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WyoRockMan
climber
Grizzlyville, WY
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Topic Author's Original Post - Oct 17, 2016 - 10:52pm PT
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The climbing community lost a young man over the weekend due to demons and a series of poor choices.
Terry was a nice guy when I knew him. Staying sober and focusing on climbing and route development. He would often have several projects on the go at once, the number of fixed lines was not enjoyed by all. He was a strong climber and big on character. Yet he was humble, very accommodating and would often let others get the FA on the lines he cleaned and bolted. Perhaps it was atonement for past transgressions. He was always stoked and ready to roll whenever we roped up.
I had talked to him about coming over for a tour of the Cody rock and was excited to hear he was going to visit this previous weekend. I hadn't seen him in a year or so. When he didn't show with the others from across the hill, I was saddened to hear he had likely fallen off the wagon. A message was sent, the ball busting type and an invite to climb, that will never be answered.
For whatever reason, Terry entered a strangers house at 3am early Sunday. The ending is what you might expect in Wyoming.
I'm sad and upset and disappointed. You'll be missed Terry.
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At approximately 3:01 Sunday morning, the Sheridan Police Department received a 911 call from a residence on the 200 block of West 10th Street. The residence is home to a couple and two children.
According to a news release from the Police Department, the adult female who called 911, reported that a male intruder, who was unknown to the couple, was in their residence without their permission. The woman reported that her boyfriend was attempting to get the intruder to leave the home peacefully.
The adult male resident armed himself with a shotgun after the unknown man refused to leave the house. The male resident attempted to persuade the intruder into leaving the home, however, the man refused to leave the house. Feeling threatened after exhausting efforts to get the man to leave on his own, the male resident discharged one round from the shotgun, wounding the intruder in the chest. The man was transported to Sheridan Memorial Hospital, where he was pronounced dead.
http://www.sheridanmedia.com/news/intruder-killed-home-invasion-identified89373
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Jan
Mountain climber
Colorado & Nepal
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Oct 18, 2016 - 04:18am PT
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I just read the newspaper account and it left a lot of unanswered questions. Let us hope for common sense and empathy for the living and the dead.
Condolences to the family and friends of a seemingly troubled person. May the achievements of his better days be what we remember in the future.
Hopefully his friends will share with us their happier memories.
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survival
Big Wall climber
Terrapin Station
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Oct 18, 2016 - 04:42am PT
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Damnit. Very tragic.
Thanks for sharing this WyoRockMan. I'm sorry about your friend.
Don't turn this into a pissing contest people. This ain't the place.
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mike m
Trad climber
black hills
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Oct 18, 2016 - 06:05am PT
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Sorry to hear about your friend Jason
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Capt.
climber
some eastside hovel
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Oct 18, 2016 - 06:14am PT
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Sorry to hear that Wyo. Sounds like a horrible situation all the way around. Remember the good times and stay strong.
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Bad Climber
Trad climber
The Lawless Border Regions
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Oct 18, 2016 - 06:27am PT
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Damn, Wyo, this is about as sad as it gets. Condolences to you and all his friends and family. Do you think he was just too stoned/drunk to know where he was or what he was doing? So strange.
BAd
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thebravecowboy
climber
The Good Places
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Oct 18, 2016 - 06:55am PT
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I've seen this kinda deal from the home defense end, and I know that this is absolutely awful for all involved. Sorry to hear of this.
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Ghost
climber
A long way from where I started
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Oct 18, 2016 - 07:45am PT
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Sad all the way around.
At least he's free now.
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dirtbag
climber
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Oct 18, 2016 - 07:56am PT
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This is heartbreaking--I'm so sorry for your loss.
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WyoRockMan
climber
Grizzlyville, WY
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Topic Author's Reply - Oct 18, 2016 - 08:13am PT
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It is the same Tanner.
How do we approach the addicts in our lives?
I've blown off friends who were late for departure after calling and finding out they were too hung-over or whatever. I think we all have.
At what point do you try to be more aggressive in bringing help?
I hate that this happened, but I'm not sure there was much to be done to prevent it. It is so damn difficult to help people that don't want it.
Mostly I feel bad for the homeowners, they definitely didn't deserve to be involved in this shitshow.
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jeff constine
Trad climber
Ao Namao
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Oct 18, 2016 - 08:18am PT
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BAD you know nothing. Stupid comment, stoned/drunk. Go put you head back in the sand take a deep breath, keep climbing those PUNTER routes big stud. Twomey was a very nice guy and friend, and could out climb you on his worst day. R.I.P Brother.
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kunlun_shan
Mountain climber
SF, CA
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Oct 18, 2016 - 08:31am PT
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Such a sad situation for everyone, WyoRockMan.
The last photo you posted looks like a couple great guys I'd like to climb and hang out with.
RIP Terry and Tanner.
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hooblie
climber
from out where the anecdotes roam
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Oct 18, 2016 - 08:41am PT
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sorry wyo, your compassion is a virtue whatever the weight
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tradmanclimbs
Ice climber
Pomfert VT
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Oct 18, 2016 - 01:54pm PT
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Sorry for your loss Jason.
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brotherbbock
climber
Alta Loma, CA
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Oct 18, 2016 - 02:13pm PT
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BAD you know nothing. Stupid comment, stoned/drunk. Go put you head back in the sand take a deep breath, keep climbing those PUNTER routes big stud. Twomey was a very nice guy and friend, and could out climb you on his worst day. R.I.P Brother.
Maybe he didn't phrase it the best way but it is a legit question. Why was he in their house? What demons was the OP talking about? Seems like a fair question.
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Studly
Trad climber
WA
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Oct 18, 2016 - 02:14pm PT
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Damn, that hurts. Sorry for his loss.
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Brokedownclimber
Trad climber
Douglas, WY
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Oct 18, 2016 - 09:57pm PT
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This was strictly a "no-win" situation for anyone. Sad to hear stuff like this.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Oct 18, 2016 - 11:22pm PT
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hey there say, WyoRocMan... my prayers for all in this awful situation...
all we can do, is be here for you, as to the loss of your friend, :(
if you never had shared, we never know to do this...
:(
edit:
and of course for the family that had to go through this awful
situations, as well ... :(
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