John - I did not disclose that it was you who asked me if I had turned down work which had been offered to me.
I apologize if the person who told you the bullshit "knew it was you" who had relayed the information.
For what it is worth, I did not ask John for the name of the person who he had heard that (nor did John provide it). Whomever it was who said it remains anonymous, whether they were the first hand bullshit maker upper, or simply repeating the bullshit someone else had made up. There ought be no reason for anyone to be miffed at John - he simply asked me if something he had heard was true. I can fully understand why he would believe what was said(and especially if it had come from a trusted person). He did not send me an email spreading gossip - he didn't say "Hey, so and so said..."
I also see absolutely NO reason why I should have kept that rumor confidential. I figured - if someone had told that to you, then there were probably others who had heard the same thing. Why should I lay down and allow lies to be told about me???? It would have been different if I had posted "So and so told me that they heard..."
At any rate - whomever is the bullshit maker upper is the one who is the dog. Not John. Not me.
Terrie;.....I want to buy something from you;..I'll go look for you today or this weekend...hope you are still around.......talk to you soon......bye. I also have some Euro friends who probably wish to buy some cams......talk to you soon......