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Burt
Social climber
Angelus Oaks, Ca
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Topic Author's Original Post - Aug 27, 2014 - 04:01pm PT
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There will be a memorial on August 30th @ 6PM in Blue Diamond, Nevada at the Quonset Hut just outside of Las Vegas. Beer, Wine, and light snacks will be provided. Please feel free to bring food and booze potluck style. There will be a slideshow sometime during the evening. This is a celebration of Brian's life, so come and hang out, swap stories and celebrate Brian.
Kurt Burt
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Tiff A
climber
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Aug 27, 2014 - 04:04pm PT
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We've been getting a lot of questions regarding where people can send flowers or cards. In lieu of sending flowers we ask that you send a card to Brian's grandmother. She was a loving presence throughout his life and, as anyone can understand, she is having a difficult time right now. If you have a good, upbeat story about Brian, please write it in a card and send it to his grandmother (mind your language in your letters please, she is a 92 year-old lady after all). Stories of Brian would do more than any flowers ever could.
Please send cards to:
Melba McCray
One Country Lane, Apt B105
Brookville, Ohio 45309
Thank you,
Tiffany and KurtBurt
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Aug 27, 2014 - 06:47pm PT
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hey there say, Tiff A... this is very sweet to do...
burt, may the memorial do a lot of healing and comfort, in the midst of this painful loss... :(
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filmcookie
climber
nashville
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Aug 27, 2014 - 06:53pm PT
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i'm a bit speechless right now. words cannot express how much this means. i am with grandma now and she's hanging in there. when i travel home this weekend, a bit of the weight will be lifted knowing she will be feeling love from all over the world. she does love a good story.
thank you kurt (for everything you've written and done)
thank you tiff
thank you flo, you are amazing.
thank you each and every single one of you.
love to all,
kim
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Burt
Social climber
Angelus Oaks, Ca
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Topic Author's Reply - Aug 27, 2014 - 09:48pm PT
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Kim it has truly been an honor to be Brian's friend. My entire adult life has been spent with him looking out for me. He has guided me the best he could and scolded me when I was out of line. When I was going through my divorce he was there for me so much, but he let me know how some of the blame was mine. He let me know that how I treated my wife was not the way to treat a wife. Even though he needed to be there for me, he was always there to point me in a direction to make myself a better person. I got a beautiful text from my ex wife today about how much Brian meant to her as well. She reminded me that he was not only there for me during my major climbing accident, but how much he was there for her. She was pregnant with my 2nd son and I laid in a hospital bed unable to move and possible paralysis on the table, he comforted her and helped her with so many things that she couldn't do. Yes he was a rock star to the climbing community, but to me he was so much more. He was so caring and loyal, and he just happend to just climb really well and drag me around on his adventures. He talked about grandma so much, and loved going back east to see her which he did every chance he got. I write these personal things to help show him how only a few got to see him. He was a brash, salty character (that could piss you off in seconds, but a flash of that awkward smile of his and instantly you could forget why you where mad at him) but he was also so kind and thoughtful. He left his mark and while my own selfish anger wants him here with me, something told him that his work was done here. I am a better person because of Brian McCray.
Kurt or Burt... Or whatever the hell your name is today... My favorite voicemail he's left me in recent times...
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Aug 28, 2014 - 02:30am PT
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hey there say, burt... and tiff... just sent a card to the gramma...
say, please, also, email your own address, i have something for you, as well...
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Aug 28, 2014 - 08:37am PT
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I sure hope someone is bringing a disco ball!
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Burt
Social climber
Angelus Oaks, Ca
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Topic Author's Reply - Aug 28, 2014 - 04:51pm PT
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Disco ball and beer and maybe some top hats!
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horsethief
Sport climber
garden grove ca
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Aug 28, 2014 - 05:04pm PT
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Ill bring the Grizzly, ant the Marlboro Reds…. If I can score a ride:)
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Burt
Social climber
Angelus Oaks, Ca
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Topic Author's Reply - Aug 28, 2014 - 08:06pm PT
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Damn! We just left so cal this morning! Hitch, prostitute, and hike! This is going to be the send off Brian deserves! Vegas style! Come on out all and share stories!
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rockcpa
climber
Fayetteville, WV
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Aug 29, 2014 - 06:32am PT
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I won't make the memorial but here's a memory:
Brian & I left Fayetteville late one Friday for Nelson Rocks. I had a old and uninsured Vdub, crossing the NRG bridge a metal plate I had just welded to the bottom of the passenger side floorboard came half loose, showering the road and Brian with sparks.
We pulled over and kicked the thing off and got out of there before a friendly cop showed up.
Brian spent the next three hours staring at the road between his feet laughing about the things he saw down there and wondering if the whole passenger seat was next.
We made Nelson and the climb was good, sure, but the journey was way better.
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Aug 29, 2014 - 11:34pm PT
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Blue Diamond is where you want to be tomorrow night! It's looking to be a good time.
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Burt
Social climber
Angelus Oaks, Ca
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Topic Author's Reply - Aug 29, 2014 - 11:46pm PT
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Beer, chips, liquor, stories, and pictures... Let's send this MF off like he wanted. Let's rock this place.
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Todd Gordon
Trad climber
Joshua Tree, Cal
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Aug 31, 2014 - 11:29am PT
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Jim and I drove from So. Cal to vegas to attend the memorial for Brian. It was well attended and an evening of love and respect for Brian. It was bitter sweet;.....we all miss him, but we are all so happy to have known such a wonderful and awesome human. The slide show was mega awesome;....beautiful , emotional and inspiring......
Rest in peace, my friend.
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Todd Gordon
Trad climber
Joshua Tree, Cal
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Aug 31, 2014 - 11:30am PT
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Todd Gordon
Trad climber
Joshua Tree, Cal
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Aug 31, 2014 - 11:31am PT
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Todd Gordon
Trad climber
Joshua Tree, Cal
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Aug 31, 2014 - 11:32am PT
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Toker Villain
Big Wall climber
Toquerville, Utah
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Aug 31, 2014 - 12:16pm PT
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Bird now looks like he could do as narrow a squeeze chimney as me.
He told me he is building bullpup .22s, and I said, "too bad you can't get any ammo for them." and he scowled and started explaining yet again about the government conspiracy.
The bullpups were interesting. I checked for empty chambers, after which he muzzle swept me yet again. I grabbed the end of the barrel and pushed it aside, to which he said, "but you just checked it."
"General principles."
Ironically, on the way out I stopped at Walmart for a large thing of pomegranate juice, and lo and behold scored 3 one-hundred rd boxes of premium .22 @ $7 each!
Anyway, to see that crowd, Brian checking out makes even less sense.
What is it about climbers that so many,.....
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Todd Gordon
Trad climber
Joshua Tree, Cal
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Aug 31, 2014 - 01:25pm PT
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Todd Gordon
Trad climber
Joshua Tree, Cal
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Aug 31, 2014 - 09:13pm PT
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Todd Gordon
Trad climber
Joshua Tree, Cal
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Aug 31, 2014 - 09:14pm PT
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Brian's packs and haul bags would get a lot bigger and beefier in the next few decades.
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Here's a very crude and unedited little story I worked
a tiny bit on with Brian about six years ago. Thought
it might be appreciated, please feel free to add edits
or corrections
like I said it's rough. Enjoy:
Brian is a ropelength up a 6000' new route on the
Chingu Charpa, in Nangma Valley of the Karakoram,
Pakistan. He carefully double checks the haul system,
leans back as he has hundreds of times before and
suddenly he is plummeting. “So this is how it will
feel to die”, he thinks as he hurtles towards the
ground. In a twist of fate, the rope kinks as it
zings through the pulley and he lands upon a coffin
sized ledge after falling forty feet. Just below, the
wall steepens, and falls 180' to sure death below. It
later turns out that a partner had misunderstood the
system and mistakenly unclipped the haulbag from the
system which removed the counterweight that nearly
lead to his demise. This wasn’t the first time, nor
the last, that Fly’n Brian McCray would have a brush
with death, nor was it the first time that someone
misunderstood his intentions.
Fly’n Brian is a climber who has literally touched
the lives of thousands of climbers around the globe,
both with his astounding record of new routes and with
his climbing shoe resole business, Fly'n Brian's
Resoles. From the beginning, he has sought to master
the sport in all of it’s aspects and his record stands
to prove it.
Raised back in the day when new routing meant
something, he embraced the pursuit with a passion
matched by very few, from radical sport climbs, hard
trad routes, big aid and free walls, to difficult
routes on big mountains. It is perhaps his
proficiency at speed climbing which displays his
technical mastery of the sport the best. Brian holds more
speed records on El Capitan than all but a few.
Some of these routes are among the most difficult on the formation.
Most climbed on sight in a day’s time. Brian and Ammon McNeely
ran up many of the Zion classics in record time.
Moonlight Buttress 1:57
Spaceshot 1:36
Prodigal Son 2:36
But a portrait of Brian would be sorely lacking if it
merely sprayed about his remarkable climbing
achievements, because when we take the time to delve
under his rough and intense personality, we find that
he is a man of deep thought, emotion and many
interests.
He was introduced to climbing in 1989. The promise
of freedom found
in climbing opened whole new worlds of possibilities.
He was immediately hooked, exchanging a life based on
partying to one fully committed to the climbing
lifestyle (and was sober for twenty years of his adult
life). During the 1990's he fully embraced the
sport climbing revolution as it swept through the
traditional sandstone crags of the Southeast. Living
in his van, he began his now widely know shoe
business, “Fly’n Brian’s Resoles” with the motto “He
May Not Be A Priest, But He Can Save Your Sole”. Now
some 16 years later, he has resoled some 10,000 pair
of shoes of “some of the best, and some of the worst,
climbers in the country.”
At the New River Gorge, WV he established a
hundred .11-13 sport routes and was the primary
developer of The Cirque, which boasts the highest
concentration of hard routes in the area. Through
much of the 1990s he could be found at the Red River
Gorge, KY where he was a major contributor to bolting
and new routes, as well as repeating 95% of the .13s.
He has been on many of the big walls in the U.S.
and has traveled abroad, along the way climbing some
100 Grade VI routes. Scanning through his scattered
notes, one will often find the phrases, “first one day
ascent” or “first free ascent”. Of course many of
these routes were onsight and at the cutting edge of
difficulty. On these walls he has suffered through
all sorts of weather extremes, to dehydration and
badly injured partners.
His physique is not what one
would expect of a master free climber. Instead he
looks like an Ultimate Fighter: solid and thick, well
suited for the demanding rigors of extended suffering
to be found on the worlds great walls. He has never
trained for climbing except by climbing. His diet is
not what one would expect of an athlete of his
caliber: a typical day might consist of cold cereal,
canned soup, and chocolate, all washed down by loads
of coffee and soda. He is a fan of metal music,
enjoys painting and spending time alone. He has a
ferocious appetite for reading, especially Aleister
Crowley and the occult. Those who know him either
love, or hate, his passion.
In 1999, he traveled to Alaska with Jim Bridwell
to tackle the fearsome Bear’s Tooth. With Bridwell
injured by icefall, he was forced to lead many of the
difficult ice pitches, despite having learned to climb
on a Palm Tree in Bridwell’s front yard weeks earlier.
Bridwell has commented that McCray is among the most
highly competent and bold climbers he has known. This
same year he traveled to Kyrgystan to compete in a
Russian big wall climbing competition, where he
established a 3,000' new route and placed third in the
event. True to his character, he would later regret
placing after he learned how important this was for
the Russian climbers and their ability to receive
grants for Himalayan climbs.
Around this time he moved west to Las Vegas and
began serious climbing at Red Rocks, Zion and
Yosemite. At Red Rocks he tore up the Rainbow Wall,
freeing two aid lines, while adding another free route
and a very serious aid line. He also climbed two
routes free in a day on the wall: The Original Route
and —. When teamed up with Ammon McNealy, he was
climbing his fastest. The team climbed three Zion
Walls in twelve hours. On El Capitan they shook the
speed climbing world with record ascents of a half
dozen routes. Many of these Grade VI walls were
climbed as “first one day ascents”.
In recent years he has become enthralled with
mineral collecting, spending days at a time
underground in the search for specimens. He has a
couple of close calls in this activity as well. Once,
after climbing halfway down a 700' deep, sixty year
old metal ladder, he stepped off onto some massive
timbers, which promptly collapsed. He barely caught
himself with his arms and scrambled to safety. He has
exclaimed how difficult it has been to balance his
love of climbing with his fascination of the mineral
world.
It should go without saying, that the drive and
focus required to send some of the most difficult rock
faces in the world takes a special breed of person.
He is no exception, and his intense personality has
landed him in more than one quagmire over the years.
It is only when one delves beneath his gruff outward
appearance they begin to understand his genuine,
concerned nature.
Recently his rock shoes have been collecting a
little more dust than in former years, as he has
settled into the responsibilities of home ownership
and full-time work in the cutthroat world of Las Vegas
rigging. That’s not to say he hasn’t been climbing.
At Red Rocks he has developed a couple of 5.12 cracks
and continues to work on routes in the Sacred Cave, a
little known limestone area east of Vegas. He
recently made the first one day ascent, onsight and
leading every pitch, of the mighty loose Tooth Rock,
via an obscure 1400', 5.11 route, and continues to work
on obscure big wall routes.
— Tough crack routes - Equinox, Acid Crack -
These are near new river in more obscure areas
—greatest show on earth13a, 2nd ascent of lynn hills
roof crack at meadow river gorge.
--Fa of temporary insanity13a (old project) at south nuttall.
Before heading west in ’98, brian repeated an estimated 95%
of all established routes at the new river and at the
red river gorge as well as adding many of his own routes.
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bringmedeath
climber
la la land
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When Brian went and competed in the Big Wall Comp, didn't he go and try and repeat the winners route? I think he climbed high up it and was only shut down because of the weather. They may have weathered a decent storm before needing to decent. Sure someone else will remember more details of this.
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Burt
Social climber
Angelus Oaks, Ca
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Topic Author's Reply - Sep 4, 2014 - 12:58pm PT
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They got a lower score cause their route followed natural features! Brian said one if his a4 leads was one of the best leads he had ever done.i know rox and him went way up on 4810 and had a huge storm hit them, can't remember if they summited or not. He didn't being enough bolts to conquer the hardest route! Ha!
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Burt, I remember that photo of their whole rack covered with ice, frozen to the wall, during that storm you mentioned.
albert,
it is important to note others behavior when given something meaningful from ourselves. most will not have the ability to behave with respect. this will tell you what people to interact with and give things to later. if you find people that the give/take ration is circular instead of lopsided / disconnected chances are those people are more valuable as "friends". brian
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Something has happened to the "Brian McCray" thread, please email the ST rulers and ask that they bring this back up. Brian deserves the recognition.
More from Brian:
"one way for a climber to know if he loves to climb or if he just thrives on attention from climbing is to measure his involvement with the media.
word of mouth has always worked just fine. it is slower but seems more solid and reliable."
(Along these lines, I would urge everyone to be cautious of posting topos / maps to any area that Brian considered sacred).
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rockgeir
Trad climber
Tucson, AZ
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I was very sad to see that the "Brian McCray" thread has been removed. It was wonderful to read all those great stories about him and to see those pictures.
Admins, please restore the thread or move its content to tbis thread.
Geir Hundal
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Gnome Ofthe Diabase
climber
Out Of Bed
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My family climbs on that man's soles & have now put those favorite shoes away, only to be used on halloween '14 the last day of a rock climbing season that has been so full of highs and lows
What has become of us that such a light would not stay lit ? Reach out, sisters and brothers
we will carry you if we have to...or find a way if your pride demands that you crawl this earth solo
My boy & girl,(both under 10) asked Mom why is daddy crying...
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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It is healthy and normal to go through various stages of sadness, guilt, anger and confusion during the grieving process. Brian was an extraordinary man is so many facets of his life, thus many still mourn for him. I would encourage anyone who is feeling "stuck" in a particular phase of grief to call a loved one, go for a walk, or do anything that might bring you pleasure. That is what Brian would want, he would not want us sitting around crying ourselves away. Be the best "you" that "you" can be this weekend. "You" owe it to yourself and you owe it to Brian. Have fun.
I try to remember that Brian, unlike most of "us", is going to live forever. Through these stories, through his hundreds and hundreds of new routes and all the many other ways he touched the hearts of so many people around the world. It is time to celebrate people. Become the best person that you can be. The time is now, especially considering your own end is near. Do something adventurous, help out a friend, spread kindness, set some goals and make your dreams come true. That is one reason we should feel inspired by having Brian pass through our brief lives because that is how he lived.
"The key to being immortal is living a life worth remembering." - - Bruce Lee
Please keep the stories and photos heading this way and enjoy your weekend.
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snakefoot
climber
Nor Cal
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it's okay klaus, we'll just post a photo of a broken sunroof...ha
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rockgeir
Trad climber
Tucson, AZ
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Albatross- that most recent photo of brian that you posted is amazing!
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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It is unfortunate the other thread disappeared, so many photos and stories. I should have listened closer ten years ago when Brian warned me about the character of a certain individual. If any of you can read this, you might want to reach out to that person cause what happened ain't right.
One aspect of Brian's climbing legacy is how damn fast and competent he was on vertical terrain on the airiest granite, steepest limestone, from the hardest to the softest sandstone and even into the bowels of the earth. I think this confidence came from a near mastery of both difficult free climbing and cutting edge aid climbs. There are lots of very talented free climbers and some gifted aid climbers but to combine the skills put Brian into a league in which few in all history have made the team. Also, he was very much into new routes in undeveloped areas, establishing the majority of them ground up.
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ElCapPirate
Big Wall climber
Ogden, Utah
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It is unfortunate the other thread disappeared, so many photos and stories. I should have listened closer ten years ago when Brian warned me about the character of a certain individual. If any of you can read this, you might want to reach out to that person cause what happened ain't right.
What's not right is all the sh#t I got for mentioning the secret cave. I got stalked over on Facebook, disrespected, threatened and accused of taking one last jab at Brian. The person requested I take down the content... so I did. What is unfortunate is that one hater can ruin it for the rest.
I loved Brian like a brother and we are the only ones that truly knew what kind of relationship we had together. It's bad enough losing a friend and amazing climbing partner without all the bullshit drama that the thread created. Exactly why I seldom read or post here anymore.
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Thanks for explaining things Ammon. I know you had your disagreements I've got to admit I thought you were taking one last stab at Brian when you pulled that thread.
People have been talking about "the secret cave" for years and it has even been mentioned in one of those shitpaper climbing magazines when those two idiots did that "profile" of Brian which hurt him so deeply (about 5-6 years ago).
Is there anyone in charge of ST that could tag that content onto this thread? What about that guy that launched the FBI investigation to New Zealand? Anyone? There were some nice tributes and photos on that other thread, the world deserves an honest look at the memory of Brian McCray.
Your right Ammon, posting on websites such as this is stupid, Brian told me to avoid places like this like the plague.
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Thanks NBB.
Ammon, can you tell us what it was like when you and Brian did three walls in a day in Zion? Am I remembering correctly that Brian told me he lead Moonlight Buttress 95% free when you guys raced up it? I'm guessing you guys didn't slow down too much to place gear?
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rockgeir
Trad climber
Tucson, AZ
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Respectfully, I would be in favor of adding those posts on to this thread. I am sorry to hear that there was drama with thread. I really just want Brian to be remembered well. Many thanks to those who knew him well and posted up so much great stuff about him.
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wayne w
Trad climber
the nw
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I like your idea, Rockgeir. I wrote a short bit about Brian, Hans Florine and I doing Bad Seed in 98 on the previous thread, and will extrapolate a bit on this one.
Hans and I first began talking about doing a push of El Cap in 97. I met Brian in the Spring of 98, and we immediately hit it off, and started talking about doing an El Cap route together. I was coming back from some truly horrendous injuries incurred seven years beforehand. This on top of Paralytic Polio at nine months, Post Polio Syndrome since I was 10, and other serious injuries in the eighties.
98 was the year that I did my first pushes of walls, in Zion and of The Chief in Squamish, as well as a couple of multi day ascents of El Cap. I was feeling fitter and more confident with each passing month, and when Fall arrived, Brian and Hans decided on a push of Bad Seed, and invited me along. We made quick progress, until a route finding issue slowed us down. Ammon had the same issue in the same spot when he did it. We were all a bit disappointed, as we were now behind what had been a record time pace, but Brian was adamant that we would make up the time. When we hit the hard aid pitches, which Brian led, Hans and I barely had time for a quick snack and a bit of water before the ropes were fixed and we were moving again. Even Hans was surprised by how quickly Brian dispatched those pitches. I never asked him, but I wonder if Brian might have surprised himself a bit. Hans took over for the last section to the top, where the route meets up with Eagles Way. He ignored the easy aid and just free climbed straight up, cutting precious minutes off of our time. We topped out in 19 hours and 12 minutes, a new record for the route, and the first time an adaptive climber had done a push of the Captain. We hung out for a bit on top, talking about the ascent, and life, and I felt like the luckiest guy in the world.
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Thanks for sharing that wayne, Brian had a way of making a lot of people feel like the luckiest person in the world.
We used to hang out in this huge abandoned mine system which had scores of miles of tunnels, shafts, holes and all kinds of loose, rotten rock, decayed ladders and timbers and supports. It was a dark and dangerous place to plan adventure and we thrived on it. Brian seemed right at home prowling those sketchy places, he loved the unknown. Anyway, we'd walk for what felt like miles and every hole or shaft Brian would check out on rappel or climbing. He used to tell me, "albert if I get hurt really bad or die down here just leave my body. get out of here. don't tell anyone". I used to wonder what I would do if Brian had died on one of those treks.
So there we were having just descended straight down this concrete shaft on a rickety metal ladder, we were 400 or 500' down and I got off at the landing, a sixty year old deck made from 4" thick by 16" wide and 20 feet long old growth wood. Off the ladder and relieved to be away from the exposure I walked across the planks. Suddenly, there is a crash of timber and turning see Brian holding himself up by his elbows on the adjoining timber. He quickly scrambles to safety having narrowly escaped a nasty fall of several hundred feet into a manky pool of water. Later, way down a narrow tunnel, the air was stale and thick and we knew we were headed for a dead end. Brian asks me to turn off my headlamp. In the black he tells the landing collapse was one of the closest times he has come to meet death. I breathe foul air and sit in absolute darkness, eerie silence, mind swirling. After some time we switch on our lamps and race to the relative freedom of that deep shaft for a glimpse of sun far, far above.
We turned our heads away from the light and crawled deeper into the earth.
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Ezra Ellis
Trad climber
North wet, and Da souf
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Sep 11, 2014 - 08:49am PT
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Brian sounds like he was solid gold, my sincere coldolences to his friends and family.
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the albatross
Gym climber
Flagstaff
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Sep 19, 2014 - 04:00pm PT
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Live a good life and in the end,
it's not the years in a life,
it's the life in the years.
-Abraham Lincoln
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