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LichenAndLoam

climber
Glacier National Park, Montana
Topic Author's Original Post - Oct 9, 2017 - 09:29pm PT
Does anybody know what’s going on? Chris Schulte posted HK passed away?
ionlyski

Trad climber
Polebridge, Montana
Oct 9, 2017 - 09:31pm PT
NO- I sure hope not. I love the Kennedy family.
Arne
thebravecowboy

climber
The Good Places
Oct 9, 2017 - 09:34pm PT
no. no. no.
kalockwood

climber
Salt Lake City
Oct 9, 2017 - 09:37pm PT
Post from Andrew Burr

https://www.instagram.com/p/BaC-5w7Fni-/?hl=en&taken-by=andrew_burr

The only information:
"skiing avalanche outside of Bozeman Montana somewhere."
10b4me

Mountain climber
Retired
Oct 9, 2017 - 10:03pm PT
I hope not. A quick internet search came up with nothing.
Matt's

climber
Oct 9, 2017 - 10:22pm PT
terribly sad, i'm at a loss. Judging from andrew bisharat's twitter, it does seem to be true.

definitely puts a new perspective on some of hayden's writings:

http://eveningsends.com/the-day-we-sent-logical-progression/
kunlun_shan

Mountain climber
SF, CA
Oct 9, 2017 - 11:53pm PT
Very sad news. Such a talented and bold climber.

I love how he deleted his social media presence a few years ago and rejected the concept of self promotion. My condolences to his mom and dad and many friends.
Jaybro

Social climber
Wolf City, Wyoming
Oct 10, 2017 - 04:41am PT
Sadly, true. heard yesterday
clinker

Trad climber
Santa Cruz, California
Oct 10, 2017 - 05:20am PT
Over the last few years, however, as I’ve watched too many friends go to the mountains only to never return, I’ve realized something painful. It’s not just the memorable summits and crux moves that are fleeting. Friends and climbing partners are fleeting, too. This is the painful reality of our sport, and I’m unsure what to make of it. Climbing is either a beautiful gift or a curse.

Hayden Kennedy
7SacredPools

Trad climber
Ontario, Canada
Oct 10, 2017 - 05:34am PT
Again, horrible news...
I really enjoyed his writing, a talented yet humble individual to be sure.
Squirrel Murphy

Trad climber
Oct 10, 2017 - 05:35am PT
Condolences to his family and friends. Just found this read:

http://www.alpinist.com/doc/ALP38/11-the-sharp-end
donini

Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
Oct 10, 2017 - 07:10am PT
Truly tragic....after Kyle Dempster’s death Hayden had decided to rachet back from cutting edge alpinism. Life has so many unfathomable twists and turns that can seem unfair....my son died tragically when he was only twenty.

My thoughts go out to Michael and Julie for the loss of their son who was special in so many ways. It will be a dufficult journey and the they will need their community around them.
Bldrjac

Ice climber
Boulder
Oct 10, 2017 - 07:10am PT
God, I'm broken hearted for Julie and Michael. The ultimate loss. Such a nice kid....talented, thoughtful, humble........so terribly sad.
Pam
Nick Danger

Ice climber
Arvada, CO
Oct 10, 2017 - 07:19am PT
SO VERY SAD! I did not know him but his writing and rep as a climber were impeccable. The loss of such a talented and thoughtful young man is so very sad. Sincere condolences to his family and friends.
JohnnyG

climber
Oct 10, 2017 - 07:30am PT
I truly enjoyed reading his article on eveningsends just last week. Such sad news.

http://eveningsends.com/the-day-we-sent-logical-progression/

My condolences to his friends and especially his family. Rest in peace, Hayden.
PhilG

Trad climber
The Circuit, Tonasket WA
Oct 10, 2017 - 07:32am PT
Very saddened by this news.
He was a good friend of my son and a great guy to know.
micronut

Trad climber
Fresno/Clovis, ca
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:04am PT
So sad. Literally just watched his vid of him and Ivo Ninov climbing the Bachar Yerian a couple days ago. Seemed like a vibrant, stoked, sincere dude who loved the mountains and his climbing community.


My deepest condolences to Julie and Michael and the entire tribe who knew him well.
Vitaliy M.

Mountain climber
San Francisco
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:05am PT
This is horrible. The evening sends article was the first piece of climbing literature that I read in a while. Started and couldn't stop reading, so good. Seemed like a very humble guy with incredible skills in the alpine, on rock and a very good writer. Very very very very sad. My prayers go out to the family and friends.
mike m

Trad climber
black hills
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:07am PT
This is so sad. I did not know him but followed him over the years. I had just watched his recent video late last week and so when my son texted me the news it hit like a punch to the gut. No climb is worth losing a kid to and it has me rethinking some of my own activities. So sorry to the family and everyone that knew him.
Gregory Crouch

Social climber
Walnut Creek, California
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:12am PT
What awful news. My most profound condolences to Julie and Micheal. I'm gutted for them. And for all of Hayden's many friends.
Brian in SLC

Social climber
Salt Lake City, UT
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:26am PT
Gut punch...just sorta takes the wind out of one's sails...

So sorry to hear this.
crøtch

climber
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:34am PT
Sad news. Condolences to his parents, loved ones and friends. I can't begin to imagine their loss. And my heart goes out to Jim Donini too.
guyman

Social climber
Moorpark, CA.
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:02am PT
Sad news.... much much to young.

Condolences to his Family and Friends.

L

climber
Tiptoeing through the chilly waters of life
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:17am PT
I, too, had just read his article on eveningsends, and after following his trajectory for the last couple of years, felt I was seeing the maturation of a unique and amazing young man.

My heartfelt condolences to his family and to his many friends.
Largo

Sport climber
The Big Wide Open Face
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:18am PT
During the writer's symposium in Carbondale a few months ago, Duane Raleigh and I had breakfast with Michael Kennedy and his son Hayden. Michael and I go way back to when we were both breaking into the writing business (Mike was running Climbing Mag out of a broom closet in Aspen). We had so many stories to reflect on - like the time we drove 500 miles in three days to try and photodocument all of the classic John Gill boulder problems - and John G. was along with us for some of the adventure. And of course Michael went onto Latok and beyond.

And then Hayden came along and blew up the whole scene with his fantastic medley of skills. And what a great, gracious human being. Michael and Julie were rightfully proud of their son, a shining star by any measure, now dimmed but still burning in our hearts.

I can only count myself blessed to have had that breakfast so few months ago.

Sending love and condolences to Michael and Julie (and all Hayden's many friends) during these hard days.
Chris McNamara

SuperTopo staff member
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:18am PT
Hayden was such an amazing individual and athlete. A true humble badass. All my thoughts to Michael, Julie, and his many friends. I didn't get to hang out with him nearly enough. But the time with him left an impression. Such a devastating blow for the whole Carbondale and broader mountain community.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BaEVRESh0GI/?hl=en&taken-by=mtavalanche

Largo

Sport climber
The Big Wide Open Face
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:25am PT
During the writer's symposium in Carbondale a few months ago, Duane Raleigh and I had breakfast with Michael Kennedy and his son Hayden. Michael and I go way back to when we were both breaking into the writing business (Mike was running Climbing Mag out of a broom closet in Aspen). We had so many stories to reflect on - like the time we drove 500 miles in three days to try and photodocument all of the classic John Gill boulder problems - and John G. was along with us for some of the adventure. And of course Michael went onto Latok and beyond.

And then Hayden came along and blew up the whole scene with his fantastic medley of skills. And what a great, gracious human being. Michael and Julie were rightfully proud of their son, a shining star by any measure, now dimmed but still burning in our hearts.

I can only count myself blessed to have had that breakfast so few months ago.

Sending love and condolences to Michael and Julie (and all Hayden's many friends) during these hard days.
ionlyski

Trad climber
Polebridge, Montana
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:36am PT
The first 5.12 I ever got on by toprope was handed to me by a 16 year old Hayden after he waltzed it and fixed it. Shortly thereafter, he drove, by himself from Carbondale all the way to Yosemite. He had never been there before. He got into Camp 4 that night, found a partner he didn't know and climbed the nose in a day the next day. Then he drove back home, only he didn't make it, crashing his car along the way from fatigue. His parent's joke was something like "we're fine with him going off and climbing El Cap, it's the driving we have to reign in now".

Later on, whenever we'd run into Julie & Michael at COR they'd always be so excited to share the latest news of their son, now that he was off on his own. We invited them to a couple of dinner parties but they replied, "we're driving down to Almo to get cell service. Hayden is planning to call us and we can't wait to hear from him". It was obvious he was their world to them.

April & I are very saddened by your loss.

Arne
shylock

Social climber
mb
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:51am PT
Too sad.. rip
Marlow

Sport climber
OSLO
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:05am PT

A couple of days ago, I read an article where Hayden shared his thoughts at this stage of his life. Thoughtful, truthful and well written. Now he is gone. Life is so strong and so fragile. My condolences to his mother and father, Julie and Michael...
SC seagoat

Trad climber
Santa Cruz, Moab, A sailboat, or some time zone
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:32am PT
Just not anything I can get my head around.
Feeling gutted

I hope Julie and Michael to find peace when the time is right.

Susan
Texplorer

Trad climber
Sacramento
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:38am PT
So sad to here this. Although I only knew him peripherally but regaled at his vision and achievements. Few people in our modern time carried the spirit of climbing the way he did. In a time when people are inoculating routes for the masses he pursued and sought to preserve the wildness, challenge, and adventure.

Condolences to his family and friends.
j-tree

Big Wall climber
Typewriters and Ledges
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:50am PT
Hard to hear about. Loved HK for all of his humility and general awesomeness.

Later on, whenever we'd run into Julie & Michael at COR they'd always be so excited to share the latest news of their son, now that he was off on his own. We invited them to a couple of dinner parties but they replied, "we're driving down to Almo to get cell service. Hayden is planning to call us and we can't wait to hear from him". It was obvious he was their world to them.
Reading stuff like this hits home even more.
Charlie D.

Trad climber
Western Slope, Tahoe Sierra
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:57am PT
This is horrific news, I understand that his girl friend Inga died as well. Sorry for having to post this.
Steve Grossman

Trad climber
Seattle, WA
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:03am PT
We all take risks to be in the mountain environment that nourishes us in so many ways but this accident is beyond tragic.
My heart goes out to Michael and Julie in losing such a bright and talented son so young and to the family and friends of Inga as well.
Just plain devastating loss for all of us...
norm larson

climber
wilson, wyoming
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:05am PT
No words can express my sorrow over Haydens and Inges passing.
Hayden was a fine young man who lived his life with impeccable style and as his chosen mate I'm sure Inge did too..
My heart goes out to the close friends and family of these two.
As much as we mourn their passing we must celebrate the time we had with them. Peace.
crankster

Trad climber
No. Tahoe
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:23am PT
Terrible news. Condolences to their families and many friends
Patrick Sawyer

climber
Originally California now Ireland
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:24am PT
Condolences.
msiddens

Trad climber
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:25am PT
RIP Hayden
cat t.

climber
california
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:38am PT
This is terrible. His piece a couple weeks ago was beautifully written and deeply resonant. Condolences to all who knew him; in addition to being an amazing climber, it seemed from his writing that he was a very thoughtful and loving person.
F

climber
away from the ground
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:46am PT
What a bummer. RIP Hayden and Inge.
Heavy stuff.
Travel safe in the mountains everyone.
rnevius

Trad climber
The Range of Light
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:59am PT
From Black Diamond on Facebook:

In Memory of Hayden Kennedy
It is with heavy hearts that we say goodbye to our friend, Ambassador and true brother of the BD tribe, Hayden Kennedy.
To say Hayden was a talented climber would be an understatement. To say he was one of the world’s best climbers is closer to the truth, yet even those words fall flat and fail miserably at truly describing what Hayden—or HK as we called him—really represented in our sport. He was, with all intents and purposes, a climber who transcended barriers. From high-end 5.14 sport routes at his home crag in Rifle, Colorado, to 5.14 trad lines in the Creek, to the first fair means ascent of Cerro Torre’s Southeast Ridge in Patagonia with Jason Kruk, or his first ascent with Kyle Dempster and Josh Warton on the south face of the Ogre in Pakistan.
Yet, even that run-on list of incredible achievements hardly captures the whole picture. In truth, trying to share the full breadth of HK’s transcendental abilities in the vertical world, which he effortlessly cultivated in a mere 27 years, is impossible.
But to be clear, he was by no means an elitist. In fact, as if born from a different generation, HK was a staunch believer in walking the walk, not talking the talk. You couldn’t find him on social media, and until a few years ago he clung to his malfunctioning, archaic flip phone as if it was a crucial piece to his rack. In short, HK climbed to climb, not to spray. And it was the moments in the mountains that mattered most to him, not “instatweetingmyfacegram” as he would often joke with his friends.
HK’s depth went well beyond climbing, however. In high school he played the sax, and recently he applied that musical theory to the guitar while recovering from a torn ACL in his hometown of Carbondale, Colorado. He diligently practiced during the length of that winter’s recovery, and soon had a repertoire of songs that hinted at his eclectic tastes in music. From old school country to classic rock, to German electronica, he absorbed it all with the same ease that he applied to his climbing. Alpine, sport, trad; country, metal, folk. To HK, it was all good.
For someone so multi-faceted, just climbing wasn’t enough. Whether he was talking at length about his latest reading list, or immersed in the finer points of baking bread, HK was constantly searching for new avenues of self-expression, and new ways to live. He often wrote about his expeditions to the greater ranges—frequently publishing pieces in Alpinist, Rock and Ice, Evening Sends and other mags and websites—and his ability to weave a meaningful narrative through the trials and tribulations of climbing was innate. He also incorporated this skill into his live presentations, where he’d hold the audience rapt with tales that often crossed into the deeper reaches of loss and love and how they become undivided in a life of climbing.
What he had recently found, though, was Inge. Inge Perkins was every bit Hayden’s equal. A brilliant climber, skier, and beautiful soul, Inge was HK’s latest source of dedication—and his commitment was unwavering as always.
Inge and HK had moved to Bozeman, Montana, together in the last few months. On Saturday, October 7, they headed into the backcountry of southwestern Montana for an early season ski tour. On Saturday Inge was killed in an avalanche. Unable to bear the loss of his partner in life, the following day, Sunday, October 8, Hayden Kennedy took his own life.
Our hearts go out to their families, and anyone they touched along the way.
We know the list is innumerable.
drF

Trad climber
usa
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:03pm PT
GDamn....so incredibly sad ;-(

RIP Hayden and Inge
hossjulia

Trad climber
Carson City, NV
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:04pm PT
This is terrible news, Condolances to Michael and Julie and the entire tribe.
My heart is aching over this sad news.
marty(r)

climber
beneath the valley of ultravegans
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:05pm PT
Super bummed. The past decade has really taken its toll.

Looking back at Hayden's writing and adventuring--from his old blog WuTang Climber, to that film of the Bachar Yerian with Ivo ("I'm a straight G"), to his first forays down in Patagonia, to all the stuff that lead up to this news--he really grew a ton through his time "out there."

Can't imagine the pain his folks are going through right now, particularly because of their deep connections in this community and all those they've lost through the years.

Sending hugs to his partners...and to my own. Wish the tribe could get a little respite from all this loss.
Alan Rubin

climber
Amherst,MA.
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:15pm PT
What horrible, tragic news. Condolences to both families.
LichenAndLoam

climber
Glacier National Park, Montana
Topic Author's Reply - Oct 10, 2017 - 12:20pm PT
Black Diamond just posted something.. HK took his own life. It was his girlfriend who passed in the avalanche and he took his own life afterward
MH2

Boulder climber
Andy Cairns
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:21pm PT
Hard to take.
Late Starter

Social climber
NA
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:27pm PT
Very Sad. Rest in Peace.
steve s

Trad climber
eldo
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:29pm PT
Words can not describe my sadness on hearing about this. RIP Hayden and Inge.
Ghost

climber
A long way from where I started
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:30pm PT
No man is an island, entire of itself;
Every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main;
If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less,
As well as if a promontory were,
As well as if a manor of thy friend's or of thine own were;
Any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind,
And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls;
It tolls for thee.
-- John Donne, 1624


Bargainhunter

climber
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:35pm PT
Heartbreaking
renzo

Trad climber
Whitefish Mt
Oct 10, 2017 - 12:52pm PT
The pain cave is going to be alive forever on this one. Thanks Hayden for giving all of us so much joy and inspiration.
Happy Cowboy

Social climber
Boz MT
Oct 10, 2017 - 01:09pm PT
stunned and saddened, r.i.p. deepest condolences to all family and friends.
There's a brief report on the local avy site w' pics on right sidebar. http://www.mtavalanche.com/current

bpope

climber
Sunnyvale, CA
Oct 10, 2017 - 01:17pm PT
some details and thoughts from his recently published piece aggregated on adventure journal: https://www.adventure-journal.com/2017/10/climber-hayden-kennedy-dead-montana-avalanche/

though many of us who didn't know HK or Inge personally, his spirit has come across in numerous ways, leaving many gutted. condolences to his family, friends, and community.
Clint Cummins

Trad climber
SF Bay area, CA
Oct 10, 2017 - 01:18pm PT
From the above link:
Both skiers were caught, skier 1 was partially buried and skier 2 was fully buried. Skier 1 searched for skier 2, was unable to locate her, and then hiked himself out from the area. On Monday, Gallatin County Search and Rescue recovered the body of skier 2. They located her with avalanche probes, buried 3’ deep.
Devastating.
http://rockandice.com/climbing-world-mourns-loss-hayden-kennedy-inge-perkins/
John Mac

Trad climber
Breckenridge, CO
Oct 10, 2017 - 01:51pm PT
This is so sad.
Arti

Trad climber
Vancouver, BC
Oct 10, 2017 - 01:59pm PT
My sincere, condolences to all of Hayden's friends and family.

A few years ago I remember listening to the two-part Enormocast with Hayden Kennedy and Chris Kalous thinking what a humble and great alpinist he was. It was really inspiring and I still think about it today.

Part 1
Part 2
AP

Trad climber
Calgary
Oct 10, 2017 - 02:32pm PT
It is sad to see the young bright lights exit.
Mike Honcho

Trad climber
Glenwood Springs, CO
Oct 10, 2017 - 03:03pm PT
My Wife and I being active BASE jumpers, as well as mostly climbers, this is the most heartbreaking thing ever. Dammit.. so sorry dude.
limpingcrab

Trad climber
the middle of CA
Oct 10, 2017 - 03:11pm PT
I can't imagine.

Details on the conditions at the time and a nice tribute to each person:

http://snowbrains.com/2-skiers-caught-avalanche-to-montana-saturday-one-killed-survivor-took-life-grief/
jgill

Boulder climber
The high prairie of southern Colorado
Oct 10, 2017 - 03:26pm PT
Too young. Too soon.
Yeti

Trad climber
Ketchum, Idaho
Oct 10, 2017 - 03:39pm PT
This from Michael Kennedy:

Inge Perkins & Hayden Kennedy
HAYDEN KENNEDY 1990-2017
Having lived for 27 years with the great joy and spirit that was Hayden Kennedy, we share the loss of our son and his partner Inge Perkins as the result of an avalanche in the southern Madison Mountains near Bozeman, Montana, on October 7th.
Inge Perkin’s body was recovered by the Gallatin National Forest Avalanche Center at the base of Mt. Imp on October 9th. Hayden survived the avalanche but not the unbearable loss of his partner in life. He chose to end his life. Myself and his mother Julie sorrowfully respect his decision.
Hayden truly was an uncensored soul whose accomplishments as a mountaineer were always secondary to his deep friendships and mindfulness.
He recently moved to Bozeman to work on his EMT certification while Inge completed her bachelor’s degree in mathematics and education at Montana State University.
Julie and I are on our way to Bozeman from Europe, as are Inge’s mother and stepfather. Memorial arrangements are still pending.

“Over the last few years, however, as I’ve watched too many friends go to the mountains only to never return, I’ve realized something painful,” wrote Hayden in Evening Sends just last month. “It’s not just the memorable summits and crux moves that are fleeting. Friends and climbing partners are fleeting, too. This is the painful reality of our sport, and I’m unsure what to make of it. Climbing is either a beautiful gift or a curse.”


micronut

Trad climber
Fresno/Clovis, ca
Oct 10, 2017 - 03:43pm PT
On Saturday, October 7th 2017, a backcountry skier, famous climber Inge Perkins, was fully buried and killed in an avalanche while approaching Imp Peak, MT. Her ski partner, famous climber Hayden Kennedy, was only partially buried by the avalanche, searched for his buried partner, couldn’t find her, hiked out, and notified authorities.

The next day, Hayden took his own life in grief.

I just read this. The fact that he took his own life only deepens the tragedy.
tradmanclimbs

Ice climber
Pomfert VT
Oct 10, 2017 - 03:55pm PT
Damn.. tears in the keyboard.......
tradmanclimbs

Ice climber
Pomfert VT
Oct 10, 2017 - 03:56pm PT
He must have needed to be with her.
supafly

Trad climber
vancouver, bc
Oct 10, 2017 - 04:29pm PT
What a sad, sad story :`(

I've followed Hayden around the world, the two biggest memories are his amazing Patagonia bolt-chop-fest with Jason Kruk and the little video below.

https://vimeo.com/50101783
Happy Cowboy

Social climber
Boz MT
Oct 10, 2017 - 04:54pm PT
Yeti, thanks for the contribution ^^^^. Deep sorrow

Side note Yeti, we climbed together in Tetons/Irene's in mid 70's.
I live south of Boz near Leverech. My #586-7853 Donnie Black
WBraun

climber
Oct 10, 2017 - 04:54pm PT
He must have needed to be with her.

That's NOT how you do it.

You end up even farther away.

So sad .....

neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Oct 10, 2017 - 05:58pm PT
hey there say, all... i just read this on a friend's page at facebook share, ... so very sad to hear this...

my prayers and condolences to his family and their loved ones...


:(
Avery

climber
New Zealand
Oct 10, 2017 - 05:59pm PT
This is truly heartbreaking.

My heart bleeds for all concerned.
Kalimon

Social climber
Ridgway, CO
Oct 10, 2017 - 06:03pm PT
Truly heart crushing to hear that this incredibly sincere, talented young man has left the physical plane. My best thoughts to the people that loved him the most. Such an inspiring individual all the way around . . . bless you Hayden.
drF

Trad climber
usa
Oct 10, 2017 - 06:05pm PT
^^^^
Good to see you posting up Avery!
anita514

Gym climber
Great White North
Oct 10, 2017 - 06:13pm PT
So heartbreaking and sad
:(
TwistedCrank

climber
Released into general population, Idaho
Oct 10, 2017 - 06:24pm PT
They all hurt.

This one really hurts.
Delhi Dog

climber
Good Question...
Oct 10, 2017 - 06:48pm PT
A shit!
I was going to post yesterday but held out hope that it wasn't true.
So very sorry to all family and friends.
I'm really at a loss for words.

RichWelk

Trad climber
San Diego
Oct 10, 2017 - 07:03pm PT
Unreal... heart breaking. RIP to both.
phylp

Trad climber
Upland, CA
Oct 10, 2017 - 07:08pm PT
This is tragic, stunning news.
There are no words...
Prayers for the families and friends of these two bright young souls.
Ed Hartouni

Trad climber
Livermore, CA
Oct 10, 2017 - 07:23pm PT
A great sadness overcomes me upon reading of Hayden and Inge.

I didn't have the honor of knowing Hayden but his presence and his accomplishments and his manner all filled my heart with the joy of knowing that climbing as I know it and practice it was in the good hands of this remarkable climber and his partners to carry into the future.

My thoughts go out to his family and friends.

murcy

Gym climber
sanfrancisco
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:04pm PT
Horrible. This world is all there is. She wouldn't want you to pass up the rest of it for a gesture. And you shouldn't have. But we have to be in awe of your real depth, which we see in your writings and in your acts.
SteveW

Trad climber
The state of confusion
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:27pm PT
My condolences to Hayden's family and friends.
Terrible.
krahmes

Social climber
Stumptown
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:48pm PT
I was sad when I heard the news and then as the details came out, I was at a bigger loss as the tale became a tragedy. Condolences to family and friends of Inge and Hayden. A rogue avalanche in early autumn…
AKDOG

Mountain climber
Anchorage, AK
Oct 10, 2017 - 08:57pm PT
Condolences to the family and friends of these two.
As a parent, climber and skier this just makes me sad
JLP

Social climber
The internet
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:27pm PT
Wow...

RIP.
Tarbuster

climber
right here, right now
Oct 10, 2017 - 09:35pm PT
Hayden grew up at the right time, in the right place, and had the best possible father to be the alpinist and climber we all dream of becoming.

Watching our youthful hero from afar, he seemed so well-adjusted and in such good humor, I held him out as a beacon for my hopes of the generational continuance in the artful practice of movement and striving toward sharing and fulfillment that we all find so alluring in the mountain crafts.

This (the whole story) is just beyond measure.

Sincerest condolences to Inge's family.
Michael, Julie, my heart goes out to you and your family.
bbbeans

Trad climber
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:03pm PT
What a legend. RIP dude.
skywalker1

Trad climber
co
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:41pm PT
Ah sh#t is about all I can say at the moment.

S...
Wen

Trad climber
Bend, OR
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:54pm PT
I'm just so sorry, to the Kennedy and Perkins families, but also to the climbing community at large as we endure another loss. The passing of such young, vibrant, eloquent and accomplished people make no sense. May their families feel the love of our tribe surrounding them today, and in the many days ahead.
nah000

climber
now/here
Oct 10, 2017 - 10:59pm PT
usually i can see a glimmer of silver... in just about anything.

but so far, this one seems to me to be black through and through.

only thing i know is that by all outward indications, we lost two of what we need to make this a better world.



i wish there was something/anything more substantive to offer than condolences to inge’s and hayden’s family and friends...
LuckyPink

climber
the last bivy
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:23pm PT
He had lost already two of his friends to similar circumstances recently. Sometimes Grief is too much to bear. Peace. So sad.
shipoopoi

Big Wall climber
oakland
Oct 10, 2017 - 11:26pm PT
our hearts go out to the parents and families of both individuals, especially julie and Michael. hk had definitely elevated to a mastery of many climbing elements, and we salute his accomplishments, skill, and drive. steve schneider and heather baer
Blakey

Trad climber
Sierra Vista
Oct 11, 2017 - 06:35am PT
This is a tragic business, the very dignified words of Hayden's parents perhaps show the way forward.

Condolences to all who knew them.

Regards,

Steve

CPorter

Trad climber
London
Oct 11, 2017 - 06:40am PT
It reads like a Greek tragedy. RIP to you both.
steveA

Trad climber
Wolfeboro, NH
Oct 11, 2017 - 06:44am PT
Such tragic news!

My heart goes out to the parents and close friends of HK, and Inge.
Bad Climber

Trad climber
The Lawless Border Regions
Oct 11, 2017 - 07:18am PT
There's not much I can add here except that it is a measure of who Hayden was that so many of us who never met him are still broken up about his passing. I only encountered him through a podcast, his recent writings and other stuff on the net. He seemed like such a genuine good soul, not to mention insanely talented on the vertical. Condolences to his friends and family. Indeed, his parents' words are impressive.

I need to learn more about Inge. The mountains sometimes ask too much of us.

BAd
steve shea

climber
Oct 11, 2017 - 07:23am PT
A tragic love story. Condolences to friends and family.
Spider Savage

Mountain climber
The shaggy fringe of Los Angeles
Oct 11, 2017 - 09:50am PT
Like Romeo and Juliette, together in eternity.

[Click to View YouTube Video]
Happy Cowboy

Social climber
Boz MT
Oct 11, 2017 - 10:04am PT
I'm still struggling with the sadness. My heart goes out to the family's.

The Gallatin Forest Avalanche center will have a report forthcoming.
I've not seen 'Beacons' mentioned. I worry.
aspendougy

Trad climber
Los Angeles, CA
Oct 11, 2017 - 10:21am PT
The worst thing that can happen to a parent is receiving the word that they have lost their child. Around the turn of the last century, Dr. Maurice Bucke wrote a classic book on COSMIC CONSCIOUSNESS, a state where past, future, death, life, are no more; it is all One. Like the Kennedy's, he lost his son in the prime of life. He wrote a letter to his son at the beginning of the book as a dedication. Here it is, maybe the perspective will help:

"A year ago to-day, in the prime of youth, of health and of strength, in an instant, by a terrible and fatal accident, you were removed forever from this world in which your mother and I still live.

Of all young men I have known you were the most pure, the most noble, the most honorable, the most tender-hearted. In the business of life you were industrious, honest, faithful, intelligent and entirely trustworthy. How at the time we felt your loss--how we still feel it--I would not set down even if I could. I desire to speak here of my confident hope, not of my pain.

I will say that through the experiences which underlie this volume I have been taught, that in spite of death and the grave, although you are beyond the range of our sight and hearing, notwithstanding that the universe of sense testifies to your absence, you are not dead and not really absent, but alive and well and not far from me this moment. If I have been permitted--no, not to enter, but--through the narrow aperture of a scarcely opened door, to glance one instant into that other divine world, it was surely that I might thereby be enabled to live through the receipt of those lightning-flashed words from Montana which time burns only deeper and deeper into my brain.

Only a little while now and we shall be again together and with us those other noble and well beloved souls gone before. I am sure I shall meet you and them; that you and I shall talk of a thousand things and of that unforgettable day and of all that followed it; and that we shall clearly see that all were parts of an infinite plan which was wholly wise and good. Do you see and approve as I write these words? It may well be. Do you read from within what I am now thinking and feeling? If you do you know how dear to me you were while you yet lived and what we call life here and how much more dear you have become to me since.

Because of the indissoluble links of birth and death wrought by I inscribe to you this book, which, full as it is of imperfections which render it unworthy of your acceptance, has nevertheless sprung from the divine assurance born of the deepest insight of the noblest members of your race.

So long! dear boy."

YOUR FATHER


Gene Pool

Trad climber
A trailer park in Santa Cruz
Oct 11, 2017 - 10:36am PT
Damn. What a devastating loss.

I met Hayden and his Dad in Tuolumne years ago when Hayden was in High School. They were climbing for a month or so together. They ran past us on Fairview dome. He had a small set of nuts and a couple cams. Rest day. Next day they were messing around on Medlicott...The BY of course.

We hung out a couple evenings around a camp fire. Seeing him and his Dad certainly influenced me in having kids. For Michael - a true lover of Mountains - to have had that time with Hayden must have been a peak experience in a life of many summits.

I can't let myself imagine his heartbreak.
Daphne

Trad climber
Northern California
Oct 11, 2017 - 11:40am PT
I send love to all the people mourning this tragic loss.

These repeated losses, in the midst of larger chaos, are so hard to wrap my mind around.
I am reminded that it is best to express our love and gratitude for those we love, every day. To each person reading this, who is a personal friend and even if we have only met online, you mean the world to me.
susu

climber
East Bay, CA
Oct 11, 2017 - 12:23pm PT
I did not know of Hayden and Inge til now but find this heartbreaking. Sincere condolences to family and friends and all those they touch.
[Click to View YouTube Video]

moacman

Trad climber
Montuckyian Via Canada Eh!
Oct 11, 2017 - 01:11pm PT
Much sorrow for all that knew them.

Stevo
Clint Cummins

Trad climber
SF Bay area, CA
Oct 11, 2017 - 06:30pm PT
http://rockandice.com/remembering-hayden-kennedy/
by Alison Osius
marty(r)

climber
beneath the valley of ultravegans
Oct 11, 2017 - 09:04pm PT
Degaine

climber
Oct 12, 2017 - 12:06pm PT
My sincerest condolences to Michael and Julie (who I don't know) and all family and friends. I can't imagine the pain they're experiencing, and if there was a way I could help absorb some of it I would.

Just sad.
Don Paul

Big Wall climber
Denver CO
Oct 13, 2017 - 01:28pm PT
Never met him but heard his interviews on the Enormocast and was inspired by what he did on the Compressor Route.
BigB

Trad climber
Red Rock
Oct 13, 2017 - 01:30pm PT
^^^Ive said the same thing. Even before this event happened I felt that way....but then Ive never climbed it.. so I really have NO say.
Mark Hudon

Trad climber
On the road.
Oct 13, 2017 - 07:30pm PT
He was one of the nicest people I’ve ever met.
Tarbuster

climber
right here, right now
Oct 13, 2017 - 09:08pm PT
Obit for Inge and Hayden, by Chris Van Leuven in Climbing magazine:

https://www.climbing.com/news/remembering-hayden-kennedy-and-inge-perkins/

................................

Interview with Inge Perkins:

http://www.thesewordslikerocks.com/journal/the-work-behind-the-body-inge-perkins

................................


Hayden Kennedy, Kyle Dempster, The Ogre, Piolets d'Or 2013 Winners:

[Click to View YouTube Video]


Nick Berry, Hayden Kennedy, Hallucinogen Wall, Black Canyon, nine hours, no falls, mank gear in situ, 5.13:

https://vimeo.com/117503263


Hayden Kennedy, Carbondale Short Bus, Indian Creek, 5.14-

https://vimeo.com/50101783
CPorter

Trad climber
London
Oct 14, 2017 - 01:20am PT
Analysis: http://www.mtavalanche.com/accident/17/10/12

Go to the PDF if you want to understand the details


Happy Cowboy

Social climber
Boz MT
Oct 14, 2017 - 04:47am PT
This link c/o CPorter is the complete report. Sad details revealed.
Winters coming...get your beacon working and use it.
Oldfattradguy2

Trad climber
Here and there
Oct 14, 2017 - 07:08am PT
A sad tragedy for all involved my condolences for all involved/ affected.

A reminder for all to us to put the beacon on and turn it on when leaving the house. Also not a bad idea to have one of the pieps/BD key fob beacon checkers.
John Mac

Trad climber
Breckenridge, CO
Oct 17, 2017 - 06:41am PT
No need to turn it on at home, just do a frigging beacon test when you leave the trail head or put your skis on!

Be safe out there.
F

climber
away from the ground
Oct 17, 2017 - 08:49am PT


http://www.snowpit.com/articles/traps%20reprint.pdf

The abstract-

Abstract: Even though people are capable of making decisions in a thorough and methodical way, it appears that most of the time they don’t. A growing body of research suggests that people unconsciously use simple rules of thumb, or heuristics, to navigate the routine complexities of modern life. In this paper, I examine evidence that four of these heuristics – familiarity, social proof, commitment and scarcity – have influenced the decisions of avalanche victims. Using a quantitative method to define the level of hazard exposure in 598 avalanche accidents in the United States, I compare the behavior of the victims when heuristic cues were present to their behavior when these cues were absent. Key findings of this study include: 1) evidence that social proof, commitment, and scarcity traps were significant in many accidents, 2) evidence that group size influenced susceptibility to certain heuristic traps, and 3) evidence that the level of avalanche training in victims influenced their susceptibility to heuristic traps. These findings strongly support the idea that tools for managing heuristic traps are essential for effective avalanche education.
Brian in SLC

Social climber
Salt Lake City, UT
Oct 17, 2017 - 12:28pm PT
Such benign looking terrain...ugh...

There but for the grace...

Early season, shallow snow pack, wind drifted snow. Tough to consider slope angles especially on the approach to an objective. Especially with no visible slide path, trees, etc. Just didn't look that deadly.

Sure, its a good reminder to get the proper kit and make sure its in good working order, etc...but...you gotta have that brain turned on and tuned in. Even in subtle terrain.

These kids have soooo much horsepower and their gear is top notch. Even with a gob of experience, its hard to maintain focus especially in even a small group.

Good reminder as we head into winter and ski season. Be cautious and conservative.

Take care out there!
Gunkie

Trad climber
Valles Marineris
Oct 18, 2017 - 11:09am PT
Flat out heartbreaking.
Dr Awkward

Trad climber
Ithaca
Oct 18, 2017 - 12:00pm PT
I did not know Hayden, but I got to know Michael and Julie years ago in Aspen. I always considered Michael and Julie to be among the best features of the town; they were talented, vibrant and gracious, just lovely people: icons with great attitudes.

It seems Hayden took that torch in hand and charged forward on the trail blazed by his parents.

I don't know him, and I miss him. My heart breaks for Michael and Julie.
HighTraverse

Trad climber
Bay Area
Oct 21, 2017 - 04:45pm PT
Something of Hayden's thoughts are in his published words (posted here earlier).

“Over the last few years, however, as I’ve watched too many friends go to the mountains only to never return, I’ve realized something painful,” wrote Hayden in Evening Sends just last month. “It’s not just the memorable summits and crux moves that are fleeting. Friends and climbing partners are fleeting, too. This is the painful reality of our sport, and I’m unsure what to make of it. Climbing is either a beautiful gift or a curse.”
Even as a young man, Hayden had already lost many friends. To be present when his lover died would have been a horrendous blow of shock and later survivor's guilt.

My deepest sympathies to Michael, Julie and Allison. I too have lost a son far too young and am sharing your tears.
Fred Glover
Los Gatos, CA
aspendougy

Trad climber
Los Angeles, CA
Oct 21, 2017 - 06:09pm PT
http://www.nytimes.com/1982/04/23/style/mother-gives-faith-to-others.html

Losing a child is very painful. This lady had four children; three of them were born with Cooley's Anemia. Both she and these three children knew that they would die before they were twenty years old, and all three did.

She said that all three of the children rejoiced in each day they were given. When a friend asked her how she could still be a happy person, after having lost the three children, she basically said that her kids, although they knew their lives would be short, rejoiced in each day, so she could not dishonor them by doing any less.

Studly

Trad climber
WA
Oct 21, 2017 - 06:26pm PT
The Bhagavad Gita

Chapter II

19 Who believes him a slayer And who thinks him slain, Both these understand not: He slays not, is not slain.

20. He is not born, nor does he ever die; Nor having come to be, will he ever come not to be. Unborn, eternal, everlasting, this ancient one Is not slain when the body is slain.

22. As leaving aside worn-out garments A man takes other, new ones, So leaving aside worn-out bodies To other, new ones goes the embodied soul.

26. Moreover, even if constantly born Or constantly dying thou considerest him, Even so, great-armed one, thou Shouldst not mourn him,

30. This embodied soul is eternally unslayable In the body of everyone, son of Bharata; Therefore all beings Thou shouldst not mourn.
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Oct 21, 2017 - 11:51pm PT
hey there say, aspendougy ...

very nice to share that...

everyday, is precious... we live and work,
with what we have, and what we are, and grown and become
'something' that we may not have ever dreamed of-- and, or, more...
for whatever time-space, we have...


that woman taught her kids, to do that well...
Rick A

climber
Boulder, Colorado
Nov 5, 2017 - 05:12pm PT
WyoRockMan

climber
Grizzlyville, WY
Nov 6, 2017 - 08:59am PT
HK tribute:

https://vimeo.com/240945690
micronut

Trad climber
Fresno/Clovis, ca
Nov 6, 2017 - 09:15am PT
Beautiful tribute so full of stoke. I never knew him but wish I could have.

I wish he could have pulled through those initial moments after the tragedy and realized how much his suicide would have affected so many and how staying here would have positively affected so many people. What a loss.

My sincere condolences again to his family and all who knew him. He seemed like the genuine article and such a ray of light.
renzo

Trad climber
Whitefish Mt
Nov 6, 2017 - 02:04pm PT
That is one one of the most beautiful films I have watched.
Toker Villain

Big Wall climber
Toquerville, Utah
Nov 7, 2017 - 02:13pm PT
Never got to meet him, but the photos remind me of his dad.

I cannot fathom the loss he and Julie feel but my heart goes out to them.


In time I hope climbers remember his brilliance.
scaredycat

Trad climber
Berkeley,CA
Nov 7, 2017 - 06:47pm PT


sh#t, sh#t sh#t sh#t.

I'm so sorry for those who knew them and wish there was something good I could say. I do know that I have been so lucky so have survived this long an would gladly pass on some of that luck to those two.

forgive me if I delete this after a bit thought; but love and respect to the awesome parents and family who produced Hayden and Inge.
JLP

Social climber
The internet
Nov 7, 2017 - 08:54pm PT
That video was amazing. I've run into Hayden many times over the years, as climbers. He always engaged, was always full of life to share.
nature

climber
Boulder, CO
Nov 8, 2017 - 03:44pm PT
Wow Rick... just WOW. Though sad that photo is perfect.
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Nov 20, 2017 - 05:22pm PT
hey there say, all... a friend just shared this... and, i had never heard it before, ... but-- it reminded me of hayden and his beloved inge...


https://www.yout[Click to View YouTube Video]ube.com/watch?v=2Vv-BfVoq4g


hope it helps, in some special way, to keep their memory,
in a good way, alive...
Mad69Dog

Ice climber
Dec 2, 2017 - 07:15am PT
Life is precious, and it goes by in the wink of an eye.

Keep your soul alive and strengthen your spirit so you can help those that love and lean on you.
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Feb 12, 2018 - 02:44pm PT
hey there say, tami... thank you so much for sharing this...

and, your heartfelt feelings...
donini

Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
Feb 12, 2018 - 03:25pm PT
Your thoughts echo mine Tami. No guarantees that life will follow a pattern. Appreciate your daily encounters with your loved ones and don’t hesitate to tell them how you feel about them. Live for the day, don’t think that the next one is a given.
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