But those that have established a true Mother Daughter relationship and have it ripped from them I found, are left with a far greater void that follows them all the rest of their lives with the lingering shadows of "what might have been".
Susan
There is a void, certainly, this is true, but I make up for the void by seeing the beauty in each day I am offered. I have always said that I would not change my life experiences, or I would not be the amazing mother and strong woman I am today. (self promotion, at it's finest) {smiles} I can say that simply by looking and listening to my son, who is amaze balls.
If I wonder "what might have been", I will miss out on "what is going on Now". The loss of my mom, and other experiences in my life have allowed me to learn lessons most may never allow themselves to learn, to realize the strength I possess, and an appreciation for everything, good and bad.
I am so happy to hear you never felt un-mothered, Susan... it sounds like the formative people in your life made sure your heart was handled with care. A true gift.
our lost loved ones never truly leave us... they are still here, burning in our memories, and hearts.
So true, t*r ... The burning Light is a bright one. ~xx
I've had a wonderful day celebrating Mom today... a day spent outside and in a couple trees. :)
The piece of art you shared is a favorite. Thank you, darling.
Kath... Pickle!!!! (that's Grawesome!) I adore. Esp the feet! He returns from Colorado this evening... i cannot WAIT to see him. ~xx
Here's my mom who traveled as crew to China, the Phillipines and Singapore on a freighter ship in the late 1940's. She's sweet as hell and tough as heaven:
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