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mountain dog

Trad climber
over the hills and far away
Feb 12, 2010 - 08:48pm PT
Sprock don't be a dick. We all react to different chemicals in our own way, and we all have our personal favorites. Many a hard man has been brought down by alcohol. I keep thinking of an old friend, the late Ralliegh Collins. He wasn't a junkie, he drank. To much sex brought Tiger Woods down.
happiegrrrl

Trad climber
New York, NY
Feb 12, 2010 - 09:30pm PT
Dr. Sprock - I mean this in the nicest possible way, but STFU.

Fogarty

climber
BITD
Feb 12, 2010 - 09:53pm PT
Hank, Congratulations on your sobrity, I have 42 days, this is the longest for me since I was maybe sixteen. Best of luck to all of us on this journey.

Dr.Sprock

Boulder climber
Sprocketville
Feb 12, 2010 - 09:58pm PT
ok, alright, your right, it's all relative,

and no sympathy is a bad way to treat addicts.

that link story is too long anyway.

i detect that i need a more mainstream post, here we go:

poor sprock, pour sprock a drink,

AA is great, but only 1 out of 37 addicts will die sober.

those are really bad odds.

so, the program is not perfect.

it tends to leave one with a constant craving that has to be supressed.

that is why the real dicks are people with 20 or more years sober.

they have been fighting their own demon for 20 years, and it is still there,

me? i use the substitution technique, frowned upon by AA, but it works for me,

is that ok with you cyber heads that i do not know from Adam?

who is now dead, the last of the Bonanza cast, who was also a meth head?

just kiddin...


if that post is not mamby pamby enuff, let me know and i can dumb it down into a mother teresa type routine.

phillygoat

climber
portland,
Feb 12, 2010 - 10:04pm PT
Hank, I can't pretend to know you or your struggles, but my IMPRESSION of your skillz, badass-ness, wit, nature, kindness- has ZERO to do with drinking!

I wish you the best and thank you for these threads. They really help me to check in on my own habits and demons (I'm flirting with abstinence).
d-know

Trad climber
electric lady land
Feb 12, 2010 - 10:21pm PT
seven days off the sauce for me.

i'm right there w/you brother.
Dr.Sprock

Boulder climber
Sprocketville
Feb 12, 2010 - 10:27pm PT
just a hint, stay away from NA beer, it does have alcohol in it,

and it messes up your kidneys worse than regular beer.

bvb

Social climber
flagstaff arizona
Feb 12, 2010 - 10:28pm PT
hankster, i've got four months this coming monday. it feels great.

you know what to do. stick it.
fattrad

Mountain climber
GOP Convention
Feb 12, 2010 - 10:41pm PT
Good luck to all of you guys/women dealing with an addiction, keep it going one day at a time.


The evil one
Dr.Sprock

Boulder climber
Sprocketville
Feb 12, 2010 - 10:45pm PT
and have a backup plan ready.

what if you run over somebody by accident tomorrow.

what will prevent you from running to the liquor store?

sobriety can be fragile, so beef it up a little and be ready.

mountain dog

Trad climber
over the hills and far away
Feb 12, 2010 - 11:07pm PT
Sprock, Why do you persist to be an agitator and troll. I am open to cynicism but I want it to be productive. Most of your comments are irrelevant and moronic.

I know their are real climbers on this forum with insight on this issue. Please give us food for thought. I'm not looking for Big Book talk but your real feelings.
Tami

Social climber
Canada
Feb 12, 2010 - 11:15pm PT
Go Hank Go. Stay sober dude. Just take your next breath & then the one after. A lotta folks here on STupor Torpor are rootin' fer ya .


BE STRONG !!!
Dr.Sprock

Boulder climber
Sprocketville
Feb 12, 2010 - 11:18pm PT
the best thing to read in the big book are the stories in the back.

the deal is, sh#t happens all the time,

and if something happens while you are trying to kick, it can set you right back on your ass.

so all that work, all those meetings, down the drain.

and every stinkin time i relapse, i seem to really blow it,

this is because the tolerance is not there, but the desire is ten fold.

so, the most important time in your life, as far as sobriety is concerned, is that moment where you can make it, or break it.

so, just understand that you are going to be tested, perhaps in a rather rude way, so if you are barely hangin, you need to beef up your support,

that way, you avoid the excess baggage that you do not want to claim.




pip the dog

Mountain climber
planet dogboy
Feb 12, 2010 - 11:19pm PT
good on you, caylor. 30 days sober is the best anyone has ever done in 30 days.

stay with it, great one. one pitch at a time.

^,,^ (michael)
Dr.Sprock

Boulder climber
Sprocketville
Feb 12, 2010 - 11:31pm PT
ok, if youve been to just 1 meeting
you heard the opening,

"cunning, baffling..."

and all that dr bill crap from the 50's.

well, that wasn't good enuff for me, being the scientific type.

so, i started to figure out what he was talikng about,

it is a big puzzle, and many of the pieces are missing,

but a few ones that i Think i have figured out>,

the reason you are not to have one drop is because if you do,

the subconcious makes a map of that event, the pleasure, the taste, all the sensations from the libations.

now, you forget that they are still there, and then, one day,
you happen to stimulate that memory, from some outside source that you might not even bee aware of, and the next thing you know, you are running to the store.

this memory could be a week old, it could be 20 years old, but it is still there.
maybe a whole bunch of them are still there.
so you have to keep your guard up and do some self analysis as to what type of stimilus-response mechanisms you are up against,
and not giving in to them,

the way to do this is to try and recount all the times you had a fond memory of drinking, and separate all those files into a directory where they will not bother the part of the brain that is dealing with daily survival.

then, you try and think of ways that these memories could be triggered, maybe a waft of beer goes by your nose,
maybe you see a girl that looks just like the one you got lucky with in the bar,
all this stuff is working, but you are not aware of it.
so just realizing this mechanism is there is a big part of beating the alcohol trap.

so baffling?

not really. just a simple subconcious stim/resp mech.
been there for years.


another thing to watch out for is what electrical geeks call positive feedback.

this is a self perpetuating circuit where a small part of the output signal is applied to the input of the circuit, in such a way (in phase) that it causes more amplification.
this cycle repeats itself until you have oscillation, or feedback.

alcohol has the same circuit already built in,

as soon as you pick up the bottle again, your good judgment is the first thing that gets wiped from the brain cells.

so any chance you had of quitting, well, the Devil has made sure that it was the first thing to go, along with moderation.

this is another really good reason to never have "just one."

because once you start that feedback loop circuit in your brain, you may as well check into the hospital and save yourself the 6 months of torture.

so all this demon alcohol crap really has a logical explanation,

nothing is worse than trying to deal with a problem you do not understand,it just makes it that much tougher.

so i figure if you know whats really going on, you are ahead of the curve a bit,
enjoimx

Big Wall climber
SLO Cal
Feb 12, 2010 - 11:55pm PT
If nothing else will keep you sober, this will.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZmDWltBziM&NR=1
survival

Big Wall climber
A Token of My Extreme
Feb 13, 2010 - 12:03am PT
Tami,

Torpor
Now there's a word you don't see in use much...Well Done!
mountain dog

Trad climber
over the hills and far away
Feb 13, 2010 - 12:49am PT
Sprock, Your last two posts were more useful to me. Your being more realistic. I want to know more about how the mind works in regards to addiction. I've heard a few people in meetings mention a "toolkit" that helps them deal with the "cunning and baffling" compulsion and obsession. I think they got their "toolkit" in rehab but I don't want to go there.
Largo

Sport climber
The Big Wide Open Face
Feb 13, 2010 - 01:06am PT
It helps to remember that drinking is only a symptom of "alcholism." Once you quite drinking, you have to address why you were drinking in the first place, and that always involves a "cunning and baffling" cosmos of psychological, physical and spiritual challenges.

Let's keep the good energy going for Hank. Those 30-day speed wobbles can get pretty intense.

JL
mountain dog

Trad climber
over the hills and far away
Feb 13, 2010 - 01:41am PT
Largo, Glad you joined in. I respect your opinion. Do you agree with most that addiction/alcoholism is a "disease"? Is there anyone in this room who thinks differently? Climbers opinions preferred. Just seeking knowledge.
To Hankster and the others fighting your fight, hang in there.
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