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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Topic Author's Original Post - Jan 7, 2014 - 11:11pm PT
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hey there say, all...
won't be here for a bit... down time, keeping my mind on my daddy... you are not forgotten...
won't say much more,as to my dear dad, as, don't want to overstep, as mark (chappy) belongs
here too, not just me... and might rather share, later or not... too...
but, me, being that, yep: sensitive gal little girl type,
i just needed to let folks know where i will be...
not being rude to just 'drop out or anything'...
but: i just can't seem to encourage folks, or share much, while i am thinking on my daddy, and mom and all our family... full time...
side note:
i had a few thank you's and paint-gifts for a few folks:
my mom always taught me about gardens: you can give flowers from them, to others, and they bring joy...
my paints, which were a huge HUGE gift through johntp, and a few others that chipped in along the way, are my way to share-and-give life back to you all, from my 'PAINT GARDEN'... and dream-catcher garden, as well...
god watched over my climber-brother all these years, and i just need to send that gratitude back, from all that is in my heart, for that:
so i give what i can here:
and of pray for you all, and for the climbers that i even don't know, out in that huge greatoutdoors...
it is my huge 'thank you' to god, going out into the climber world, and to otherss, as well...
so, i will back in a bit...
please, for those that pray... and send out well wishes and all that,
please PRAY FOR MY DADDY...
ESPECIALLY, this next 5-7 days...
thank you so very much... with all my heart...
you don't need to post much here, but please, hope someone will bump it for the weekend crowd...
sister-love to you all and god bless...
see you when the time is right again...
sure am not forgetting you all--nor leaving you out,
am just sad for my daddy and my family... :(
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Sport climber
moving thru
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I hear all you say in your post Neebee. When the ones we love experience severe illness it impacts the entire family in many ways. I think I can safely say that all of us on Super Topo will respect your absence here while you spend your precious time with your Dad and family.
Our prayers and best positive thoughts will be with you all.
Much Love, Lynne
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Topic Author's Reply - Jan 9, 2014 - 02:00pm PT
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hey there say, lynne... thank you...
just a bump for those that pray and send out well wishes...
this is a crucial few days... :(
(weaning off ventilator) ... hoping pneumonia is gone??
*won't mention all the other worries...
but this is the basic trouble here...
please pray...
everyone is taking such good care of my mom, too...
well, will be back again, later...
just getting some prayers here...
will go get a few at the facebook, too...
thank you again...
god bless... am waiting for more phone calls...
kind of scary, as many of you know that had folks in the hospital
for illness...
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donini
Trad climber
Ouray, Colorado
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Good thoughts coming your way.
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snakefoot
climber
cali
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best wishes for you and your family.. this dump will continue to release toxic debates and awaits your return.
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Topic Author's Reply - Jan 9, 2014 - 02:16pm PT
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hey there say, donini and snakefoot,
thank you both, for stepping in...
it is very odd right now for us all...
wanting to do something, when all we can do is wait...
keeping myself busy doing what me daddy always liked me doing,
helps, while i wait...
well, i better go... i've been spending the time
by laying down praying and playing the piano...
i can always hear him now, when i do this:
"...sounds good... keep it up..."
(man of few words, few actions, but man of busy-brain and kind heart) :)
god bless...
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RyanD
climber
Squamish
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We got ur back neebee!
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crusher
climber
Santa Monica, CA
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Good thoughts sent, Neebee, to your Daddy, Mom and family and you!
I know how it is, my Dad was ill for a long time. Just got my Mom through some back surgery. Hang in there and think positive!
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happiegrrrl
Trad climber
www.climbaddictdesigns.com
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Hang in there, Neebee.
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steveA
Trad climber
Wolfeboro, NH
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Neebee,
I've been reading this forum for maybe 4 years, and you strike me as perhaps the Kindest, and perhaps most thoughtful person here. Sending positive vibes towards you.
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survival
Big Wall climber
Terrapin Station
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Dear Neebee, you know we are all pulling for your dad, and you and Mark too.
We come together, like you did for my mom.
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Big Mike
Trad climber
BC
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Hi Neebs! Big prayers for your dad! Hope he feels better soon! My best wishes to all your family in this hard time.
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Lollie
Social climber
I'm Lolli.
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Sending good vibes to you and your family!
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Topic Author's Reply - Jan 13, 2014 - 10:24pm PT
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hey there say, all...
just got an update... they have been tricky to get, as, things keep changing...
thank you for all the prayers and good vibe wishes and feelings...
here is my update that i am sharing, will put it in quotes:
Dear folks… am letting those that love and are concerned about our family know how things are going for my daddy: had all started from the infection when the pacemaker was put in…
In hospital, his lungs started getting affected… was put on respiration/oxygen, but then, had to go on the ventilator…
1—was weaned off ventilator, and a little alert for one day, and got to know he was supported by our love… but could not keep breathing well, and had to go back on it…
2—was due to sepsis infection (very serious) and how it was affecting body, and fluid thus getting
in the lungs (and his lungs were weak anyways)…
3—is now on dialysis to get this out of the kidneys, as well as on the ventilator…
4—will be a rough week, and we can only pray and wait, and hope for infection to clear out, so
he can get back to trying to get well…
YOUR PRAYERS and well wishes are so greatly wanted… thank you so much for
letting me get this burden out and my worries, by my sharing with our friends…
daddy will be 84 on jan 16 th… i pray he will be at least past this rough spot, by then…
but it is in god’s hands and the docs… we all know that… and are trying to be strong…
give THOSE that you love a hug today… and tell them you love them sooooo much… amen…
god bless…
well, will come back and take a taco-read, later... i have found that i need more things to keep me busy, the longer this hard rough part goes on for my daddy... it is kind of like what:
a cabin fever thing? just waiting... and waiting hopefully for a 'spring of life' though, instead of the spring-season...
cabin fever, you pretty much know what you are dealing with however, but
this type of 'cabin fever' the 'seasonal change' is trick:
changes can be fast, or slow, but either way--they can be dangerous and scary, or: they can be good, strong, healthy and successful...
time will tell, in this 'rough winter' of ours...
thank you all for being great climber-taco buddies...
and love and prayers to YOUR loved ones, as well...
give them hugs and tell them you love them...
another 'amen' ...
night for now...
will come back and 'walk the taco streets' perhaps in the 'wee hours'...
thanks again for your friendships...
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this just in
climber
north fork
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Jan 13, 2014 - 10:49pm PT
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Keeping busy really does help, Neebee. Hopefully your painting will keep your mind at bay. Good thoughts your way.
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Dickbob
climber
Westminster Colorado
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Jan 13, 2014 - 10:52pm PT
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Hi Neebee. Get some rest and take care of yourself. Best wishes to your dad.
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Capt.
climber
some eastside hovel
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Jan 13, 2014 - 11:00pm PT
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Positive vibes to you and your family neebee. Hope all turns out well. Stay strong.
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Bill Mc Kirgan
Trad climber
Cedar Rapids, Iowa
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Jan 14, 2014 - 02:47pm PT
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Dear Neebee,
Sending up the prayers for your Dear 'Ol Dad. I didn't see your thread earlier, but will keep you and your family in my daily prayers during this time. I especially pray for your strength so you can do your best for your Dad.
--Bill
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neebee
Social climber
calif/texas
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Topic Author's Reply - Jan 14, 2014 - 06:11pm PT
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hey there say, all... ron, i am waiting for to call now, as, this is a crucial week, and they may not know more 'til thurs or so...
and to bill mc kirgan:
thank you for the prayers... thank you so very much, my daddy has been a really good guy--not out-and-about with us, but a solid corner stone, and to see his 'corner' had caved-in around him, from this serious situation, is so heartbreaking, :(
we all wish we could help him, but what can we do? we can pray...
thank you so much, and to all of you praying, thank you, and
to those that just posted, thank you to:
tami
capt
dickbob
this just in
lollie
big mike
survival
steve A
happiegrrl
crusher
ryan D
ron anderson
snakefoot
donini
lynne
T hocking
hope i got you all, tried to go backwards, to the front...
serious week... god knows the best way for this trail, but we can
help it along, whatever our parts are, which ever way it is to go..
thank you again...
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mike m
Trad climber
black hills
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Jan 14, 2014 - 06:30pm PT
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I hope things go well for your dad. You have always had such nice things to say to me and many others on here that it should pay off with good karma. Will keep you and your dad in my thoughts. Mike
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