with Bobby and everyone else. We had some really good times that really will be with us all our lives. The day's at ski practice in high school and college where we would play soccer and your brother would always play defense. He deemed himself and impenetrable fortress but, I would strike at his Achilles heel and always kick the ball into his crotch. The crazy nights of night jogging in Laramie against traffic or in the middle of it with a bottle of Jager. Bobby at the Cowboy bar talking in a fake Austrian accent with Jake prenteding they were exotic foreign ski racers when in fact they were from the very state and twice as weird as anyone else from another country. This journey as re-awakend my faith (no pun intened, but possibly) in the absolute loving power of the Universe, God, the Force or what ever anyone calls it. This milestone truly is a miracle and a better messenger to bring miracles to us, well, there is none. Bobby has led us to miracles ever since I can remember. The remote control bombs he would build as a child and detonate them from across the valley, where did he get the C4? The icy road death drives at 80 miles an hour in his truck from the ski area. The Jager and your brother with a samuri sword. The wheat toast with no butter, but a steak is ok. The supposed day hike in the Snowy Range that turns into a completly stuck vehicle & a peak climb in a total bizzard with only Patagoinias, jeans and vegatable bread. A day at the ski races in JH that turns into a vision quest because we got trapped in a valley out of bounds that ends in a vertical shute that has a mandatory cliff drop at the bottom but the chances of survival are 1-10 but we did it anyway. I'm not even going to talk about climbing. The last time I climbed with your brother was in Vedawoo. He and Jake had me climbing in Converse All-Stars on a 5.12 for my first go round. Never the less, I popped of the rock in the worst spot, slammed into the face and got scars on both knees, one looked like flames and the other looked like a pitchfork and ever since then when I cross my legs it looks like Hell! One of the best however was when I dropped you off for work at La Comida and you were late and your boss was pissed and pulled you behind the counter and started to comb your hair vilolently, ahh... those were the day's...
It is so fantastic to hear the news. Bobby is the best and we all Love him and you and your family so much. Everyone, abosolutly loves you and your Mom stronger than any words... Bobby's progress in no small way and I think the most critical factor has been your family's unwavering support and belief he would get better, we all despaired in the dark but you and your's family's Faith never wavered once.... Thank you for the magic.
With Love & Happiness
Lyon, Patty @ Ava
Cloud Nine, New Mexico
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Mar 30, 2008 - 08:49pm PT
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hey there faith... say, i am so full of joy for you family.. its another of those "hit the trail" and "keep on going" things... that is the "only way to reach the many summits before you"...
talking is something mighty special, indeed... folks dont really understand, at times, just how special it truy is!
i remember back to bull rider lee akins injury, when his skull was stepped on by the bull--- he had a very common speech trouble, (thought not injuries turn out the same---his words came out as jibberish, but yet, no to him, of course)...
they have made great progress, from what i had heard his wife share on a post...
this is wonderful, wonderful news for you bobby!....
ps--emilio naviara, the tejano singer, and his family, are hoping for success, as well... he just suffered a terrible brain injury as well, from an accident with his tour bus...
when others, like you, bobby, work hard and "trample down" a path, there is so much more ROOM for others to hope, as well...
way to go, bobby!
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RNTina
Social climber
Somers, NY
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Mar 30, 2008 - 11:25pm PT
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This is absolutely INCREDIBLE news! I have been following the updates since I first heard of Bobby's accident. Although I have never met Bobby, his family or friends, I have drawn tremendously positive energy from every entry.
Reading these posts and following Bobby's progress has given me strength and hope when I work with my own acutely ill, hospitalized patients. I am a strong believer in the power of positive thinking and have been sending good intentions and energy healing to him every night.
I just wish that every patient could have such a wonderful support system!
I cannot wait until the day when Bobby can come home and I eagerly look forward to hearing more news!
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Mar 31, 2008 - 03:22pm PT
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What wonderful news for all of you and a tribute to Bobby's family and friends and their, wonderful positive energy.
Today, March goes out like a lion in NW Wyoming.... a sign that Spring, and life's renewal will soon follow. We continue to pray as Bobby grows stronger with each new day.
Love to all, Sharon and Bill Baker
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kdriese
Social climber
Laramie, WY
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Mar 31, 2008 - 04:06pm PT
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It was so great to get your news today, Faith, via Steve Bechtel. Amazing strength and perseverance all the way around--our thoughts remain with you here in Laramie. Give Bobby my very best. Ken Driese
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Anastasia
climber
Not here
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Mar 31, 2008 - 06:50pm PT
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Really happy to hear some good news amidst so much tragedy!
I am sending my biggest "thank you" to all the wonderful people working hard on helping Bobby come through... I can't say enough to explain how much I admire all of you.
Big Hugs and Smiles,
Anastasia
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Kalakay
Big Wall climber
Bozeman, MT
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Mar 31, 2008 - 07:13pm PT
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Hey Bobby,
Who ever would have thought that we'd be cheering to hear you speak. If you can say 'Mom" and "Faith", I'm sure a few of your favorite expletives aren't far behind. Can't wait to hear 'em!
The strength you and your family display is astounding. You are always on our minds.
Love,
Tom, Betty and Fritz
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SteveW
Trad climber
Denver, CO
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Bobby
Keep the words coming!!!!!
Hope and prayers are with you.
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Ashley McEntire
climber
Columbia, SC
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Great job Bobby! So happy to hear of you using your voice, just speaking out and saying Mom! I know communication has taken several forms in the past nine months, and adding your voice to the mix is wonderful. I'm also ecstatic for you about what knowing and pointing to who was in the room means for you and your family as you heal. Sending warmth and prayer, Ashley McEntire
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Kate Borgelt
climber
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Horray! Great news!!! Makes my heart full!!! Keep healing, Bobby!
Kate
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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hahahahahahahahaha: BOBBY!!!
Sorry it took me a while to post after we got the latest great news from Denver, but I think part of the reason is because I have been walking around town with a completely idiotic smile on my face ever since I heard ... I was so chuffed that I wanted to do something special that day, in honor of you, so I convinced Liz Grady to come along for a hike to Sugarloaf "Mountain" (Washingtonians have a sick sense of humour, believe you me ...). So I went to google, entered Sugarloaf Washington DC, got some smashing driving instructions and then proceeded to drive for about 2 hours and getting NOWHERE near what was supposed to be Sugarloaf. So, we did the second best thing that made us think of you and had a couple of cold ones at the terrace of a small tavern in Middleburg, which, in all honesty, was NOT too rough ... Now, I haven't told Liz this yet but I'm sure she will soon find out, when I got home I went back to Google and found the exact same driving directions that had led me nowhere so I googled some more and then found out that there are TWO bloody sugarloafs in the area!!! one in Virginia, and the other in Maryland, and of course I picked the wrong one. Now, I'm still pinning this blunder on the idiotic smile (see above) and of course when Liz confronts me about this I will deny everything ....
When I heard I also called Peg and Steve who were tickled pink at the news of your progress. Jessica's birthday is coming up next Tuesday so I am going up to Portsmouth for the week-end and, I promise, Bud, we will be thinking of you and of Jess the whole time. I also called Kim up in Canada who has also been following your progress and who is rooting for you in a major way. So of course we rejoiced, but we also looked back on all the way you have come so far, and how much Faith and your parents have been by your side, always hoping, always strong and never, ever doubting you. And then Kim said the coolest thing, namely that your parents really knew what they were doing when they named your little sister.
Welcome back Bobby, it's good to know you are there more than ever, and that you are always, always keeping up the fight. We will keep rooting for you, thinking of you, sending lots of positive vibes, hope, prayers, whatever we know is likely to help you.
And, as always, Bud, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
PS: now that your words are coming back, I'm going to ask Faith to check if you remember BEER!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there bobby... say, i foumd a link that is a "sort mountaineering map" of this "hard climb" that you are undertaking now... or, in a sense, "overtaking", as you take over this situation to get your stamina, etc, back again, to speak.... in a sense, once again, one step leads to another, and all lead to victory!
(and to you all out there, that are encouraging him, here it is)--http://www.northeastcenter.com/information_bulletin_decannulization.htm
*this may not be exactly, how it is for bobby, but involving the "talking valve" situation--the HARD WORK, is most likely similar...
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gradyphoto
climber
Washington DC
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Hey Bobby,
I think you'd be proud that instead of hiking that day Charlotte and I drank beers.
By the way (sorry Bobby but Charlotte won't respond to her regular email account, nor has she answered my voicemails) CHARLOTTE - did you find my water bottle and my ridiculous chihuahua's t-shirt?
Yes Bobby, I have a 4lb chihuahua named Desi Arnaz, Jr. who I hope to introduce you to someday soon so that you can unleash all sorts of Paris Hilton insults on me. And yes in winter I dress him in sweaters and fleece, but he's actually a really cool dog, I swear. Everyone comments on how friendly and non-chihuahua-like he is. For example, he did not bark, whine, or nip ankles ONCE the entire day Charlotte and I tried to find that "mountain".
Very proud of your wonderful progress Bobby - you just keep fighting. Everyone's here for you.
xxoo
Liz
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Oh My Gosh!!! Reading about you starting to talk brought tears of joy to my eyes! I get so excited hearing about you moving down the road to recovery. You are an amazing person. Faith, keep up the good work you are so wonderful and the best sister. Love all you guys and always I'm praying for you. Thanks for keeping us updated. Brenda
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Abby Thomas
Trad climber
Baltimore, MD
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Apr 11, 2008 - 11:25pm PT
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Yay!!! Faith, I just sent you an email too, but in case you check this first give Bobby a huge squeeze and a big hello from us! I'll try to find a host site for the picture I just sent you so I can post it here. Dez is now six months and we'll see if we can get "Bobby" to be his first word and then those two fellows can work on their words together and race to the multi-syllable profanities. We're thinking of you guys and sending you lots and lots of love.
xoxo, ab, jer, dezi and peso
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Apr 15, 2008 - 03:54pm PT
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Update from Faith 4/15
Dear Everyone,
As always, many thanks for the continual flow of incredible support. It's
much and always appreciated.
Bobby's making great progress--gentle, steady and fluid. He's spending a
significant part of his day in a chair with therapies throughout and is also
getting lots of important rest. It's clear he's building strength and
endurance and is in need of a great deal of sleep (he's pretty much like a
lion in terms of sleeping hours). When he's fully awake, he's really
beginning to communicate what he wants through hand signals and he's working
on his voice and putting words together--in fact, he's really making
progress putting everything together.
One thing that has become clear in the past week is that Bobby tires very
quickly with visitors and often checks out when people stop by. In this
chapter of Bobby's recovery (which is really still an initial phase), he is
in the process of collecting energy--building strength and endurance--and
therefore only has a certain amount to give. This type of recovery takes a
tremendous amount of energy, so it's important that Bobby is able to channel
it into rehab. We've found that when or after there have been people
visiting, he isn't able to participate in therapy as well (or at all). While
this is not always the case, it does happen more often than not. In light of
this, we've had several conversations with the rehab team and docs and
everyone is in agreement that the amount of visits need to be toned down for
the time being--at least until Bobby builds more endurance. We've also, of
course, asked Bobby if this works for him and he's indicated that this is
what he wants as well. But because a huge (and therapeutic) part of recovery
is the support of friends and family (and we love and appreciate having
people here!) we want to be clear that we're just trying to limit the number
of visitors for the time being, but if you're in town and want to stop by
briefly (usually about 10 minutes) then please just call and we can play it
by ear and let you know if Bobby is feeling up for it. Again, our numbers
are:
Anne: 307-899-1586
Bob: 307-899-0040
Faith: 303-883-6734
Again, thank you all so much for everything!
All the very best to all of you,
Faith
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Apr 17, 2008 - 01:45am PT
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hey there... bump... so if anyone needs phone numbers, they get a chance to see...
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Toma Knapp
climber
Laramie, Wyoming
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Apr 19, 2008 - 02:07am PT
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Bobby, that is so wonderful that you are saying some words. Paul Ulrich (Spears) were just talking about you that other day. I just wanted to let you know that I just bought some of your photograph's from AllPosters.com. You have so many wonderful pictures on that web-site. I bought Cowboy Boots With Well Worn Spurs and Buffalo Roaming in Field. They will look great on my walls. I just wanted to let you know Beau and I are praying for you everyday. Take Care, Toma Knapp @ Beau White
P.S. Faith, I would like to send Bobby a Wyoming Cowboys t-shirt, so I need to know what size and an address to send it too. Thanks, Toma
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Health Educator
Social climber
Midwest City, Oklahoma
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Apr 20, 2008 - 08:38pm PT
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Faith,
If you still check the site please let Bobby know I still keep up with news about him all the time. I was very excited to hear that he spoke. Please give him my congratulations and say hello to you mom, dad and Jim.
Karen (Horner) Blackwell
Your former babysitter (tree house builder, tv maker and cookies)
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ThaVinci
climber
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Apr 25, 2008 - 07:34am PT
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He Faith, thanks for the update. Great news to read he is making all this progress. Well, what do you expect with such a great family beside him?
Hug, Vincent
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Apr 27, 2008 - 07:35pm PT
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So happy to read the updates. Thank you very much Faith for doing this for us. I'm glad Bobby just keeps getting better and better. All my love to the whole family. Brenda
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Largo
Sport climber
Venice, Ca
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Apr 27, 2008 - 07:46pm PT
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For head injuries, neurofeedback has proven to be very effective per rehab. While still experimental, it is, I believe, indicated in Bobby's case. Definitely worth a shot.
Get well fast, caballero.
JL
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Hey Bobby,
I just updated myself on your newest, great feats. You are amazing and strong. Keep it up. Still thinking about you.
Always, Heather
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Bales family
climber
Cody
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May 10, 2008 - 11:43am PT
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Hey Bobby,
Just a note to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY on Sunday.
Hopefully you have already rec'd the card. Mona just walked out the front door a few minutes ago headed in your direction.
Our love and best wishes,
Mary Lou and Bob
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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May 11, 2008 - 12:45am PT
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hey there all... say, i just read this last post, as to bobby model's birthday....
thanks for sharing here....
i dont know you bobby, but i been here in the corner of your "fighting ring" cheering you on, with prayers, and such... and rooting your mom, dad, sis, and any etcs....
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOBBY....
say, this IS a bump.... hope more folks chip in! :)
you got a right fine buddy, there to post this, or us folks would not be able to send such wishes, your way....
god bless.... ride that horse, for the win!
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Abby Thomas
Trad climber
Baltimore, MD
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May 11, 2008 - 09:17am PT
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BIRTHDAY BOY!! Cheerful thoughts (and an out of tune version of the happy birthday song) will be playing all day for you in my head today.
Much love,
ab
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L
climber
Ocean of dreams....
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May 11, 2008 - 10:19am PT
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Happy Birthday, Bobby!
Hope you like strawberry shortcake...and I'm glad you're here to celebrate this day with your family and friends.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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May 11, 2008 - 11:35am PT
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hey there bobby.... say...
wishing you happy birthday, today....
with a wish, as big as the ol' outdoors...
with spectacular views, of the critters that walk the earth's floors...
wishing you the strength of the very ol' rocks, you have climbed...
may this trigger even more perserverance, as a sturdy-good-remind...
say, and i really must throw in...
some refreshing outdoor breezes, for your brow, to a'skim...
and some crisp, timber-line cloud views...
and much MORE than just a fews...
yep, i'm even wishing out to you...
some fields of wild flowers, some reds, and some blues...
wishing you to taste, some of that there strawberry cake...
and wishing you to feel the friendship, of many a ol' hand shake...
and last, but not least (as i wish for more folks to jump in)...
i wish for you to walk the lands of your love, with some good hard hiking climbs, for a good spin...
happy birthday to you, and to your family, too...
as, say, they birthed ya', and nutured ya', and should share in the fun, and the big t'do!...
as i surely reckon, you all have some rejoicing to do now...
as you're making your homeward climb, day by day, by doing the best, that time will allow...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, YOU OL' ADVENTURER, YOU...
YEP, A RIGHT-FINE HAPPY BIRTHDAY, FOR THE WHOLE DAY THROUGH!...
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chez
Social climber
chicago ill
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May 11, 2008 - 03:29pm PT
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Happy Birthday Bobby and many more to come!
Bill McChesney
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teenie
Social climber
Orange, California
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May 11, 2008 - 04:34pm PT
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Happy Birthday!
I tried calling Faithy earlier today, but I wanted to make sure that a birthday wish would be sent your way. I miss you tons, and i am hoping that I will be able to make it out to see you soon. Anyway, I miss you.
Is there somewhere I can send a letter that someone will read to you?
Lots of Love,
Your littlest sister
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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May 11, 2008 - 08:21pm PT
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hey there teenie.... say, there was an address a ways back... i am not sure what the newest one is...
but: here is part of a post, as to limiting visits, etc.... and at the end of this bit that i COPIED, there is sosme phone numbers, if you call, perhaps they can give you the address.... here it all is:
(this is the note, from that update)
...the rehab team and docs and
everyone is in agreement that the amount of visits need to be toned down for
the time being--at least until Bobby builds more endurance. We've also, of
course, asked Bobby if this works for him and he's indicated that this is
what he wants as well. But because a huge (and therapeutic) part of recovery
is the support of friends and family (and we love and appreciate having
people here!) we want to be clear that we're just trying to limit the number
of visitors for the time being, but if you're in town and want to stop by
briefly (usually about 10 minutes) then please just call and we can play it
by ear and let you know if Bobby is feeling up for it. Again, our numbers
are:
Anne: 307-899-1586
Bob: 307-899-0040
Faith: 303-883-6734
Again, thank you all so much for everything!
All the very best to all of you,
Faith
___
hey there, teenie... sure would be nice if some folks could have taped some voice happy birthdays, to send and play, huh.... just a late thought, for all his friends, out there...
SURE HOPE this helps you get your letter to bobby...
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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May 12, 2008 - 04:38pm PT
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Happy, happy birthday ole'man. In your honour I went on a kick-ass bike ride yesterday (and needless to say, the ass being kicked was mine...). After a while my bike computer/heart rate monitor broke, and that was the best thing could happen because I stopped focusing on the performance and let me mind wander. Guess who I kept thinking of ... So, for the record, you had an AWESOME bike ride yesterday, Bud!
Miss you, thinking of you, love you, and, as always,
I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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May 12, 2008 - 09:29pm PT
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOBBY.
You were a dream of mine a few nights ago. It was good to see you, even if in a dream.
I love you and think of you every day.
Keep it up.
TCK
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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May 14, 2008 - 07:43am PT
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May 13th Update
Dear All,
Thank you ALL for the tremendous continued support--in all the ways it's
offered. What I do know is that without all of you, this journey would have
been very different for all of us; but thankfully, with you, it's been
filled with the blessings, humor and healing that elevate life to it's
greatest potential. So thank you, thank you.
A quick note to let you all know that Bobby is making great strides! No more
trach, no more IV lines and he started eating today--applesauce and yogurt.
Bobby is channeling so much energy and drive into therapy and he is gaining
strength. There is much to celebrate and there is so much to be grateful
for.
With love and thanks,
Faith
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Egie
climber
Long Lake, Mn.
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May 14, 2008 - 09:22am PT
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I am very excitied about the new news! It sounds like all of you have reached a new stage that is so very encouraging! Keep it up, and I know you will move forward more quickly now. This brings lots of love and strong healthy vibes for continued progress.
Lots of love to you Anne, Faith and Bobby!
Ellie
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Double
Sport climber
snowmass village, colorado
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May 14, 2008 - 09:48pm PT
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BOBBY...good job. I read this "forum" frequently and am so happy at the latest news. As a good friend of yours once said. "you must kick at the darkness until it bleeds daylight". Bobby, keep kickin'
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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May 15, 2008 - 02:04am PT
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hey there faith... wow, thanks for the great update.... many folks will never understand how much it can mean to EAT AGAIN after nearly a year?? (forgot the exact date)...
finanlly time to work on getting strong, and so much more...
it sounds like a great birthday year, bobby... :)
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Marcy Marc
climber
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May 15, 2008 - 08:56am PT
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Hi Bobby,
I spent some time with you in Sudan several years ago while I was making a film for the BBC (about the Twic Olympics) and I remember to this day what an inspiring and great guy you are. I also remember quite a few beers consumed soon after in London!! But I never realised the number of people you'd touched and the massive regard you're held in. But I guess that's a measure of the decency and humility of "bomo"!
I'm so glad to hear of all the progress you're making and I will be on here regularly now seeing how you're getting on so stick at it big man.
I'm going to see if I can dig out a picture from that time to add to the amazing collection here.
Love to you and yours.
marc allen
x
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Robert Hart
Social climber
Red Lodge,Mt
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May 15, 2008 - 10:21am PT
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Hey Bobby,
Sorry to have been out of touch for so long,but I want you to know that you have been in my thoughts quite often. All the news I have been hearing is fantastic,you are the man. Great to hear you are on the path to getting your strength back and making real progress. The Beartooths are beautiful today with lots of snow which is corning up fast and waiting for your return.
Keep up the good work.
All Good Things,
Rob Hart
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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May 19, 2008 - 09:31pm PT
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hey there bobby... say, today, at work, i got to work out in the woods.... very nice to here the leaves crunching under my feet... and the light hitting the trees...
saw a few birds hopping around, too... the white clouds against the deep sky blue, was fantastic.... nowwwwwwwwww....
that ought to get you thinking on taking a hike someday in the greatoutdoors...
god bless... picture yourself setting foot on the first path of the next phase of your journey...
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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May 20, 2008 - 06:14pm PT
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hey there anguish... say, this was very kind of you to share this LINK , just above....thank you so very much...
sure hope his loyal buddies and supporters get a chance to see this... if not, later near the weekend, i will bump it up....
best wishes to all .... and god bless....
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chez
Social climber
chicago ill
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May 20, 2008 - 10:56pm PT
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Faith's last post actually raised the hairs on the back of my neck, unbelievable news!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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May 30, 2008 - 01:02am PT
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hey there... just wondering if bobby will be able to go out in the sunshine soon, as--summer is soon to come... :)
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Abby Thomas
Trad climber
Baltimore, MD
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Dear Bobby,
Amazing that nearly a year has passed since this most recent of your epic adventures began. This is certainly not one you would have chosen, but I guess as the quote goes "life is what happens when you're making other plans." It's incredible to think how far you've come in a year, how many professionals you've astounded with your progress, and how many people you've inspired all over the world (and similarly how many people your mom and Faith have inspired with their love and support). You're a smart man for keeping such wonderful women around you!
Here's to dining on yogurt and applesauce (a better meal than many I'm sure you had on climbing trips!), to continuing to fight the good fight, and to looking back at the end of next year on another period of impressive recovery!
With all our love and lots of California & New Hampshire hugs,
Ab, Jer, Dez and Peso
ps - Dezi is getting dangerously close to crawling (rocks on his hands and knees and then gets utterly confused on where to go from there...literally). He just turned 8 months and my mom's flying in on Saturday for a week of dryland training. I'll send Faith a video clip for you once he's on the move :)
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Hey Bobby and Family, Just popping in to say hi and am glad to hear you are getting better and better each day. I wish you all the best. Love Brenda
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Heather Merten- Cowden
Social climber
Hagerman
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Jun 11, 2008 - 12:16am PT
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Hi Bobby,
I just read the article in the Cody Enterprise about your progress. Like everyone has said a couple dozen times, you are amazing. Stay strong. Like many others I think of your fight, when I'm trying to get through little feats of the day, which really are sooo insignificant compared to what your day entails. I just did my first 1/2 ironman triathlon, it wasn't the 70.3 miles that got me, it was the 36 degree air that I had to start my river swim in, and the 20 mph head wind I had to bike and run in. It's funny, because like you and many of our friends, this masachistic behavior is kindof normal, but you especially on all your expeditions. So, again, what I just completed Saturday was miniscule compared to your resume of amazing feats.
Miss you. Love Heather
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 19, 2008 - 09:42pm PT
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hey there alll... faith, and anne... say,i was just wondering if bobby has been able to see the greatoutdoors yet, and get a taste of fresh air.... or has it been too cold?
it has been an odd summer, for some of us... still cool, and not many warm days.. a bit like fall....
hope all is well, and that bobby is soon to speak more...
hey there bobby...
say, yep, again, you dont me, but i just love the greatoutdoors, as our whole family does... and me and my brothers share that love.... so i know how you and your sis must have had such fun together...
hope you are well enough to get outside with her, soon... and thank the good lord for these wonderful natural gifts all around us!...
god bless bobby.... just dropping in to wish you to keep getting well, and press-onward, on this hard ol' trail... :)
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Jun 26, 2008 - 08:37pm PT
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An update from Bobby's mom Anne 6/26
Hi Everybody!!!
>
> Short update but much love to all!! Bobby is being discharged this coming
> Friday from Craig! Of course, I am panicked but also excited as this
> means
> the beginning of the road home. After a rigorous search for handicap
> living
> found a little house at 1466 S. Lincoln in Denver, (80210) near Platte
> Park,
> a historic library and wonderful village with yummy restaurants, pottery,
> etc. Kind of trendy which Bobby will like. The kind of place where you
> want to look and act younger to fit in! Lynn, Stellas! (coffee and tea
> and
> books).
>
> The place is a mess with junk in backyard, 100 yr old windows with no
> ropes,
> etc, purple walls (a romantic wheelchair couple (ladies) lived there) and
> plywood kitchen. Foundation needs repair and more etcs! Peter Chivers is
> going to tackle the yard and Adam the Painter accomplished an all over
> paint
> job (Greek villa white) in two days with a great team. I need to learn
> Spanish! Ladies' insurance paid for a new roof which is a joy! There's a
> great deck will a ramp for Bobby. We can wheelchair him right downtown to
> the village of S. Pearl. Just writing to you about this makes me feel
> better.
>
> Jim is coming down this week to help get all the hospital type furniture
> up
> and running and the Encore sale provided curtains AND blankets. Faith and
> I
> will hit Target for the rest and empty our apartments a bit. We have an
> agency to provide nursing care and therapy!
>
> Great to be home for a few days. Realize how good it feels to fiddle with
> the plants, garden and even clean out the pool which is full of worms from
> recent rains!
>
> I'm writing from here as have all your names in my address book. Can't do
> that on Faith's computer.
>
> OK. That's all except to say how much I miss you all and have appreciated
> all the support. I can feel the vibes and so can Bobby who is a trooper
> and
> his serious rehab attitude is bringing him around. Trach surgery last
> week
> to close up the hole should enable talking soon. Sounds! Otherwise, he
> has powerful ways of communicating.
>
> Oh, Faith and I went to Charlottesville, VA, last week with NGeographic to
> do a slide show of Bobby's Baltistan portfolio for the LOOK 3 Film
> Festival.
> Very moving!!!
>
> Love, Anne
>
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 27, 2008 - 01:40am PT
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hey there anne!!!! wow, oh, wow... i have been hoping and praying so very much for bobby to see the great outdoor and sunshine again!!!!...
wow, what a wonderful place you found...
i will send a dream catcher for you for his new home...
hey there bobby.. say, welcome to your NEW HOME... may the good lord bless it, and shine wonderful love from all yours friends, richly upon your new home... and trail you on your therapy, and on your trips to town, for adventures in living!!!!
god bless to you both! and to faith and all your families!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Jun 27, 2008 - 01:43am PT
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hey there anne... say, i am not good at numbers and miss many good jobs and such... but i sure wish i could have helped you clean up the yard and plant and all that--but i am much to far away, and trying to survive, job-wise...
wow, otherwise, i am a good clean-er-upper....
good to know that you have a crew at work on it all....:)
say, hope the "big white cat", will love it there too...
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nita
climber
chica from chico, I don't claim to be a daisy
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Jun 27, 2008 - 02:24am PT
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Bobby's Mom..Thank you for the up-date,I have been thinking about you folks. Sending out prayers and good thoughts for your *beginning of the road home.*
Salud...
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Charlotte
climber
DC, Turks and Caicos
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Jun 30, 2008 - 11:09am PT
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Hey Bobmeister,
All the news is good, friend, and I'm glad to hear that you will soon head to your new home. I am so inspired by your progress and everything you have achieved in the last year, it's not even funny ...
Thought of you yesterday as I finished my 10th triathlon (woo hoo). Mostly I thought about you because it really sucked (VERY hot, code orange day, not enough training, the usual) and ALL I wanted was to quit, get off the bike and walk back to the transition area. I just couldn't, though, knowing what a fight you've been putting on and what a rock star you've been. Soooo, just switched to a lower gear and clenched my teeth through a few more hills and a run from hell.
I just wanted to share this with you, and let you know that I love you, keep thinking of you, sending you the good vibes, and counting the days until you're able to drink beer again.
And as always, I hold you close in the back of my mind,
Charlotte
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Glad to hear everything is going so good for you, Bobby. Hope you guys have a great 4th of July. Always thinking about all of you and praying things are going good. Stay Safe, Brenda
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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hey there bobby... happy 4th... and wishing a new and even more special independance day, so you will have a personal one to go along with the national one! ... as you tackle new things... god bless!
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AJ&Margi
Social climber
east jackson
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Jul 14, 2008 - 01:47pm PT
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hey Bobby,
glad to hear you're on the mends, been in our thoughts & prayers.
keep crankin,
AJ + Margi
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couchmaster
climber
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Jul 14, 2008 - 02:42pm PT
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I was over visiting my mom, she gives me an old National Geographic of with that cover Todd, Bobby and those guys trying to do Great Trango Tower in 1996. Amazing stuff Bobby, especially the part where you are up cranking the crux pitch free.
Horrendous Himalayan winds trying to tear you off while high altitude and lack of recovery, coupled with your bloody hands not healing: you fought through the exhaustion and cranked it free anyway after some big whippers.
Whew.
Here's to you cranking off this one now too:-)
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kdriese
Social climber
Laramie, WY
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Jul 21, 2008 - 11:02am PT
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Hey Bobby,
Great to hear that you are living in a house and out of the hospital. Just thought I'd say hi and that we're watching your progress from here in Laramie and thinking of you.
Ken Driese
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Hey Bud,
You're still on my mind every single day! Hope things are lookin good in Denver. Keep fighting.
Love to all of you-
T.Chambers-Kenney
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Mees
climber
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Hey Bobby,
was going to stop in Denver to see you on our way back from the trip to Cody for the 4th, but a pain I had in my side for the previous couple of weeks had by that time started to be, well a real pain in my er side and I wanted to just get the drive over with at that point. Fast forward a couple of weeks and I found myself getting ready to go into surgery for an appendectomy. Woke up several hours later and the surgeon said well we took our your appendix, and part of your intestine. No wonder it hurts so damn much doc, er wait I thought that was part of the deal, getting the pain in my guts to dissapear! Well I got to spend 4-5 days in the hospital and I certainly thought of how minor and miniscule this all was compared to the epic you've been through man. I learned my body doesn't really like morphine too much--real nasty stuff that morphine, the worst part was hiccupping for hours straight, something about the frenetic nerve being aggravated by the surgery, all child's play to you though... So anyway, I'm walking around like an 80 year ol ranch hand but it doesn't hurt when I sleep! My bro got married up in Northern Idaho, but my guts, er what's left of them, put the kabash on me attending. I've had surgery once in my life and it happened right before my little bro's wedding, crazy!!!
The trip to Cody was great, saw Russ Johnson for the first time in about 20+ years we had some dinner and talked a bit about you and reminisced about the good old days up at Sleezy and the Episcopal church. It was so good to catch up with him he had some pretty amazing stories of his own to tell. Also saw Julia and her new baby, we seem to enjoy hanging at the coffee shop at the same time of day. got up to Tensleep with Devries whom also is thinking about you a lot , he's been working hard on remodeling his home it's looking gorgeous. He's got a picture of you on his desktop on his computer which looks like you may have gotten in a fight with a bottle of scotch or something !! Also got to see busy Manual up in Rock Dodge, he put me to work right when I showed up!! He's doing great.
Never seen so much snow in July up in the beartooths, it was crazy man, We couldn't even really go fishing as all the holes were under water, there were still frozen lakes up on the pass. The skiing up there just looked unbelievable for that time of year though, I'm sure old Joe is loving that.
Went for a hike up clearwater and got turned back at the first crossing as the little creek there was a raging nasty force, so I just headed up a ridge and soaked in the Absaroka beauty. Sure felt good being back up in the mountains from home, I soaked in some great views for you and I'm sure your ears were buzzing as I spoke with many folks who have you and your progress in their hearts
as always am rooting for you every day !!!
keep up the amazing recovery Bobby!!!!
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Aug 12, 2008 - 04:01pm PT
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WOW! What Great News!!!
TK
Dear Everyone,
I hope this email finds all of you well. MANY apologies for being sooo out
of touch the last month and a half. But no news is good news in this case!
I'm forwarding an email (below) that my mom sent toward the end of July,
which gives a great overview of Bobby's first month out of hospital/rehab.
And things just keep getting better! Later today, I will send out a second
update on the last couple of weeks and I will ask Bobby if he wants to write
a note to all of you that I can relay. He started writing last week and has
been communicating some incredible things (and some really funny notes). So
from now on these updates will include messages from Bobby (if he feels like
it, of course).
In the meantime, my mom's email is below.
Thank you always for the ever-present support.
Sending much love, peace and happiness to all of you always,
Faith
------ Forwarded Message
From: Anne Young
Date: Sun, 27 Jul 2008 19:06:16 -0600
To: Anne Young list
Subject: more update
Hi All!
Hi from Cody where I can access my address book and think of you all. Days
speed by in Denver at Bobby's new "digs" now in much better shape. We
raided the World Market for curtains, red painted tables and other
assundries to improve upon the new infrastruicture of yard, sprinkler, air
conditioning and new ropes for the ancient windows. The nursing staff has
now hunkered in and we are all used to the busy routine of medicine,
therapy, showers and fun! One of Bobby's former bosses has given us TWO
TV's and we are well equipped with great videos from the Banff Film Festival
thanks to NGS and another great boss! Evan, a nurse, bought Bobby a
checkerboard so there is gaming going on.
Often, our entourage wheels down to Platt Park where we hosted a 4th July
picnic with blanket and the whole shebang inc watermelon.
Food: Faith concocts delicious green combo smoothies but my zucchini soups
seem to be a flop for the time being. Still on the feeding tube for the
basics tho.
Big Bob bought a great van and just this weekend, Bob, Mona Bobby and our
great case manager, Lynsey, took an adventure trip to a State Park!
Friends have been coming and going and thanks to all. All of you should know
that calls to Bobby are appreciated. We have a land
line: 720-570-2271. You must do most of the talking but Bobby takes it all
in!
Anyway, all is well and we are already thinking about the logistics for the
Cody move. Meanwhile, the current situation is a perfect transition.
Much love to all and all! Anne
Anne Young
Sage Creek Ranch
P.O. Box 1507
Cody, WY 82414
ayoung@sagecreekranch.com
307.587.5821
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Aug 12, 2008 - 06:38pm PT
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hey there anne and faith.. say, this IS WONDERFUL... oh, my... you all have waited so very long...
god bless to you bobby... you dont know me... i am just "one of the good cheer folks!" sitting in your corner... and--praying...
keep on reaching for the ol' summit... god bless you richly....
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Aug 14, 2008 - 01:05pm PT
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WOW! Here's More!!
Dear Everyone,
Below is a note from Bobby to all of you (he wrote it longhand and I transcribed it here). I explained to him what an incredible support you have all been and that everyone would love to hear directly from him. He smiled, nodded and wrote this:
Hi everyone that seems to care for me,
Ok, everybody you can stop crying for me now, thanks though.
Not much new to report, except that my family and friends are great.
Love,
Bobby Model!
Bobby’s been laughing a lot, mouthing words (sound still to come) and working really hard to regain strength in his body. His endurance is continually improving and he’s awake a lot more (tho he still needs lots of sleep). We have a grrrreat van so there have been lots of outings. It looks like the move to Cody will happen later this fall (Bobby is verrrrrry happy about this—he doesn’t write fondly about being in Denver, but my parents are getting everything lined up for a smooth transition and my mom working triple time to make it all happen).
The emails, letters, calls, visits are all wonderful!
Many thanks to you all.
Sending lots of love,
Faith
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BrenDA
climber
Green River, WY
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Aug 15, 2008 - 10:25am PT
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Wow!! What great news! I'm so excited for you Bobby! You are an inspiration to all of us. Lots of Love Big Guy. Brenda
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Aug 16, 2008 - 01:33pm PT
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Faith's last post regarding Bobby's progress, and his personal note to his friends, bring tears of joy.
We think of you often. It's wonderful to know that the prayers are being answered. Seems like all things are possible with Faith.
Love to all,
Sharon and Bill Baker
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Aug 16, 2008 - 02:06pm PT
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hey there bobby... say, thats really sweet of you to be thinking of all us... keep up all the hard work... before you know it, you'll be back home where you really belong....
say, hope you still have the "big white kitty"... it makes a good pet, being that it does not need to eat !
say, there faith... thanks for sending the message along to us all....
my, oh, my---now that your mom is working in an even higher gear... why, we're gonna have to pray even more so she will get an "energy reviving" wave of power... :)
god bless... :)
i am so very happy for you all...
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Marty Stannard
Trad climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Aug 25, 2008 - 10:34am PT
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Bobby,
Wonderful news to hear you are making your way back. Let's plan to do 'Bruce's crack' on the Island again one of these days. I'm thinking that was your first roped climb while you were in middle school.
Your friend and FAMILY support system is amazing and heartwarming. My best to Ann and Faith... you are the quintessential belayers!
Marty
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John B
Social climber
New York, NY
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To Bobby and your entire family:
You have all been with us in our thoughts and prayers these past fifteen months and we are thrilled to hear about your progress. Keep up the good work. We're pulling for you. Let us know if there is anything to do to speed your progress.
Love,
The Budnik Family
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ThaVinci
climber
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Sep 24, 2008 - 06:18am PT
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He Bobby,
I'm feeling a bit like this long distance friend that you see only once in a while, but always with good contact. I just wanted to let you know I'm still there, reading the forum, seeing how you are doing. Great news Faith is sending out, great to read some words of your own as well. You're one lucky bastard having a family and friends like that (excuse my Dutch) :-)
Cheers Bobby, all the best!
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tals
climber
VIRGINIA
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Sep 25, 2008 - 08:02am PT
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September 25 Update
Dear Everyone,
I hope this email finds you all well and at peace in your lives. I have once
again been remiss in keeping you abreast of Bobby's progress and I'm really
sorry (but see below for an update from my mom)! However, no news is, once
again, good news.
I've been gone for the last 2 weeks, but when I return, I'll send out
another note written from Bobby to all of you. In the meantime, my mom has
written a wonderful update below with all the latest.
Many thanks again for the continued support, visits, calls, emails,
thoughts, etc. We are ever aware of this and always grateful.
Lots of love to all,
Faith
------ Forwarded Message
From:
Date: Sun, 21 Sep 2008 21:04:24 -0600
To: Anne Young
Subject: Hi from Denver/please forward
Greetings family and friends!
I've been holding down the fort in Denver these weeks (with Jim's
valuable visits) and watching Bobby dig in with renewed therapies as
an outpatient at Craig Hospital. This is a positive step as they will
definitely push the limits and move things along. We will get some
help organizing the big move to Cody as well which will ease up on the
stress!
Nothing like the weekend, especially a beautiful one. Bobby and I and
Evan, the nurse who rides a Harley and sports a LONG handle bar
mustache, took in a second IMAX, Alaska, this afternoon at the Museum
of Science. A great hit with many "WOWS" from Bobby on seeing
caribou migration and humpbacks thrashing in the sea. Afterward we
rolled over to the cafeteria for coffee, Bobby's first. Iced decaf
latte with a straw (another difficult passage). Thumbs up! The smiles
are heart warming.
So it goes with us and the neurons. The many days wear and tear but
there is also joy and thanks for having a great guy and son, Bobby,
with us all. Big Bob arrives tomorrow to be with Bobby, cooking soft
food, transporting Bobby to Craig for many therapies, and organizing
our dedicated and hardworking crew of nurses. I'm hoping he will fix
the light fixture in the living room and the silent Ipod. Faith is in
Kenya working on her Sudan project but has left us wholly incapable
of trouble shooting the Ipod.
More in a few weeks but this comes with best wishes and again, thanks,
for all your support. It carries us for miles and miles and more miles.
Love, Anne and Bobby
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Sharon Baker
Social climber
Powell, WY
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Sep 29, 2008 - 11:46am PT
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Always thinking of you... so glad to see your uplifting messages and reports of Bobby's progress.
Home is where the heart is and I know you are all anxious to return to Cody... a huge step and a wonderful milepost for Bobby. For all of you Thanksgiving will hold its true meaning.
Prayers to all, Sharon and Bill Baker
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Sep 29, 2008 - 06:29pm PT
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hey there anne and bobby... say, thanks for the news, anne...
say, bobby, so its coffee time, now, is it? and just in time for winter--nothing like a good cup of coffee for to watch the snow coming down.... (it will soon enough be here)... keep up the therapy challenges and conquer with gusto...
say, anne, as a mom, i am wishing you a wonderful thanksgiving with all your family....
god bless.... (say, i sent you an email about 2-3?? weeks ago, concerning something that i had read and perhaps a link, to find it)...
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Somerton Manor
climber
Somerset West South Africa
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Dear Bobby and Family.
Its great to see you are doing well and are keeping working hard.
We are still thinking of you here in the far South Africa. I will let the good news go around.
Also the girls keep asking for you and sent there best wishes.
We hope to see you again and we often think back to the times we where allowed to spent with your great family.
Antonie and Somerton Team.
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Big B
climber
Cody, Wyoming
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Hey Bobby, It sure has been a while since I have written to you, but you have always been in our thoughts. Kyle and I have been crazy busy, business has been good this year and hopefully 09 will be even better. We have been spending a lot of time working in Sheridan, as well as some good projects here in Cody. We are looking forward to the winter and getting out sand doing some skiing.I haven't been on my ski's in about three years. We are crossing our fingers that Sleepy might open.
Yesterday my wife Heather and I celebrated Jaidyn's 3rd birthday.What a wonder it is to look at the heart of a young child. Makes you think about how precious life really is and how important family is. As I read other messages on this forum I see the strength of your family, friends, and your own inner strength. You are an inspiration to all of us. Keep working hard, we are proud of you.
Brent, Heather, and Jaidyn Lohrenz
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Dennis Reed
climber
cody, wy
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Hi Bobby,
We still hold you in our thoughts and prayers! We can't wait to have you back in Cody as we would love to visit you! We are amazed by you and your families strength! Keep up the hard work!
Love,
Dennis, Misti, Nicholas and Kinsie Reed
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Mr. Southfork
Social climber
Cody, WY
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Oct 13, 2008 - 10:39am PT
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It's great to hear you're coming home and I'm sorry to have not written for so long!
I started my snowkiting season yesterday in the Bighorn Mtn's and missed your work. I badly need a photographer to help document my new winter passion and spread the news about the potential of this growing sport.
Take care and we'll see you soon on 12th Street.
Todd Cozzens
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Janet Cozzens
climber
Cody, WY
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Oct 22, 2008 - 12:11am PT
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Hey Bobby,
Can you see me jumping up and down??? I am so excited to hear that you will be coming home soon! My, how time flies. I have been so busy. The building is complete and I can't wait for you to see it. It is beautiful. There has been much action at the Collier Group. Mike is gone and they put me in as the acting Director for now. (What are they thinking?) Lots happenin'. You will not recognize the new building. It is brick now instead of the white rock on the outside, but it is lovely.
I really can't wait to see you. I have looked forward to that day for a very long time. I can't wait for you to be home and settled in in Cody Country again. We really miss you alot.
Todd's new endeavor at snow kiting is a kick in the pants to watch. Kirt hasn't committed to doing it yet, I think that noncommittal comes with age. Actually, I kind of like that noncommittal. I am kind of selfish that way.
The boys each lost a tooth 3 weeks ago and Cache just lost his second one yesterday. Cache is the younger of the two, so Brinson is falling behind. We had to be sure to explain that this is not competition though, or we would have two very toothless little boys. They are really something to see and watch grow. They never cease to amaze the heart of their mom.
You keep healing and getting better and getting stronger so that you can return to the wilds of Cody that you love so much and know that there are a lot of us here with open arms ready to wrap them around you and give you those hugs that we long to give to you. In the meantime, give your mom a hug from me and tell her that I can't wait to see her smiling face again.
Sorry it has been so long since I have written. I have been too busy to write, but know that I am never too busy to welcome you into my thoughts regularly.
Take care and I will see you soon!
Janet
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Oct 22, 2008 - 12:43am PT
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hey there all, and say bobby... say, i was just wondering if you are out enjoying the fall leaves....
up here in michigan, many colors are abounding, now...
someone just re-newed your "bobby model" thread, so i thought this was a good chance to jump in and see how you are enjoy the fall...
soon thanksgiving will be here...
i hope it will be even more wonderful than the plans yearn to be...
see---even us strangers still join in, and have not forgotten you!
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Nurse from South Africa
climber
South Africa
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Hi Bobby and Faith
I looked after Bobby in the ICU in south africa and still checking update regularly here. I am always overwelmed at Bobbys progress! Bobby, I left my job as a nurse and doing fulltime photography now. I'm opening my own studio in January, and will send you a image. We're also heading strong in our plans to klimb kiliman in Kenia next september!
Well- all that is well to you. And kisses and hugs to Faith and Anne.
Estie Thirion
0828285860
duanenestie@cinet.co.za
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